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so for the past few days my vagina/discharge has been smelling horrible. i mean, even when i wear clothes you can still smell it. its horrible. what does this mean? (link)
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BOTH postings of advice are correct in the area of GO TO SEE A DOCTOR!
NEVER ever take chances playing games with your health. If this was a natural phenomenon, then you would already know this is a normal part of your health. But it is not.
Only a doctor can assess your current condition with an examination. That is the FIRST course you should always take... immediately whenever there is a medical question, GO TO A DOCTOR !!!!! Even at least call for advice, but undoubtedly you will be asked to come in so the TRUE nature of your condition can be known. Sometimes, one symptom may actually be the result of another problem!!!! Best to check it out at your Docotr's office!
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if someone asks you to tell them about yourself, how do you go about doing that, because i'm terrible at having conversations
i dont have many hobbies so what would i talk about other than things like how many siblings i have..
thanks so much for any advice (link)
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Well, first of all, you do NOT want to answer any information about yourself that is personal and identifies who you are! In our AOHell chatroom Breakfast Club 2, we had a stalker from Pennsylvania who drove all the way up to Ohio and was arrested peering in the window of our female chatroom member who had realized he might be stalking her! AOHell, to its credit, cooperated with the police, sheriff, and FBI and they CAUGHT him stalking her!
When you talk about yourself, it is okay to say what you like doing. Growing flowers and using agricultural techniques is NOT going to tell anyone who you are and where you live! Of course, it depends on the relationship you develop with your friends, too, but you still have to be careful.
Realize that almost all relationships online are artificial relationships! YES... I have actually had one girlfriend and one female friend develop online, most of them though are fantasy relationships that do not ever go anywhere. Therefore, it is NOT necessary to give your location, zip code, telephone area code, or any other personal information about yourself.
When you start talking about your family, that too can give your information to someone that they can use for illegitimate purposes. When you simply talk about your children, without giving names, just be general.
Most conversations are just about experiences anyway. So you went to the beach? Even if you say you went to Myrtle Beach, unless you live close by you do not give anything away because you do not live there. As a male I might give that information away, but you should not.
Things to talk about? Things that interest YOU. Things that interest your friend! And there are a million things you can talk about without identifying who you are!
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i had sex with my boyfriend yesterday and then a little bit after he put it in my unprotected was inn for like about 5 seconds and i told him whattt are we doing take it out!! so i was so nervous he did not cum i dont even think he was hard but anyway i took the morning after pill(plan b) today what are the chances of prenancy?? (link)
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Oh brother, and you are having sex without knowing anything about sex!!!!! Good grief!!!!!
This reminds me of the hijacker who was arrested because he wanted the flight school to teach him how to fly a jet plane, but he did not have to be taught how to land it!
ONCE he has ejaculated, there will ALWAYS be a little bit of semen in his duct !!!!! I presume he used a condom the first time, then took it off and put himself back in you a little bit, because his penis will have been retracted and small immediately right after his orgasm. What a stupid guy!
As with any pill or physical birth control device, even with the pill THERE IS ALWAYS A PER-CENTAGE OF WOMEN WHO WILL GET PREGNANT! Even men who have tubal ligation will sometimes get a woman pregnant! The "Morning After Pill" PROBABLY will work, but do you understand your ovulation cycles? Right after your period ends, you have about ten days when you will not ovulate so you cannot get pregnant! After that you have maybe four more days when you PROBABLY will not get pregnant UNLESS you unexpectedly ovulate because you get excited or something to stimulate your ovaries to release two more eggs. Then sometime after ten to fourteen days (approximately) you go into your period and start all over again. So, what is the length of time between your boyfriend's stupidity and your last period? And that will NOT prevent your coming down with sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) !!!!
If you are going to have sex, you had better wise up and get an education on sex, or you are going to get pregnant AND / OR come down with a sexual disease! I hope HE realizes that too !!!!!
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Hey,I'm a 16 year-old female I have recently broke up with my boyfriend. We still liked each other then my best friend started liking him. He told me he would never like her and that he liked me but the next day my friend and him were going out. She knew I still had strong feelings for him. What should I do to try to get him back? Is making him jealous the right answer? If so what should I do to make him jealous (link)
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Well, first of all, you are talking about TWO friends here! That is, if they REALLY are your friends and are not just merely acquaintances!
