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Well theres nothing to speical about myself im just another person. If anyones got any questions go ahead and ask I shouldnt bite that hard.
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15/f
ive been cutting myself for about two years. its not constant, in fact i stopped for about seix months, but lately ive kindof picked up where i left off and ive been cutting every few days now. i really really want to stop, but everytime i look it up online, i see things like "take a warm bath, go for a run, blahblahblah." and i really dont think that taking a bath or running is going to help me to stop cutting. i need ways on how to stop.
also, is there like an on-line couseling type of thing? where i could talk to a psychologist? i really dont want to tell my parents because they would be so dissappointed in me and wouldnt understand. but i just want someone professional to talk to. besides, i dont know if i could afford seeing a therapist.
please help me to stop cutting.
Try this website out: http://itheropy.com/
lately i have been very paraniod about everything, i use to just a little scared of things but now i cant stop thinking of killers and murderers coming to my house i cant sleep anymore because i keep having bad dreams when i dont think about scary things before i go to sleep. i had the same dream three times in a row and the killer in friday the 13th was in it and i hadnt even watched that movie in forever isnt that suppose to symbolize somthing . i sleep with my window closed my light on and the tv i dont even feel safe when a friend is sleeping over. what is wrong with me i was never like this before and i dont want to take pills for it.how do i get the bad dreams to stop and how do i stop being so scared and paraniod?
I have the same problem. I dont want to rain on you parade but truthfully they, it doesnt stop and medican doesnt work, well atleast not for me. The only thing I can say is its all in your head nome of its reaj. make yourself belive it and nothing helps its mental, its often helps to keep your thoughts on paper instead in ur head making you think about it. your the cause your the only one who can stop it.
hi i'm in love with a girl but my friends keep telling me to stop liking her cuz i'm a girl.so wa to do?
Ignor those foolish people! 1) They are your freinds and they should support you whatever and no matter what they would do this is you and part of you they should accept it. I wouldnt call them freinds. Simply tell them this is who you love and you dont care what they say. We have one life do what you want while you can. 2) love is Iove no matter what age realation or gender...best of luck
16/f
This is a little embarrasingg but I have a heavy flow..my period is extremely heavy when ever its that time of the month..its so heavy that it'll fill up a large pad in an hour or less...its so embarrasing because it sometimes leaks out and gets on my jeans..and ill walk around with a big period stain till someone says something to me..I don't know how to control it. How can I slow down my period without taking any birth control..and how can I fix my leaking problem..
That would be embarissing. used to happen to me. In case it still does happen always have a sweat shirt to put around your waist. If you can wear tampons wear one of those plus the pad for extra protection to stop those embarissing spills, hope this helps!
I'm really stuck..... so my supposed friend screwed me over big time. I was really into this guy fro two years well I was in the process of trying to move on...... my friend of like 7 years who I confided in about him everyday told me one day that she would never talk to him well we are at the same work and I have the habit of looking at the caller id well I went past him number in the caller id. I asked her about it and she started crying and said she didnt want me to get mad I told her not to lie that makes me more mad but then she had sex with him and lied again but eventually told me with a smirk on her face. Anyways I told her that I dont want to talk about him but everyday she tells me she is sorry and then tells me more stories about him everytime I try to tell her I dont think I can be her friend she gets all sad and Im a sucker for tears.. she was my best friend but she really hurt me!! Im so lost.
Drop her look what she did, thats not a true freind. And you know you deserve better then shes treating you. Dont let her walk all over you shes just using your weakness on you. You will feel better once you do and teach her a lesson
he's 16
and i didn't find this out until today, he said it always happened to him since he was little. he said that when he sleeps, once and a while he blacks out kinda like a comma and has low blood pressure, then his heart starts slowing down. he said he went to the doctor to get it checked up, they say that only happens when he had too much alcohol.. and they said it wasn't alcohol, so they didn't know what it was. i was thinking it was over stress, because his whole family is depending on him and he had money problems.. but i'm not that sure. can anyone help me on this?! i'm really worried, and i just want to take care of him.
The best thing to do is just be there for them. Make sure he has some one watbhing and keeping tabs on him while hes sleeping
he's 16 turning 17 next month.
recently, me and him kinda got into an incident where things happened and our family got upset. but apparently, i say that his father took it way too far.. he punched him in the stomach, and my boyfriend coughed out blood then passed out. he was already tired when that happened, because he was crying and he had marching band the whole day. and ever since, he said he's been throwing up blood... is there a way to stop him from throwing up blood?
HE NEEDS TO GO TO THE DOCTER RIGHT AWAY. Like people are saying. That is not legal you cant punch your son little lone make him blead. Thats abuse. He will go to jail for that. The enternail bleeding could cause death if not treated quick.
