Hello my name is Diamond, I am currently a third year psychology major. My passion in life is to be of aid to mankind in any way possible which why I aspire to become a Psychologist no matter what it takes. I find complete and utter joy in helping others through giving them advice or by simply being an open ear for someone you just need to talk to or express your feelings to. I love to make others happy in anyway possible, it brings joy to my heart like nothing in this world. I have given advice to a large amount of people, usually people I barley know. The people I meet tend to open up to me and share their feelings and/or problems whether big or small. I have been the ears for many people who just want someone to talk to,when they feel no one else is there to listen or atleast cares enough to hear what they have to say. I have been a shoulder to cry on and I must say it is very fulfilling to have people see this sort of security and comfort in me. I am open to any questions, I am open to listen to anyone that is feeling alone or scared, I care about everyone in this world even if I have yet to meet them, I know that every human being is special,unique, and beautiful in their own way and I just want to be there for anyone who doesn't know or believe this. I want to install the importance of positive thinking into everyone I encounter in my lifetime. I am even here for those who aren't going through any particular hardship but just wants advice. Advice is always good because it is always good to have a second persons opinion to weigh your options and decisions even if you choose to use the advice or not. I am looking forward to your questions,conversations, or anything you would like. I am just a message/ e-mail away. Please do not hesitate to contact me. You will never be ignored or simply forgotten about.
E-mail: princessdiamond1314@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: I was born in Ohio,however I currently reside in California
Occupation: Current Psychology major
Yahoo: princessdiamond1314@yahoo.com
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My name is mark i am 29 and my girl is 26 and i am a freak in bed and i dont think my girl can handle all of this because i want to have sex at least everyday or every other day even 3 days its not just about me i make sure i please her rather its oral or what ever but she does not do the same for me what should i do??????? A man in need of passion in the deep abyess of her soul!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Hello,well as you know everyone is different when it comes to step..as you say you are a freak in bed and you put it all out there..thats your style.On the other hand your gf is juat not the same as you are when it comes to sex but likes to be pleasured by you..In any relationship communication is important so you shoukd discuss this with her if you arent feeling satisfied in bed.Sex is an important factor in a relationship especially when u have been together for a long time it is best that both partners are satisfied when it comes to intimacy.Dont be shy to bring this up because if you feel a certain way then your partnr should know and she should understand,the both of you ca come up with an equally pleasing compromise which should helps this situation overall.I hope this helped and the best of luck to you!!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND :) ;)
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17, guy, no gf for 4 years
Ok this is an unsual one but the girl i once liked.. her BF just cheated on her about 5 days ago i finnaly got over her after realising shes kinda annoying and not really my type (I started liking her randomly for no reason and i didnt know her, then i got to know her and regretted it a bit) anyways just in case i start liking her again (which will probably happen kus im a lonley bastard) how do i stop those feelings? i dont know her enough anyways and our "friendsip" hasnt really happend even though i tried thankas for ya answers (link)
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Hello,well in my opinion I doubt if you actually have real feelings for her especially since you clearly stated that she is not your type and kind of annoying. Everyone has thier faults but when it comes to someone not being your type completley then those feelings arent true.I beleive those feelings you are having are feelings of lonliness and this makes you think that you have feelings for her. She is probably the closest girl for you to even thunk about having feelings for since you havent met anyone new.I think you should try to change your your irrational thinking..by you calling yourself a "lonley bastard" it puts you down in a way and is self defeating thinking..this can hinder you from meeting that special girl.I think once you try to change your thinking to a more positive outlook things will start looking up for you.However,I totally understand yoir feelings it can be really frustrating not having anyone for a long time but remeber your time will come.Im sure you are a speacial guy with tons to offer..you just have to wait it out to find that one for you so think positive and keep busy!!I hope this helped and I wish you the best
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:):)
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i have been wondering what is the difference between Sex and Intimate Encounter. (link)
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Hello,I am going to guess that you are referring to an intimate encounter as it relates to what a guy is looking for on a dating sight per se,if I am wrong please coreect me. When a guy and or gilr says this they are just looking for some sort of sexual attention and the term se and intimate encounter are interchangebale but intimate encounter just sounds more approachable and polite..so if you are not simply interested in only sex then I would advice you to steer clear of people who are loking for an intimate encounter/sex..i hope this helped and the best of luck to you :)
SINCERLY,DIAMOND :) :)
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Hi!