You say that YOU broke up with your boyfriend? WHY? In other words, HE did not break up with you? Then your friend has every right to pursue HIM ! ! ! ! ! It does not matter what she knows about how you like him, YOU broke up with HIM ???? And now you are asking if YOU should make HIM feel jealous????
Well, the only thing you can do is to tell him you made a stupid teenage mistake and you miss him and you want him back... BUT... what about your friend now? Could it be possible that HE is making YOU jealous by HIS going with your friend? You better think about THAT!
Well, I don't know. I do not know you or your boyfriend or your friend. Do not do TWO stupid things! Be adult about it even though you are inexperienced with romance and have probably made a mess of things! You need to talk to him, and if he wants you back, be prepared for your having hurt your friend and making her mad at you for spoiling HER relationship with your boyfriend. So do NOT play games here, you have TWO friends to account for and to try to repair your relationships with! And next time you break up with somebody, make damn good and sure you really mean to not be involved with him!
As Stanley said to Laurel in the Laurel and Hardy movies, "This is a fine kettle of fish you got us into this time!"
Good luck!
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I want to do something called oil pulling, which apparently is common in India. It is suppose to help pull toxins out of the body and tends to improve tooth/gum health.
Anyway, I know that you're suppose to use either sunflower or sesame oil only for this, but I have encountered a small problem in finding one of these oils.
My question is:
Do I use cooking oil (like sunflower cooking oil or sesame cooking oil) for this or is there a specific "grade" of sesame or sunflower oil that I am suppose to be looking for?
Thank you! (link)
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This is like "non-surgical surgery" in the Philippines !!!! It is a superstitious hoax.
If there are ANY toxins in your body, it will only come out of you through your bloodstream due to normal metabolism !!!!! Your cells will automatically try to expel anything that is not good for you, so the KEY to this is to NOT eat or drink things that are bad for you, not to breathe things that are bad for you, and not to put anything on you such as cosmetics that are bad for you!
What you are trying to find out is as bad as the myth that ground deer horn will improve the sexual capability of a male!!! How stupid! Get toxins out of you? Then eat proper foods, and exclude SALT and SUGAR and high FAT from your diet! Do not take herbal "remedies" because for the most part, the people who promote those myths as genuine "holistic medicine" do not know what they are talking about!
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iv been cutting for like a year and my dad knows he took me to "get help" but i didnt want then and now its getting worse and i now i want help i asked my dad if he would get me help lke 4 months ago and he still hasnt done anything about it. he told me he doesnt think i need it but he doesnt know im still cutting cuz i do it on the top of my arms where he cant see the cuts soo wht should i do? just not say anyhting?
thanx (link)
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DAMN !!! You need to stop cutting yourself!
You have to face up to the fact that you have a mental fascination with entering your body's skin with sharp objects and then seeing the results! That is not just abnormal, it is harmful! You need to realize that beyond just rationalizing it!
I do not know why your father did not ASK more about your problem! I think your obsession MAY be psychologically related to his indifference and inconsideration, but I do not know that.
I cannot advise you without knowing how mature your own father is about things. What would happen if you just showed him that you are still cutting yourself and told him the problem is not stopping? Would he get irrationally angry and do something rash like locking you in your bedroom? Would he simply get angry and in frustration show his disgust with you? Would he indeed take you for medical (not psychological) evaluation and then decide from that if you need psychological help?
As well, can you answer me this? ARE YOU CAPABLE OF ENDING THIS HARMFUL OBSESSION ON YOUR OWN WITHOUT TELLING YOUR FATHER OR ANYONE ELSE ABOUT IT? To me, this is the best course!
You do not say what you use and how available it is for you to cut yourself. Do you keep Xacto knives around, pocket knives, anything you really do not need to have? That is not the actual solution, because the actual solution is NOT to MISUSE anything to do HARM to yourself even if those implements are around!
You NEED to stop being so introverted!!!!!! I think that is one aspect of your problem. If you have outside interests that are socially fun with other people, doing things, you probably are not going to want to harm yourself, or, if you do still feel inclinations, you need to analyze those inclinations to cut yourself as being harmful and undesireable and to be something in your mind that you do not want to ever bother you again! And pushing those harmful thoughts out of your mind is the key to your improvement.
