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I feel so bad about everything about me. My personality, who I am, my life, my race, I just really don't like who I am. Everytime I make a little mistake i go over it again and again in my mind just telling myself how stupid I am and how everyone's going to remember it. I hope I don't sound complainy, but that's just how it is. Could there be something wrong with me?
No you need to calm down and be happy with who you are. You have to understand that there are people out there who have it alot worse then you. Yeah maybe you've been put through rough stuff but nothing is wrong with you.
so ive asked questions on here before about my stepmom and family sit or whatever but here I am again. so..
Im supposed to be going to my dads in Nevada in like 2 weeks. im way excited because i love my Dad and miss him like crazy. I also love my stepmum but havent been real close with her and want to be. any ideas of some fun stuff her and I can do together? My mom is still being nasty about mhy dad as usual but after tlking with a skool councelor and stuff i know she acts this way because she is kind of jealous that my dad has remarried and is happy and she hasnt done that yet so i just ignore her. any ideas for stuff to do in that area? thnks!
Well im not from nevada so i dont know specifics. But depending on what your step mom is like you could try mini golf or going to the movies or maybe go shopping at the mall. Try to maybe go out to eat or go get your hair done or your nails. Something fun but like i said im not from around there but there go for ideas.
So me and my boyfriend have been together for around 9 months, and he is 22 and I am 20.. I want to do something really special for him for no reason..what should I do that won't be over the top, but will be just perfect for us. He loves to drink and party, and we both have outrageous senses of humor, we also attend Baylor together..help! Thankss
Well you could cook him dinner and maybe light some candles of course get him a present and then just maybe make love.
Ok so heres the thing. Im 20/f Bisexual. im caught between 2 girls. the first girl ive been w/ for a year and a half now. were technically not together but we live together and basically are but without the title. the second girl is both my and my current girls ex and is now one of our best friends. we all hang out together all the time. neither of them know but i really have strong feelings for the second girl still(both of our ex). sometimes i feel like she has feelings for me too bc like for example we'll all go to the club and shell dance w/ me but she liek grabs my sides real hard and everything and then like if were walkin out and shes behind me shell grab my hand and everything. i kinda try to show her sometimes that i have feelings for her in like little ways like grabbing her hand and squeezing it but i dont know if she realizes. and its not something i can just tell her w/ out my current girl finding out bc im pretty sure the other girl will tell her. i would love to be with this girl but i dont know how she feels about and shes not trustworthy at all. shes cheats on like everyone shes with. even if she did want to be w/ me im not sure if id be willing to give up the girl i have right now. i dunno im just really confused and i dont know what to do. i know this is a long confusing story but i would really appreciate any advice..
thanks!
My advice is that you shouldnt leave your current girlfriend because she treats you good so im assuming. This other girl could be a girl that you like and hook up with but she doesnt seems like girlfriend material. Im not bi and i guess i dont understand but i think that its like the same with males too. If shes going to cheat then dont do it because you are just going to end up hurt, while hurting your current girlfriend. Good luck hope this helps
what do you call a bunch of bananas when they're naturally all together?
Yupp they are called a bunch a bunch of bananas i dont think that there is another word for it.
i have verizon and my boyfriend has t mobile
he lives in florida and i live in illinois
we talk everynight from aroud 9 and sometimes past two
yesterday we talked from around 2 to 430.
i know that is long distance. how much did that cost?
Im not really sure but i have a suggestion maybe for him if you guys dont want to really switch carriers. he could probably get a cheap prepayed phone so then you can have free verizon to verizon good luck
i just got my tongue pierced yesterday &; i was just wondering what to do &; what not to do. when can i change my long bar to a shorter one? i can't eat/talk right with the long one in. is alcohol-free mouthwash alright to use? salt water? also, i have this little tiny ring of whitish yellow discharge around the barbell at the bottom of my tongue. is this normal? OH! &; do you think it would be okay to drink?
I would suggest that you dont drink until that discharge goes away. Also i wouldnt drink for about a month or so until your tounge starts to heal. Alcohol free mouth wash should be okay but it might bother that discharge. The discharge im not sure if its normal or not but i got it as well. Dont change the ring until about 6 weeks, i know it seems pointless but at the same time its for a reason. Thats the one they put in, also it is clean and if you take it out and change it you could open it up to a world of infections. Good Luck
my vagina has a very strong smell to it. it's not an infection or anything. it's always been stong. i was just wondering if the gyno can prescribe medication or something for me? or if there's something i can do at home to help. i just get sort of uncomfortable when i'm "intimate" with my boyfriends, even though it really doesn't bother him. thanks. :)
Well vaginas have a very "natural" smell. It almost smells like discharge that is like body odor almost. That is very normal. Maybe you need to buy a douche kit. This sounds very odd but it cleans the vagina, it also can rinse blood away after a period,get rid of odors and avoid stds also to prevent pregnancy. You might want to ask your gnyocologist first before you Douche or maybe ask them if they can give you something. good luck
I started dating this guy about a month ago. We met at a bar and hit it off right away. We just became exclusive this past weekend, and I was really happy.
