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Hi All, My name is Tara, 22 yrs breathing, and living in Houston, TX. BORN AND RAISED... I am currently a Junior at UH, and work at a school. I am an education major... so as you can see my life is devoted to service and I love watching my students grow in character and learning abilities.... I will try to answer advice honestly and to the best of my abilities....

I've been through alot of ups and downs, but they have yet to stop me... I was that go to friend when my friends had problems as well...

Feel free to contact me via AIM or YAHOO IM if you have anything you would like to ask me personally.




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ok i got off my period 2 days ago and i after that 2 days i started bleeding a lot more is that normal

yes it's normal.... your period is probably just irregular... if it continues that way, then maybe you should go get checked out by an Gynocologist....

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Do guys just want girls who are hot? Or something more?

No, they just want sex. It's very hard to find the guys who just wants a girl to love that he ACTUALLY likes. You just have to keep searchin for them!

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This guy and I were going out and he gave me 3 chances but I messed up and now he left me with no sympathy! If I try and talk with him about it, he doesn't listen. How do I get over him?

If he's giving you chances, he's willing to try to work it out, but actually he didn't really care. That's why he probably why he left without sympathy, the best thing you can do is move on. TRUST ME it takes a long time to heal. If you want an estimate of how long, I'd say if you really loved him, about 6 months- 1 year.... so keep your head up high and good luck!

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What qualifies someone as a prep? Some girls say I am, but not the stuck up kind, but is being a prep bad?
- Im a cheerleader
- I love Abercrombie and Hollister
- I say like alot
- But i do have some zits
- I`m not the MOST GORGEOUS person, but im not like really ugly

Would you consider me a prep?

Nothing qualifies you as a prep, you can only be you, and if people say u are a prep or stuck up, their just doing their job, HATING..... but be true and stay you! If you like who u are, why should it matter what anyone else thinks?

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You see my best friend has this boy bofreind right. And to me she is spending way more time with him then me. Thats the only person she talks about to. I have been her best friend since the 4th grade he just been her bf for a couple of months. What should I do?

Gurl I am the same boat you are... there's pretty much nothing you can do... but one thing you can do is let her know you still exist (w/o being mean) ask her honestly if she would choose you over him... if not, then you know she's not your friend. And if her and her bf break-up (I wouldn't have no sympathy but) she would come right back to you... you gotta let her know when he's gone don't come running back to me, or you can be a bigger person than me and be there for her..... that's jux my opinion... hope I somewhat helped... God Bless and Good Luck!

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My sterio CD thing wont open. I have a Cd stuck in there and it won't open. i'm worried. Anyone know how i can get it to open? answer QUICKLY!

Unplug it completely and try all over again.... hope this helps somewhat...

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I have Sims delux edition and i dont know how to install it I lost my book on how to start it..does anyone know the run thing? can someone just help me!! lol thx! ~*Andie*~

Pop the CD in and it should have the menu pop.... then it will ask if you want to Install the Sims Deluxe edition....make sure you have the CD case hany when it's time to put in the Serial Number. It's located on the back of the cd case in the lower right hand corner.

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I'm a really shy, boring, ugly girl. Don't say I'm not ugly, believe me, I look awful - frizzy hair, horrid skin, big teeth - you'd be sick if you saw me. I don't have a life. I don't ever go out or have fun anymore because the friends I have are so immature and I don't really like going out with them because they always end up bullying me or asking random guys out for me, it's so embarrassing, and the boys say something like, "No way, she's a minger". I can't make more friends because I hate talking so much and I feel sick just thinking about it. I have 2 best ever friends in the world but I moved house and I can only speak to them on the phone, I want to move back because I hate it here - but my mum won't budge. I really want a boyfriend and I'm lonely but I'm so ugly and boring that no guy would ever be interested. Why is it I'm so ugly, what have I done to deserve this? I hate being me. I don't know what to do because I can't change the way I look and I've always been shy. I'm 14 and never had a bf, and I know I'm not the only one who hasn't but I feel ready. No boy would ever like me :/ I don't really see the point in life because I never have fun, every week is the same, and my grades are slowly going down at school because I can't sleep at night any more. I just want to feel loved.. sorry if that sounds pathetic but that's what I feel like. They say there's someone for everyone out there, but I guess some people were made to be single. I don't want to be single, and with Valentine's Day coming up I feel even more depressed. Also if you can help, I really need to 'let myself go', like I want to have fun but I get worried I'll look stupid so I don't do it, how can I stop being scared of everything Sorry I have so many stupid problems but please help :'(

