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xoxomadelnie xoxolindz
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im 14,and i have been dating this guy that i think im in love with he wants
to have sex, 9he isent making me) , i want to but i got raped when i was 12
and im scared..what should i do?. (link)
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You are way to young! Don't do this to yourself! I am really sorry about your incident but you shouldn't even try to think about that until your mid 20's Your in like 8/9th grade right? Don't do it! Take our advice that isn't good.
*say no*
xoxo Lindsay xxox madeline
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okay there is this guy, my friend was like "would you ever go out with her?" (link)
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wow well love doesnt just pop out of the sky you need to get him to like you. flirt with him..( guys love the attention. and talk to him and be kind maybe after a while he'll say yes.
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my friend goes on the bus with me and i told her i like this boy on the bus...boy was that a wrong thing to do. now everytime he leave the bus she says o mister boyfriend..but not that loud and i try to cover her mouth she is really pissing me off. how do i make her stop to save me from embarrasment ? p/s i tried to tell her to stop like i said "stop it" but i dont think it works and now its the weekend and i dont know if she will try to do it again on monday (link)
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ok you seem like you need some advice. well if this girl is your firend she'll stop so
( pretending her name is shelly) say shelly please stop i dont want every one to know. if you dont stop i wont tell you anymore secrets and i wont sit next to you on the bus. please let me be able to trust you.
*wishes*
xoxo madeline xoxo lindsay
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I have a huge crush on this guy at school.(he's my friend) But he has a girlfriend.(shes my friend too) And everytime i see them together i feel weird. but i'm really happy for both of them! And lately he's been flirting with me and has kind of been ignoring his girldfriend.( but not a lot of ignoring her ) what should i do?
signed
queenteen18
p.s. i'm a girl (link)
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Wow tough one. Never had this questioin before. You know you can wait a couple days and see what happens. If nothing, bring on a conversation wit him. Then bring up the fact about his girlfriend. If your lucky, you might just be going out with him! But please don't get overworked aobut this.
Good Luck!
xoxo Lindsay
xoxo Madeline
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ok so im in a few classes with my boring friend Sally and she is tall as me but im sorry to say uglier...way. and well there is this boy that is like SHORTER than her named Bob his locker is next to hers...and they have some classes together and i have some classes with one of them in it. and i have a class with both of them in it..it is soo sick the subject is called English i mean they put us in alphabetical order i have no idea why.and our seats are in rows and bob sits in front of sally and i sit in back of them which really pisses me off cause i have to see them doing lovey dovey stuff like smile at each other and no he doesnt like her i think and no their not going out.i have a few classes with sally ONLY and when she comes into the class like social studies she says OMG bob did this (she even has a nickname for him) and im like WHY dont u admit you like HIM GOSH 1. you have a nickname for him 2.you smile and laugh at him 3.you fool around with him....i really am getting sick of it, in english its like a LOVE movie in front of me.(bob is like nice to all girls)i personally think im jelous that my (ugly) friend will have a boyfriend (probably) before me (believe me she is ugly ask the whole entire school and she gets annoyed easily by me and other people but NOOOO not bob) do you think im jelous sorry for it being too long i rate high (link)
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wow ..yep id say a case of jelousy! now seems to me you and sally dont have that great of a bond...if you were close friends you would be happy for her. unless you like bob..? maybe you do like him and you dont want to see him flirting with sally because you think she'll get him. but if you dont like bob then well theres no reason why you should be concrerned about your "friend" flirting with him. if it keeps bothering you go to your eniglish teacher and ask her to move the seats around for a reasn you dont want to talk about. much love!
xoxomadeline xoxolindsay
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Ok so i have a friend Maria and i have a crush Adam. I have liked Adam for so long and one day Adam telles my bestfriend Maria that he likes her. I am totally emotianal. What should i do? I need serious advice on this one.
~Andrea~ (link)
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Hey we have all been through this! Trust me, your friendship isn't worth losing over a guy. I know you liked him for a long time but sometimes things just aren't meant ot be. Thats happened before and i moved on and am already crushin on a guy named Michael! LOL How funny right? Well it wasn't your friends fault he likes her but try to move on and forget about the past.
Good Luck!
xoxo Lindsay
xoxo Madeline
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How do i make a guy like me?? they guy i like told my friend "idk maybe" when she was seeing if he would ever go out with me. what does idk maybe mean? if im not quite there, HOW DO I GET THERE?? Ill rate 5's for good answers. (link)
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You can't MAKE a guy like you. Just be friendly and kind around him and try to show off your flirty side. SOme guys are more attached to you if you talk to them a lot! Hope that helps!
xoxo Lindsay
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i put ny clothes in the wash and i did not notice i put my white top in and my jeans have died it how can i get it back white with out bleaching it? please help (link)
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Well you can look at your local store and purchase something made to do that. Sorry thats all i can say. Be careful next time!