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I'm working my local fair this week, and my boyfriend's mom was there too. She said that I had lice and needed to leave, of course, I did. The thing is that I've had more than four people check my head, I've never noticed anything and neither has anyone else (I've been around A LOT of people). Turns out, I don't have it.
I thought she just made a mistake, but then I found out that she's done this once before to one of her son's girlfriends. And she did it just to get rid of her. Not to mention, I heard that my boyfriend took off and rode rides with his buddy and did all kinds of stuff, knowing that I was very upset. I even chopped my hair cause I was so upset, yet that shows that he didn't care very much.
Should I give his mom the benefit of the doubt? Should I stay with my boyfriend, or is he even worth my time? Is any of this worth my time? (link)
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Well, I think the FIRST thing you have to address is the REASON for why your boyfriend's mother does not like you!!!! LICE !!!!
WHAT on EARTH gave her the idea you have lice? From what you say, this is not a physical problem, but rather, an emotional problem of your boyfriend's mother against you!
I would say from what you are saying that she does not like you as a person, as well as she did not like the other girl your boyfriend was with. Your best bet is to talk to your boyfriend and ask him what his mother has said about you, and, what he thinks this is all about. Then you need to ask HIM what HE thinks about YOU !!!!
I don't know. MAYBE his mother is being overprotective? MAYBE his mother is not totally sane? I don't know. I do not know your personality or your boyfriend's personality or his mother's personality. To stretch it a LONG way out of reality, MAYBE your boyfriend and his mother are having an incest relationship? Mmmmmmmphphmmmmph....phhh..... I did not say that!!!!
Whatever, you and your boyfriend are going to have to have a heart-to-heart talk about this, or maybe you should just be casual friends and leave out the romance. But I just do not know. This is like a doctor trying to diagnose an illness over the telephone without seeing his or her patient in person!
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my name is Rachel and i am 19 years old and i moved in with my cousin last week becouse iam not getting along with my mom right now and i get a social security check becouse i was in special ed when i was in highschool so my cousin wanted me to help pay the bills so she was going to charge me only $300.00 rent and that's for food and utilities and everything so when i told my mom i needed to get $300.00 out of my check i have to go to my mom to get my money becouse she's my payee over my check i have to have a payee becouse iam not could at managing money and i would blow it on stupid stuff if i didn't have somebody maninging it for me becouse that's part of my disability anyways back to the problem when i asked for my money to pay rent she blew up on me and didn't want to give me the money and i got really upset and i started crying and shaking so my cousin said i could stay there and didn't have to pay rent but then when i told my mom my cousin was going to let me stay at her house without paying rent if i helped out around the house and helped out with her 17 year old autistic son but i feel bad for living in her house with out paying rent to help with the bills becouse i feel like iam usin her and i think my mom only wants to have anything to do with me becouse i have a social security check and she wants my money and it makes me feel really bad what should i do?
Thanks in advance for any advice (link)
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Whoa... your run-on sentences are going sixty-seven miles per hour here! You're spinning my eyeballs!
Okay, when I was 18 I left home because my mother was not relating with me, and I got sick of it. So I understand your situation. Also, I am a guy.
I do not understand how you qualified for a social security cheque and that you have to go through your mother to get your $300, but anyway, that is one fact to consider. I am now wondering why you have to pay $300 rent ??????
Do you have your own room that this payment of $300 is for? Food should not cost over maybe $160 per month, I mean, do you eat out a lot or something? I can easily see how you could spend $45 a day if you eat every meal at McDonalds! That's bad for your health anyway. I often eat lunches at a church and bring home seconds in plastic food containers for my dinner, which I put in the refrigerator and microwave later.
I do not know what your disability is. Maybe it is your inability to manage your life that causes your discord with your mother? You almost say as much.
Hey, your cousin said you did not have to pay rent if you would help with her autistic child, that can be a huge relief on her if you can do a good job of it! I feel that your cousin's generosity in letting you stay at her home is a sufficient criteria for your agreement to keep the house clean and taking care of her son! Smile and be grateful when you offer to wash the dinner dishes! Then try to get SOME amount from your mother to help with expenses!
I do not know your true relationship with your mother, I am only reading what you say here, and there are always two or even three versions to every "story".
