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I'm just a small town girl, living in a lonely world, I took the midnight train going anywhere. XD Sorry, I like that song. Anywho ^^ Hey! I'm Vera, I love lots of things, like art! I'm a pretty blunt person, so I hope I don't hurt your feelings when I give you my advice. ^^ I hope I will be able to help you guys!

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Do you think 15 is young? If so why? How old do you really think they are? I'm asking this question because 18 19 year olds call me a little kid. I'm just trying to see how old I really am.

I'm 15 right now, and I think I'm still a kid, yet almost an adult. I think little kids are...well, little kids, toddlers and so forth. But take what the 18 and 19 year olds as a compliment, cause they are still kids themselves. Sometimes even adults act like kids. Just because they are past 18, doesn't make them an adult, they can just live on their own.
I would rather be a little kid than an adult anyway, we get to have fun, and not worry about too many things. Adults...work, jobs, bills, insurance, money, kids, so on and so forth...yeah

^^ You are as old as you want to be. How old you are is just how many years you have been on earth, your soul could be older or younger than you. And it doesn't matter what we think, cause it is you who has to be happy with yourself and what you think.

Hoped I helped! =D

~Vera

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I can't believe this.. I feel like I'm losing most of my friends. Like there are these girls I've known since i was in 1st grade. we had fun and stuff and were friends who had their ups and downs years through out. now we are in 8th grade. me and one of the girls are moving to texas (different towns). I used to have problems with that girl sometimes when we disagreed we had fights and didnt talk to each other for a while. but we got over that and im just accepting her the way she is. but some of the other girls.. like 3 of them. like today im like "i wonder what you guys would do when me and ___ are gone." and that girl said they could survive without me but they really need ___. and that really got to me.. im like what kind of friends are this? i dont want friends who just think.. ok shes just this girl i hang out with but i dont really wanna be friends with her. like they did this secret santa thing this year.. we'd done it together 2 years before but its like this time they didnt let me in. i didnt say anything though about it. and when they have like private talks with one person like its usually never me. and im wondering why i cant know when im supposed to be their friend and they know how good of a friend i can be. so i feel like.. hurt.. like i cant believe its like this. it makes me excited for next year when i move to lose a lot of the crap friends i have here. and we're all in the same neighborhood so we've stuck together and hung out a lot more than i have with other friends cause its hard to drive up to their own neighborhoods since we dont live where the majority of the people in my school live. and these other 2 girls.. like it suprises me how people can change. one of them i was bestfriends from 4th grade to 6th. then after that.. its like we just dont have a lot in common and i barely see her so we just say hi in the hallway and stuff. and the other we've been bestfriends since like first grade! and this year shes inviting me already to her bday party in june but i hear from some girls in school about some xmas party she has.. and im not sure cause the party is on friday and she hasnt told me anything about it yet. well she hasnt been on the bus this week.. but it makes me anxious. im wondering whether to ask her or just not say anything and play dumb so she doesnt have to like embarass me on the bus by saying i wasnt invited. like.. i cant believe it cause i know we werent the best of friends anymore but i've been her good friend for a while, and now she's been getting more friends, but i stayed with her through thick and thin in the past. maybe im just too good of a friend. i hate that sometimes. like last year it suprised me when a lot of girls at my lunch table were going to this girl's bday party. i was in 7th grade at the time and i'd been good friends with the girl since like.. 4th grade. but apparently not since i wasnt invited. and then that summer i made a myspace and added her, and i asked like why she was acting weird around me and i cant remember exactly but she said something like she thought i was a bitch and weird.. and it really shocked me. i mean.. what makes people think that? are they just jealous or something? i feel like... ive never really had a good best friend. i'm always looking for new people, that could possibly be but i havent had one yet. like im not sure what im even doing wrong. i'd love to have a bestfriend like me. and then at school there are people you just talk to and its nothing after that. i dont want friends like that. thats practically not even a friend. like theres this girl and when shes around her other friends sometimes shes like "i hate you" and she says shes kidding afterwards when we are in a class with other people and we're all friends. and then shes like "Ily" and shes all nice and stuff. she used to be more annoying to me before but now shes changed and she thinks im cool now. and i dont get it. i wish i could seriously read minds you know? and after she says im cool and stuff she doesnt even think to invite me to her bday party and like everyone at my lunch table went.. i didnt even know she had a party. cause on her real bday i actually with my own money bought her jellybeans and a card as a present. she had her party later.. and im like wtf thats messed up. its just.. like im almost crying now and sorry that its pathetic. i mean im usually confident and stuff.. i cant seem to talk about some things like this with some people. i'll listen to them and try to help them and they wont really care or whatever to listen to my problems. or they act all sarcastic and stuff.. and im like why do you have to be like that? and my family they're good.. but some things i feel like i cant say cause i dont want to seem too pathetic or seem like i have no friends.. cause some people that arent like that.. and stick with me, like i dunno maybe im shallow or whatever but i dont really like their personalities and they're just being nice and friendly.. and ugh. i hope im not like that.. i mean i have fun with these people and then at the end of the day its like.. do they really consider me to be as good a friend as i think they are? im gonna take a risk and ask the girl if i was invited to her party tomorrow.. though im kinda nervous. i'll say that i heard it from this girl at my table cause i asked her and she said it was on friday (holiday party) but yea i havent heard anything from the girl. another thing, i got pics of our winter wonderland dance off our school computer, cause people took pics of people. i picked the best pics of my so called "friends" on myspace (dont freak, I know them IRL) and gave them to them, saying that i got it off the school comp for them. some girls deleted the pics even tho they were good, and one of the girls.. the one with the party put it as her top picture.. and i havent heard a thankyou from her yet, and when i gave her the pic im like "props to [insert teacher's name here] for taking the pics and [my name] for getting the pics from the school comp." but she never said that anywhere in the pic description. im not even gonna comment it now.. its like she was just like "oh cool a picture" when i got it off the comp for her. its so fricken annoying. i'd rather have 1 best friend i love to death than 100 friends who dont even care about me much. its just.. ugh. things like that shouldnt happen to me. even worse, we have a big field trip in spring where we have to pick who we'll sleep with at the hotel. 4 people per room. my parents already paid 200 bucks for the trip but i havent picked the people to go with yet! unfortunately they have to be within our team.. which sucks since people are already pretty much divided in their groups. i dont wanna be wedged into this random group i dont wanna be in and i dont want to like ask to be in someones group when they dont want me there and stuff.. it should be fun.. the best time of 8th grade, really. but now im just hoping maybe we get a new student or i make a new friend that can just be as good to me as i would to them. but its not that easy to find, unfortunately. please find a way to help me.. im sorry this was long. but i felt i really needed to say it before it like exploded or something.. cause its just messed up. you dont even know much i thank you if you can take the time to read this and help me. 13/f.

