i shaved my legs for the first time yesterday using venus breeze. is that a good thing to use? i hear some people can get bumps and all that stuff. i was taking a shower then just shaved off the hair.. im black, and my mom says the razors affect black people differently than whites so im hoping nothing bad happens to my legs... and is it weird to shave your arms? like can i use the venus breeze erazor to shave my arms and armpits? and will it look weird? cause its kinda embarassing that i'm a girl with the hair on my arm.. its darker than my skin and sticks out to anyone who's near enough to me to see. so help?
After you shave, use lotion that has oatmeal in it. That should help with keeping you bump free. Also, make sure you don't use a dull razors. They will cause you to get razor burn aka bumps. Its not weird to shave your arms. Super models, swimmers, wrestlers and lots of other people shave their arms.
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Can you be born with herpes, or just have it somehow? My boyfriend and I have never had sex, but we have done oral sex which I know transmits the herpes virus. But since both of us are virgins is it even possible for us to have the std? He had three cold sores in his mouth and complained of a headache for the past several days. These may just be a coincidence, but I'm worried. We two healthy teens, am I just overreacting?
Everyone is born with the herpes gene. Cold sores are a form of herpes but they aren't always the STD kind. If the both of you are worried about having herpes, you should go to your doctor and have a STD Test done. Thats the only for sure way you can find out.
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my hair is seriously falling out, and i think im making it worse by stressing over it, but i really cant help it because i cant be bald at only 15...does anyone know how to stop or anything i can do at home to help it grow back and longer? any tips are useful. thanx in advance.
If you wear your hair in a ponytail alot, stop. A ponytail causes poor circulation on your head therefore causing your hair to fall out. Its okay to wear one every now and then, just not all the time.
Also, your hair will start falling out when it is in need of a trim. Try having your dead ends cut off.
To make your hair grow back longer, I recommend that you use Mane 'N Tail. Its orignally shampoo for horses but you can buy the kind for people at Wal Mart. I've used it and it makes your hair grow back alot faster than what it would without using it.
Hope this helps.
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Okay i am a 16/m And me and my girlfriend have been having sex for quit a while now we have been together for a little over a year. But a few months ago she got pregnant but she had a miscarriage and at that time we was wanting her to be but then we got worried because her parents are kinda mean and would probably start a lot of trouble and her dad has a bad temper. But my question is. We have used a condom but we neather one like them. So we dont use them anymore. I pull it out before i actually "Cum" but is it possible for her to get pregnant from just pre cum?.. Please answer ASAP.
Yes, it is possible to get pregnant from pre-cum. If neither of you like condoms then your girlfriend should start taking a birth control pill. Also, you could try using a female condom. Here's a link with information about female condoms: http://www.youngwomenshealth.org/femalebarrier1.html
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im 15/f and im embarassed to show my boyfriend my boobs because even though i wear a 36d, my nipples are way too small. is it impossible to make them grow more, or have they just stopped growing period? thnx in advance =]
No, there isn't any way to make them grow unless you have plastic surgery. Everyone's nipples look different so yours being small is just another part of who you are.
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what are some good masturbation techniques i can do? i dont know why but it doesnt feel good to me if i just finger myself.. thanks.
Try rubbing your clit with your finger in small circles.
If you have a detachable shower head, take it and angle it so that the water is hitting your clit.
If that doesn't help, try buying a toy of somekind like a dildo or viberator.
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so technically thats as far as i can go in me - just to that vagina wall?
if i go more in somehow will that hurt me?
should i pop my own cherry?
where IS the cherry?
can i use any type of household item for masterbating?
how many fingers can i put in me?
No. Do not use any household item to masterbate. But, if you have a detachable shower head, you can use that but do not put it in you. Just angle it to where the water is hitting your clit.
You can put as many fingers as you want in you. It depends on how many you can stand. Start out with one and when you're ready, insert the second finger and so on.
I just googled about the location of they cherry aka as the 'hymen'. Here's the link: http://www.coolnurse.com/hymen.htm
If you read that, alot of your questions will be answered.
You can deeper than that but you will always be hitting the vagina wall. Its not as easy for a finger to penetrate deep like it is a penis. Your body will let you know when you've went to far.
You can pop your own cherry if you like. Since you've already been masterbating, chances are, its already popped. The link I gave you will tell you more about how during every day life, your cherry can get popped.
Hope this helps.
xo, Whitney
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these walls you're talking about.
do i have to go around it?
and what can i use instead of my finger to please myself?
