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i'm jealous because he is flirting with other girls
i'm 15, my bf is 14.
my boyfriend is always flirting with other girls.
i tried to ignore it for a while, but i just couldn't ignore it anymore.
so i told him that it annoyed me when he flirted with other girls, and especially in front of me. he said that he doesn't really think he is flirting with them, he just thinks he is being nice, or friendly or something.
i said that's ok but just don't go too far, you know.
the other day he told me he used to have crush on one of my friends.
she is pretty and popular and really nice. everyone else thinks this too, and i don't like that he used to like her.
this is because he still flirts with her, even when i am around.
he says that he doesn't like her anymore, but i just can't think that.
i think that because he always flirts with everyone else, that he doesn't really like me. he says that i am beautiful and that he loves me so much, but it doesn't feel like that....
i love him too, but sometimes it's just so frustrating...
can someone please help me how to deal with this
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well my adivce is some ppl don't realize when they are flirting and he is with you...so you just have to think of it this way ppl and say and do whatever they want but you are the one he is holding and loving in the end..not any of them..just you
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Your man should not be flirting with anyone else. That shows that he doesn't respect you and he cannot be trusted. You need to tell him how you feel and if he refuses to stop then he is refusing to be good to you. He shouldn't have any interest in flirting with anyone else or wanting the attention of any other girl. Its not something you should continue dealing with, its something that has to change.
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okay for one, you should be happy that at least hes flirting with other gurls in front of you instead of behind your back.
me personally, i consider a boyfriend flirting with other girls, CHEATING!. that bothers me so much.. gurl, youre 15 years old. when i was 15, i was dating 17 and older guys. i dont like lil boys and i dont like immature guys. so if i were you id break up with your boyfriend and try for someone thats older than you and more mature.
if youre wanting to stay with your boyfriend, then the trick to getting him to stop flirting, is to flirt with other guys, and not be so obsessed with him.(not saying that you are). just if you want him to want YOU more, then pay less attention to him. let him call you. let him text you. let him want to be with you.. you have to play the game. dress cute when youre around him and others. idk what else to tell you. hope everything works out!
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This is actually extremely simple hun.
You either believe that is being honest with you about his feelings for you and his behavior towards others.
OR
You think he’s a lying scum who is misleading you about his feelings for you and trying to pick up other girls right in front of you.
If you don't think he is scum, you better start taking some deep breaths and trusting him.
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Some people are just really open and flirty, nice to everyone, "the go-to guy" like that, I've known people like that and I've seen people like that. That is their nature and if what they do is misconstrued as flirting or maybe is flirting.. the bottom line is that you just have to be secure with yourself and trust your boyfriend. Confront him if you have further doubts. In short, you have already notified him of your feelings. If he keeps on disrepecting you like that, it's time to re-evaluate your relationship.
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show your bf what he's missing. like, be really flirty with him, etc. kiss him, hug him, love him. he can't resist you after that. and he'll respect you more.
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