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Ok. Yesterdy my sister turned 18. So she thinks that shes like tha shyt. Well She thinks that now shes 18 she dont have to listen to my parents.Ive been tryin to explain to her that wen ur livin wit sum1 else no matter how old u r u still have to follow there rules as long as ur livin wit them. So she moved in wit her bf. I think hes gonna b controlling and not let her do nething cuz he never let her in tha first place. Ne ideas on how i can Tell her she still has to follow sum1 elses rules wen she lives wit them and how i feel bout her bf w.o makin her mad?? sry its so long! Ill Rate if u answer!
oen day go out just you and your sister and do sumthign tha u both liek2 do. then remind herhow much fun the 2 of you had 2gether and thatu miss her and stuff and then just gently get on the subjetc of her and her b/f. that way you dont have 2 b very blunt about ti and she wont get upset. plz rate-hopei helped =)
ok my best friend likes this guy i've known 4-ever and i never liked him untill she said she did i don't if its cuz i'm jealous or what but i want to be happy for her but i just can't get over my jealously of her and him so what can i do to get over him and her
hmm thats a tough spot. you said you didnt liek him until your friend said she did, so mayb its not os much jealousy its just concern because you are friends witht hem both and now they may b geting 2gether. confront them both about ti so they no how you'rew feeling. plz rate-hope i helped =)
Ok..just a couple minutes ago my friend told me that she saw my boyfriend smoking with his friends. Sure I think that him smoking is a problem..but what really makes me mad is that he told me that he stopped smoking. And the other day his friend walked up to him and goes "omg dude! you were like drunk last night" and he told me that he didn't know what he was talking about. But now that my friend saw him smoking I don't know what to think. Should I believe her and just ask him about it..or what? Dang I'm so confused
as long as you know your friend wouldnt lie about stuff liekt hat then definately ask him. dont b all mad tho bcuz he may get upset with you. try just tlkaing about it and ask him whats reallyt gopin on and let him no you're questioning him bcuz u care about him, not bcuz u think hes a liar or ne thing. pleez rate-hope i helped=)
well i really need help ..well theres this boy nd lets call him "carl" so i started likin this guy nd i told him nd i found out he felt the same way but longer for him so we talked nd he was so great so we finaly wen out nd omg he was so great nd i realized i was fallin for him nd then a rmor went around that he had cheated nd he said it wasnt tru but all the signs are right there nd im pretty sure he did it but i think he relaized it was worng nd didnt want to hurt me nd then the day i found out i was cryin in skool for the rest of the day .. so i call ready to break up nd he gave me this crap bout bout he didnt do it nd i sorta beleived him nd it took a while to put it together but that same day i found out .. this girl had been tellin him i had been flirtin wit other guys .. but i didnt .. i got him to beleive me then his firned told him i broke up wit ihm nd he beleived it .. we atill talk nd he tells me how much he loves me nd he wants me bac nd then one of my friend kary was akin if he was goin to ask me out nd if he did i dont kno wat to say .. i really love him but theres one problem .. i moved nd he lives 15 minutes away which isnt that long away but we go to different skool nd i dont kno wat to do if he does cuase i really love him wit all my heart .. please help me ..
i rate goood!!
hmm well people always say love conquers all, so 4get all teh rumors and everyhting you are hearing, a relationship is about the 2 of you and how you both feel. it def. sounds liek you 2 love each other and i think you should get bak 2gether because if you dont you may not get a second chance and you would nevr no what owuld've happedn. so def.. go 4 it, and good luck with your relationship! hope i helped =)
where is the place to get face plated for a cell phone?
they ussually have them at the cell phone stores or stores in the mall and stuff
what is the best way to get a babysitting job?
you could just ask aorund, mayb one of your moms friends has kids and you could ask your mom 2 c if hse needs usmone 2 babysit. or you could make it sort of liek a business. grab one of your best friends and make sum signs and business cards. hand them out and sho people you enjoy being wiht kids. mayb tkae your litle sister out 2 the aprk or usmthign you know. hope i helped
i think i'm gonna tell this guy i like him tomorrow. the problem with that was...yesterday i thought i was going to do it today...but i didn't. i think it's because 1) i have no idea how to put it into words that don't creep him out a bit, and 2) i open my mouth to do it, just..improvise...and the words melt away and i'm left with air...
so my question is this....how and when should i do it? i see him at lunch all the time, and he rides my bus, if that helps any.
well grl, you could go about this a few different ways. you didnt mention it in your question so im not sure if u've done this already but tlka 2 him first. he may think its weird if u just go up 2 him nd tell him ur into him if you really dont no each other very well. just flirt with him and send hints you dont have 2 b very upfront about ti because that would make anyone nervous. just b yourslef and develope some sort of relationhsip before you tel him you like him. who nos mayb he has a secret crush on you 2!