Why do people think you need to ask someone or be asked "Do you want to go out with me?" or "Will you go out with me?" Can you just start going out with someone, or is it not official if you don't or are not asked? My ex-boyfriend and I decided that we were just going out, but I've heard that you can't go out unless someone asks or you ask someone, is that true?
Oh, and is saying "I really like you" the same as asking someone out? Or is it when both you and the person you're dating think your going out?
I'm sorry this is kind of confusing.
Thank you very much.
13/f
~Sky (link)
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Hello,you should never assume you are just going out with somoeone unless the feelings are mutual,because someone can say they really like you and you might not like them as much and you dont want to be in a relationship with them. A relationship is a serious step and if you want to be in one then both you and your partner should feel the same way. If you are unable to portray these emotions of wanting to be in a relationship to your partner then maybe you arent ready to be in a relationship because communication is important. Usually when it comes to a realtionship someone asks or the two of you sit down and have a heart to heart conversation about the way you feel for eachother and if it feels right then you can be in that relationship.But remember you dont want to be in a relationship with just anyone so just take your time and find that right person because a relationship is a big step and you dont want to waist it on just anyone...I hope this helped and if you have any further questions I would love to be of aid to you.If I was not detailed enough or you want more information on this topic you can always send me a private message and I will get back to you as soon as possible..The best of luck to you!!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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hey my name is sarah. i was just wondering if you could give me some advive i last came on my period on the 13 of january could and i havn't came on yet. could there be a chance that i could be pregrent but i am getting really bad period pains (link)
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Hello well there could be many reasins your menstrual cycle is behaving in an alternate way. Your mensrual cycle usually never stays the same it is always changing every few years. Stress and streneous activity can cause this alteration in your menstural cycle and so much more,such as hormones,estrogen levels etc...if you have had unprotected sex in this time span you could possibly be pregnant but only if the guy ejaculated inside of you. If this did not happen your cycle may be changing to a later time n the month,its only been a month since your last period so this can happen.Some may start there menstrual cycle in the beginning of the month and then all of a sudden start at the end of the month,its natural.The painful cramps could be simply symptoms of PMS,symptoms can worsen or lessen over the years but it all depends. I dont know much about your situation such as if you are sexually active,if you have any other sympotms,or anything else,if I had this informaion I beleive I Could be of aid to you alittle more and I could be more detailed,if you would like more information on this topic you can send me a private message at any time and I would be happy to help:).I hope this helped and the best fo luck to you..looking forward to hearing from you!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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Okay there's this guy that I've been talking to since August of 2008.... I'm blk and 21 yrs old, he's whte and 31 (if it helps any). He has a son by a woman who cheated on him with his best friend which he was engaged to at the time (so if he dosen't really tust women I understand).
Anyhow I have to admit we're pretty close now... we've gotten closer I would say since New Year's... we've been on a few dates, and what not and overall you can tell there's a vibe between us and it seems as if we've known eachother for years. I'm proud to say we've taken things really slow until recently...
Well just this past saturday we both went to a party together where we FINALLY shared our first kiss and then we went and got a hotel together and had a "night cap" (yes with the happy ending)... I can honestly say I love him... and I know he cares alot about me... and nothing is awkard between us even though it happened...
So I was wondering what could be done to get us to that next level... I'm ready if he ready, but we still both two shy and stubborn people... any ideas?
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Hello well you guys have been talking for quite sometime and seem to care for eachother alot. Remember communication in any relationship is important and I know its so hard for a girl to wait for the guy to make the decision to go to the next level,it gets kind of frustrating but you know with his past and everything it will be alittle difficult to take this next step with you because he has been hurt in the past and ofcourse doesnt want it to happen again. It is always good to take things slow and as of now you can continue to show that you will be there for him and,that you are truthful,and that you care for him through words and action. If you are really ready for this next level with him then you should go for it,wait for the right moment though, a special moment and just open up to him and tell him how you feel,guys find comfort in a girl that is willing to be open and honest with them. As you may know guys are not one for commitment but its worth a shot,if he is not ready you can always wait it out and see where things take you,everything happens for a reason and if it is meant to be then you two will go to that next level. i see you say that you are shy but I am sure you are pretty comfortable with him so you will find the right way to bring it up,he wont judge you especially if he cares for you as it seems he does,dont worry!I hope this helped and if you have any further questions I would be more than hapy to help you,you can send a private message if you would like me to be more detailed,the best of luck to you!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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My boyfriend and I haven't been together long but we were very close friends before we became a couple. We met just after I split up with my ex, who I was very upset about and took a long time to get over. I liked my current boyfriend for a long time although I still wasn't over my ex. When we finally got together, I was really happy and I can safely say that I no longer have any feelings towards my ex.
