Ask abitsarcastic26!

Advice Column | Ask a Question | View Feedback |

About abitsarcastic26



I am a great listener and I'm here to help. I love helping others so feel free to contact me.

Ask Me For Advice
View Feedback
Make Favorite Columnist

Gender: Female
Location: CT
Occupation: Fashion Student
Age: 21
AIM: Abitsarcastic26
Yahoo: Abitsarcastic26
Member Since: May 14, 2008
Answers: 28
Last Update: June 8, 2008
Visitors: 2916

Main Categories:
Love Life
General Sex Questions
Fashion and Styles
View All

Favorite Columnists
AskKay23

Advicenators.com



what are some symptoms of being pregnant ?
every pregnancy test i looked at at walmart says "you can tell 5 days before your missed period" so its too early for me to take one of those tests .

but every since me and my boyfriend had sex like my last day being on my period and he cummed in me a little bit - ive had this clearish white stuff come out on my panties everyday . my stomach randomly aches on and off . i have lost my appetite , like i dont eat as much as i normally do . i feel like im gonna throw up everytime after i eat but i never actualy throw up .

are any of those symptoms of being pregnant ?
i want to take a test but my period shouldnt be until around the 25th so the pregnanacy tests wont show up correct yet .

Everybody is different. I had crazy cravings, slept all day long and i was getting cramps as thought i was going to get my period. Give yourself sometime for the pregnancy test. I had to take 2 of them to get the correct result. There is a term I used and it was "I felt pregnant" and you have to see what you feel, I felt like it wasnt me making the decision. If your behavior has changed take that as a big YES. So even if your periods a while away think about how your body feels or is reacting

[view]


My bf and I just had sex for the first time a few days ago. I have not had my period for a couple of months now. Thinking its because i am slightly over weight. If we messed up on the protection some how without knowing, can i get pregnant?

Yes first thing I have to say is go buy a 2 pack pregnancy test. Take one and see what the results are. If it comes out negative take the test in 4 to 5 days. If it does come out positive please go to a doctor ASAP. They can run further tests. They're can be so many complications so please see a doctor and take care of yourself. Note down any symptom you have. If your always sleeping, cravings, cramping, aches, swelling or anything you feel please let the doctor now.

[view]


well im the definition of "loner" i only have about 3 or 4 friends in this whole world. my boyfriend used to be my best friend, but he cant be my friend anymore because everything has changed since we started dating. im really happy with him, but i miss our friendship. i have another close friend, Nona, but she has so many friends besides me and shes always busy so im left alone. My boyfriend lives 20 minutes away and im not driving yet, so we only see eachother on fridays. and my other 1 or 2 friends i only talk to every now and again. like maybe once or twice a month. so they are more aquantince(sp) then anything. i always say that im happy where i am because i dont like being surrounded by people because im uptaining closterphobia(sp). but i just want a few more friends that i can talk to and hang out with and stuff. im fixing to try to get a lifeguard job, and that should add to my friend status, but im really shy. and i never start conversations. and see, all the time when i try to get friends? we become friends and then i get excited and just annoy them to death without even knowing it. or i do something wrong and they dump me. im just confused and lonely and bored and im already out of school so i have NOTHING to suck up the time with! and the lifeguard classes dont start until june...and i have nothing to do till then. any advice on how to get friends??

Being a loner is tough. I have the same problem I am extremely shy when I meet new people. But to get out of this rut you should take your current friends and build more of a relationship with them. Go see a movie or go out to dinner. Make plans fill your day with things to do. And while you take your lifeguard classes try to be a little outgoing. It will go a long way. And start taking some classes of something you like, look around your area see what is offered and take a chance. You will meet new people that have the same interest as you and it will easy to talk to people when you have a common interest. So everyday go a little out of your shell and you will start making new friends and build a stronger bond with your current friends.

[view]


I'm confused on what to do with it. I sent announcements to about 30 people. Must I use it toward school, or can I use it for whatever I want? I'm assuming I can use it for whatever I want, but I sort of feel bad using people's money for my personal shopping and whatnot, haha. Also, does anyone know about how much money I'll get for that amount of invitations? I'm the oldest in my family, so I have no idea what to expect!

I would say use it towards school. There are so many cost that you dont know about. You are going to need it for something when you start. So its better to save it up. For my graduation party I got $200 and I left it alone. But when i got to school I had to buy a million and one things. And your going to want to do stuff like go out or activities so I advise to just save it and wait because it will come in handy later.

[view]


so, im 17.. about 5'7 and 150lbs. Its not exactly overweight, but I do know I've got some extra flub that I really don't want. I try to eat less, and lately it seems like all I've been doing is eating.. and nothing healthy. I get so bored that that ends up all I do. What are some ideas to keep myself from over eating? and what are some ways to lose some weight by summer?! thanksss

Well eating healthy is a habit and its about making it a lasting habit. I lost 5 pounds in just cutting out soda and drinking water. Look at calories, trans fat, sugar, sodium and portion. All those things are key factors in gaining and losing weight. Pre-pack some snacks for the week buy baby carrots, cut some celery sticks up, drink diet drinks, and fat free foods. Also cut back on things you know are bad like fast food and processed foods. And also treat yourself once a week. The minute you cut out the bad and add the good the more you will be turned away from foods that will make you pack on the pounds. I did it cold turkey and now when i have a cheeseburger all i taste is fat and salt your body will soon adjust to the change and foods you once loved wont be so appetizing. Remember this is your body and the food you but into it will affect you. So take care of it now before its too late.

[view]


Okay, so I don't have a very good fashion sense. I'm only 13, but a lot of my friends have really awesome outfits. I don't know how to mix and match very well. When I get older, I want to live in the city. (I live in NY.) I really want to know how I can learn to dress in that chic kind of way. I really like the way Blake Lively dresses on Gossip Girl. I'm not into doing anything to over the top the way Leighton Meester does in GG, but I really like Serena's look. How can I learn to match clothes well and choose the right ones?

The best thing to do is grab a few magazines cut out some pictures and styles that you like. Try teen vogue, style magazine, and tabloids they have some really great style ideas. And once you cut up some pictures go to H&M, Macy's, Forever 21, and a lot of local stores have great styles its about mixing and matching. And when you watch Gossip Girl look at what Serena is wearing and note it because you can probably find something that looks similar to it. Also try being daring, make a bold decision and be proud of it. Be confident in your choice.

[view]


Heey!
the bottom layer of my hair is always so disgusting. it gets knotty and snarled with split ends all over. i condition it all the time and the rest of my hairs fine. how do i fix it? please help. thankss!

i have borderline wavy hair btw.

14

I also have the same problem. I get the knotty hair and the best possible thing to do is get layers in your hair choppy and textured layers because then your hair wont get go knotty. If you color or put too much product in it that might have something to do with it. So avoid straining your hair.

[view]


Hey I'm 14 years old and in july i have an 2 weddings to go to and i have no idea what to wear. I'm a very informal dresser, dressing up for my is rock consert clothes. I want to have something nice to wear but not look really girly because thats ust not me, have you got any ideas of what i can wear?

Thank You!
XXX

Check out Urbanoutfitters.com they have some really cool alternative dresses. Whats your price range? You can buy something that you can wear over and over again. They also have some really fun shoes.

When going to a wedding look for something that will make you feel comfortable and feel great. Check out the website.

[view]




<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker