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Liking too many guys
I just wanted to know if it was weird to constantly be changing my mind on crushes. I mean, I believe I've liked 6 different guys in the past month! =\
I guess maybe I'm just a flighty person, but it just seems weird to me. I used to have really obsessive crushes that would last ages but now there are specific reasons for each new guy I like. It's almost like each of them has qualities that I lack and wish I had in myself.I don't know if this makes any sense, but does anyone know what I can do to fix this problem? Thank you!
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First off, you said "Its almost like each of them has qualities that I lack and wish I had in myself" you couldn't be making more since. Have you ever heard someone refer to another as their "better half" or "the one who completes them". That's basically what these things are. Once you find qualities in a person that you lack, you use them to complete yourself.
Sometimes it's hard to answer a question with out asking some of my own. How old are you? Just so I kinda know where you stand. Age can often determine the way a person reacts to and in relationships.
It may be that you are a "flighty person" as you say, or it could be that there are just a certain group of qualities that you are looking for, and you just haven't found someone that hold's all those qualilties. Try not to be too picky when it comes to relationships. Also, maybe you should take a break and be single for a while. Don't jump on the opportunity to be with someone new right away. Hang out and get to know other people and above all, get to know yourself. It's amazing what you find out about yourself just taking some time aside for you. I hope that I helped you a little bit, please let me know how things ago and if you EVER need anything else. <3 Leslie
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Well, first of all, a "crush" is NOT a romance, so you need to understand that.
As a guy, I must say that I personally think that your "lik<ing>" six different guys in one month is just a female fantasy infatuation! You need to stop, sit down at a cafe booth table with a soda or ice tea, and think about this for a few moments!
What is it that attracts you to these guys? You seem like you are saying you see a dozen different pieces of candy and you cannot stop from gobbling them all up at the same time! Yes, that IS TOO "weird", as you admit !!!!!
You do not say how old you are. You do not say how old these guys are. Often females go for older guys because they are more "experienced" and confident in "romantic" situations -- they are also more risky! It is hard for me to give you a constructive suggestion without my knowing more about you, which you should not divulge to me if it is personal anyway! But knowing your age would help.
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