I met this guy over the summer and we have been going out for about a month or so. I thought it was just a summer 'fling' or romance but I now have strong feelings for him. We don't live that close and we go to different schools. We really want to stay together after summer, but I'm not sure it will happen. Can a summer fling actually last into the fall or even longer?
If you both want 2 stay 2gether your relationship will definately last. it may b harder than a regular relationship cuz its long distance but it can def. work Hope i helped =)
Ok, last year I dressed very plain. Just tee shirts and jeans. Kinda boring. Does anyone have any advice on how to spice up my look?
accesories can always change a look, wear a sassy belt or sparkly earrings. or get shirts tha are colorful make yourself stand out!
omg im sooo nervous for school to start!! im going to a school different from all my other friends in a new town! what can i do to calm myself down and maybe make this a more enjoyable expierence (school)?!
thanks!
going 2 a new shcool makes evryone nervous and excited 2. just have fun and b confident in yourself, dont worry! hope i helped =)
I need an idea for a date. I don't know they guy real well, we've only talked 2 times. So i want to get to know him, and i'm kinda nervous that going to a movie would me akward. Please give me ideas.
well you wanan get 2 no him and let him get 2 no u, so go sumwhree fun mayb an arcade or sumthign, let the really fun side of u come out then mayb go and sit down 2 have diner so he cna c that you can b mature and fun and interesting all at thesame time. hope i helped=)
My friends aren't acting like friends to me lately. We all used to be one group and now its breaking off in smaller groups. One of the smaller groups went to the mall. I don't mind them going to the mall together, but when they go 20 minutes after i ask them if they are doing anything. And when they go with 2 other people and dont bother inviteing me, Then puting it all in there away messages, profiles, and talking about what happened in front of me. Then i get pissed. I am trying to seperate myself from them, but i tried that and it creates more of a problem. I want to explode. But i cant, I just started highschool and i am trying to make new friends. ( not working out well) so if i break myslef completly off then i will be a outcast and be alone. I don't know what to do. Please help.
*i know this is long, Ill rate high*
aRiTE gUrLy Sounds liek ur in abit of a tough spot. sumtimes friends just grow apart and have their differences, which doesnt mean they dont have 2 b friends ne mroe it jus means they arents as close as they were which is normal especially 4 kids and teenagers bcuz opinions and intersts change. now about the whole high shcool thing-high school is suposed 2 b "the best 4 years of our lives" so enjoy it! the best way 2 make friends is 2 join activities and make small conversations w/ people. mayb one day start talking 2 the kid next 2 u in class and who nos u may just hit it off and then u meet their friends and yea it jus works that way lol. theres no need 2 try 2 break yourself away from evryone bcuz thats def. not fun, so just b yourslef and everythign will work out. hope i helpd =)
This was my original question...(Thanks for all of those who answered it!!):
Does he like me?
Question Posted Saturday August 14 2004, 7:22 pm
I like this guy that I have been friends with...but we weren't close friends before..but now when we talk...it's like we both see something different. Here are some situations that happened while we were talking...
Well we were talking yesterday online for a real long time. He was sayin how the convo was so fun..n he wanted us to rate each other.....and he gave me a 10! he said im really hot and that i have a great personality..he said that once he comes back from vacation he really wants to see me right away
We made this plan after talkin about stuff
Well u see....
im real sore from swimteam so he said he would give me a massage.....
n so we would chill in my hot tub while givin each otha massages watch a movie on my widescreen...model skirts ahahaha...go shoppin then go on my hammock n watch the stars n talk to each otha...lol it was mostly his ideas
we have like the same dream date!
he is so sweet!
well
i came up with a starburst kiss
so i told him tht ive always wanted ta do it and hes lyke wow that sounds koo
and lata he brought it up sayin tht we both wanna do it........n stuff lol n then he was lyke jp i was lyke no u werent n then he was lyke yah i kno
n we talked on tha phone
we can talk about nething!
hes jus open ta me
hahaha well u nevah kno wit guys
i mean what if hes jus flirtin to every gurl?
he says that he treats a gurl rite...lyke we were talkin about a walk to remember
and he said i cant build a telescope but i do treat a gurl rite..if u seen tha movie u get it lol.....
Do you think he likes me? Thanks!!