My current boyfriend and I both have alot of problems at home and always look to each other for support. However, recently I find that all I want is some stability, not a boyfriend who has just as many issues as me. We always have some form of problem with each other and I'm constantly finding faults in him. I worry that I'm only with him because I don't want to be on my own. I love him and he is like my best friend but I can't continue to do this all the time.
I really am at a loss as to what to do. I don't want to break up with him, but deep down I keep thinking I have to. I'm considering asking him for a break from each other, so we can both think about our real feelings but I'm worried that will cause more problems. What should I do? (link)
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Hello well in life we all have obstacles and issues to go through in life.Sometimes the hardest decisions are the best decisions we can make. I personally think you should go with your instinct and do what is best for you. if you feel like you are going through too much and your boyfriend constantly makes it worse then in my opinion a break would be the best idea.Communication is key in any relationship so you should definitley tell him how you feel truly,I am sure he doesnt know he is making you feel this way. What you are feeling is totally understandable when humans go through hard times at home or through any issue they want to know that they have someone there for them and have some sort of security and stability. Once you open up with him and tell him how you honestly feel about this situation the two of you will come to a decision that is best for the both of you. A break is always good just to help to organize your thoughts and feelings. During the break you guys dont have to stop talking or anything,you can still be there for eachother because after all thats what you really want and need. I am sure he cares for you deeply and wouldnt mind being there for you when you need him,remember every relationship has its ups and downs but sooner or later everything will settle down for the best.Remember you are the main person to be worried about,how you feel and what you think is best is very important because if you arent happy then things wont go as they should,so all in all you should do what is best for you at this time and things will happen as they should,everything happens for a reason and everything will be just fine. I hope this helped and if you have any further questions or would like me to be more detailed you can send me a private message at any time I would be happy to help,the best of luck to you!:)
SINCERLT,DIAMOND:)
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I am suddenly loosing interest in doing everything in life...life has turned out so boring, what do i do? (link)
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Hello,well in life everyone goes through these sudden boredom of life,life is about change and growth,if everthing is the same all the time then what you are going through will inevitably happen unfortuatley. Humans or organism for that matter was not made to remain stagnant(stuck,no change) they were made to change and develop and do new things. All you have to do is find out something new you would like to do,something that you would enjoy rather big or small. It is always helpful to make a list of things you like and dislike this narrows your options because often when people sit down and ask what it is that makes them happy or what they like specifially it is hard to think of it so whith it on paper you have more options and get a better sense of who you are. That is a big step also,if you know who you are and the things you enjoy and dont enjoy you will ultimatley know what uplifts your spirits. Surround yourself with positive people that you enjoy being with,maybe sit and relax and read a book or watch a movie you hav been wanting to see,comedies are always good..laughter is good for the spirit. Life brings these stages in life but you have to be optimistic and know that this will soon change and you will be content in life.I have a feeling you have a pretty mundane and systematic way your day plays out and if you change up even something little in your routine it will shine alittle bit of light on your situation. No one wants to do the same thing over and over it does get boring and in a way saddening. I can help you more in depth if I knew some of the things you like to do, I could give you some options to change things up.Being more spontaneous is always helpful too,if you have an urge to get up and do someting then you should do it,i promise you wont regret it,this can be helpful for you and add alittle more excitement to your day. Try your best to think positive and be optimistic because negative thoughts ALWAYS bring you down and you dont want to be brought down you want to be brought up :) :). I am not sure if you are an adult or a teen but you could join a club or take classes such as dance,art,sports,exercise or anything at school or even at a local recreational center.Any change big or small would be good for you. I hope this helped and I would love to be of more help to you,you can shoot me an email(princessdiamond1314@yahoo.com) or send another message on here and tell me alittle more about you so I can be more detalied in how you can uplift your life. I hope this helped and the best of luck to you..no worries things will get better in time I Promise:) :) :).Remember everyone is special and unique and are interested in different things and when you beleive this and find these things about yourself you will be just fine in no time:):)!!!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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what are the secret sexual things normally females would like to get it done? I am curious, want to give it as surprise! (it tough to know what women want)