I think you and your mother need a break JUST SO you can discuss this with her from your new vantage point by your staying at your cousin's home. You sound like you need to mature a lot, even though I am not blaming you for anything. Your mother may even feel hurt that you left home, but if you keep in civil and polite contact with your mother for sharing viewpoints and feelings, maybe you can work something out for a better relationship.
You are 19 now. You can get a job and try to make your way in the adult world. How is your education? I hope you have at LEAST a high school diploma !!!!!
You are going to have to figure out a NEW adult life style so that you do not burden your cousin and do not alienate or hurt your mother. You have a lot to work on in improving your life! You are going to need to form a new relationship with your mother, you are no longer her little child, you are an adult, but there are many things you can learn from your mother about being an adult.
At the same time, it is time that you learn how to become independent, or you are never going to have a satisfactory relationship with anybody, let alone with yourself.
Just take it easy, think things through, and try to find a new way of life that can improve your existing relationships. I do not know what else to say!
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Okay to make a long story short...
I am on Lithium and Depekote (Anti Depressants) I have not taken my medication in about a month. I recently got a back injury at work and went to the doctor and he put me on some medication one being a anxiety pill. Okay, Well I took my medication (Lithium and Depekote) along with the Anxiety pill...About an hour later I ended up having a seizure. I don't remember much of what happened, However my blood pressure was 90 over 99 and I remember my entire body feeling weak and my pupils were dialated and I could hardly stand up. I was just wondering if anyone knew how close to death I possibly was? and how dangrous exactly is a blood pressure that is 90 over 99?
Thanks so much
BahaiMa22 (link)
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WHOA Bahai ! ! ! ! ! This is a MEDICAL question and medical questions cannot be answered online, only a physician giving you a personal exam can determine this!
First of all, different things can occur with blood pressure and other things related to your body's function when you take medicines!
Second of all, you do not state who attended to you with your seizure! Does your DOCTOR know you had a seizure? That is important information in his or her analysis of your treatment!
You say that your "...blood pressure was 90 over 99 and I remember my entire body feeling weak and my pupils were dialated and I could hardly stand up." Was that the official medical attendant's diagnosis? Who diagnosed your blood pressure? Paramedics? Who?
You need to go to your doctor with this information and ask him or her what the deal is with this. Do not play games with your health, you need professional advice from a qualified physician! And you should ALWAYS seek the qualified advice of a professional physician on anything relating to your health!
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whats the code for hiding the interest headings Completely? similar to this one
http://www.createblog.com/scripts/script.php?id=530
BUT WITHOUT THE BLUE [ON THE LEFT SIDE] LEFT!
i need this please. =/ (link)
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I hate MySpace and Facebook !!!!!
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I just wanted to know if it was weird to constantly be changing my mind on crushes. I mean, I believe I've liked 6 different guys in the past month! =\
I guess maybe I'm just a flighty person, but it just seems weird to me. I used to have really obsessive crushes that would last ages but now there are specific reasons for each new guy I like. It's almost like each of them has qualities that I lack and wish I had in myself.I don't know if this makes any sense, but does anyone know what I can do to fix this problem? Thank you! (link)
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Well, first of all, a "crush" is NOT a romance, so you need to understand that.
As a guy, I must say that I personally think that your "lik" six different guys in one month is just a female fantasy infatuation! You need to stop, sit down at a cafe booth table with a soda or ice tea, and think about this for a few moments!
What is it that attracts you to these guys? You seem like you are saying you see a dozen different pieces of candy and you cannot stop from gobbling them all up at the same time! Yes, that IS TOO "weird", as you admit !!!!!
You do not say how old you are. You do not say how old these guys are. Often females go for older guys because they are more "experienced" and confident in "romantic" situations -- they are also more risky! It is hard for me to give you a constructive suggestion without my knowing more about you, which you should not divulge to me if it is personal anyway! But knowing your age would help.
