I hope to help those in need in life lessons, love, friendships, and hardships.
It's a tough life to live for anyone, either in their work world, love life, their children, their money...."There is always Hope"....and I aim to help those find that hope and successfully get passed the woes of the world :-)
I carry a degree in Information Technology, but have also taken previous courses in Child Psychology and General Psychology to gather an understanding of our emotions and how we deal with them as humans.
I also have my own travel business EGVacations.com and I care for my 4yr old son, (I have 4 children; 18, 16, 12, and 4) so the range in ages allows me to see all aspects of what children are going through. Whew!!
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Okay i weigh aroung 160 and I'm thirteen. now i know what your thinking but just wait. I look like i weigh 120 lbs, the reason i am 160 is that i have very large breast i wear a 38d and my mom makes fun of my weight, she calls me names and it really hurts me. How should i deal with it when it's not me that's causing the weight? (link)
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I'm answering this from the mom's side, because I too am a mom of a beautiful 18 yr old daughter with huge breast for her petite little body.
She started to let herself go a little so she's got some chunk to her belly and hips. I had always asked her to wear less revealing tops; merely because I know guys are always checking her out, but she just would not because she did not want to look fat.
I started to riducule her at times when she starting picking up weight, but realized she was dealing with alot. Being in that situation, you can't control your body structure.
You should really voice your feelings to your mother just like my daughter did. We tend to be a bit sarcastic towards each other and end up making comments about her looks (breasts and weight), but we are just kidding. I would never hurt her feelings intentionally, so I make sure she knows i'm only joking. She's not really the sensitive type when it comes to her body, because she can't do a whole lot about it, and she just accepts it.
If your mom's comments are really hurting you, then you will have to plead with your mom to stop calling you names and let her know you already deal with enough. She should be more supportive. I've taken the time to go with my daughter to buy bra's the help with her back support and we work out together.
I hope you can get your mom to see your feelings and fix these issues.
Good luck!!!
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So ive been dating this guy for almost a year, and things are going great! Except for the fact that i sometimes find myself thinking im not over my ex.. my ex and i had dated for almost 2 years, so its sorta obvious that it took a bit to get over him.. but i cant understand the reason ,that almost a year an a half later, i still catch myself falling for him... i sometimes think that i ant to be ith my ex again... i kno its not right to be feeling like this since im in a great relationship, ho can i get over this, or do you think itd be best to go back ith the ex, since i cant seem to get over him? any advice is appriciated, thanks! :) (link)
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Soooo sooo common, for sure. After a lengthy relationship, the feelings you developed during that time do not just go away simply because you had your differences and decided to end the relationship.
Your falling for him from time to time is probably just a relapse of some good times you guys had in your relationship, and the kind moments of affection. But you know, don't overlook the goodness you have now.
I went through this early on in my new relationship. My ex was a total player and a disrespectful buttmunch, but I loved him after the eight years we toughed it out. But it's over for sure and despite those unexpected feelings I had for the ex, I just had to rehash in my mind why we are not together and embrace my new love, who is kind and loving and nurturing and a total gentleman.
We all make choices that make what our future is going to be. We can never think out our mistakes before we make them, but I'm thinking you are way better off really moving on and for sure, never express in words or expressions to your ex that you have these feelings. If you already have, just dont do it anymore ;-).
Good luck to you!
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thats truee..but i think am just going to let things be from now on..am not even goint to think about boys anymore..for me they are all the same and they aint gonan change..like my ex boyfriend he is diying for me to go to his house..speacilly in the night and i serioulsy do not understand for wat for..he told me is to hug and juts chill there...but i think he is juts looking to have sex..because he has a girlfriend in the dominican republic..so i really dont understand..see what am talking about?am s ukker for love :(..so sad :'( (link)
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Don't sweat it too much, girl. We girls are all suckers for love.
When me and my ex split up, I was devastated, but knew in my heart that it was best for me and for him. He was a player and I tried and tried to just be loyal and show him I wanted to be in a faithful and loving relationship.
With us,when it was good, it was good, but when it was bad, it was real bad..cheating, disrespect and all that stuff that just hurts so much.
I went to therapy to make sure I knew how to say no and not go back to him (we split up twice before and I kept going back). I gave up and men and my friends knew I was just not into looking for new love anytime soon.
I did find it, eventually, and it came out of nowhere; totally unexpected.
You can't lose hope...