I've known this girl for a few years and I missed my chance out of pure stupidity several times. It wasn't just some stupid hormonal attraction either - it's like she's the first person who treated me like a human being and respected me for who I am. (I like the way the 70s were better than now - not that I was alive then - and people tend to harass me because of my style in everything.)
So she looked past the surface and saw who I really was, which is what made it so impossible to even ask anything. I wasn't used to this treatment.
Anyway, she moved LAST summer and I still can't get her out of my head. Any ideas?
Oh im sorry to hear. Thats so stupid they would treat you like that because of your style, everyone trys to blend in but you show who you really are that takes courge people should respect this, I know I do. I also have a weird taste I change my style alot like goth then skates then caussually. She must of been pretty kewl to see you for who you really are. Its a shame you didnt take the chance when you had it but dont think of it as a loss but rather a gain knowing someone saw you for who you are.
So i have another question about hamsters.
I'm sorry if it gets annoying! But i want to take good care of my hamsters. So i woke up and found blood in the cage. Does this mean she is in heat? So can she mate?
Please answer soon!
yepp just make sure theres not to much blood if there is you should get it looked at. :]
Okay we all have a point i think at witch we are stuck in between two people right? Well i am currently dating someone, who is absolutly amazing and there is no doubt that i love him and id never risk anything to lose him. BUT the thing is one of my really good friends says he loves me. He lives about 2 hours away from me so we dont see each other very often. I have always been interested in him and i love him as more than a friend but im not IN love with him. We have been friends for almost a year. Now heres the catch i got pretty close with his best friend and he told me a whole bunch of stuff about collin that threw me off, basically he was a huge player and would say anything to get into a girls pants, it fit considerably well with all the girls around him and his myspace. So i backed off and began questioning his intentions with me. Then i found out that Aaron, his best friend had it really bad for me. Of course collin denied everything but i question some of the things aaron told me not all but some. Not to mention i flat out told collin that i wasnt going to sleep with him and he still tells me that he loves me and im still number one on his tops. Not to mention hes very loyal to his girlfriends. He calls me 'his baby' and makes me feel all special inside. I let him know that i love him but that nothings going to come out of that because i dont trust him. he understands that. i guess i just need some advice on what everyone thinks of him.
If you want something outa this then I say take a chance and if you get your heart broke thats a bummer and you will know that you deserv someone better. Love can make you do some crazy things! Can you trust were your hdarng this info from? Be carefull or you might loose something then wish you had given him a chance. Let him in and dont give him sex. If he treats you any different then u know thats all he wants. If he doesnt then you have a pretty decent guy. I hope this helps!! Becca/14
17/f
So everyone, it seems like last night I slept like a baby, but my dreams made me so uneasy every time I woke up. I know that some people don't believe in dream interpretation, others do. So for those who wanna take a stab at it, I'd really appreciate this :]
My first dream was basically either my bf's dad dying, or my dad. Either way, it made me feel super horrible in this dream. But before the death, I remember it was wintery, and there was a reporter doing what he did best (reporting lol) and there was a machine. Idk what it was but he put his eye close to it and all this glass shot out, hitting him in his eye. And all I remember is watching him roll around in pain and blood dripping and I couldn't do anything. Then he attempted to take out the glass and his whole eye came out but the eye was very long like in the cartoons and thats when I felt like dying in my own dream...
My second dream was pretty normal, I went somewhere to do paperwork, like the DMV, and after a while it seems like I'm walking home with my bf in my old neighborhood... When I get to the building I ring the wrong doorbells and this older woman comes out saying who the hell rang her doorbell so we ignored her and walked in the house. My parents were there and the lady unlocked the door... throughout that whole dream she chose me as her victim to put a curse on, she would follow us around with her daughter, making sure I would have the curse on me, and there was this guy on a missing poster, and I realized these 2 women put the curse on him too.
I don't know it's really weird, I RARELY dream about death of a loved one.. or death in general. To sum it up, I've never had these types of dreams... Anyone care to help?
Uniq :]
Hmmm this is a hard one. maybe somethGngs trying to tell you someone important is going to die. sorry I cant be of much help. :]
i have had my puppy dolphin for 5 years and she has made me itch only sometimes when she licks me but i figured it was just from eating grass outside. then i went on vacation for 4 days, come back, and she doesnt lick me but i still itch. she just sat in my lap and i got all red and blotchy! i am not allergic to dogs and there is no reason why i should be itchy! what the heck is the problem?
Maybe something that was on the dog??
