Okay i am a 16/m And me and my girlfriend have been having sex for quit a while now we have been together for a little over a year. But a few months ago she got pregnant but she had a miscarriage and at that time we was wanting her to be but then we got worried because her parents are kinda mean and would probably start a lot of trouble and her dad has a bad temper. But my question is. We have used a condom but we neather one like them. So we dont use them anymore. I pull it out before i actually "Cum" but is it possible for her to get pregnant from just pre cum?.. Please answer ASAP.
iiyaxExtrinsic answered Friday August 17 2007, 11:40 pm: Yes ,
you can get pregnant from pre-cum it is possible ,
i don't know the percentage exactly but it's true ,
and you guys don't like using a condom , and i totally understand because its uncomfertable you should talk to her about using a girl condom or having her take birth control .
WittyUsernameHere answered Friday August 17 2007, 2:43 am: Most definitely yes. The method you are using is called "pull n pray" birth control. Its called this because you "pull out and pray she doesnt get pregnant"
I prefer to think of it as "pull out and you still havent got a prayer of preventing a pregnancy"
Two things you need to do.
1) Wear a condom. I dont care how much you like it without. Questions like this (no offense) are the exact, perfect example of a reason why parents do not want their kids having sex. Because you do things without knowing whats going to happen and just hope everything will be fine.
You can and WILL get her pregnant this way. It may take a while, but it is 100% guaranteed.
2) In addition to condoms, use Vaginal Contraceptive Film. Its found in the same aisle as condoms at walmart,cvs, walgreens, or whatever local stores you happen to have that sell those things. Its like a thick breath strip, you fold it up and put it inside her. Wait 15 minutes. She now has spermicide in her. This is a good safeguard because it works with a latex condom, if the condom breaks then the spermicide is your second line of defense.
Do not be an idiot. If she is not on birth control she is going to get pregnant again.
Oh one last thing. Ill put it in all caps. And Im going to be blunt.
DO NOT HAVE A BABY! DO NOT GET HER PREGNANT!
You should not even take the chance of pregnancy. The reason you should not, is that no baby deserves to be born to a pair of teenaged parents who are dumb enough to use the "pull n pray" method of birth control. If you arent even intelligent enough to have found out if this will work before you started using it, then you definitely arent intelligent enough to raise a kid right now.
You dont need to fuck both your lives up by having a baby. But I see by your "we were wanting her to be" comment that you think it might not be a bad thing for you two for her to get pregnant. So Ill put it a different way.
If you get her pregnant you are harming the child.
If you get her pregnant, you cannot provide the baby with the life it deserves. If you knock her up, the baby is going to be cursed with a pair of immature parents who havent had the time to prepare for the effort and expense a baby requires. If you get a bun in her oven THAT BABY WILL SUFFER EVERY DAY OF ITS LIFE BECAUSE YOU TWO BONE HEADS WERE STUPID ENOUGH TO HAVE IT.
You are not yet fit to raise a child. You arent mature enough. Neither is your girlfriend. And the baby doesnt deserve to have two selfish kids as parents who thought "oh, but our parents would probably help us" [ WittyUsernameHere's advice column | Ask WittyUsernameHere A Question ]
godslildevil777 answered Friday August 17 2007, 1:39 am: birth control, the shot, pulling out, condoms, all of that is NOT promised to work. birth control is very iffy on when it works or not, and precum can get a girl pregnant just as easy. oh and that whole can't get pregnant on your period thing? ...a lie. so be VERY careful, and make sure that if she gets pregnant again, you're prepared to handle her parents. if you have to, practice from now till it happens on how you're gonna tell them. 16 is WAY to young to have a kid in my opinion, i'm 17 and i'm too young as well. just be careful ok? [ godslildevil777's advice column | Ask godslildevil777 A Question ]
leLovely answered Friday August 17 2007, 12:51 am: Yes, it is possible for her to get pregnant from precum. Pulling out isn't an effective form of contraception. If you're worried about her getting pregnant again, make sure that she's on some sort of birth control if you don't want to use a condom. [ leLovely's advice column | Ask leLovely A Question ]
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