Wow...long...o.o but sounds like something that happened to me...^^; next time you have one that long, maybe make new paragraphs...they help...anyway
So, the friend with the myspace, one, she isn't a friend...no friend would do that (Unless she is joking, cause sometimes my friends and I joke like that, but we know we are just kidding)So...either lose her, or talk to her about it...

The other friends who said they could survive without you, again, talk to the one you know will listen to you. Tell her how you feel...that you want to still be friends, but her saying that and all that other stuff with the Secret Santa really hurts you...and you don't know what you did to deserve that kind of treatment. Sometimes (sadly) with us girl, we think maybe someone close said something, then instead of talking about it to see if it is true, we hurt back...it is really pathetic...but hey, only you can control your actions, not others.
And I would like to say...they will wake up one day. Middle school sucks because when you are in 8th grade, you think you are the coolest thing since sliced bread, and you are the top dogs in the middle school. So they could be going through something and think they are all that...it happens, trust me *remembers her middle school years well* they'll wake up soon...hopefully...
But if they end up just being evil, just remember all the good times you guys had, and keep what they did in the back of your mind when you get new friends. You know how you felt when they did all that, so you would know how to treat a friend.
Which makes you a better person, and they (the old friends) would made you a better friend and they would've made you who you are today...^^ remember that
I hoped I helped, and I wish you the best of luck! All and all, it's the girls loss if they don't want a good friend like you as a friend ^^

~Vera

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Ok well i think i might be mildly depressed. im 14/f and my mom ius always mad at me for being negative now and in a bd mood. i really dont want to be and wish i was happy but i feel like i just CANT be happy. or at least make myself be happy which she says i can do but i have tred and i really CANT. i feel like im always mad and angry and frusterated and could cry half the time. the thing is its pretty much only at home. at school i have become more negative because i used to be a very positive person but now im just like w/e. i am out going at school and have fun with my friends but at home i am always fighting with my mom and upset and very tired and have a hard time getting things done. i am NEVER motivated to do things at home either. i fight and argue about everything and give major attitude. well i dont want to be like this i know my parents wish i was much better and i wish i could be better but i seriously feel like i cant no matter what. is it possible to only act depressed at home and not with friends? and if i try to tell my mom she will act like im being dumb and just being way over dramatic but she sees how negative and not motivated i am and we have talked about it and she just doesnt get it!!! is there a way i could talk to her about it without her thinking im overreacting? i really want to be happier and better but i feel hopeless! like its impossible and i cant. please help me!!!