17/f my family doesn't really support me being vegetarian so I basically have to cook for myself. I don't really know what to make. I don't eat any kind of meat and I dont ever plan on it, it grosses me out. So what's good that I can make? I've been living on yogurt and noodles. Ha any suggestions? By the way, I've never had tofu, I don't know where to find it, and also I don't like the taste of meat so yeah don't think I'd want it:)
Someone like me finnally!! Lol here are a few ideas that I eat. 1) Vegitable Eggrolls 2) Meatless taco Salad 3) Macoronie pasta If you want some good recipes email me at Lonley35@gmail.com
Hello everyone. This question is more for guys, or for females who have faced similar circumstances. I'm open to any answers, but I really need a "personal experience" perspective, not an opinion, from a girl ;]
My boyfriend wears AWFUL jeans. Now, I'm not complaining, 'waaah I wanna change my man and he wears loose jeans'. No. He's worn the same jeans for five years. Literally.These jeans have missing pockets, are ripped beyond recognition, and have paint splatters from his job (which is putting it nicely. There's more paint than jean in some cases)
I don't have issues in that he still wears them. It's the fact that he wears these jeans when he go out on dates that bothers me. Would it be out of line to buy him new jeans? I know his size, and what brands he likes. And I wouldn't be forcing him to throw out jeans he loves- I know that men refuse to throw anything out that they think is comfortable (my dad's the same way, as is every other male I know). I just want my boyfriend to look nice when we're out!
So, guys, would you be mad if your girlfriend bought you a new pair of jeans and asked you to wear them when you were on a date?
We've been dating for almost a year, he's 19, I'm 17. Thank you!
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My ex-did the same thing. I took him shopping to get a new shirt. At first he was mad but soon got over it and became thankfull. Soon he was wearing his new shirt to much.
Okay so I need some tips on losing weight. I'm not fat! But, I just want to lose weight cause everyone is thin around me. So, I work out everyday (for the past 9 months)..and I sometimes don't eat a lot. I know, it's unhealthy, but I'm never hungry =/. So my question is..how can I lose weight fasterr?
you dont need to loose wait cos everyone else around u is skinny you look fine the way wou are i can promise. I too never eat but it doesnt make me skinnier. But different peoples bodys loose weight different ways.
hey guys, okay so i'm at a pretty unhealthy weight. not so overboard that health issues are becoming a scare but enough that at the rate i am going, they very well could be in the near feature.
so i'd really like to shed some pounds. the biggest reasons i'd like to do this are for more self confidence, and because heart problems and diabetes run in my family. i'd like to be at a relatively healthy weight in order to keep myself from having any of the stated diseases. anyone who is considered overweight and has tried to lose the weight without help knows how difficult it can be, and especially if you don't really have ANY SUPPORT from your family.
SO WHAT I AM ASKING FOR IS; tips and tricks! please. just somethings i can do to help shed some pounds and become a healthier person. i'm not dying to be thin, just to be thinnER.
*oh, and if you're going to suggest a gym. i have subscribed to CURVES for women, and have been going.. what i am looking for is additional advice. and also eating habits, or sites that help with eating and diets. foods that are okay, foods that are not. that sort of thing. i can't afford weight watchers, or jenny craig because i am only 18, and can't afford that.
any advice would be very appreciated!
thankyou.
Well some of my family are extremly over weight too so I complety understand. Yes it will be hard to do this by your self but you can do it if you have enough determination. Stop the pop this helps so much. Try a morning walk. It gets you ready for the day also. Your family should support you but they may not because they think your perfect the way wou are.
i am living with my boyfriend at home with my mum i am 16 & he is 25 & i have been with him a year now i know about our age diffrence but i love him so much and i want to be with him forever but we have been arguing latly and one day i went on his imesh a website were you can download music and meet people and he had set his own account up and he had pictures of himself with no top on and o the acount it asks a question 'what i'm here for and he has clicked the date and hook up choice i confronted him about it and neally kicked him out but he got really upset and told me it was a mistake i forgave him but now he should be making up to me but hes just acting the same way as he always did and i am startin to wonder wether i had made the right decision ????
First of all I would like to say age is just a number. If hes making more then 1 more mistake like this I would begin to have seriouse doubts. Also he has no right to treat you like that you deserved way better then that! I know you dont want to hear that because you love him but be cautiouse because in a realation ship anything could happen.
Okay, I meet this guy in august a year ago and we have become friends pretty quick well by october I started to REALLY like him well that lasted for a while and kinda died down a little. but it was never a problem Well since mid june me and him have been texting everyday and those strong feelings came back, only I started to like him alot more then I ever did. And He is a really good friend and i don't want anything awkward to come between us. and he flirts alot and he told me that he use to like me back in october but I haven't said anything about me likeing him, cause im really shy and i think it might screw up our friend ship. and he is all I think about, every text I get every message I hope its him, I love it when he talks to me, hugs me, teases me. but He flirts with basically ever girl. So i need help, I feel like Im going crazy...Am i going crazy? How do i get over him? I want to but its like a mental block that won't let go of those feelings for him. is there anyway I can get over him without screwing up my friendship with him? please help!
Well if you feel this way and you really like him tell him, those feelings most likley they wont go away. Perhapes if you to date he will stop flirting with all the other girls.