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hey yaLL my name is crystaL and im 14 goin on 15 :) i know you might think im kinda young to be givin out advice but i have experieced so many things in my life and people aLways teLL me that i give out reaLLy good advice!

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ok,i'm 13, 5 2 and 110 lbs. i already do situps and i'm on a soccer team. how can i lose lyk 5 to 10 lbs? plz help! ~***I RATE***~

hey chick, well i cant tell you to exercise cuz it seems like to do that already everyday but i would say that you should just eat healthier like whenever you feel like snacking grab some fruit or something not chips or cookies but anyway... the reason you prolly weigh 110 ((which is not alot at all) is because you play soccer and its probably all muscle! *GoOd LuCk*

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im 14 i weigh 124 pounds and i have a slight tummy and muscular thighs.. but i need to know how to lose about 10 pounds.. can anyone help me!!

hey chick, you dont need to lose weight! you sound skinny enough! LoL :) but if you really want to then i suggest that you can eat healthy (fruits & veggies) and exercise like runnin, crunches, sit ups and WALKING!! and you will start to lose the weight in about a week or two!

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have u ever shoplifted something small and not gotten caught? jw
thanx

HaHaHa yes but only once and i felt so bad that i took it bac and put it on the shelf but only me and my friend knew that i stole it LoL

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hey, if you have cut yourself on the arm really deep 3 times and your parents found out so you cant do it again, you do on your chest a couple of times because you really need to but it was only a couple of times and you feel like your gonna die if you feel relieved after does it mean ill end up killing myself? is it a major thing? like do i have serious problem here? ive only done it a couple of times but i cant control myself not when i feel like i really need to. help? please? anyone?

hey sweetie, this is a really big problem and it can get to be an even bigger problem if you dont try to get help or stop right away!!! and yes you can end up killin yourself (even on an accedent) juss tell one of you really good friends and tell her you really need her to help you! or juss find something else to do in the place if cuttin yourself like get a stuffed animal and whenever you feel you need to cut, juss do it on the stuffed animal!! *i hope you get better :)

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okay, well i'm a 14/f and i hate my thighs cuz they're pretty fat *im a size 9* i've tried eating right, i usually run 2.8 miles 2-3 times a week, i play sports almost everynight and i do thigh excercises in bed..nothings working...does anyone know of any really good excercises i could do to slim down the tops of my thighs? thanks, and i will rate all advice.

aaawww i so wish i had your thighs! but probably since you play alot of sports, it makes you legs more muscular and that makes them bigger! my friend has the same problem, she plays soccer and since she runs a lot, it makes her legs get bigger, but anyway i looked this up on the internet and i found out the only way you can slim your thighs down is to change you eating habit, so try to eat healthier! *i hope i helped you*

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i need help i want to pant my room but f i do not know what color to pant it so here are some of my favorite colors
-red
-black
-purplish blue
-gray
-green
-blue
PS IM SORTA GOTH

hey, you should pant it black and purlpe!! that would look cute and black is a goth color! and another idea is you can paint your ceiling black and put those glow in the dark stars on your ceiling! *whatever you do i bet it will look great!* rate me please!

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how do you give a lap dance? and like what are some details and moves you can tell me about it? i really need help, my boyfriend wants me 2 give him one and i want 2..please help me!!!

hey gurl, well dont do this if you really dont want to, but anyway... juss back it up on him and move your body with the music, put your boobs in his face LoL and you either wanna wear tight jeans or a skirt! LoL *hope i helped* RaTe Me pLeAsE

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13/m

ok see..theres this kid thats 2 years older than me and hes BI. i know theres nuttin wrong wit that but there is..when he likes u! his name is anthony and he has a crush on me! he told me when i was in 6th grade! i almost passed out! i am tromotized! whenever i see him, i feel like throwing up and i stay as far away from him as humanly possible! i really dont like him cause he harrases me! its gross! what should i do to block this outta my mind!

i rate!

hey shug, im really sorry LoL but you juss need to tell him that you are really not into him and he needs to back off cuz he has made it VERY uncomfotable for you! JUSS TELL HIM STRAIGHT UP! *good luck* Rate Me Please*

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my friend...... is so depressed.. i was, but now im happier than ever. It feels so good being happy. I want her to feel that too, but its so hard. I just want her to live. and not let life pass her by. i donno wat to do.

hey! i was in the same problem! juss take her out to eat to her favorite place((juss you and her)) and yall can talk and maybe that will get her mind off of things and after that juss take her to see a movie or something!! *i really hope that i helped*

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does fingering hurt if your a virgin?

yes more than lickly it will or it might be a little uncomfotably like in the lower part of your stomach but if your usd to wearing tampons it shouldnt feel THAT BAD!! LOL

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I just recently got dumped by my ex. we were going fine then all of the sudden she dumped me, i still like her, and i want her to go out with me again. I am about90% sure she still likes me.
wat should i do?

i say juss ask her out and tell her how you feel i mean thats the only way you can find out if she really does like you ;) good luck!!