And keep in mind, the next love you have in your life, make sure it's real. Make sure you look at the conformity and compromise you both are willing to give each other. And if he's not perfect, it's okay!!
We choose our battles. We are strong women and can deal with those little annoyances, all in the name of love. Love is hard work.
Keep your chin up. You're still young. :-)
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what will you do if your ex boyfriend keeps texting you every day tellin you to go to his house at 1am in the night?..but he has a girlfriend in dominican republic . (link)
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Great question...apparently, he is still a player and not happy or faithful to his woman. Why bother, u know? What benefits you? The sex? Big whooop. To me, it's just never worth the trouble. My ex had me when he had me, and if we've moved on, then I wouldn't play that game.
I guess, I just feel I have more respect for myself. I would feel degraded, like a piece of ass to him, and I'm worth more than that.
Surely he's not all there is to offer.
If I were to go, i'd regret it, and feel lousy.
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First of all i would like to say thank you to all those people who told me to stick with my vow, b/c it turns out he was playing me anyway.(God my love life sucks)anyway i had this friend with benefits over the summer who helped me get over some serious greif, and we kinda became attached to each other, he's the only person who knowd my deepest secrets. And we contiuned being friends with benefits until say mid-nov. Recently i found he has a girlfriend and that kinda broke my heart...not tht im not happy for him or anything thats not the case. its just the fact that whenever we were together it was like we were going out...that and people expected me to go out with him. Now, whenever im around him i get a hollow feeling and when hes with his girlfriend(who hates me for being ex-friends with benefits)i want to burst out crying. Question: What am i supposed to do about that heavy chemistry between us?
PS we still hang out and goof off.
thxx-olie 14/f (link)
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Friends with benefits always have to be looked at as a temporary fix. Otherwise, if you or he would only have sex with each other, then you'd technically be going out...right??
So, he came to find him someone steady (gf), AND made the mistake of telling his new gf about your relationship with each other. Having a friend for the benefit of sex should be a secret thing, but I guess it's hard to hide sometimes.
Anyway!! Ok, she doesn't like you, but you guys still hang, like I guess when she is not around, so God forbid she should find out, then she might end up dumping your friend...not good, you know? It would surely disappoint him, and I know you wouldn't have meant for it to happen, but you have to kind of know your boundaries.
Almost every woman is always insecure of the EX! And it's hard to maintain a healthy friendship with your guy friend having this tension, you know? I hate to say it, but if he's choosing to be with this girl, even though she hates you, then he is doing what he wants, despite what you may be feeling.
You can tell him you're going to distance yourself a bit and see how things work out for him and his girl, and if things dont work out for them, Don't let the next girl find out about y'alls relationship! Just try to be friends and work on being "friends".
I've learned the hard way that it's a battle within yourself to separate sex and emotional feelings. It's those emotional feelings you have for him that are hindering you.
If all else fails, why don't you guys become a couple, to alleviate all this awkward tension :-D
Brush off the gf's comments. She is merely insecure, and perhaps, she is stating the truth, but so what, she's probably not worth the stress.
Take good care and good luck!
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this is kind of a weird question but I was wondering if anyone knows of a movie with a really good sex scene in it. Not a porn movie or anything like that, just a regular movie with a pretty steamy sex scene like the note book or something. Thanks! (link)
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How bout that sex scene in the Matrix Revolutions with Trinity and Neo....???
That's the only one I can think of right now...
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...it said "i really dont believe in love but am partially taken" (link)
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Ahhh, ok....
This is just saying that Love is not something this person really partakes in and might be afraid to, but the thought has occurred to them, and they just might have considered trying love out to see what it really has to offer.
Does that help any?
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:(...you just wont believe what happened. last night i was looking at a girl he has on his myspace in his top friends and i was reading her about me and it said taken..so i asked her oh wats your boyfriend name? and she said luis...so i was like humm.. is it the kid you have in your top for third and she told me yeaa!..am so dissapointed i thought he didnt had a girl friend but just found out he actually does...and its weird because she is only 16 and he is 20. and also he wanted to come see me but then he has a girl..which is all weird ....last night he texted me soo late he told me his phone was dead ..but then i read her status on myspace and it said "had a great day today" which i know they were together thats why he didnt texted me..but then then he told me oohh and i wanted to see if i could of had seen you today but i didnt know any numbers by heart..which makes me think he had his phone and it was dead..but then he could try and turn it on..and then wen he got home he texted me telling me the story but humm i thought his phone was dead...i dont know its just weird..am so dissapointed..i thought he was different..am sorry if this is too long i just need somebody to talk to :( (link)
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Sorry so long for the response, just a busy Christmas Shoppin day.