Unfortunately, a bundle of shitty relationships has got me paranoid about everything in a relationship. I've dated many guys, but always hesitated when it came to having an actual boyfriend.
If he doesn't call, I assume that something is wrong. Not even about him dating other girls or whatever-- but more so, the fact that he could change his mind at any moment, and I'll be back to nothing. It's clear that we want each other, when we're with each other. But, any time in between I spend wondering why he's not calling, and if it's because I did something wrong and it gave him second thoughts.
I don't want to push him away, or sabotage the relationship like I have in the past. I like this guy a lot and I want to make the most out of it and not worry about what he's thinking all the time.
So to my question.. what is it that keeps a guy from waiting so long to make a call? If it takes more then a few hours, when is it okay to just call him? It feels new, and awkward. But it mostly feels like maybe we rushed into things since I'll still too uncomfortable with my security.
Help?
I completely understand ive had so many bad experiences before my fiance now. and as he can vouch i am definatly insecure. But you need to realize that maybe he is just busy. Maybe hes sleeping, maybe he is doing something important. I mean i know about being paranoid, but at the same time you may drive this guy away if your too needy. Maybe you just need to talk to him about it and discuss how your feeling about this. Communication is the best thing in a realationship. I mean you need to be able to talk to him about what you feel.
I have a laptop with Windows Vista installed.
How do I make my folders private?
At the moment al of my files are visible to other computer users.
Can anyone help me?
Are they being shared by limewire, napster or bearshare etc.
If they are then you have to go to the setting and choose to stop sharing the files
If you have anymore questions message me back.
I am trying to earn 100 dollars(USD)to buy a digital camera before August and so far I only have 20 something dollars.I need ideas to help me make money faster.
Heres what I can't do:
mow lawns,have a lemonade stand,babysit,have a yardsale,care for pets,you name it.
So any help?or ideas?
Well depending on your age around 16 you can try and get a little job part time like walmart or something under that you can try and get jobs for your parents friends maybe around your neighborhood. Good luck
I've been cleaning my laptop over the last two days, and my keys are all sticky (not sure why :p) and also underneath the keys is disgusting. Would it be safe to pull them off, carefully, clean it, and then put them back?
Go to a store like bed bath and beyond and ask for a keyboard cleaner tool, its like a mini tool the size of a screwdriver that blows air and misty water sometimes under the keys to clean it off its safer that way because if you take the keys off you might not colobrate the right way and then you'll need a new keyboard
I'm a 13 year old girl and guys at my school only like girls who are big chested and have big butts,I was wondering if theres anything
(non steryl)I could do to make my butt and breasts grow faster(get bigger)
I have a pretty face and all but no ones interested in that.
So is there anything I can do before school starts in September?
I understand your frausteration. But at the same time really there isnt anything you can do but give it time. I know its difficult to maybe not fit in and you think maybe the guys wont like you but there is someone out there who will like you for you. Forget changing be yourself. And plus if the guys there are going for the girls who have that stuff then they just judge off of looks and thats not the type of person you want to be with.
well so there is this guy and i think i should slowly start to talk to him less. its rather complicated but i just dont kno if hes really that great a person and used to do bad stuff and i think he might just say what he thinks i want to hear. so ya i think it might be best if i closed off from him a little. but i really like the guy attention and having someone to talk to! i dont have a lot of friends here because i just moved here tho i do have some friends from when i used to live here but still. part of me wants to keep talking to him but the other part knows its best if i dont get really close to him. plus i dont want to lead him on because hes already kissed me but i told him that was a mistake an stuff and hes actually brought up us dating in the future and stuff. thanks! :)
While the attention is great its nice to feel like you have someone there for you, at the same time its horrible because he might do those bad things again and you might get hurt. you might want to consider a good friendship. Maybe you may want to talk to him about the things he did before. As for dating if its what you want and you feel its right then go for it. You have every right to feel good about yourself and if hes what makes you that way then go for it.
whats the name of the song herE?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FTj5Rac-4Ec
Its called a Lesson Learned by Carrie Underwood
okk soo friday im going to the lake for the weekend with some people. i have fast metabolism so im naturally thin but i just have a little extra pudge. i know it's only 3 days but are there any things i can do between then and now that'll make me look lean and make my muscles pop so i'll look at least somewhat toned?