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Hi, it's the summer time and two years ago I wrote a guy a letter telling him how I feel and he responded three months later over that very summer. We talked it seemed because his friend suggested it, and his friend said he was interested, he may have been lying. We talked for a week and maybe two days. Afterwards, never again. I got back to school and I couldn't even look him in the eye. He and I both would avoid eye contact and never spoke over 10 words to one another. Now he has a girlfriend. I want him to be happy. I spent most of my summer not thinking of him, but afraid when the time came for me to return to school that the feelings would return. I saw him 4 days ago and I felt a jolt when our eyes met for a heartbeat. I'm afraid and I feel pathetic, which I am kind of. I don't want to like him. I want to be over him. But how do I handle these residual feelings that keep returning? (link)
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Wow.
You know, our parents do not really raise us to know how to become adults. This sounds like the "Comedy of Errors".
If he has a girlfriend, then obviously he must feel more comfortable with her. But, as a guy myself, I must say that there is something in his reaction that tells me that he is running away from his own feelings about you in an averse way.
If he has a girlfriend but he cannot speak to you about this, then I think there is a permanent block you cannot overcome, because he feels you and he are uncompatible.
Do you understand what "co-dependency" is????? You do not want to fall into that trap! When you "need" somebody but you just cannot escape from the fact that the other person is no good for you and you are drawn to that other person, that is co-dependency!
I do not know how old you are, but you sound like you do not have sufficient interpersonal experiences in opposite-sex relationships. Just realize that you have a lot more to learn in that case, and keep an open mind and as they say, "move on" to the next relationship that you can indeed enjoy being in.
As a guy, that is my advice to you!
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Not the book.
But ladies, when you wear thongs..what do you wear with them? I mean like...I know they make special pads shaped for thongs.
But do they make liners, too? Because I just got my first thong. Havent worn it yet, though.
But what do you about the, you know..discharge?
Ew sorry. Its just I dont want it on my undies, you know? Gross!! (link)
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Well, I'm a guy, so maybe you will accept my viewpoint?
A thong is a deliberately sexy garment to be worn to really excite a male partner sexually. There is no other reason to wear a thong (thongs are not the same as a swimmer's speedo !!!!) SO WHERE ARE YOU INTENDING TO WEAR THIS THONG ??????
IN GENERAL PUBLIC it is mandatory to wear a pad and even something to reduce the effect of your nipple and genital features! But then, why wear a thong if you are in public? That is much more different wearing a thong in public than if you were appearing nude in a nudist colony, where it is secluded just for a select group of similarly-minded people! You do not specify anything.
Now, what do you MEAN by DISCHARGE???????
I can think of several things that would be a female discharge! If you are in your period, then you definitely should NOT be wearing a thong! Again, you do not say WHERE you are going to be wearing the thong! If you have sex, the discharge of semen????? What is more gross, wearing the WRONG garment in the wrong situation or displaying yourself with your discharge? So what is it that you are REALLY asking???????
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Ashton and I used to be good friends. I actually liked him more than a friend honestly. He found out and didn't like the idea of me liking him. We slowly started to drift away from our friendship and he began to ignore me. I told him countless times that I do not like him at all anymore (its been over a couple of months now,and i honestly dont like him anymore) But he doesn't believe me.
Me and my friends were planning to go to the mall Saturday. I invited one of his friends, Dan (which is my friend also). And Dan wanted to know if he could bring Ashton. So I called Ashton and asked if he wanted to come, and he immediately hung up.
How do I get him to know I DONT LIKE HIM AT ALL! and i just want to be friends with him now.
please dont say 'move on,hes not worth it' because i miss our friendship and i want him to come saturday like the good old times. (link)
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Me cave man. Me go to mall! And you started out with proper grammar!
Well, to me as a guy, I think that Ashton likes you as an acquaintance or maybe even as a friend, but he does not want anything serious to develop between you. However, now, I think he is saying not to be involved with him in ANY way!!!!! I do not think this is a minor issue.
You do not say how old you two are, so it is hard to judge an answer for you. The best thing is to just give him "the cold shoulder" without turning it into a vendetta. HE hung up on you without being considerate enough to discuss his issues, therefore, Ashton is the one who needs to be avoided. This is worse than just being uncivil, this possibly points to a mental problem that could turn into a real problem later on.
I recommend that you really do cut off the relationship because it already seems to be a co-dependency problem, and you do not sound like you have enough experience in relationships to understand what is going on right now. But then, you did not state your age!
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okay it has been about a week and it has felt like i have been thought my period and when i go to the bathroom there is only a little drop of white stuff do you know what it is??? (link)
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Well, I do not agree with Cux.
