hey everyone!
my name is sam and i'm 16 and i live in wisconsin. I'm a sophmore. I'm pretty good at advice, as i've had many problems of my own and helped many friends get through theirs. I hope to help out anyone who needs it!!
E-mail: xotruebrunettexo@hotmail.com
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Location: Wisconsin
Occupation: Student
Age: 16
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Hey..
me and my friend are together in a babysitting job and we love children so much and we just already let out flyers one,last year and once just recently the next year..on the 1st year flyer given out..no1 responded..the 2nd year one responded..liked our job..gave us $20 each for 1 1/2 hours...i know.. alot..o well..lol..back to the subject..ever since that day..no1 has responded..what should we do? send out more flyers or keep waiting or quit caring..what should we do??
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i think that you guys shouldn't do it together, most people like it better when one person is doing it by themselves, that way they know, all your attention is on the kids and not on your friend. (keep in mind, they don't know you, and so they assume stuff)
if you don't want to seperate than i think your best bet is to ask the 1st client if they have any friends that need babysitters (that way you'll get recommended as doing a good job, & their friends know that you will spend all of your time with the kids, and not become destracted by your friend.) if she doesn't have any friends than i think you should put ur flyers in mailboxes and anywhere else around your neighborhood .. ex. like grocery store, library, & other stores where they have bulliton or notice boards!!
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okay so i was in a chat room and out of no where this guy asked me to cyber. i said no cuz i didn't even know him. well he started saying shit anyway and i was just about to say shut up to him and block him when my mom walked up behind me. well she read what he said and now i'm grounded for two weeks! but i didn't even do anything and i tried to explain that to her! what should i do!! (link)
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Tell her the truth, say that "i was just about to block him,, & why should i be grounded for things he says, it's not my fault, and i can't control him. when he asked me to cyber, i said no.. i could have said yes but i didnt, because i didnt even know him & i would nevr do that and its not fair for me to be grounded when i can't help what someone else says to me."
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the weather man said
to expect showers
a purple umbrella lies abandoned on the ground
wet hair and clothes
let it pour
forget the heart ache and the lonesomeness
and the reason why I'm sore
every inch of my skin is drenched
the rain hides the tears
cheap mascara runs
and so do I
let it pour
flash back and I'm five years old
yellow rain coat and brunette waves
but here I am
the same, yet a little less sane
Not dancing, or singing, but drowning in the rain
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I LOVED IT.. keep writing you're really good at it!!! :)
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Hi dose anyone want to become friends with me???
my names Jenipher and Im 15 , Im feeling kinda lonely on here ???? (link)
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sure! if you want to IM me it's xotruebrunettexo ((AIM)) and e-mail is xotruebrunettexo@hotmail.com
talk to you soon!! :)
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alright, i've got a moderately small and intricate clique at school. about 6 girls. anyway, we're all best friends, and don't really hang out with anyone more than anybody else. but then someone else joined our little group (lindsay). and joy has been really down(who's usually really outgoing and loud) she just, i dunno, she and lindsay hung out a whole lot. they have a million inside jokes, and they can't be separated more than 2 feet. joy tells lindsay virtually everything... like why she's so depressed and stuff. things she won't tell us at all.
the rest of us feel kind of like she dumped us, i guess. dropped us for someone more worthy or something. i confronted her, and she felt all bad and stuff, but she just went back to lindsay, and i feel like i'm losing a friend... what should i do? (link)
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this has happened to me too.. and i'll tell you what i did.. i confronted her and she did they same thing so then we got mad at her and started talking about it all the time and stuff.. well anyways.. that just pushed her farther away, we eventually became better friends again, but it took a while.. maybe u should just spend more time with joy.. like invite her over to a sleep over and talk all of this through (but just you and joy) don't make it the whole group.. they she will just feel like u guys are ambushing her because it will be 5 vs. 1 .. talk it through and i hope things get better.. i mean i wish i would have done it!! good luck!!
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I have had this friend for a really really long time. i am ova her house like almost every weekend and we r soooooo close. people actually think we r twin sisters. but lately this girl has really gotten on my nerves. she sings when she doesnt kno the words and she is a horrible singer and she always treats my sister like crap and when i say something to her sister she tells me not to talk to her like that. i dont kno wether i should tell r not!!! PLEASE HELP ME!!! (link)
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If you guys are really that close than you shouldn't have a problem telling her the truth. I think you should say something like, "why is it okay for you to talk to my sister that way but not ok for me to do the same?!" after she does it to your sis. or if you haven't said anything at all.. next time she does than just say, "don't talk to her like that." and if she keeps it up then say the first thing. And the singing thing is alright, everyone has something that isn't perfect, but i wouldn't tell her that she's a bad singer, sure she'll probably stop, but you'll hurt her feelings really bad, & it could bring on a huge fight.
