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quiet me.
I am so sick of my family I don't know why they are always giving me a bad vibe. I can never understand them. Its like they are taking out all their anger on me. I can never get away with a tid bit of something I said that was a little wrong. I want to sock their faces. A long time ago they are like oh she is so quiet now its like I am starting to cat fight. Doesn't this want to make you pull your hair out if you go through the same thing. They aren't satisfied with ok my routing for me to help you guys out with you problems is to for me just to be calm and stay in the background and not bother them too much. I wish I had a different family. I am so quiet for them to be even annoyed at me. I hate them I want to live on my own.
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Hello, I am so sorry that you are going through this situation,you are however not the only one going through this. Alot of people are the black sheep of the family(totally different and not acepted by the family.) Is your family going through any issues currently?financial?emitional? I ask this because many families have lots of issues going on and this tends to stress the parents out and cause them to vent all of their anger on you which is not fair. Unfortunatley this situation wont change over night and wont change at all if you guys dont sit down and talk about it. I am pretty sure your parents/family dont understand how much this is hurting you and they will probably never know unless you can confront them and tell them..I can help you come up with ways to confront them about this situaiton. This wouldnt be good if it continued to happen bcause no one wants to go home to a house where they have no one to talk to and feel uncomfortable. When you go home to your family you are suppose to feel "at home". When you discuss how the way they are treating you is affecting you then i garauntee you will see a change, after all no partens want to hurt there children intentionally unless they are mentally unstable and in that case would need to see a therapist for further diagnoses. If you could let me know in a more detailed way how they treat you on a daily basis I could further help you and come up with a way to make you feel more "at home" at home. Your parents need to come to accept you for who you are,that is the whole problem, some parents want ther child or expect there child to be a certain way and when they are not they treat them differely which isnt good. I am sure you are beautiful inside and and out and your unique..they should value your unique and special qualities. If you dont atleast try to talk with them about this you will always just be quite and in the background and things will probably get worse and you dont want this, you wan things to get better.Family is imoportant and I hope that your situation gets better because you do not deserve to be treated this way at all. I hope this helped and if you have any further questions you can send me another message and I would be happy to help you and possibly be more detailed for your benefit. I only want the best for you and know that things will get better in time..dont worry everyone goes through ups and downs in this life but you will get through this dont worry.If you ever need someone just to talk to you can also email me at(princessdiamond1314@yahoo.com) and I would be more than happy to help and just talk with you because sometimes when you dont have your family to talk to you feel alone and I want you to know that I am here for you! I wish you the best of luck and I hope to hear from you soon!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:) :) :) :) :)
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