Also, one of my fantasy is to smell, would it annoy her? i just want to get a indepth thought into these issues? would it be good to mail you? (link)
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Hello yes please shoot me an email and you can ask as many questions as you would like,can you be alittle more detalied with your question so I can answer them as well as possible I would love to be ofa id to you in any way. Dont be shy to ask anything because no question is too out there for me..:) my email is (princessdiamond1314@yahoo.com)..I will be sure to get back to you in no time :) when you say what females want to get it done do you mean how to have her reach orgasm?and I can go into further detail about your fantasy in the email and dont worry everyone likes different things and different things turn people on so its good to do what you feel...Hope to hear from you soon so I can be of aid to you:)
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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hi.. require a info. I want to know what are the best brand in lingerie category for women, i wan tto give 2 my girl? what are the stuffs women would like to wear generally 2 feel comfortable, i want to surprise her?
Also, is there any chances of getting diseases if i give oral if she is unshaved, is it good to ask her as i am concerned about hygeine? (link)
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Hello, well there is no specific brand of lingerie that girls like but if it looks cute and feels comfortale on them then they will like it :)Victoria Secret is so convienient and not that expensive depending on what you get so i would advise you to get some there. They have quite a variety and I am pretty sure you will find something that both you and her will enjoy. Try to pick something that is her favorite color or you think that suits her best. Lace lingeirie is usually rather comfortable because it stretches and hus the body and in my opinion looks very sexy. A corsette is sexy but they tend to be tight I would just go with a cute panyt and bra set :).
There is always a chance of getting an STD while peforming oral sex if your partner is already infected the you will be too,having hair or shaving has nothing to do with getting a disease or not its just the fact that some guys perfer the girl to be shaven. It is definitley good to ask about hygeine,it is important....communication is vital in any relationship with any issue so if you have a concern or something on your mind you should bring it up I am sure she wont mind. Some girls however, do not completeley shave all the hair on there vagina and some do so when it comes down to it it is ultimatley her choice,hair or no hair as long as she has good hygeine and keeps herself well manicured in that area then there should be no problem..So talk to her if you feel the need and have fun I am sure she will like whatever you get her,its the thought that counts :)I hope this helped and I wish you the best of luck!:)
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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if you're giving a guy a handjob in a hot tub and they cum can you get pregnant? (link)
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Hello,well it is hard enough for sperm to reach and fertilize an egg,I mean there are thousands of sperms trying to fertilize one egg and only one seems to survive due to the harsh environment the vagina is to sperm. The sperm usually had to be directly aimed to the fertilized egg and be penetrating your vagina so the odds are it is highly unlikely for this to occur so you have nothing to worry about,the temparature in the hot tub most likely killed most of the active sperm cells off anyway :)I hope this was helpful and if you need and further advice just send me a private message and I would be happy to help you. The best of luck to you!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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I am so sick of my family I don't know why they are always giving me a bad vibe. I can never understand them. Its like they are taking out all their anger on me. I can never get away with a tid bit of something I said that was a little wrong. I want to sock their faces. A long time ago they are like oh she is so quiet now its like I am starting to cat fight. Doesn't this want to make you pull your hair out if you go through the same thing. They aren't satisfied with ok my routing for me to help you guys out with you problems is to for me just to be calm and stay in the background and not bother them too much. I wish I had a different family. I am so quiet for them to be even annoyed at me. I hate them I want to live on my own. (link)
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Hello, I am so sorry that you are going through this situation,you are however not the only one going through this. Alot of people are the black sheep of the family(totally different and not acepted by the family.) Is your family going through any issues currently?financial?emitional? I ask this because many families have lots of issues going on and this tends to stress the parents out and cause them to vent all of their anger on you which is not fair. Unfortunatley this situation wont change over night and wont change at all if you guys dont sit down and talk about it. I am pretty sure your parents/family dont understand how much this is hurting you and they will probably never know unless you can confront them and tell them..I can help you come up with ways to confront them about this situaiton. This wouldnt be good if it continued to happen bcause no one wants to go home to a house where they have no one to talk to and feel uncomfortable. When you go home to your family you are suppose