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Tomorrow, im going to the movies with my friend amanda and casey, and theres some fight going on, but im not going just for that, im going to see a bunch of people, like 30 people that im friends with are going to be there. 1/2 of them are guys that wanna hook up with me, like seriously, its gross.
I like one guy, sean, were ex's, he wants to go, but hes not sure if he can get a ride. I'd hook up with him in a second, i love him.
and dillon i like too, he cant go becuase its his brothers birthday.
then theres alex, were ex's, he is like "i wanna hook up so bad". but i dont want too! i feel horribal, we were an on and off relationship. i dont know what to do! i love sean, alot, and i like dillon, their both so nice! and alex is very nice. but i see him as only a friend..
This question is so high schol. No, no, it's even lower. It's so middle school. What's with all the drama? I'm not trying to offend you or anything but this is ridiculous!
You say that you love this guys Sean, if you really did then there would be no question. Go with Sean. And if you really feel as bad about hurting the other guys feeling as you say you do then you wouldn't hook up with one of these guys at the movies in front of all the others.
And you should NOT feel horrible for not wanting to hook up with Alex. You don't owe him it just because he was your ex. Just tell him that you only like him as a friend.
He's goes to my school, and, of course, since it's painful to be around him we'll have classes together, and he's an amazing guy.
I'm loved him for two years, and no matter what I do, I can't get over him.
And, so I ask you, face blanketed with tears, can you help me get over him?
I'm sorry to tell you this, but if you really love him then you'll never be able to get over him. I know it hurts, trust me. I have lived my life in love my best friend from high school and he didn't love me back. All you can really try to do is be happy for him and for yourself. You need to go have fun without him like you did before you two met. Find another guy to like. Eventually, although you'll still miss him, you'll find another guy you're crazy about. Love never goes away, it's a blessing and a curse. Once you let yourself get passed the curse you'll see the blessing in it all.
Okay so for school i went and got my hair "thinned" but instead the woman cut it short again which i looks horrible and I had almost grown my hair out all the way
anyway so ill add a picture url later but my hair is a brownish blondeish color a little shorter than the shoulder now and I have that kind of uncontrollable mess of hair that has curls in a bad way and frizzes
i've tried straightening it but in FL it just comes undone and looks crappy,and i don't want to straighten everyday anybody got any cute ideas that i could try to do w/ my hair??
expense is a problem by the way so if you're gonna recommend something to buy or get done keep it under $10
thanks im sure you know how bad and ugly i feel right now
I do know what you mean! I've got naturally curly hair and I live in GA so I have the same weather problems that make curls look like crud.
If you don't want to straighten it ever day then you just have to try working with the curl.
Scrunch it with some gel and twist strands around your finger to add bounce.
Or try some products that reduce frizz.
Or you could buy a diffuser that fits onto the end of you blow dryer and dry it using that to bring out the curl.
Curly hair is such a pain to control isn't it? Haha
On most of my jeans, the part inbetween my legs is like wearing away from where my legs rub together. How can i stop this from happening in my other pairs of jeans? Besides walking differently.
It's because your jeans are a little too tight. Think about going up another size. It should help. Plus jeans that aren't skin tight are more flattering. =)
ive been in summer school all summer and tomorrow is the last day. im going into high school this fall but i feel all alone. i dont fit in with any of the people ive met and i dont want to make friends. usually im a very energetic crazy person but i just dont get the point of trying to meet new people.
in middle school i had a lot of close friends that i still care deeply about and i feel lost without them. lately ive also been noticing that i might be falling for the closest person to me, my best friend in the world. i havnet seen him in over a month and i miss him so much. i love him and im afraid he'll find someone better than me and forget me completely....it sucks so much
im not the same without him ad all of my other friends. but they all went to the same highschool, all except me.
at my school everyone is white. and the girls are really girly and rich and i dont fit in with them. im poor, im not white, im like a tomboy and no one gets that. i just want to feel loved. i want to be with people who i can be myself with, i cant hide behind girliness. its just not my thing...
so i thought i should apply for the school where all my friends are going. i feel like if i dont see them ill slowly deteriorate. im already slowly fading. and im so sad. but its hard to get into that school and it might be too late for this year. can i apply for second semester? thank you.
Right now you may feel like you don't fit in with anyone at your new school, but I promise you that there are people there that feel the same as you do.
You want to go to high school trying to make new friends and have new experiences, and if you don't try then you can't get the love and happiness out of it that you're looking for.
You shouldn’t feel intimidated by the new girls at your school. Just because they may be white and rich, it doesn’t mean that they won’t accept you if you try to make friends with them. Just be yourself, be nice and energetic and fun. People will like you for who you are. It may not seem like it, but not everyone is a snotty little white girl.
I know you feel lost without your friends right now, trust me; I’ve been through the same thing. But think of it this way, now is the time to grow, and change. You can be whoever you want to be if you give it a chance.
As for your old friends, try to keep in touch with them as much as possible. Hang out with them like you normally would back in middle school. Make sure everyone knows how much you love and miss them and they will be there for you when you need them.
As for switching schools; in my opinion you should try to stick it out for a while. See if you like it. Try to make new friends. Have some fun. Freshman year is all about change, embrace it. Join some clubs, do some art, define yourself and let the world know how amazing you are. Do be afraid to go after things and be unique.
Your first year of high school is only what you make it. It’s your choice. You can dive in and enjoy yourself, or you can slowly sink to the bottom and be lost.
But I really need help, a real answer.
Here is the situation.
My mother is unhappy with one of my classes this year, and I think she is making me switch. I'm not sure if the switch is final yet, but she has already called the principal, and they talked about it.
Background: There is this guy, long story short, that I love. I was hoping for classes with him this year so we could finally talk "it" out. But I got none, and I never see him.
My two options (that the principal gave me) are:
1.) Switch out of Spanish with my best friend, so I can take Art History, which will is the pre-requisite for Photography, which I really wanted to take!
2.) Change up my whole schedule. I'd still be in Spanish with my best friends, but I probably wouldn't see my casual friends anymore. I don't know anyone in the classes I'd be switching too. My school is really small, so the people in the class are probably people I don't like. BUT, if this happened, I'd be in two classes with the guy!!
Bittersweet, eh?
What would you do in this situation? Help please.
I would go with option 1.
You may really want to be in class with your guy, but in the long run you probably won't be as happy with your decision.
Think about it, if you take Art history then you'll be able to take a class that you love, and you're passionate about. Plus you'll still get to see all of your casual friends all the time. You may not be in class with your best friend, but you can always hang out after school and between classes. Plus, what if the thing with this guy doesn't go as you dreamt it to be in your head? What if it all goes sour? You would be stuck with him for a whole year?!?! If you’re still so young that you’re in school then that means that guys won’t be forever. And when it ends it’s usually pretty bitter for both of you.
Go with the classes that you truly love, because doing something you love and want will always make you happy, even when guys fail you.