:(...you just wont believe what happened. last night i was looking at a girl he has on his myspace in his top friends and i was reading her about me and it said taken..so i asked her oh wats your boyfriend name? and she said luis...so i was like humm.. is it the kid you have in your top for third and she told me yeaa!..am so dissapointed i thought he didnt had a girl friend but just found out he actually does...and its weird because she is only 16 and he is 20. and also he wanted to come see me but then he has a girl..which is all weird ....last night he texted me soo late he told me his phone was dead ..but then i read her status on myspace and it said "had a great day today" which i know they were together thats why he didnt texted me..but then then he told me oohh and i wanted to see if i could of had seen you today but i didnt know any numbers by heart..which makes me think he had his phone and it was dead..but then he could try and turn it on..and then wen he got home he texted me telling me the story but humm i thought his phone was dead...i dont know its just weird..am so dissapointed..i thought he was different..am sorry if this is too long i just need somebody to talk to :(
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? WyzeLizzy answered Tuesday December 22 2009, 5:44 pm: Sorry so long for the response, just a busy Christmas Shoppin day.
I'm really sorry to hear about this happening. I know that ugly feeling you can get in your stomache when something shady like this is happening. You want to do your best not to assume anything, but it's too hard when things just kind of run together and only make sense. You have to keep in mind that some men just look over the fact that they are testing someone's own common sense or their intelligence. When you put 2 and 2 together and it looks like it adds up to 3 or 5, you have to confront him and get the correct answer.
It's going to suck, I know, but the truth lets you have that will to move on and not worry about adding up any other unusual occurrances.
Just let him know that you confronted this girl and about the things that just dont add up to his story.
It's always best to catch these kinds of things and address them right away.
If you let it slide, it might just show him, Hey, she is slow, she didn't even realize I was lying....
I hope you know what I mean!
Keep me posted!!
Lots of luck! [ WyzeLizzy's advice column | Ask WyzeLizzy A Question ]
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