My only suggestion is maybe to go out and workout either that or just go run for awhile other then that there is nothing you can just take to make them pop out you know? so try eating better and working out more? Good Luck
Go on the detox diet its foods with high water content and low calories. Heres a sample.
Day 1:
Morning- 1/2 grape fruit, slice of toast, 2 tbs peanut butter, black coffe or tea
Lunch- 1 can tuna, 1 slice toast, black coffee or tea
Dinner- 3oz of a meat(circa 2 slices) 1 cup beats, 1 cup string beans, 1 cup vanilla ice cream, 1 small apple
Day 2:
Morning- 1 slice toast, 1 egg, half of a banana black coffee or tea
Lunch- 1 Cup plain cottage cheese, 5 saltine crackers
Dinner- 2 hot dogs (no buns) 1 cup broccoli, 1/2 cup carrots(fresh or canned) 1/2 cup vanila ice cream, half of a banana
Day 3:
Morning- 5 saltine crackers, 1 slice cottage cheese,1 small apple, black coffee or tea
Lunch- 1 hard boiled egg, 1 slice toast
Dinner- 8 oz. Tuna, 1 cup cauliflower, 1 cup beets, 1/2 cup vanilla ice cream, 1/2 cantaloupe
**diet works stricly on chemical break down of foods. You must eat EVERYTHING it says each day for each meal, NO SUBSTITUTES or the diet WILL NOT WORK. Only seasonings allowed to be used are salt and pepper. after the 3 days, you will lose between 4-10lbs
After 4 days you can eat normal foods but dont over do it
Okay, so I'm not a caffeine JUNKY, but lately I've been drinking around two cups of coffee per day, mainly to keep alert while studying. I don't want to depend on coffee to keep me awake...but of course, I don't want to be worn out by mid-afternoon. I am planning to start a basic workout routine, like doing yoga or going swimming, and I am sure it'll help keep me energized...for now, once I sit down at a desk, I feel kind of tired after a couple hours or so.
But anyway, I have a couple of questions:
>>A) How can I give up coffee/caffeine without feeling lethargic and tired?
B)Any ideas on other things (only natural) I can eat/drink that will keep me energized? I have heard that green tea is good- any ideas on that?
Thank you!
A good idea to get away from caffeine is probably just to drink less and less everyday so maybe for a few weeks just 1 cup of coffee and then stop all together and just get tons of sleep to make up for the caffeine your taking away. Good luck
hi me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 and a half months im 19 and so is he when we first starting dating it was great he called me every night he texted me all the time and we always had fun together now he rarely calls or texts if he does call its around midnight and if i call him he is always with his friends and either says i cant talk right now or he talks to them the whole time while i am on the phone listeneing and sometimes he calls me when he is with the friends and i just have to listen to him talk to them and now we are always fighting he never invites me to do anything with him and his friends anymore either he awways teels me wat hes doing as hes doing it doesnt even invite me and his friends are over every night and he says he didnt invite them that they have a key and he doesnt even wanna b there with them we never really go out anymore we just sit at home and watch tv he says he is always romantic but i cant even remember the last time he was wat should i do to help our relationship
I feel that this situation is a really bad one. But next time he calls even if hes with his friends you should talk to him about it. Maybe the best thing to do is tell him that you guys should be friends until he can find time for you. But be cool and calm about it, no reason to loose your cool. You have to rely on how you feel now, when you guys havent talked and your asking for advice, compared to being head over heels you know there is something wrong, also dont neglect your friends through this. Guys come and go but your friends will always be there for you no matter what. You might not think its a good idea but it might be the best for you to just get up and move on? Good Luck i hope it helped
does my period last my whole life or what
Not at all. As im assuming you must of just started your period. Eventually you will hit menopause. Which is basically another type of your period but you dont bleed. And you have hot and cold flashes, but no bleeding. Hope that helped
Do guys have a specific sized nipple that they like? Like is big or small better. How do you make your nipples appear smaller?
All guys are different. It depends on there preference. Some men like butts instead of breasts some like tummys not nipples. It all depends on the guy. If you really want to know you should ask him how he likes them. But at the same time dont change the way you are. You cannot make your nipples appear smaller because they are your nipples your stuck with them. I feel that there is no reason for you to change anything about yourself. Whom ever you are with you should be happy with and not for you to change yourself.