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i dont fit in. i want to switch schools
ive been in summer school all summer and tomorrow is the last day. im going into high school this fall but i feel all alone. i dont fit in with any of the people ive met and i dont want to make friends. usually im a very energetic crazy person but i just dont get the point of trying to meet new people.
in middle school i had a lot of close friends that i still care deeply about and i feel lost without them. lately ive also been noticing that i might be falling for the closest person to me, my best friend in the world. i havnet seen him in over a month and i miss him so much. i love him and im afraid he'll find someone better than me and forget me completely....it sucks so much
im not the same without him ad all of my other friends. but they all went to the same highschool, all except me.
at my school everyone is white. and the girls are really girly and rich and i dont fit in with them. im poor, im not white, im like a tomboy and no one gets that. i just want to feel loved. i want to be with people who i can be myself with, i cant hide behind girliness. its just not my thing...
so i thought i should apply for the school where all my friends are going. i feel like if i dont see them ill slowly deteriorate. im already slowly fading. and im so sad. but its hard to get into that school and it might be too late for this year. can i apply for second semester? thank you.
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Hey I know what you mean. I was so dead scared to start High school. My best friend was going to a different school and even though i had friends lot of people thought i was weird and all that. Also i am not white and i lived in a trailer, definetly not rich and i definetly dressed tomboy. Playing guitar and skateboarding and stuff.
However I can assure you, high school turned out pretty good. I am going to my 11th grade and 10th grade year was one of my best year of my life.
ALso who says you have to be friends with girls? I am not saying you should be mean to them or anything but you don't have to be all OMG LIKE YEAHHH and be friends with them. Just be polite to them. And make friends with guys. that's one of the up side for being a tomboy.
Also all school is different so you might have to call the school itself to find out. If you are really polite and ask nicely they might change the rules for you.
When i wanted to go to this school i had to try out for (which i didnt because i didnt know i would want to go to that school) I had to call the school and talked directly to the vice principal and she let me have my OWN try out.
So good luck to you and let me know if you need more help
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Right now you may feel like you don't fit in with anyone at your new school, but I promise you that there are people there that feel the same as you do.
You want to go to high school trying to make new friends and have new experiences, and if you don't try then you can't get the love and happiness out of it that you're looking for.
You shouldn’t feel intimidated by the new girls at your school. Just because they may be white and rich, it doesn’t mean that they won’t accept you if you try to make friends with them. Just be yourself, be nice and energetic and fun. People will like you for who you are. It may not seem like it, but not everyone is a snotty little white girl.
I know you feel lost without your friends right now, trust me; I’ve been through the same thing. But think of it this way, now is the time to grow, and change. You can be whoever you want to be if you give it a chance.
As for your old friends, try to keep in touch with them as much as possible. Hang out with them like you normally would back in middle school. Make sure everyone knows how much you love and miss them and they will be there for you when you need them.
As for switching schools; in my opinion you should try to stick it out for a while. See if you like it. Try to make new friends. Have some fun. Freshman year is all about change, embrace it. Join some clubs, do some art, define yourself and let the world know how amazing you are. Do be afraid to go after things and be unique.
Your first year of high school is only what you make it. It’s your choice. You can dive in and enjoy yourself, or you can slowly sink to the bottom and be lost.
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