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insecurities :(
this school year, i've been moving from one clique to another cause i didn't fit in. until finally, i think my friends now are the ones.:) i love that they've accepted me and all but i can't help but get insecure because they're all pretty and fit. i know i shouldn't feel this way cuz there's more than just physical appearance but i can't help but feel it. especially when we go out and they could wear dresses or shorts with it looking good on them. please help meee.:(
13/f
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i totally understand this because my friends are extreeemely beautiful and i am pretty overweigght : / so i know the feeling, but they are your friends! they enjoy your company, they think you are a good friend, etc. i know it feels crappy to see them look so pretty when you go out, but i am like the funny person in the group and we are all so close and they have been there for me, thats all that matters. everyone has their insecurities, but dont let it get to you. your friends like your comapny, and your friendship, looks arent an issue..dont let it interfere with friends!
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awww. don't worry about it, yes it may feel weird but its whats inside that counts. you still have time to grow, who knows you could grow up to be better. plus i bet you have a great personality and thats what counts.
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Remember that when in the presence of true friends, you no longer need to feel insecure. You found friends that you feel are true friends, and they have accepted you for who you are. Give them the same respect and accept them for who they are. They wouldn't want you cutting yourself down or feeling insecure because of how they look.
You gotta start being happy being you. Yah, you have faults, but so do they. So do I. So does everyone. Our faults are a part of what makes us unique individuals.
Your friends have accepted you, now you have to accept yourself. Once you do that, then your friends are your friends- they aren't pretty and fit girls who make you look down on yourself because of their appearance.
I don't know. Maybe that didn't make sense.
ygs-29/f
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Uhmm...sweetie, I don't think we can help you if you don't give us more info...like your weight and everything...you know? ^^; but you really shouldn't matter how much you weigh and stuff...cause you are beautiful inside and out...
But if you want to make yourself stronger and stuff, just excerise more, and eat healthy...like drink more water, drink milk (Believe it or not, milk helps you loose weight and makes you get strong bones =D) and try to dance a lot ^^ Get Cosmo girl cause it has something in it to help you get stronger
Hoped I helped girl! Good luck!
~Vera
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