Good Luck!
xoxo Lindsay
xoxo Madeline
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My hair is so boring and I was wondering how can i make hair wavy without buying anything from the stores?? Anything i can do/use?? Rate 5's for first 6 people if it works. (link)
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Ummm, try when you get out of the shower butting you hair in a tight pony tail and let it dry. That might help a lot.
Good Luck!
xoxoLindsay
xoxoMadeline
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alright i want to get a new sn....my name is christina some people call me xtina for short i like x's and my favorite number is 4...any ideas...
5 for trying! (link)
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xOxO_xtInA_XoXo
* hope that helped!
XOXOMADELINE XOXOLINDSAY
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this is a little confusing sorry if it's long.. well okay this year i started liking this guy named Ron. My best friend, Kelly started liking Ron's best friend, Peter. well me and kelly were really close and we are bff. ron and peter r the same way. well i've always liked ron but i don't really "know" him.. he said he'd go out with me if he knew me better. anyways, kelly & peter started going out.. they went out for about a mounth. peter dumped kelly and kelly says she still likes peter. but now i'm mad at kelly because she has been really flirty with Ron and she KNOWS that i like him. it's reall making me mad. we went to the movies last night and she was always talking to ron and flirting with him. we just recently got off the phone and she told me that her and ron were text messaging last night and that ron called her today. i'm really mad at kelly.. what should i do about my situation??
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wow well not to be mean but i say.... steal him back. no cat fights just start flirting with him too. if you flirt with him he'll start to liek you and maybe you can build a friendship! and then maybe he'll say yes! wow *good luck*
xoxomadeline xoxolindsay
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One of my closest friends just recently admitted to me something that I found quite disturbing.
She told me a couple days ago " no offense, but my cats are more important to me than any of my friends or family.
She said if her house were on fire the first thing she would grad were her cats, and not her parents or friends!!
I didn't say anything but I was quite upset. I would always pick my friends and family over my pets.
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nope. your are not overreacting. to me thats kind of sad .... my friends are soo special to me i would never let anything happen to them! i am really sorry she even told you that...but at least she was honest. if i were you id find new friends just in case anything happens to her and her cats you need friends who have your back!
*wishes*
xoxomadeline xoxolindsay
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Hey everyone. I'm kind of stuck in a situation that I don't know what to do with, please help. Recently my friends have been noticing alot of changes in my mood, such as it changing every few minutes; Like from excited to depressed in 2 minutes. My friend's dad has Bipolar Disorder, and she says that I may have it too. Well I'm really tired of being like this, because I just want to be happy, without the feelings of sadness all of the time. I want to ask my parents if I can go see a doctor about this, but my parents never take me seriously. I'm 15 years old and they still treat me like a 10 year old. If I were to ask them then they would laugh in my face and say nothing was wrong with me; 'It's all in my head' would probably be a response. Can someone help me with my problem? I don't want to be in so much pain anymore, I want to be normal. Without any help then I can't live like I once did. What should I do? Thanks so much ahead of time. (link)
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you should tell your parents that you want a docotr to check to see if you are "okay" you just want to be for sure. say you ae probably right but just to be safe i would like a doctor to look at it.
hope that helped!
xoxomadeline xoxolindsay
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Okay so I have like a BEST friend we have been really good friends since like 4th grade and now we are in 8th well ever sinve like last year she has been blowing me off for this other girll I'll call ash well whenever I ask like what shes doing shell be like oh Im staying after and Ill be like ohh cool for anything fun and she'll be like no not really but than later it comes out that she was with ash and I just bugs me that she wouldnt tell me where she was going..is it just me and what can I do so it doesnt bug me as much..Thanks (link)
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wow..well its totally not your fault. if she cant see what you have to offer for her then she is not worth it. this girl just doesnt relize how much you care about her she probably doesnt even realize shes hurting you. i would talk to her about it and if it isnt solved then like i said she doesnt deserve to be your friend.hang in there!
xoxomadeline xoxolindsay
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Is there any way to make your hair grow really really fast? i want my hair to grow longer really fast. thanks
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sorry hair grows at its own speed no matter how har youu try. you could get extensions if you want to
hope that helps!