I'm really sorry to hear about this happening. I know that ugly feeling you can get in your stomache when something shady like this is happening. You want to do your best not to assume anything, but it's too hard when things just kind of run together and only make sense. You have to keep in mind that some men just look over the fact that they are testing someone's own common sense or their intelligence. When you put 2 and 2 together and it looks like it adds up to 3 or 5, you have to confront him and get the correct answer.
It's going to suck, I know, but the truth lets you have that will to move on and not worry about adding up any other unusual occurrances.
Just let him know that you confronted this girl and about the things that just dont add up to his story.
It's always best to catch these kinds of things and address them right away.
If you let it slide, it might just show him, Hey, she is slow, she didn't even realize I was lying....
I hope you know what I mean!
Keep me posted!!
Lots of luck!
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My first love was a twin and i fell hard for him. Jonathan ended up breaking my heart, and his twin brother Jacob helped me through it all. Now me and Jacob are the best of friends, but theres one problem i'm falling for him. I don't want to be known as the school whore or slut because I dated his twin brother, but I'm in love with him. I don't think I could get over him, he's helped me so much! What should I do? (link)
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Well, for sure it is Jonathan's loss that he broke your heart, and it will be hard for him to understand that you are taking a liking into his brother, because in a way, it still keeps you linked to him, u know? Causing some awkwardness and so forth.
One thing you have to ask is how Jacob feels about it too; if he can stand being a rival to his brother Jonathan, or if it's going to bother him. Jonathan just might have to suck it up if Jacob feels strongly about you.
Love is a hard thing to walk away from, even when you think about all the consequences. But girl, if it's real, then you two will both have to take a stand together. Jacob will have to reinforce positive comments about how he feels about you.
I also think that you have to make sure that Jacob is not 'just' a rebound guy. With the rebound, it's very very easy to take the goodness from him, that you need because of your break up and misinterpret it, u know what I mean.
Just be clear about it from all aspects, and if it's love, you are not going to care what other people are going to think about you, because they too will eventually see the good relationship you guys are making for yourselves.
Much luck to you!
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hey! what does partially taken means? (link)
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Well, depends on what it's being said about.
For instance, if a boy is only 'partially taken' by you, then he's only 'sort of' interested in you.
If it's about a 'thing', then partially taken would mean that only part of it has been taken...
Make sense or is more detail needed??
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thats true..now i liked this kid which is way better..he is really nice,goes to college..and works 2 jobs..and is 20 yrs old and has a jeep and a car..my ex is only 16 yrs old..is really obsessed with sex..before was working 1 job now is in 2..goes to school to play around and look for girls in lunches..and doesnt have a driver's license...the kid i like he is really cute and sweet and he invited me to go to the movies with him..what do you think?? (link)
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Go for it, for sure. It's always nice to see the potential in others and a drive to do things, u kno? Rather than waste time in figuring out what girl they can get with next, u know?
I hope this other guy really likes you.
Show him your interest and one thing to think about, is if you two hit it off, be considerate of all he does and be impressed for sure. Guys are big on keeping their egos up. And if you see him doing things for you, always be considerate and show appreciation. Lots of thank you's.
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i am a 16 year old female and I'm gay. It's a girl I like that i knew for a few years now. She's not gay though but she said she'll think about it for me. It's been a few weeks and I want to see where we stand now. i want to know if she wants to continue being friends or if she wants more from our relationship. How do i ask her this without me sounding so desperate and without making her feel forced into the situation? (link)
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Right off the bat, I think I would take into consideration that it's been a few weeks since you discussed your interest in her.
If someone knew what they wanted, it would not take them weeks to come back with an answer.
For the sake of you not being hurt, I would let it go, but act normal around her. Don't show her its affecting you so that she wont feel any pressure from you.
I think that she might come around on her own and possibly tell you her feelings about the whole idea, whether they be good or bad. No matter what, don't lose a friend. She can be a good one whether in a relationship or not.
Good Luck to you both...
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I'm so worried about my boyfriend.
I'm totally inlove with him and I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I'm so sure it's meant to be.
Not too long ago he stopped taking his anit-depressants and informed me that he doesn't feel he needs them now that he has me, and he does seem so much happier than he was before... but I'm worried about him, like... one shouldn't just STOP taking their meds without consulting a doctor first... right?