You remind me of me when I was getting depression...and sweetie, you have it. I never acted depressed around my friends...(only my best friend knew I was feeling down and stuff...) cause I didn't want people asking me over and over if I was alright and what was going on at home, cause I just didn't want to bug people with it. I felt like all my problems would go away...and I mostly helped my friends problems...
You do have a depression issue...and the good thing is...is that maybe it isn't as bad seeing as you are catching it a bit early...but if you keep getting down, you are going to get severe(sp) depression...which is never fun...just tell your mom that you do have, and you've done research on it (Which you should) and that you want to go talk to someone...a shrink or someone could help you out a lot, and maybe tell you if you need anti depressents...
I know so many people say that they don't help, but they really do. I'm on them now and trust me...you would be shocked if you saw who I was with depression, and then with the meds. And plus, you can always come off them. Of course, finding the right pill takes a while, and only you have to be willing to take them...
If you want my email address, just give me yours in the lil comment thingy...I'll be happy to talk to you more about this...depression is a b*tch...you need to stop it when you can...cause it can really hurt your life...
I wish you the best of luck, and I hope you get better!!!

~Vera

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this school year, i've been moving from one clique to another cause i didn't fit in. until finally, i think my friends now are the ones.:) i love that they've accepted me and all but i can't help but get insecure because they're all pretty and fit. i know i shouldn't feel this way cuz there's more than just physical appearance but i can't help but feel it. especially when we go out and they could wear dresses or shorts with it looking good on them. please help meee.:(



13/f

Uhmm...sweetie, I don't think we can help you if you don't give us more info...like your weight and everything...you know? ^^; but you really shouldn't matter how much you weigh and stuff...cause you are beautiful inside and out...
But if you want to make yourself stronger and stuff, just excerise more, and eat healthy...like drink more water, drink milk (Believe it or not, milk helps you loose weight and makes you get strong bones =D) and try to dance a lot ^^ Get Cosmo girl cause it has something in it to help you get stronger

Hoped I helped girl! Good luck!

~Vera

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I have a creative project for the famous myth/poems "Icarus" due tomorow.

U can write song make an exhibit or something..

i want something creative !!

any ideas???

^^ Hello...I think I can help you XD But I'm not sure what you can and cannot make...so I will try to give you all the ideas I can come up with.

First, why not make a short poem about the story? ^^ You know, something to sum the whole story up.

Or you can re-write it to make it more...this century to understand...and maybe bring something up that times really hasn't changed too much, by the fact that teens still don't listen to parents, even when it could cost them their lives.

You could always make your own wings and write it from Icarus's point of veiw, or, if you are good at drawing, make a quick cartoon of the myth.

Or you could make the scene of Icarus calling out to his father for help ^^ with clay or something...though that could take some time...but it could be good. Blue clay for the water and then all that...or you can write a poem talking about Icarus's tragic end and how he should've listened...
Wow...I'm not that creative today...XD Hoped I helped! and I hope you get a good grade on your project! ^-^ Good luck! Oh, and next time you are having trouble with a project, you might want to ask for help the day before it is due...or talk to your teacher and tell him/her that you are having trouble =D They are there to help

~Vera

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My skin has been a really big problem for me lately. I really need a good skin product to heal my acne, but not have it get too dry. Does anyone know a really good product that treats acne, and moisturizes your skin?


Only tell me if you know for sure it can help!
Thanks a lot (:

^^ Proactive is really really good, and it does help a lot. Trust me, I use it. The only bad thing is that if you use a lot, your face will get dry, but you use it every other day and it will get un dry.I have never heard of it getting worse if you stop using it because many people have stopped using it and their face is still fine.

Hope I helped, and I wish you luck!

~Vera

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my boobs just started killing today and feel like bricks and are very sensitive,and i think it might be a sign of pregnancy, how long do i wait to take a pregancy test for it to be correct ? i got my period a week ago, but do i still have to wait another month to find out if im pregnant ?

^^ It could also be that since you got your period, your breasts could hurt because of that...XD trust me, mine do that too...quite annoying really.