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How do you get that kind of background for your advice columb
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i went to this site http://www.backgrounds2001.cjb.net/ and then copied the url of the backround i wanted & then under edit settings i pasted it under page backround image
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i have a best friend that told me she moving in 3-4weeks. i wish she wasnt moving, but i dont know what to do. if she moves i'll never get to see her agian or hang out with her. we hang out every day and when she leaves i want get to any more. im really sad. i want to tell her how i feel and i have been but it wont make a diffrence if she moves or not. i cant not make her move, she has all ready bought a house, and selling the one she leaves in now. she my best friend in the whole world. when she leaves i dont know what to do, i'm going to be sad. help me!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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I think that you should do something nice for her, or give her a present to have that will always keep you guys close.. if she has instant messanger or e mail keep in touch with that.. send letters and talk on the phone.. maybe you guys will get together during the summer and have that person stay a few weeks or something.. i wouldn't make it harder on her than it already is, she has to move and she doesn't have a choice.. i know its hard but if shes really your best friend than you guys will find ways to get together! hang in there hun! things will work out, you'll see! :)
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Ok, I think i have an eating problem but i`m not sure. I have a tremendouse fear of gaining weight and i honestly can`t help it. I`m starting modeling soon and so I feel like I HAVE to look thin. I`m not eating period and my friend`s are starting to notice so when they make me eat I throw it up. My boyfriend says he`ll quit doing drug`s if i start eating again wich mean`s the world to me but everytime i start eating again I start crying in fear of gaining weight and throw it up then feel terrible. I don`t think i have an "eating disorder" but it`s kind of hard to tell when all of your friend`s are "concerened" that your loosing weight and your starting to look "sick". They say i`m starting to look to skinny, I have bag`s under my eye`s, and i`m getting pale. I can`t eat properly it`s just to hard. I`ve been extreamly depressed latley. Do I have an eating disorer? Someone help me please !!
Signed
A cry for help (link)
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if you don't eat at all think about this, they won't want you as a model b/c you'll start to look sickly, your young, so you don't have to worry too much about gaining a lot of weight.. Also, think about it, if you eat you help your boyfriend to not do drugs. so you're not only helping yourself you're helping him too! and it seems like he really cares about you and so do you friends. eat normal meals, trust me just eat normally, but excersise. but if you excersise don't push yourself too hard * look in a magazine (seventeen) if you want to learn some easy and quick excerise * good luck hun and i really home you start to eat!!
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I just found out that my best guy friend of 3 years has a crush on me. At first I was so confused about how I felt about him... I told him that I didn't know if I liked him back. But after I thought about it, I realized that I do like him. I would ask him out, but here's the problem: He went out with my sister *she's only a year younger than me* & he was pretty jerky to her. He'd hit on me right in front of her, and as if that isn't bad enough, he broke up with her by calling her from another friend's house (who was a GIRL btw.) Then a day after their breakup, he came over to my house & starting apologizing & crap, saying that his friend made him do it. He was so mean to my sis, so I'm afraid to get involved with him. But I think he might've changed. Should I give him a chance? (link)
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i think you should give him a chance, especially if you think he's changed. but if he starts acting like he did when he was with you sister then i think you should end it right there and stick to being friends because you don't need a guy that's acting like a jerk to you! i hope everything turns out alright & lemme know how it goes!
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I think im addicted to cutting.... and i like it but i want to stop.... how do i stop? (My parents know and im not talking to a damn physcologist)
~Kele~ (link)
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i saw on this one show that everytime you feel like cutting have a rubberband on your hand and snap it.. that way instead of cutting your doing something that still might cause u a little pain but won't hurt you as much
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i really want to be a basketball player like soooooo bad and i dont know hoe i can become one i meen im only 12 so its not a big rush now but any ideas would be great!
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sign up for basketball camps that will challenge you and make you better. then go out for teams at your school, if you play all the time and go to camps and really love the game then i think you can make it!! just keep a positive attitude! :) good luck!!