Your BEST course of action is to see a doctor and possibly, I do not know where this little drop of white stuff is coming from or if you see it in the toilet water, if you can get a sample in a clean capsule or vial, then do so and bring it to the doctor's office for analysis.
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I work for a man and I also help his mother out with caregiving duties. I went in to ask him 2 quick questions about his mother. I also handed him the bill for my services. I told him that I knew he was busy and would keep it short. After handing him the statment and another paper he had requested he just got up and walked out and left me standing there. I needed to ask one more question but when I approached him again when he came back, he veered off and avoided me. I told him I would come back later and when I did before leaving for the night. He wouldn't even look at me or talk to me, just waved me off with this look of pure anger on his face. I was hurt and angery myself but didn't say one word, just left.
Later I told him on a voice message, please just leave my check on the desk and that I would pick it up and he wouldn't have to talk to me even and that I wouldn't other him for the rest of the week. So now what? He has not said one word and I haven't seen him in a week as I have been out of the office with other things. This is not the first time he has been rude, but this is the worst.
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Boy. This guy sounds like a real flake.
But, FIRST of all, you do not give any important information. What do you mean you "work for a man" ??????? Are you employed through a care-giver agency or are you doing this on your own?????
You do not tell us how your working relationship is... did this MAN hire you or did his MOTHER hire you? Who is supposed to pay you? I do not even know how old you or he are!
SECONDLY, you did not mention what those two quick questions about his mother were. I mean, how personal or impersonal were your questions about his mother? We cannot tell if you offended him or not!
THIRDLY, you handed him your bill, and I hope you were polite and casual about it! I do not know what you mean by you knew that he was busy and that you would keep it short, I hope it was a polite and friendly statement! I'm not jumping to conclusions against you, I just do not know by what you say what has happened!
FOURTHLY... if "... he just got up and walked out and left me standing there..." then returned and avoided you, either you offended him or he did not want to pay you for some reason or BOTH!!!!! But we cannot tell from what you say what this is all about! Good grief!
IF you can get your pay, I would suggest you never go back to his office again! Or wherever this is happening, just stay away!
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im 15 and i really need to make some money..i can't babysit because no one around here has kids..but ne other suggestions are very much appreciated=] (link)
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Wel-l-l-l-l-l.... there is one thing I did that earned me "a lot of money" for that age... I actually started when I was 10 years old:
I borrowed an unpowered lawn mower and mowed lawns for $5 until I could buy my own lawnmower! By summer's end I had a quite sizeable savings for a person my age at the time.
If you know anything about gardening, you could also ask people if you can do gardening for someone lazy who does not keep up their gardens, and you can usually tell in front what it looks like in back. Of course, maybe they do not keep up their yard because they do not want to spend EITHER their time OR their money on caring for their property?
A wildshot would be the elderly, you could run errands such as helping to clean up their house, their yard, buying groceries and the like for a fee. You are going to have to be dependable and stipulate that you do not move any heavy furniture or dispose of anything that cannot go into the trash.
If you are into business and have some money, you could go around to garage sales in the neighborhood and purchase good things cheap that you know are underpriced, and when you get enough, hold a garage sale of your own at double the price for each item you paid for! Better check with your parents however, because city permits may be required and also sales taxes in some cases! It's a good way to learn business and the value of things... some nice things do not sell well and some pathetic things actually do sell -- for instance, when I sold things at a swap meet, one man decided to go home and he had this pathetic looking wooden bed frame head and foot board that had glued paper simulated wooden patterns on it under the varnish. It looked really cheap and a little beaten up. He asked me if I wanted it for free! I said I'd give it a try. Not twenty minutes later, some guy (over the objections of his wife) bought it from me for $5 and I had gotten it for free! You can NEVER tell! Check out the swap meets first and see what people are BUYING (not necessarily selling!) and then keep that in mind when you go around town to garage sales to buy your merchandise!
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Well see, I've been smoking since grade 6..
and I've just recently quit and I used to be such a good athlete but that's now faded from smoking..
I was wondering if anyone here can tell me how I can gain more health in my body because I'd like to bring my dream and be more athletic..
I'm going into grade 9 and I didnt smoke that much until grade 8 and I would really like some help.