What should I do/say???
HELPPP!!!! (link)
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You're absolutely correct. As a Cymbalta taker, I know very well that I can not just stop taking them. It does have a negative affect on your nervous system...Like when I first started taking them, I was given a 30 mg bottle and 2 60mg bottles, and you are to ease your system onto them so they will work properly. Like a dumby, I took the 60mg on accident, first. I was sick for 5 days unable to eat anything.
Same thing when you get off them...you have to ease your system off, and see how your body reacts.
Its great that he feels he doesn't need them anymore for the reasons he says he does not. But I would just keep an eye on him and ask him how he feels from one day to the next.
Discuss with him that you are just wanting to keep a close eye on him to make sure he feels okay and not having any bad side effects.
Good Luck...
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Ok i now i usually give da advice, but when i give advice to myself bout guys i usually end up pickin the wrong thing but when i do it for other people i give da right advice and they dont have any regret it so please help.
Ive told my bf (19 year old) that i feel like he dont love me anymore because he never talks to me and when i email him he dont email me back he says he has a lot of emails like a 100 or some sh** and deletes all of dem and when we do talk much we have a short converstation unless i contiune it and it always takes him bout 2 mins to answer. He said hmm am i sure its him losing love and not me i wanted to slap him cause i love him so much and dont wont to lose him but on the other hand it doesnt seem like he loves me anymore. We've been dating for 5 months now. BTW im 14. Anyway i screamed at him tellin him why would he ask that stupid question and that i loved him dearly i told him he hated me and he said no he didnt but i feel he does so i ran off and he didnt come after me this happened yesterday so idk. I tried dumping him about 3 weeks ago and he made me feel guilty about it and its so easy to make me feel guilty about it cause i love him so much. Tell me what i should do!
Q1:Does he still love me? If so why is he acting like this?
Q2:What should i do?
Thank you :(
Jay (link)
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Well, there are a few things you should take into consideration...
You've only been dating 5 months, and I know love kicks in when you feel it, so i'm sure it's love, but if he starts to pull away, simply give him just a little space to see what might be going on. He might have a few issues he's trying to deal with. But don't let him feel like you are being distant; you have to let him know that you sense things are different and just reassure him that you are there if he needs someone to talk to. Never over-crowd a man, no matter how long you've been with him, they all do the same thing...they tend to go into this cave, u know? like in their own little world where they are brainstorming and sometimes they dont pay attention to who they are affecting.
The space wont hurt too much, just as long as he's not showing interest in another woman.
Then think back to when you dumped him, was he really bothered by it? If so, do you think he might be afraid you'll do it again. Perhaps he might feel things are unsteady....
Go with this for a while and see what comes from it.
Keep me posted!
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i want to loose weight (ahah typical)
i started a routine will this work to getting the slim figure i want?
-healthy cereal for breakfast
-small meal for lunch(ham sandwich)
-a fruit (apple)
-20-30 mins of excercising
-and a small dinner
not eating any junk food or chocolate or anything like that and only drinkin water? (link)
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It's a really great start and you're on the right track. I'm hindered by not being able to do much exercise, so I've learned that eating small meals throughout your day helps keep the metabolism going.
Cereal rocks, expecially multigrain with some kind of fruit and nuts. I tend to put my own raisins and some sliced almonds, just to make sure they are not sugar coated.
I have an orange or apple for mid morning snack, then a tuna wrap (with lettuce not a tortilla; cuts down on those unnessesary carbs) and an orange for lunch.
Then I have a yogurt with a few trisquits and some grapes for mid afternoon snack.
Finally the meal at night...chicken breast is a big hit, because you can grill it easily and throw it into a salad, or some whole grain pasta...
Cutting the junk out for as long as possible will help a great deal, but don't beat yourself up if you end up cheating...just know you'll do an extra 15 mins on your next work out! :-)
Working out is key, especially if you need to drop pounds quick, like me (I'm working my way to fitting into a nice wedding dress) so the cardio helps get those calories gone!
Keep thought, you can't lose weight if you eat more calories than you'll burn off.
Definitely keep the bottled water at hand...helps hold you over till your next meal, and not to mention, drinking cold water burns calories as it works to get to your body temperature...cool, huh??
Good Luck!
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15/f
*sigh* sorry if it's long, I'll try to make it brief.