Wow, your story really did touch me, you sound sooo much like me it's not even funny. You know, I've only had one bf in my life, and that was a year ago, and now I am lonely too. Yeah like what you said, You gotta let go, and also let god. My friends and I call it "Let Go, and Let God" Let god handle things in your life. When he's ready for you to have a boyfriend, then sure enough he'll be right there in your face. You need to go out, have fun...I know it's hard when your alone but the more you worry about your problems, the sicker your gonna get. You need to be concerned about your schoolwork!!!! That's the most important thing! What if a man comes and decides he wants to leave, and you have kids, whose gonna take care of the children??? and how??? You've got to learn to love yourself too first. I don't like my looks and weight and all, but I have to deal with it. God made me like this for a reason, so I tuff it out. Even though it seems like you have no purpose, your here for a reason, and through God's eyes, were all special! So always remember that God Loves You and I do too! *sMiLeZ*, if you ever need someone to talk to, I'm always here! I hope this somewhat helpz! God Bless And Beebyes!

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hey!!
ok i really like this guy and one of his friends came up to me and he was like your goin out with him ( the guy i like ) and i was like WhAT! so i dont no if im goin out with him or not i dont no what to do should i jsut pretend liek i dont no wats goin on or talk to him about it??? this is so confusing i mean i like him alot!! and i have waited for him to ask me out forever!!! so yeah what do i do beacuse what if i go up to him and talk to him about it and hes like what are you talkin about? id look like a fool!! haha so yeah plz help me im really confused
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thanks

Tellem "WHAT'S UP PLAYAH!?!"....no jux talk to him in private and ask him what's going on between you two... what's the worst that can happen your not gonna loose your life over this and if you never find out his response, you'll never know! SO JUX ASK! GOOD LUCK! God Bless! :)

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sorry this is so long but i REALLY need ALOT of help...please read it...=(

my friend told me that my boyfriend was cheating on me with TWO other girls..we dont go to the same school but we see eachother ALOT and her cousin goes to his school and said that he has other girlfriends. i love my boyfriend so much and just before she told me all this my boyfriend was on the phone telling me how much he loves me and stuff. i asked his friend about it because hes my really good friend too and he said he didnt know anything about it and he doesnt think my boyfriend would do something like that to me. i dont know. he wasnt home last night when i called so it kind of made me suspicious. i'm going to call him today and ask him about it but i dont know how to ask him. i dont know if i should believe him if he says no either. what if he is? i dont THINK my friend would lie to me, but i never even met her cousin. and lately my boyfriends kind of been blowing me off though to be honest. like hes too busy for me. so i dont know im really confused. i dont know like if he says no im not cheating on you if i should believe him because what if he is? but i dont think he would admit it if he was. not many guys would be like OH YEA I AM CHEATING! you know? please help me..

Look at your options: You either since here in misery knowing wether or not he is cheating on you, OR, you jux ask him and at least me sure. If you study hard enough, you'll realize your options are limited. If he has been blowing you off, I think that kinda signals it. It's happened to me and yes he was cheating on me. So don't be a fool, let him know what the deal is....Good Luck!

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theres this guy and i really like him alot. and i think he likes me too. i dont know if i should wait till he asks me out or if i should ask him out. i really like him alot im like in love with him. what should i do? he seems to like me but im not sure if he likes me like i like him. should i take my chance and ask him out? or should i wait till he asks me out?

Yes! Yes! Yes! Take the chance! Let him know how you feel! If you don't ever tell him or ask him, you'll never know how he feels in return.... and if you think about it what's the worst that can happen? Your not gonna loose your life over this! So take the chance! Good Luck and I hope this helps! God Bless!

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Where can i buy a du rag??

Dollar Store! One Buck! WHAT A BARGAIN!