Thanx. (link)
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Wow! I'm sure glad you quit!!!
Smoking permanently destroys the tiny cillia that bring impurities out of the lungs. It also can scar the air-sacks that bring oxygen into the blood! I hope you have not yet developed cancer!!!
Well, you took the first right step by stopping smoking! I understand that after a couple years you will be able to recover, so how long have you stopped smoking? Use of ANY tobacco product is bad for anyone's health!
See a doctor and see a sports trainer! The doctor can advise you on your health and the sports trainer can advise you on recovery with your doctor's recommendation.
And good luck! And stay away from tobacco and non-medicinal drugs !!!!!
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okay so normally i dont really care about these things.
But its happened so often i think its time i do something about this.
Beofore i even get to explaining it i want you to know that breaking up is NOT an option for me.
Whenever im on the phone with my boyfriend and he has his friend or cousins over.
He NEVER talks to me, he just talks to the people hes in the rooom with, and leaves me holding the phone to my ear and looksing stupid.
yesterday, i hung up because it was getting really annoying, and it took him ten minutes to realize i hung up, and only THEN did he call me backk.
Then he just does the same thing over again.
Every now and then he would say
"sorry"
or
"uhh ... hang in a second" and then goof around or talk to the other people in the room for like twenty minutes!
While I, again, am STILL on the line.
Or whenever i would try and get him talking, he would be like "......sorry what?" over and over again.
If your going to call me, TALK TO ME.
I dont know any way else to put it.
It really makes me mad, i think hes trying to impress me with the face that he has an awesome life of laughter and friends.
And i really think thats good, but when my boyfriend calls me, i want to talk to him.
He can goof around later.
Now, i love him very much and hes really sensitive to what i say ...
but this has just got to stop.
He also is different in front of his friends in front of me.
He'll goof around with them, and call me when i even HEAR hes having a good time:
then later on he'll be like
"Ugh (so and so) is so annoying i hate him, i only hang out with his cuz i feel bad"
or something like that
Please give me any solutions? (link)
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As a guy myself, this REALLY sounds like a STRANGE relationship to me!
You say you're 15. How old is he? Okay, I'm an old man, but I'll offer my cent-and-a-half to this.
You know, we guys really do some stupid immature things about our girlfriends when we are young! I never realized how much I loved my childhood sweetheart until a few decades AFTER we broke up, and then I could not get her off of my mind and I still cannot get her off of my mind. Well, she has a family now, so it's too late!
As for your boyfriend, I do not know what his story is, but you definitely need to have a sit-down intimate talk with your boyfriend. He has to know beforehand when you sit down with him that this is a serious discussion because you care as much for him as you do. But then you're 15, and you have not matured enough to recognize a serious relationship yet, which does not mean that I am saying your relationship is NOT mature and possibly long-term or even permanent.
You see, mothers do not raise their boys, do not teach them about female relationships so the boys can grow into mature men! We are just "expected" to learn it all with girlie magazines and male instincts! Where it would be more than helpful to orient us to having a mature, substantial relationship with a special girl or (later) woman, most mothers would rather that we just grow up on our own. So your boyfriend may not yet recognize your relationship for what it is.
As well, he might have a completely different view about your relationship, and he might not be really ready for a mature romantic relationship!
There are too many things you have to learn and too many things for me to tell that come over time through tears and rejoiceful moments that I cannot really assess this or give suggestions. Just consider what I have already said.
And good luck.
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hey guys!
Recently i decided to create an invisionfree forum for role playing. I've spent HOURS looking for a decent skin, that's not too dark and not overly boring either. I just want a nice balance.
It's supposed to be for a high school RPG site, so it shouldn't look too dark and depressing.
If anyone has any ideas, suggestions or skins that might help pleeeeeeeease help!
Thanks a lot! =] (link)
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Oh boy! "Invisionfree forum" ?????
Do you mean "Inv-A-sion-free forum" ???? And are you talking about an Avatar icon ?????
I remember when I was in the Army that an "RPG" was a Rocket Propelled Grenade! ! ! ! ! But then "CD"s were Certificates of Deposit! So maybe I just do not know what "Invisionfree" and "Skins" means ???? After all, "Skins" means the Washington Redskins football team, right ?????
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