to feel "at home". When you discuss how the way they are treating you is affecting you then i garauntee you will see a change, after all no partens want to hurt there children intentionally unless they are mentally unstable and in that case would need to see a therapist for further diagnoses. If you could let me know in a more detailed way how they treat you on a daily basis I could further help you and come up with a way to make you feel more "at home" at home. Your parents need to come to accept you for who you are,that is the whole problem, some parents want ther child or expect there child to be a certain way and when they are not they treat them differely which isnt good. I am sure you are beautiful inside and and out and your unique..they should value your unique and special qualities. If you dont atleast try to talk with them about this you will always just be quite and in the background and things will probably get worse and you dont want this, you wan things to get better.Family is imoportant and I hope that your situation gets better because you do not deserve to be treated this way at all. I hope this helped and if you have any further questions you can send me another message and I would be happy to help you and possibly be more detailed for your benefit. I only want the best for you and know that things will get better in time..dont worry everyone goes through ups and downs in this life but you will get through this dont worry.If you ever need someone just to talk to you can also email me at(princessdiamond1314@yahoo.com) and I would be more than happy to help and just talk with you because sometimes when you dont have your family to talk to you feel alone and I want you to know that I am here for you! I wish you the best of luck and I hope to hear from you soon!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:) :) :) :) :)
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okay so me and my boyfriend of 6 months live about 20-30 mins away from each other and he doesn't really seem to care as much when we're apart..like he says he'll call and he never does and im usually always the one that has to text him.. but like when we're together he'll just like look into my eyes for the longest time with that look on his face that makes me just wanna melt...i just dont know what to do =/ ive talked to him about it and he said to just text him whenever i wanna talk, but he doesn't understand the point...any advice?
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Hello,I think this relationship is fairly normal simply because oyu guys have been together for quite sometime. He is use to you texting or calling him first so he feels there is no need to c hange things around.Guys like to pretty much stay the same and if they dont see aproblem then they most likely wont change. I am pretty sure he doesnt know this is bothering you so my advice,if you really want things to change, is to confront him and tell him how you fell,that you feel like you arent getting enough attention from him that you feel you should. Communication is vital in any realtionship and if you go on likt this without telling him,he will never know and you wont get the attention you deserve. Every girl should be treated the best by there boyfriend and you should be treated how you deserve because you are special. So just talk to him about it and see how things go..a huge weight will be lifted off your shoulders once you do and you finally get the attention you want and deserve..go for it.I hope this helped and the best of luck to you..If you have any further questions on this topic or any other topic for that matter.you can send me a private message..:).p.s.Dont worry about the outcome because if he really cares for you he will be willing to change for you to make you happy so dont worry !!!!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND :)
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I was wondering when a guy asks somebody to be his girlfriend do the ladies still give you a yes or no answer or do you just automaticly assume that you are together or are you just suppose to know or how does it work now? (link)
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Hello,well a relationship is a big step but most take relationships for granted.I advise you to get to know the girl fairly well and be friends with her before you even think about taking that step to be in a relationship. Once you get to know eachother you will know how the girl feels about the situatuion between you two.Usually girls are upfront about if they want to be in a relaitonship or not.if you ask it usually is either simply a yes or no more or less because after all what girl would say yes to be in a relationship if they didnt want to.You should never automatically assume you are in a realtionship you have to see how the other person stands in this situation.Communication is important so it is vital that the both of your feelings are mutual and if you cant sit down and communicate about being in a relaitonship then maybe you arent ready to be in a relaitonship with that person.Whoever this girl is you should talk to her about how you feel if you want to be in a relationship with her and see how she feels,its the only solution :).I hope this helped and I wish you the best of luck.If oyu have any further questions or would like me to be more detailed you can send me another message,I would be happy to help :)
SINCERLY,DIAMOND :)
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I think that I may have anger problems. Because lately I had been getting in situation where I had said something bad about my family members and people. And I am scared that I might get in trouble for it. One time in class a long time ago I cursed at someone and this one girl went after me for it. And asked who I was saying it too. I really don't want people to think I am wrong. I feel like someone will not put up with my back talking and beat me up or shoot me. (link)