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Okay so when I went out with this friend I met I was having fun until , this really cute!! guy came along I could tell he was alone, My friend went off for something to eat, I stayed , i went over and tried to talk to him but he just looked at me finally we spoke he was sad because his gf moved away and now its his x g/f , but I told him I would try to help , but when we talked for an hour I got to know him ... alot more. Hes 16 andhis names CJ , he asked me out and Im only 15, I like him alot , but is he Prince Charming for me??? PLz help ,, Jenipher WBASAP!!! (link)
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First of all, your probably not going to find prince charming at 15 yrs. old, so now just look for a guy that will treat you right and that you like a lot.. if you like him a lot then go for it, but also take it into consideration that he just got off of a break up and could be on the rebound. Maybe you should wait a little bit, not to long, but a little while to see if he still likes you and wasn't just wanting a girl because his ex just moved.
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My best friend Julz is goin out w/ my favorite cousin Jon!! Julz is turning 14 in october and Jon is turning 13 this september. i really hate them goin out, cuz he's changed ever since they started goin out!! they broke up and they just got back together!! i dont wanna tell julz that i cant stand it cuz she's my best friend and she'll get mad, but i think i have to. ive talked to jon about it but they like eachother so much!! what should i do?? --Chels
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Unless there is a huge reason why they shouldn't be going out, other then you don't like it (and write otherwise in my inbox if there is) ,but if not then i think that you should just let them be with each other.. i mean if they really like each other, why do you want to ruin it for them? if you do talk to your friend, what if she breaks up with him and they could have something great, and also she could go another way and get mad at you about it, cuz if you don't have a reason other then you don't like it then i don't think she'll react the way you want her to (breaking up with him) she will consider your feelings, but if she's got a guy she really likes she probably will stay with him.
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ok well my brother is 15 and he just moved to our house from his dads. My best friend is not allowed to come over because my mom is worried they are going to do stuff (if ya kno wat i mean) anywayz she is 13 and brother wouldnt do that. wat should i do?!? thanx 4 the help!!
xoxo,
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explain to your mom that they're not going to do stuff, that you pick better friends than that and no one would do that when everyone else is home .. & tell her that your best friend was your bestfriend before he moved in and you want her as your friend still even though he has moved in.. tell her that it doesn't effect your friend and him moving in shouldn't get in between your friendship.
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ok im a girland today i just found out that my really close cousin thats a guy is bi and i found out today and now i dont kno how to act around him...i mean i feel weird knowin that hes bi and yea...so wut should i do? how do i react to this? (link)
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you don't change how you act around him, he's still the same person, you just know one more thing about him then you did before. Even if you feel weird don't show him that you do, because he will feel uncomfortable and you don't want that.. if you really close to him then it shouldn't matter.. in my opinon nothing has changed.
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well me and my bf have been going out for 3 months (ish) and we havn't got past kissing on the cheek. i really do want to kiss him properly and he wants to kiss me but we're so shy. what do we do? i'm a 13 year old girl. (link)
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I think you should suprise him and do it to him.. you shouldn't be shy about it especially if you know that he wants to do it too. I know its hard for you guys to do it for the first time, maybe make it special so it means more or something. Maybe, he's unsure that you want to do and so i think you should make the move!! good luck!! :) im sure it will turn out fine.
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I have long , black hair ( i'm asian ) , and fairly light skin . What colour should i streak my hair ( keep in mind that i'm only doing three thin streaks , because i'll need to hide this during shcool time )
- army green
- neon green
- electric blue
- turquoise
- purple
- any other suggestions ? (link)
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i think maybe the electric blue would look good!! :)
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my friend steals small things like keychains and stuff and i dont really care but she stole from me twice! i dont kno wat 2 do i dont wanna confront her cuz its been a while and i dont want her 2 get mad at me cuz she is a really good friend except for the stealing from ur friends thing... so wat should i do? (link)
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i think you should definatly confront her.. first of all if you don't she probably will take more things and on top of that she'll think shes getting away with it.. and she shouldn't get mad at you, you're the one whos getting stuff stolen from them, not her. she has nothing to be mad about, if anything you do.. all im saying is i think it's a good idea for you to tell her that you know what she's doing and ask her why she would steel from you?
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Should someone with a webbed toe not wear flip flops? does it gross people out? will they think that you are weird? (link)
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who cares what other ppl think, if you want to wear flip flops then you wear them.. as far as a webbed to, most ppl probably won't even notice because normally ur toes are together neways.. don't worry about it.. if you want to, then do it.. but if you will feel uncomfortable then i wouldn't.. i would just do what you want no matter what anyone else thinks, even though i still think no one will notice probably
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