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ok so theres this guy and hes rele nice and i like him a lot. He has a good personality and is into cross country and on the math team also just like i am. We go to two different schools (i go to an all girls school and he goes to the all guys school rite next door to my school.) And noth schools math teams practice together so i c him every tuesday and thursday. Im always so excited when it comes around to tues or thurs. But i dont have enough confidence to talk to him yet. Any advice on how to talk to him without making it obvious or making a fool out of myself? Anything would really be appreciated!
Thanx in advance

So what's the problem? Jux talk to him! Let him know who you are and that you've been noticing him around. Ask for a number or somthing! Don't be scared to approach him or anything cause what's the worst that can happen? Your not gonna loose your life over this...and if you don't let him know anything, he'll never know you even exist! So don't be shy, just say hi! :D

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(16/F) Alrighty then, there is this guy that I've liked since last year. (name is...Frank) I have told Frank that I like him three time to his face, and we are not going out. I was wondering if it would be weird if I got him a Christmas present. I know its not Christmas yet, but I want to figure this out before hand. Please tell me what you think. Thanks in advance.

Signed-
Just Wondering

I think you should!

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I've had my period for almost 10 months now and it still doesn't come on the same days or "schedule" or whatever. I don't know when I am going to get it, because it's such a bad frequency. I don't want to leak in school, and I'm always scared that I did leak, and I didn't notice, and like people are laughing behind my back. I just don't know what to do. I don't wear pads either so..please help?

Oh the same thing happened to me, but I was on myne for 4 months straight non-stop. You need to go to the doctor because they are gonna give you a papsmear and prolly put you on birth control. I hope everything is fine! Good Luck!

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okay i just started my period. I have a few questions.
a)if when you put a tampon in, and in 6 hours later when you take it out. and theres blood on it.but when you wear a pad and you take it off, and theres no blood. is this a period?
b) can you bathe with tampons in?
c)is mastrubation with your period a bad idea
d)it acually hurts when i insert a tampon, could it be that i forgot to take a previous tampon out?
e)what exactly are cramps?
f)is it healthier to wear a pad or insert a tampon?
g) can you get pregnent if you are having your period?
h)is having sex with your menstrual flow an unhealthy idea?

thanks

a)could be, more than likely it is
b)yes
c)I dunno, but I think it would be
d)since when would you forget the last tampon?
e)painful, it's like someone keeps punching you in the same spot
f)I wear both (espically when I am at school, so when I got to the restroom, the whole world won't know I'm on it.
g)I doubt it.
h)sounds like it to me.

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okay well i feel really stupid asking this but okay here i go.. i have done everything with a guy besides suck dick/blowjob w/e.. okay and its not that i dont want to bc i do but im scared! What if i dont do it right or sumthing?! Do you have any advice on how to do it or step by step or anything?! If so thanx! i really appreciate it!
-Desperate girl-

Umm...my personal opinion, I WOULD NEVER GIVE HEAD! Sorry, they piss and come through the same hole...It's polly all dirty and nasty down there, and it's prolly been in other female's you know what, but if you want to do it, go ahead....but seriously think about.....

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Okay, here's the thing. I have a friend who used to really really like this guy. She was like obsessed! :o It annoyed me sometimes...well, onto the point. I like him now, and my friend likes somebody else. It's been quite a while since she liked him. Well, now I like him. But I'm afraid my friend might still like him, plus I'm not sure he likes me back, even though I think so. Please answer, and please be realistic. Don't be all like "Forget your friend, ask him out!!11"

Thanks in advance...
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Ummm... I dunno how close you and ur friend is but I would ask how she feels about him and how would she feel knowing you like the guy she used to like, and if she says it's no prob, ask the other guy if he likes you and dun be afraid to ask....and if you never ask, you'll never find out how he felt! Well good luck! Beebyes!

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hey, well i went out with this one guy for like 9 1/2 months we did fucking everything together! we spent every day together and its not been a month sense we broke up and i want him bak, but the thing is that i have a new boyfriend...hes a sweetheart and everything, but hes a junior when im only a freshman...my new boy is great but i want my old one bak...i juss want things bak to teh way that they used to b, bc now i dont think i can ever b happy again!!! i miss him so much i still love him and i want him bak to bad...but the thing is idk if he wants me bak...i feel really bad about this whole situation...please help me!!!

P.S.- dont tell me to move on!!! i would if i could trust me, but he is all that my heart wants!!! HELP!!!!

Then TELL HIM! Don't sob over him cause then you'll have to spend the rest of your life wandering if he ever wanted you back.....and if he loves you like he said he did, then he should be more than willing to take you back. But if you cheated on him or something, then I dunno why he would take you back, but if you did, that's how you can really tell he loves you. God Bless & Good Luck! TELL HIM B4 IT'Z TOO LATE! ~Beebyes~

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