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Hello,well yes you are right anger nad bad mouthing will get you no where but in trouble. There is no need to be rude or have a foul mouth but if you were raised that way then you almost have no choice not to be :(...In your situation I think your anger stems from some where else.No one is angry for no reason.You should analyze things that went on in your life and are currently going on in your life and see how it is effecting you.The first step to havign an anger isssue is admitting to your problem and you did this which is awesome(you deserve a pat on the back lol)The next step is to figure out where this anger is steming from..you can tell me things that are going on in your life currently that maybe affecting your actions,but only if you are open and comfortable with dsiclosing that kind of information with me,just to let you know I am here to help only and not to judge,I have your best interest at heart and whatever you need or want to discuss I am here :) Since I dont know your exact situation I can give you some tips that in general may help.When you feel the need to release anger in a negative way such as a derogatory use of words and or violence try to breathe deeply in and out to get the oxygen flowing to your brain and to help your mind be focused on breathing rather than releasing your anger. You can also try to thin of something positive when you begin to have jegative thoughts or feelings,this always help to change your frustrated state of mind. You can also relaease anger by doing activities you like,by running, maybe reading a book,talking to someone about why your angry, a punching bag is helpful because all of your anger is put towards a tangible object. Remember it is always good to have someone you can talk to when your emotions go array,talking to someone helps you to release these unsettling feelings and is very helpful they may be able to help you with an alternative way of dealing with a situation.If you have no one to tlak to that you can discuss this issue with you can send me a message on here or email me any itme(princessdiamond1314@yahoo.com) I would be more than happy to listen and help you through what you are going through. I hope this was helpful and the best of luck to you I am looking forward to hearing from you so I can be of aid to you in any way :).Just know that you are not the only one dealing with this problem and I am honored that you came to me for advice I just hoped it helpes you in some way,you can contact me anytime you would like..you will get through this in no time!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:) :) :) :)
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i just wanted to know how do girls cum? like how do you see it? can it stay inside the girls vagina, or does it have to fluid out of it?? i don't really get it.. i don't really know when i cum either? how do i know when i do cum...how does it look or feel? what color is it, is it white like boys or is like white-ish clear..? im still lost.. can you explain to me the whole thing please. (link)
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Hello,well when a girl is aroused she automatically secrets fluid,this is through out the sexual process whether you are just touching her and or having sex with her. The fluid usually remains in the vagina however,some girls squirt the fluid out from their vagina when they orgasm. Females vaginal secretions are usually a clear sticky solution,almost like saliva...so you will produce "cum" throught the sexual process and when you are aroused but you usually secrete more cum(vagianl secretion) when you reach orgasm,sn orgasm is hard to explain though it is an extreme feeling of pleasure in which your vagianl muscles contract..when a female reaches orgasm they react in different ways but when you reach orgasm you will know the feeling and never forget it :).I hope this helped and if you have any further questions on this topic,such as how to reach orgasm or just for me to be more detailed you can send me a private message and I would be happy to help you :)I wish you the best of luck!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND :)
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i read some answers on here about popping cherries and someone said some girls arent born with one? how do you know if you have one or not? i dont wear tampons but i play alot of sports and excercise alot and ive never felt it pop...so yeah how do you know if you have/dont have one? (link)
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Hello,all girls well the majority of girls have one,the term popping your cherry is the fact that females have a thin layer of skin covering the inside of the vagina called the hymen.This hymen can be broken for various reasons,masturbation,exercise,ofcourse sex and other activites.Everyone has different experiences when there hymens are broken,some bleed in large amounts,some dont bleed at all,and some bleed very minimaly.You can not really know if you have or not unless you have sex and you see blood appear soon after penetration,most dont feel there hymen being torn so there is no particular way for you to know or not but I am more than positive that you have or had a hymen:)I hope this helped,if you have any further questions you can send me a private message and I would be more than happy to be of help to you :)The best of luck to you!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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So I was wondering what other things I can do to give myslef an orgasm. I'm a girl, 16/f, by the way. I don't like fingering myself, it hurts and doesn't feel good at all.