No, you can't go around them. If anything, you want to press on them more for an intense orgasm. When a penis is in you, it presses up against those walls. You will find that a certain area of those walls is more sensitive to the other areas. That area is called your 'g-spot' and it will get you off faster than stimulating your clit.
You can buy small vibrators are for just your clit or a toy called a 'bullet' which if for your clit and your vagina. It isn't very big so it won't pop your cherry. Here's a link: http://www.somethingsexyplanet.com/cart/viewitem.cfm?ID=4727
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alot of questions.. lol
so earlier i fingering myself and i felt this really rough bumpy thing in me it felt like miniature grapes bunched up together what was it? is that my cherry? and what do i do to pop it just keep putting my finger in more???
and while masterbating after my hips and stuff feel really like it wants more lol why? is that an orgasm? and my hole feels really weird now.
my clit feels really inflammed was that from pleasing myself?
how far SHOULD i go in my myself before i start bleeding? like i go as far as about... the middle fingers top part. i stopped cause of the bumpy thing and i didnt know where it was.
where can i buy dildos?
how much do dildos cost?
the finger has three parts right.. how far should i go in myself?
and should a girl pop her cherry or should she just wait for a guy to do it?
The rough bumpy thing you felt is your vaginal walls. Your 'cherry' is farther up in there so unless you have really long fingers, you can't pop your own cherry that way.
You will know when you're orgasm for the first time. Your stomach will clench up then all of sudden all of your muscles will relax, making liquid come from you.
I wouldn't recommend that you try a dildo just yet. You are still a virgin and it would hurt alot. Before you use a dildo, you should have sex first. But try to wait until you're older or sure about wanting it.
You can find dildos at any sex shop like Spencers. Dildos vary in price. Here's a link that will tell you more about them: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dildo
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you know how in some people default pix on my space they have a pic of themselves which they designed , like it glows or it moves and stuff.
do you know how i can do that ???
To do that, you have to have a image editing program on your computer like Photoshop and Paint Shop Pro. Since no computer automatically comes with these programs, you will have to buy it from a store. You can also find free trials to download on http://www.downloads.com
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AHH so I'm sixteen,
and I just started this new job,
and the lady said I didnt look sixteen, I looked much older.
And my sister is 10 years older than me, and a few times people have thought we were twins.
SO I'm not sure looking older is the best, because then when I'm actually like 21, I will look like I'm what..30?
help?
If you wear alot of makeup, try toning it down a bit. Wearing alot of makeup will make you look older than what you are. Try wearing a light shade of eyeshadow along with a thin line of eyeliner and a light colored lipgloss.
Some clothes can give that effect too. Trying steering clear of clothes that show alot of skin. A little skin showing is fine...just not a whole lot.
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The skin (?) on my lips is constantly peeling off and it hurts so badly. I have to rip off the skin becuase it's very bothersome and painful if I keep it on, but it hurts like a biatch to peel it off, and then it stings afterwards. And it keeps happening.
Why is it peeling all the time?
And how do I stop it?!?!
Try rubbing vaseline on your lips and let it it sit for 15 minutes. When the time is up, take an old toothbrush [one no one is using on their teeth] and brush your lips. It will take all of the dead skin off your lips without it causing any pain and it will help keep your lips from peeling.
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I went to my city clinic and had a std test through a pap...my question is....why did the pap hurt more that when I actually lost my virginity? Fuck..it was uncomfortable..plus, I've had sex with more that one guy but that pap kinda hurt!!
The reason that Pap hurt is because it goes deeper in you than what a penis does.
The doctor inserts a tool called a speculum in your vagina which opens up your vaginal walls to reveal your cervix. They then take a cotton swab and clean your cervix before taking a sample of it by using a tiny brush, spatula or cotton swab.
So as you can see, it is an uncomfortable and sometimes painful test. Theres just no way around it.
I hope this helped.
xo, Whitney
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Things have happened to me and everything sucks. People hate me and I feel like everyone else fits in and I really lack that. I don't know anymore but I've never been happy and its starting to make me want to end everything and not have to deal with guys that don't like me and girls that hate me and yeah guys that hate me. I really need help I think.
I can honestly say that I know what you're going through. My advice to you is to get help before its too late. Try talking to your parents about it. If that doesn't seem to help or if you're uncomfortable talking to them about it, talk to another adult like a school counselor, a teacher or another member of your family. You definitely need to seek professional help, though.
I hope everything gets better for you and I hope this advice has helped you.
xo, Whitney
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