Here is the 2nd question about this situation. I have a friend who liked him....but I'm not really sure if she still does. I think so. Do you think I should tell her? What should I all say? She likes about 3 people right now. I don't think she ever talks to him on the phone like I do with him or anything..or even online as much as I do. PLEASE HELP!!!!!
he def. likes you! i think you should talk to your friend and let her no whats up bcuz u dont want a guy 2 get in the middle of ne friendship and im sure she'll understand and evrythign and she should b happy 4 u 2! hope i helped =)
I'm goiing into 8th grade and have never had a b/f and i think i no y. In school and in my neighborhood i'm constantly playing sports. I've always loved to be involved with the diff. kinds of sports and wen i'm playing(which is A LOT of the time) i'm mostly playing wit guys. So i've been known as "one of the guys" wen i'm playing basebal nd stuff. Since i like never do any of that gurlie stuff no guys have crushes on me(or even like me as a girl). Are there any ways I can SHOW them that Sports aren't my life and get them to take me seriously?
hmm, well i love 2 play sports and sumtimes it is fun 2 b one of the guys, but not when you wnana b noticed 4 being a girl. as you get older sumthing inside you just changes and instead of playing football you may wanna go get your nails done ya no that sort of thing, you may want 2 make little changes liek one day wear your hair down instead of in a ponytial, or you may go out and get all dressed up and b girls, but you dont have 2 change anythgin about you if you dont wnat to. just b yourself, you'll find the rite guy 4 u. hope i helped =)
My parents payed for me and my brother to go to a private school. It was really expensive but thank god we got insurance so some of the money will come back to us if we deside not to go. Well my brother and i ended up going to public school where it's free, the thing is that the private school won't let us get the money back unless we go there for 15 school days. I have been arguing with my parents saying that i just started to make friends at the public school, and things are really going my way. Going to the private school for 15 days will make it really hard to go back to the public school. I really dont know what to do cause it's a lot of money we will get back, yet i am really startin to fit in at the public school.
since this is long I will rate high!!!!!!!!!!
ouch thats a tough spot 2 be in, i go 2 private school and i no it must b hard going from public 2 private back and forth. it def. is alot of money tho and you should go 2 private school for the 15 days. its only 15 days and your parents will get alot of money back. the longer you debate about ti the harder its goin 2 b 2 leav the public school and then come bak again.
my b/f goes to NH every weekend and has a lot of friends up there .. a lot of them are girls .. i am obviously wicked jealous because he is seriouisly very cute/hott.. so girls would like him.. anyways, some girl keeps callin me from his phone and asking for me then hanging up.. she did it yesterday and at 9 in the morning today .. its really pissing me off - what should i say to him when he gets back!? HELP! i dont wanna come off like a bitch but i want him to know that im not takin his shit anymore and he cant just walk all over me like that ..sry its long
well girlie, you definately do NOT come off liek a bitch at all, i no if that was me i'd be pissed off 2! talk to your b/f and jus tell him tis not cool sum grl keeps calling nd hanging up or w/e and you dont even no who she is. if he is a good b/f he will def. take care of it and make tha grl stop claling and understand where you're coming from. hope i helped =)
Hi well my need is to find out who I really like, I halready have a boyfriend and then I met this other guy that I really like now, and then i haven't even heard from my boyfriend for a while then all of a sudden he emails me and starts talking like nuthin happened. what do I do?
the same thign happened with me, guys are so confusing. you need 2 tlka 2 your boyfriend and c what was up nd y u hadnt heard from him in a while. then you shoudl decide weather or not you want 2 break up and how you really feel about him and this other guy. hope i helped =)
hi,
i recently figured out that my papa(uncle) has cancer and i am extremely close to him i live with him, and he was supposed to be fine until he had surgey and they found cancer in his liver stomach esophagus. and i just can't seem to get over it and i feel HORRIBLE i havent gone to school in 2 weeks(my parents dont know) and i act like im leaving for school they go to work and i just go back inside. Well What Should i do (hes gonna die anytime) sign,
ihatecancer01
thats a tough situation, and im really sorry about your uncle. but in life God never throws anythign at us that we cant handle, this situation wil only make you stronger in life and i no its hard but spend time wiht your uncle and enjoy it. you also need 2 go back 2 school, and you shouldlnt hide from evryone how you're feeling. let your family knwo bcuz im sure they r also having a difficltu time and you can all help each other. i hope i helped =)
i sorta REALLY flirted with this guy n made out n blah blah with him.. but one of my best friends all of the sudden likes him.. what should i do :\
hmm well you shoudl definately let ur best friend no whats up w/ him nd wha happend btween u guys and veryhting if she likes him now. and def. tell erh how you feel about ti 2, bcuz if you dont she may not tlel you how she feels and you dont want a guy 2 come btween a friendship.hope i helped =)
hey. ok there is this older guy i like. we flirt all the time & stuff. im not for sure he likes me but i think he might. he always talks about hooking up and stuff. like today he said u wanna go make out? i really want to cause i like him alot the problem is he is expierenced. and i would feel really funny tellin him i dont know how!!!!
well, you dont hafta tell a guy you're not an experienced kisser. plus evryone is nervous about kissing but it just ahppens naturally. hope i helped =)