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Erectile Dysfunction?
I slept with the guy a total of three times... two of the three times he couldn't stay hard enough to have sex. He wasn't on any medication and hadn't done drugs or booze. Is this something that ever gets better or should I drop homeboy for good? Should I address it with him? What causes this? He's only 27.
Thanks!
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I know it's frustrating when a Man is not functioning well, but don't let it hinder your interest in him, especially if he's a real good guy.
Men are easily distracted, they can be hard one minute, then start to go limp for what appears to be no apparent reason.
Men have to have continual stimulation to have a successful erection/ejaculation.
Blood flow could be a factor as well, and there are devices to help with this.
If you're interested in him and like him for HIM and not his Penis, talk to him about it. Be subtle and ask if its you, or if he easily gets turned off, or if he's stressed with other things on his mind...and let him know it's ok, but you are just curious and you just want to see if you can help!
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It's incredibly shallow for anyone to "drop" anyone else for sexual problems that can be fixed. It says more about you, your character or lack thereof then of him.
That's being blunt. You come off badly here. Maybe he's better off without you... Then again maybe it's your frustration...
For some reason blood just isn't getting trapped in his penis like it should for an erection because the valve that prevents it from flowing back down isn't functioning
He needs to see a urologist to have it checked out. In the meantime try an adult novelty store or condom speciality shop and ask for a penis ring (use the C-word as that's what their terminology) that slips over it and traps blood. That may be a temporary solution.
It also could be fear or psychological but I doubt it. For some reason the blood doesn't get trapped in his penis long enough. The valve isn't shutting it off. A urologist can figure out why this happens and suggest how to fix it invasively and much beyond a novelty penis ring.
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