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that "other" person
Okay we all have a point i think at witch we are stuck in between two people right? Well i am currently dating someone, who is absolutly amazing and there is no doubt that i love him and id never risk anything to lose him. BUT the thing is one of my really good friends says he loves me. He lives about 2 hours away from me so we dont see each other very often. I have always been interested in him and i love him as more than a friend but im not IN love with him. We have been friends for almost a year. Now heres the catch i got pretty close with his best friend and he told me a whole bunch of stuff about collin that threw me off, basically he was a huge player and would say anything to get into a girls pants, it fit considerably well with all the girls around him and his myspace. So i backed off and began questioning his intentions with me. Then i found out that Aaron, his best friend had it really bad for me. Of course collin denied everything but i question some of the things aaron told me not all but some. Not to mention i flat out told collin that i wasnt going to sleep with him and he still tells me that he loves me and im still number one on his tops. Not to mention hes very loyal to his girlfriends. He calls me 'his baby' and makes me feel all special inside. I let him know that i love him but that nothings going to come out of that because i dont trust him. he understands that. i guess i just need some advice on what everyone thinks of him.
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If you want something outa this then I say take a chance and if you get your heart broke thats a bummer and you will know that you deserv someone better. Love can make you do some crazy things! Can you trust were your hdarng this info from? Be carefull or you might loose something then wish you had given him a chance. Let him in and dont give him sex. If he treats you any different then u know thats all he wants. If he doesnt then you have a pretty decent guy. I hope this helps!! Becca/14
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you need to know a goodthing when you have it and sometimes it sucks cause you dont realize ituntil their gone.so i dont think you should throw away what you and your boyfriend have. the other two guys can be lieing and it would take alot for you to trust them. but i think you do love your boyfriend but your just confused because of all the other attention from other guys , which is obviously understandable. my boyfriend i have right now for a yearr was considered a player and got around too but i didnt open up to him for awhilee. and then grew to trust him alittle more and now i love him. but if you want to breakup with your boyfriend you have to make sure its what you want and to risk the chance that those other 2 guys might just be jerks. so just take it sloww for noww and dont rush anything causeyou might lose the person you might really want
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I think both of the guys are probably trying to get with you and are both player types. You have a good thing with your boyfriend. I don't think you can really trust the 2 guys all that much. It's just better safe than sorry. Plus you have something good already.
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