Okay, so last summer the love of my life died. He was the best b/f ever and I knew I wanted to marry him and spend forever and more with him. The thought tragically ended when he was hit by a drunk driver--he didn't even make it too the hospital :'( . Ever since then, I have not been able to have feelings (like a crush) for any guy at my school. I know at least two guys that like me, and they are really great but my mind keeps picking at the things that annoy me about them and I just can't have feelings back.
Well, I haven't had any crush or any feeling at all since September--until now. I'm starting to like one of my guy friends and I think he kind of likes me. The problem is, whenever we get close or make physical contact I feel this terrible guilt. It's like a stabbing pain and I can't get past it. I want to be able to form a relationship but everytime I get close or even think about my friend I feel like I'm commiting murder or something. It's so bad it has come to the point where I burst out crying when he hugged me. I can't control it. I don't know what to do. Please help. (link)
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Time is surely playing a big role in how your emotions are taking to these new feelings for another person.
It has been a year, and for some that is plenty of time, but for others it might take alittle longer.
It might help alittle if you voice this to the person you are liking now and hopefully get some understanding and patience. Surely you wouldn't want to spend any more time with someone that can not understand what you are going through.
Being able to voice how you feel about him as well as your hurt and guilt that you are feeling for your lost love will prove beneficial for you and how you'll deal with future feelings of hurt or confusion.
Try talking to this new potential love and see how things go from there.
Best of luck. Don't lose hope!
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i just wished it was like that..but i havent found him yet..all of them always end up hurting me deep inside my heart :( (link)
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Loving and losing can be a big part of someone's life. I have loved and lost 3 times in my life and each time it was hard, but a lesson well learned.
Our desire to be loved and appreciated never really stops, so we move on and open up to a new love, more aware of what to look for in this new person.
Becoming great friends works really well before the sexual thing kicks in. With this, you can learn every aspect of this potential Mr. Right.
Keep your chin up...
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I slept with the guy a total of three times... two of the three times he couldn't stay hard enough to have sex. He wasn't on any medication and hadn't done drugs or booze. Is this something that ever gets better or should I drop homeboy for good? Should I address it with him? What causes this? He's only 27.
Thanks! (link)
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I know it's frustrating when a Man is not functioning well, but don't let it hinder your interest in him, especially if he's a real good guy.
Men are easily distracted, they can be hard one minute, then start to go limp for what appears to be no apparent reason.
Men have to have continual stimulation to have a successful erection/ejaculation.
Blood flow could be a factor as well, and there are devices to help with this.
If you're interested in him and like him for HIM and not his Penis, talk to him about it. Be subtle and ask if its you, or if he easily gets turned off, or if he's stressed with other things on his mind...and let him know it's ok, but you are just curious and you just want to see if you can help!
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I am 17/f and i have been dating my b/f for almost a year and well i am still in school and he has already graduated. It is really hard for us to see each other bc of his working and me having school, anyways these couple of weeks it has seemed when i text him that he is distant and we have such a hard time trying to figure out what to talk about. Any suggestions? I want the distance to go away. like yesturday he told me he had to get off the phone and i asked him why and he said it doesn't matter and i told him that wasn't right why won't he tell me and he said never mind about it. Then he texted me a sarcastic remark and said shouldn't i be doing school work, what is that all about? We were completely fine talking about nothing and everything before he had to leave, what was his deal? (link)
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Have totally been there!! I can see you are already going to be the one trying to talk to him more than he probably wants to...
He has adjusted to this new distance rather well apparently. It could be bugging him at the same time as well, but it will do you a whole lot of good to give him this space, merely to find out what's to come from it.
Say for instance, you give him a week, (I know it sounds long) of no contact, and see if he calls. Perhaps he will call and say, hey, what's the deal? You will have a justifiable answer by saying he had been acting different and it made you very sad, so you decided to give him some space to grasp what's really happening with himself.
I know this is probably not what you wanted to hear, because it is the hardest thing to let go of something you want so bad, but if it happens like it did for me, my man came back to his senses and vented his feelings.
Guess the saying, if you love something enough you have to let it go. If it comes back then it was meant to be....as well as if he does not come back, there is something else waiting for you for the better.
Patience is key.