xoxo madeline xoxolindsay
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My Mom & Dad are having problems. Atleast that's what my Mom said. My Dad is worried about money issues and is mad at my Mom for not having a stable job (she helps the hospice with living assistence and doesn't get solid hours) He's also worried about my Mom's heart procedure coming up. She's getting her heart..."zapped"..I guess you could say..And he won't talk to me anymore. He shows no emotion other than anger. When he goes out he just leaves without saying where he is going. And he totally favors my sister, even though he says he doesn't. For my birthday this summer (august), he didn't get me anything. And my sister's birthday is in March..and he just recently bought her TWO electric guitars...and she doesn't even play!!! I just get so mad around him and I want him too atleast talk to me...at my softball game I got a homerun and he didn't say anything. I just don't know what too do anymore. =-/
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wow i am sooo sorry! i no its hard when you feel like a parent doesnt love you. every girl loves her dad no matter what age she is..and sometimes when life turns bad its hard because you feel like youve lost everything and you just have to hang in there. maybe sit down with your dad and CALMLY explain to him how you feel. tell him you love him and you want to spend more time with him and that he and your mom are starting to worry you. parents understand. well hope that helps!
xoxomadeline xoxolindsay
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hi. well, i have a younger sister. shes 2 years younger than me, and i have a problem. my bedtime this year is 10, and last year it was 10:30 [wtf..] and i even told my mom but of course all shed say was "10 is good for me..hey a bug." and whenever i get something my younger sister gets it the same year! like our allowances have been the same our whole lives, and they started when i was like 9 and she was 7. AND the year i got a cell phone SHE DID!! and i just know shes gunna get an ipod this year like i did over the summer with my own money. i hate this crap. it isnt fair that i have to wait 2 more years than her to get the same stuff she does. how do i aproach my mom? **NOTE: she ALWAYS says "because i said so" -or- "u always are complaining" (link)
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I TOTALLY UNDERSTAND..MOMS ARE LIKE THAT!i think you should CALMLY explain to you mom that it just isnt right that she gets all these
( keyword -> ) PRIVILAGES. you need to say you think it would be more (avoid the word fair)appropriate for her to wait a couple years just like you did. say mom, i really feel like i am the same age as her and get the same things ...you no its like a 13 year old playing with barbie dolls...i just doesnt happen. say thats how i feel. i want to have more privalages i am getting to a stage where i am entering or am in (i dont no about you) where i liek freeedom and separation and differnces from my siblings. last line ( it may sound cheese but it works!) mom i really hope you understand.
good luck!
xoxomadeline xoxolindsay
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13/m sorry its so long
there is this girl danielle that i really like and have liked for a while i thought i was over her for a few months then some kids at school said some guy hit her and i got so mad that i faugt him but its more then that i faught him got arrested broke a cars mirror of and dented the car getting sued to fix the car got a 2 day out of school suspendion broke my knuckle and other stuff and i dont know if she relizes everything i did for her and i dont know if she does but doesnt wanna talk about it or just is to shy to tell me if she likes me i think she might but i dont know for sure if anyone knows how i can tell if she likes me let me know
thanks
mike (link)
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wow you must really like her. this must be some special girl! she is sooo lucky to have someone like you to care about her. she may not realize it but you put alot at steak for her. if someone did that for me ...wow id be speachless. if i were you i would write her a note telling her that you did all this for her once you heard what the guy did and tell her you really like her and maybe ( if you want to ) ask her out. well hope that helps
good luck!
xoxomadeline xoxolindsay
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ok, ive been friends with this girl gabi since 1st grade. were both in 8th grade now. were best friends but sometimes i feel left out because she always goes out with her other friends and never tells me. weve been getting in a lot of fights lately and the past few have been really bad. i want her to be my friend but im not sure if she still wants to be mine. as we get older our interests are differing more and more. so basically my question is: Should i break our friendship or give it another chance???i give 5s, just so ya know (link)
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wow well thats hard. i know what it feels like i had a friend since kindergarden and in 6th grade we broke our friendship...now that i look back i am actually glad though she isnt nice shes mean cuses makes bad decisions cheats on friends soo wow am i glad i am over her! but maybe you and gabi should stick with just friends ....you no say hi in the hallways and hang out sometimes but she doesnt seem like a best friend for you. well hope that helps!
xoxomadeline xoxolindsay
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I just bought homecoming tickets for my boyfriend and I today. Next Wednesday, the 5th, is our three month anniversary and his gift from me is going to be the homecoming tickets and for him to be my date... etc. See we were already planning on going together, but I just wanted to ask him in a cute, romantic way to really make him feel special. It can't be anything too expensive, I guess I'm jsut looking for ideas. So what I'm asking is what is a sweet, creative, original way I can ask him to go to homecoming with me? (link)
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humm well thats kind of tough. maybe be like so who are you going to homecoming with? and he'll be like no one and youll say me either well i guess i could just stay home and watch tv wondering how much fun everyone else is haveing. or...well nah.....well maybe...maybe you might want to go with me we could use the tickets i bought for us to go with!
i am not sure thats what id do best wishes
xoxomadeline xoxolindsay
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