Hoped I helped!

~Vera

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I have the worst headache ever at the front of my head. It's been there for hours, I've taken two motrin and it won't go away. This has happened recurringly over the past week and I can't take it. It feel like it's behind my eyes, between my eyes and at the top of my head. My head just feels so heavy all the time and I can't bare it.

Does anyone know how to get rid of terrible headaches? I don't mind websites as long as they're short and to the point, so now WebMD. Once again, does ANYONE know how to get rid of this headache?

Try advil, and you might have a sinus infection. XD Trust me...that is how my headaches feel as well when it is a sinus headache...or you might have a migrain(sp) Go to your doctor and ask him(or her) about it.

I hope your headache gets better! Oh! And try the advil liquid gells! Those really help, and take 3 if you are old enough!

^^ Hope you get feeling better soon! And I hoped I helped!

~Vera

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Ok i know its summer and its the perfect time to tan, well im afraid that i wont have enough time to get as tan as i want, and im going into 9th grade so i want to try and look my best.

so my question is

how much does it cost to go? I'm not asking for the exact amount just approx

and do you have to make an appointment? or do you just walk in and wait until one is open?

thankss

It all depends on what place you go too. Others, you need to be a member or something, others you can wait or make an appointment. Or you can do the really cheap way...XD Go outside and tan in the sun around 11 or noon. But you might want to go to the salon one day and talk to the people working there about it.

^^ Hoped I helped! Oh, and at the tanning booths, they are bad...and they limit you because of that. And I gotta tell you...I used one here where I live, and it didn't work that well...cause with my skin tone, I do better with the sun cause my skin gets dark easy. But with the tanning booth? I hardly tanned...^^ Just thought you should know that it will take a while to get it pretty tanned. Oh, and be carefull how you start out! Sometimes with a certain tanning bed, it can get you sun burnt...like everywhere.

~Vera

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13/f all I do is masterbate and now I started getting cramps in my stomach, I never got it before. I thought my period might be comming,but I don't know. I'm not saying that I am pregnent because I can't be I never had sex. what could it be?
Please help...

^^ It might be your period, I don't think masterbating makes your stomach hurt. But if you have pain like in your lower stomach area, then it could very well be your period.

Hoped I helped!

~Vera

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my mom made an app. for me to go see the dermatologist. and see if i can use proactiv and if it would work for my type of skin.

will they be cleaning my face or do i specifically have to make an app. for them to do that.

^^ Hey, I use proactive, and it can work with so many skin types, trust me, I've tried so many things, and most of the time, the stuff I used didn't help.

But yeah, the only thing I don't like about proactive, is that it made my skin kinda dry, but other than that. It rocks out loud, but I don't think dermatologists clean your face...I think they just ask you questions about your face, and then they look at it and then see what can help.

Yeah I just asked my parents, and they think that they don't clean your skin, they just look at it and all that fun stuff...

^^ Hoped I helped!

~Vera

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okay so lately my confidence has been dropping more and more. and i just feel like people keep saying crap about me and stuff. and like i always feel like people are staring at me when im walking down the street. and i feel really ugly and fat. so now ive ended up being bulimic and i cut and i pop pills. i dont know what to do though cause i cant tell my parents. and i keep looking for a boyfriend and i cant get one so it makes me feel worse cause i feel like no one wants me. so please help me

Hun...you've got to stop popping pills and cutting. But I'm glad you know that you aren't helping yourself by doing all that. Babe, you don't need a man to make yourself feel beautiful. And you should tell your parents, they can help you. I bet you are amazing and wonderful. Everyone in their own special way is beautiful.

If you want to help your confidence get higher, you need to know that people aren't talking about you, and you need to love yourself. People can tell when you don't have confidence, and boys love a girl that love themselves.

Talk to your best friend about how you feel, when you see yourself in the mirror, tell yourself that you are dam* beautiful and how perfect you are. Maybe get some books that can help you get your confidence up. Try to laugh and smile more, it can really help. Trust me on that, I used to hat ehow i look, I thought that everyone hated me, and I thought I was the most ugliest person in the world. And I thought that since how I was sick all the time (I have an illness, Chronic Lyme Disease)...and yeah, I don't want to get in too much detail. But when I started to love myself, and see how amazing I am, I started loving life more, and my confidence started getting higher and higher.

I wish you the best of luck, and I hope I helped. If you want, send me a preivate question, and I bet I can give you more advice.