please don't give me any links and I don't want to buy anything at a sex store or something. thank you!! (link)
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Hello,I know it can hurt sometimes because you can do it the wrong way. The way to finger yourself and get ultimate pleasure is by not simply going in and out but rather using ne finger and moving ur finger in a back and forth motion,kind like when you your are telling someone to come here,you want to press on the top of your vagina,once you feel around you will find the right spot.However,you do not have to finger yourself to reach orgasm,most girls do not reach orgasm through vaginal stimulation anyway. The main organ that provides sexual stimulation and aids you into orgasm is the clitoris.If you dont know what this is,it is the samll bulb shaped organ under the roof of the labia.You can stimulate your slitoris in any way,most rub and play with the clitoris,dry hump, or a shower head is just as efective, you wont reach orgasm immediatley,it will take sometime depending on the pressure you place on the clitoris and the speed you go at,it will feel good during but once you are about to reach orgasm you will know :). I hope this helped but if you need me to be more detailed or need any further advice in anyway I would be happy to help :) The best of luck to you..you should be orgasming in no time lol!!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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iif a girls jacking a guy off
what gets hiim turned on
and how long should iit take
hiim to cummm (link)
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Hello well when you do this you want to get hold of his penis firmly,you want to make sure your hands are well lubricated either with spit lol..it works or a store bought lubricant,if it is not lubricated when you do this it wont be as enjoyable,you want to go in a n up and down motion.You can altrenate from going fast or slow,sometimes a guy will moan or make noises which indicates what pace he likes best. You can also turn him on by maybe giving him a sexy glance while your doing it or saying something like "you like that baby" lol.You can also fondle his scrotum to add to the pleasure,and you can alternate with him standing or sitting it all depends on the guy. There is no telling when he will cum,some guys take longer than others,to get an estiiamte it can be from 5 to 15 minutes you just never know.I hope this helped and the best of luck to you if you have any more questions on this topic or want more advice you can always send me a private message and I would be happy to help:)
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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So me and this guy like eachother I have a feeling he will ask me out on valentines day because he already recently tried but i said i wouldnt just yet. My best friend absolutely doesnt like him for me whatsoever. Shes told me soo many times that she doesnt want us together because hes not right for me and ill get hurt and etc. I listened to what she had to say, considered her advice, but im going to do what i want to do in the end. So lately i have been keeping her out of the loop, i didnt tell her that he told me he likes me or that i told him the same thing. I havnt told her about our conversations or him trying to ask me out or anything happening. One time we talked about if me and him went out and she said shed have to see it to believe me. So i kind of want to surprise her one day, like in school all of a sudden she will just see us together. It will be unexpected and a little shocking considering all the information she hasnt been hearing. She wont be happy and im thinking she will even talk to me less or give me those looks like rolling her eyes. Only thing is..other people might find out before she does because if they see us in the halls and I dont have any classes with her, So shed be even more upset if other people knew before she did. Should i surprise her or does this not sound like a good idea ? (link)
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Hello,well comunication in any relationship whether with a friend or with a guy is very importatnt. I am sure your bestfriend is very important to you and she already doesnt want you to be with the guy so if she finds out you are with him,others find out before her,and realize all the information you have been witholding from her then she will be extremely hurt. I am sure you in no way want to hurt your friend right,she was after all just trying to give you advice and help you..she thinks he is horrible for you so that will be a suprise enough,if you are willing to lose her over a guy then you can do that but if you care for her and you two are real,true best friends then you should do nothing of the sort. You should just tell her how you feel and try ti convety to her that you are making the best decison for yourself,if she cant accapt this then maybe she isnt the best friend you thought she was. You know what is best for you and what will make you happy so go with what you want just because she thinks he is horrible doesnt mean you should, I mean she hasnt had the conversations you two have and she just doesnt know him like you know him. I am sure you will make the right decsion just follow your heart:I hope this helped,if you have any further questions I would me more than happy to help,hust send me a private message.I wish you the best of luck:)
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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