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can sum1 im me on aim xogiggles37xo and ill send u a picture of me and plz answer the question yes or no and ill rate you!! ill rate you good if ur honest onllii!!

yeha sure i will LoL

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Well you see, me and my boyfriend will be going out for a month in 2 days. I like him and all but I don't feel anything anymore. He's away on vacation and my family might meet him there. Should I break the relationship off now or go out with him a little longer and see how I feel? *

(I will rate you!)

hey shug! i really think you should go ahead and call it off because the longer you wait the more hes gunna feel for you and it will be harder on him! so juss go ahead and call it off so in the long run yall can still be friends and if you feel you have made a mistake by breakin up with him then just tell him that you have made a mistake and ask for a second chance! *good luck*

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i know its early, but i already got my homecoming dress (GOOD sale) .. i dont know if i like it or not tho, im gonna decide today if i wanna keep it or return it. but one of the prblms is, it has a really low back that kinda like, laces up, but its open .. u know what i mean?? wat kind of bra can i wear with it .. its too low for a strapless one (but it would hafta be strapless) .. and the "backless" styles come like all the way down to your belly button and are kinda constricting, and i dont wanna be like that for homecoming .. so do you know of any other types that would hold up good for the whole night but still be comfy??
thanks TONS
xOxO*
((i'll rate good!!))

hey, well i think your dress sounds really cute :) but there is this bra called a nude bra and you get get it from victoria secret im not sure how much it cost though! but it has no bac and its in the shape of a regular bra and its the same color of your skin so it will blend in with your skin color!

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ok well my bf was at school for most of summer and i missed him a lot but after spending a lot of time with him before he left, i kind of don't like him as much as i used to. i mean i don't not like him enough to break up with him but yeah.i still love him. i like never see him too, i see him like maybe every 2 weeks and it's been like this for awhile and i don't really think there's anything we can do about that. i also feel really bad because when i was at a camp for a week, i cheated on him really bad and i'm just really confused. should i tell him i cheated on him?

you really should tell him that you cheated on him cuz if he finds out w/o you tellin him, he will feel like he wont be able to trust you but if you tell him then he'll know that you wont hide anything from hi, juss let him know that your really sorry! good luck *rate me please*

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my boyfriend's parents don't know we're going out and they're starting to find out and acting really suspicious ever since i went over his house today. we both dont know what to do... if he tells themhe the truth we'll probly have to break up... if he lies then his conscience will get the best of him. please help me. im in tears already.

you really need to tell your boyfriend that he needs to tell his parents cuz there gunna find out sooner ot later exspecially if there already suspiouse and if they find out on there own then they will get madder then if yall tell them!

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Ok so tomorrow morning I have to get up early and go on a roadtrip to pick my sister up from camp.. its a 10 hour drive.. and on the way up it'll be just me and my parents.... so its not like i can do stuff with my sister. I've got my discman, my portable dvd player, some books.. is there ne thing else i could do? Something a little creative... got any ideas?

I RATE REALLY WELL!
-blu

hey, well i say you should take lotsa paper and pencils/pens/crayons and juss draw and doodle! its something fun while your in the car! and take a pillow and a blanket and you can get some good rest! HeHe!

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i went to a party at the end of skool in the middle of june. i got drunk n was unconsious. i've been throwing up and noticed a little bulge below my belly button. could some guy have fucked me while i was unconsious?HELP PLZ!

YES!!! anybody could have done anything while you were unconsious! you really need to get a a preg. test to see if your preg, and also more importantly go to a doctor to check for a STD! *good luck*

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I am like the only girl in my grade who doesnt ave a boyfriend. All of my friends say im wicked pretty, but i dont believe them, cause wouldnt i have a bf by now if i was. Does anyone have any tips on getting the guy u like 2 go out wit u?

hey! well if you dont have boyfriend that doesnt make you ugly and if you do ahve a boyfriend it doesnt exacly make you pretty either! i mean dont juss think about your appearence but your personality as well!! heres a tip... JUSS BE YOURSELF!!

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well im going with this guy i like my friend n a few of his friends to a concert...wen i told him i could finally go, he seemed rlly excited...well idk wat i should do like with him its kinda like an adult concert but uk ppl like 13 14 will be there...thats my age...well wat could we do there besided listen to music...im not realli the first move kinda person so i wouldnt say makeout or ne thing lol ne way thanx xoxo

hey gurl, i would juss say that, juss flirt with him a little bit ya know send out some siganls that your feelin him and if hes feelin you then he'll flirt back! and juss let one thing lead to another and yall could actually end up makin out and you never know he might even make the firt move w/o you even expecting it! and trust me on this..... never try to PLAN things out with this kinda stuff or it will never work out, juss go with the flow LoL

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