~Vera

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Okay, I am 15 and I am a female. I live with my mother, step-father, brother(11), and sister(16). My father died when I was 2 months old so I never really knew him. I am a different religion than all of my family, none of them attend any religious services but I do 3 times a week. It is so hard to get along with them because they talk bad about my religion and about me. I hate it and don't know what to do. My brother and sister are constantly stealing things from me and talking about me to my face! My mother is constantly yelling at me. Then my step-dad is always gripping about how he cleans all the time. I really need some suggestions to help me because I am running myself down trying to handle everything.

^^ Hun, first...take a deep breath. Now, what I would do if it was my family, is ask everyone to sit down and let them hear you out. If someone starts talking, ask them nicely for them to let you talk first, and then they can talk. Explain how you don't like how your family, who is supposed to support and help you in what you believe in, and it hurts you. And tell your siblings that they shouldn't steal, or talk about their own sister right in front of you. Ask them how they would feel if say you and your parents did that. And tell your dad, only if this is true, that he doesn't clean all the time. That you help out too and then name things that you help with.

As your mom with the yelling...I think that you should have a one on one talk with her about most of this as well. Ask her why she is yelling at you, and if possible, that she doesn't yell, maybe ask or tell in a normal tone of voice. And maybe tell her (if you don't want to have a family meeting) about how you don't like them talking bad about your religion, and it hurts you. You shouldn't try to handle things all on your own. A family is a support team, and they ain't supporting you huh?

^^ I wish you the best of luck, and I hope I helped! If you need anymore advice, send me a private question and I'll be happy to help =D seeing as I have almost the same family problems!

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hi my name is kristina and i keep getting made fun of because i am to skinny and i eat like a pig and everything and i just cant seem to gain weight and i hear about kalten bares where can i buy them??? please write back

Hun, if you can't gain weight, I don't know if Kalten bars can help. But babe...don't try to gain weight. I'm pretty skinny and tons of girls tell me I should be lucky cause I'm thin (I on the other hand...would like to gain a little weight but healthy gain weight) anyway, be proud to be skinny hun! Cause just think how it could be worse, they could be making fun of you because you ahve a lot of weight...which isn't right.

Be happy how you are, and if they make fun of you, just walk away. It's not your fault you can't gain weight. And if it really bugs you, ask them to stop making fun of you, if they don't, ask again nicely, and if they still don't, maybe you should talk to your teacher or your parents or something.
^^ Hoped I helped!

~Vera

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13/f

Okay, so I've been watching my friend, Gretchen, draw amazing Japanese cartoons. She is so good at it! I've been trying to draw like her, but I keep messing up! I want to draw like she does. Like the Japanese cartoons. I'm not good at that stuff, but I want to draw like it! You might see some of her pictures on myspace. she's a Kakashi fan, anyway, could somebody show me a site where I can learn how to draw Japanese cartoons? I can't ask my friend, she might think I'm copying her. Could someobdy help me?!?!?!?!

XD You can ask your friend to help you draw, or ask if you can look at her drawing and try to learn from those. But I have a website where a girl like...helped tell you how to draw them! Lemme get the USL

http://www.deviantart.com/deviation/27409024/

^^ If you click her name, she has more drawings things to help you out! XD And I'm trying to learn how to draw Manga too(Or anima). Go to Barnes and Noble and get a book to help you learn how to draw!

Hoped I helped! And I wish you luck with drawing!
Oh, before I go, it takes time to get that good at drawing Manga, you could be drawing for a year and you still might not be that good. Just keep drawing!

~Vera

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Okay so my state (TN) has decided to mandate that every student K-12 get 90 minutes of excersize a week. Well they are using our homeroom time at my school to do just that. I think it is incredibly stupid because its not the school's responsibility to tell us what to do as far as excersizing goes. It is so damn retarded I can hardly stand it. I HATE coming to school now. OMG as if it wasnt bad enough LETS THROW IN SOME EXCERSIZE!!! Plus my homeroom teacher is strict with the rules, so if we dont do these excersizes every morning, she will write us up. I dont feel like I can talk to her because she wont understand. And I cant sit there and object while everyone else is doing it because that will draw negative attention to me. I get enough attention as it is for being fat. And thats not the reason I dont want to do the excersizes. It's just that 15 minutes is a long time for someone who is as heavy as I am and its embarassing to have my fat jiggle around for the whole freaking class to watch and laugh at. I would much prefer to excersize in PRIVACY where I dont have to worry about what I look like. High school is bad enough as it is. I think this is pure torture and I really want to refuse to do it. But I dont want to bring negative attention to myself. WHAT SHOULD I DO???? and what is your opinion on our new state law??