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Hi,
i met this guy on facebook,i'm 39 hes 37, we chatted on line for a couple of weeks and he was txting me everyday, then we arranged to meet up(hes a photographer so offered to take my pics)he was charming and i got the impresion he really liked me. the next day he text me. in the evening my husband came home we wernt getting on to well he was shouting at me so i text this guy and arranged to go over there that night, we jumped straight in to bed but did'nt go all the way, he was texting me all the following week and we arranged to meet up again, the next time we met up we jumped straight in to bed with each other, he asked me if i was still sleeping with my husband and i said yes, after i felt he went cold on me making out he was on the phone to one of his friends and that they were coming round shortly so i said do you want me to leave he said no but he still seamed a little distant so i left, i messaged him on fb asking to meet up again and he said he was busy all week,i said is it because im still with my husband and he said no. i text him during the week asking him how he was and had no answer, so i text him are you not talking to me? he said he was just busy! well we arranged to meet up the following week(i was only going to get my photos but we ended up in bed again) then the same thing happened he did'nt text so i text him only to get i'm busy back so i deleted him from my facebook, but i couldent help liking him so i added him again, we arranged to meet up again, the night before we were surpose to meet he text me saying he couldent make it and could we meet the following day but i said no i was busy, then he kinda got funny so i deleted him again, but i still liked him so added him again. we finally aranged to meet up about 6 weeks later, i text him the day we were surpose to meet up and he said he had forgoten all about it and said he was ill and had been ill all week so i said i think your not that interested he said he did'nt say that and things would be different i wasent with my husband, so i got mad and deleted him again, i did'nt contact him for 3 weeks but couldent help to way i felt about him so i made contact with him again, i told him my husband and i had split, he messaged me about a week later some random txt saying hay its snowing and we kinda got txting again but only every few days, this went on for about 8 weeks then i sent him a friend request on fb and he excepted it, it was only a couple of days after that when he asked me to go over to his so i did (he said he didnt have long) we ended up in bed, after he asked me to stay but i said i couldent, then the same thing happened he didnt text but when i text him he replied, then after about a week i was getting that cold feeling again so i deleted him again,then afther a couple of hours i thought i like him so sent him a friend request with a message asking him to meet up again, he didn't reply, so my friend phoned him and he said i had to many male friends, then i went on fb to find he had sent me a message saying he just wanted to be friends i was deverstated and told him i was still with my husband,
i left it for a month and then messaged him again asking how he was, he replied, i keeped messaging him every few days and he replied this went on for a few weeks he never messaged me though, after a while i stoped messaging him,he never bothered to message me, then after about 8 weeks i bumped in to him in the swimming pool he said hello i ignored him and he said hello again so replied hello, i was with my husband and kids at the time, i left it for about 4 days then i told my husband i had slept with him. my husband messaged him and said he new what had been going on, the guy replied that he had been seeing me and that he had stopped talking to me because he suspected i was still with my husband but this guy new i was still with my husband i the beginig so i sent him a message telling him that he knew i was still with my husband and he just blocked me. so i sent him a txt calling him a lier and a user, and he said i'm the lier and cheater you rekon you cheated on your husband and to stop contacting him, i said you new i was with my husband in the begining and if that was a problem then you should have said you used me and good luck for the future, after a few weeks i went to buy a new car in the garage that he worked i ignored him and was flirting with another sales man, after a while he came over i didnt realize he was the manager he said to the salesman that he knew me for facebook and he sat down and made me fill out the form for the car, then he said that he didnt think my husband would want to deal with him so put us on to someone else, when i went in there again on my own he came over to me and told me he had cot the finance and that he had worked hard to get it for him, this wasent true! i dont undrestand why he bothered even coming over he didnt have to then every time i went in the garage he was watching me, now i'm really confused he hasent made any contact neither have i but i still like this guy what can i do? (link)
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Unfortunately, this is the kind of drama that so many people should want to avoid, especially if they are married.
One, the guy lost interest when you told him you still slept with your husband. Surely he felt that he should have known better to get too involved with a married woman, so he could have avoided that pain. Men tend to be insecure, and when they take the time to be interested in a woman, they want to know what's to come of that relationship, OR, they are just looking for some action. I can't say that about this guy because he actually distanced himself from you when he knew you were still sleeping with your husband.
The age factor plays a small factor in this as well. A woman at your age would surely be able to read the subtle signs of a man pushing away.
He is showing a desire to just move on and not deal with the back and forth thing with you.
And Lastly, the stress of cheating on your husband will eventually get to you, and imagine how your husband will feel now, knowing that you have cheated on him.
I hope you get on track with this and you don't let it bring you down. We all make mistakes and moving forward with another venue,other than who you meet on FB, will prove to be beneficial to you as well as your husband.
Good Luck to you!!
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