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i have a fever and my body hurts and i cant really describe it and my doctors on vacay and i went to some other doctor in some other field and did a pee test and stuff and i seem normal. also i cant get a blood test b/c the damn liquid wont come out of me. i dunno why. prob b/c i never exercise so narrow blood veins? or i dunno?

does drinking water help people to take your blood? (for medical tests, in donating blood)

Yes, drinking water does help make your veins and your blood better...trust me, my nurse tells me all the time to drink more water to help make the vein stand out and to help it...anywho

I know that it is hard to describe how your body is, but I think I can help you more if you can describe it to me. ^^ I have Chronic Lyme diease and see...let's just say I know a lot about body pain and medical stuff...anyway, I think that maybe if you drink lots of water, Gatorade, stuff that helps your body. It will help you feel better cause it makes you pee all the bad stuff making you sick out. And rest helps too...

So if you can try to describe how your body is feeling, send me a private question. Or in your comment, give me your e-mail address and I'll send you something.

I wish you the best of luck, and I hope you feel better soon!

~Vera

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There's this guy at my church who's my age, let's call him "Mike" and I've had a little crush on him ever since I started going to this church, and it's been like 5 years now. And we're both 16. I know his grandmother and his mother, and I'm really close with them both, and they absolutely adore me. But me and Mike never really talked a lot until last year I had a bonfire at my house for the teens at our church. We talked a little, and we have little conversations every now and then. But I REALLY want to talk to him more, I just don't know how. And when we go back to the Teens Group during Service, I feel like he's always looking at me, and when I look over, I catch him. The thing is, he got a girlfriend a couple months ago, and she's 21! She's five years older than him! But idk what to do. Should I just let it go? My mom knows Mike, and she said that she always had a feeling that we would end up getting married or something. And we would look so perfect together. We both have brown eyes, and hair, same complexion, everything.
But what should I do? I find myself always thinking about him, and the other night I had a dream that we started dating, and I woke up with the BEST feeling in the world. Any advice on what I should do? And how I should strike up more conversations with him.
Thank you so much!

^^ Alright, I think I can help.

Well, ehre is a problem, he has a girl friend(Who, to me, is way to old for him...anyway). But even if he has a girl friend, doesn't mean you two can't get close!

Is he a guy that loves/likes sports? Talk to him about that, ask him what his favorite team is, talk about stuff like that.

Ask him what movies he has seen in the past couple weeks, if you have seen the ones he has, talk about them! And maybe tell him about a movie that you've seen, but he hasn't. If it is good, tell him and maybe say 'Hey, if you want, I'll go see it with you!(And this line, the one I'm about to type, only works if it is a good movie, or if you think it is) It such a good movie that I'll sit through it again' Or something like that.

If you two are close to each other and he and maybe a couple of people are having a convo about something, speak up! Say what you think!

Really, just start talking about something, and if everything is good, then everything will just start flowing really well.

I wish you the best of luck, and I hope I helped!

~Vera

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Alright, so basically, my hair is really frizzy, dry, coarse, think, and hard to manage. It takes me forever just to straighten it. And even then it doesn’t look shiny and smooth. So I was wondering, are relaxers good for your hair? You know the ones that you can buy in a box at the store. Because I've literally tried everything, but nothing helps my hair, believe me.

Also...What exactly are relaxers supposed to do for your hair? Thanks in advance!

Hey, in one mag, Cosomo girl, or 17, it says stuff about a hair style for frizzy hair, that layed down great but wasn't...like...I dunno. Anyway, you might want to look for that in there, I think it is the new one.

Have you tried when you first get out of the shower, to rise your hair with cold water? It has worked. Oh, and the frizzy-ness could have to do with the weather outside...which could be why it is really frizzy. XD

And I've never used relaxers...hang on, lemme look these up...

Wow, I'm pretty glad I look those up...here is a website from google (gotta love google)
http://www.skinbiology.com/truthabouthairrelaxers.html Here is some things people didn't like about them

And here is something else, about a girl wanting to do it, and her hair stylist was against it.

http://www.hairboutique.com/tips/tip616.htm

^^ Good luck!

Oh! My friend has the same problem with her hair, but she does something to where, she puts something in her hands and then bunches her hair together and it makes it look....really good. It is from Garnier. It isn't a shampoo or anything, it is a styling product.

~Vera

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