Ok, i have this friend, well, she's kind of my friend, but not really. she likes me, but i dont like her. she's really annoying, and kinda mean and rude to ppl, even adults, and it gets on my nerves. For example, my sister had a friend over when i had her over, but my friend wanted to watch a movie that nobody else wanted to watch, and she wouldn't let us watch anything else, she literaly too kthe movie away from me and put it in, makin my sister and her friend leave the room. Isn't that kinda rude? What should i do about it?
It was very rude of her to do that. You should sit down with her and talk to her about thngs like that and any thing else that she does that is bothering you. If you don't tell her how you feel about the way she is acting then she is has no reason to try to change when she is around you or change at all.
[view]
ok i am an awesome bball player but i get nervous when boys come and watch me play.. im afraid they will laugh if i miss a sot or somthin....what should i do...help me and FAST
Well since you are an awesome player then you know what it is like to be in the zone and like you are just so focused that you don't notice other things around you. Try to get into that zone and go out and do your thing. You know no one is perfect and makes every single shot so don't worry about that and if they do laugh cause you miss one then challenge them to see if they can out shoot you or beat you in a one-on-one game so that way in the end you are the one laughing at them because they just got beat.
[view]
Ive been with my boyfriend for along time and he wants to have sex and i dont no i love him soo much and he loves me i no he does and everytime we r together its soo perfect and he said hes not guna force me but he thinks this will lock r relationship and then we ll be together forever and ii rele think hes telin the truth...should i do it?
Sexually confused..
Ok this is a very esay one, No you shouldn't have sex with him. You are unsure about which means you are not ready to do it. Sex is not something that will lock your realtionship. You need to wait until you do not have any doubts and feel comfotable enough to have sex with him, if that time ever comes.
[view]
okay im sorta new at this and i really need help so anyone that can i need to know how farr is too far on a first date?
Too far is when you or your date do not feel comfortable doing what ever it is you are doing. It is a first date and the main thing is to go out and have fun and enjoy it. If you are thinking about what is too far and what you should and shouldn't do then that will take away from the date its self. Go with the flow and see what happens and if you get to a point that you feel is not good then back up and stay away from that point. But one thing to not do is go and get married that is for sure a TOO FAR on a firsat date.
[view]
Im on JV bball..and our coach flipped out on us a couple days ago. I dont mean just yelling..but he started hitting the bleachers behind him...quite scary. He thretened to quit.Hes frustrated because we arent doing things right..we are an ok team but we arent good.
I like him as a coach..he just has his little incidents. Is there anything i can do to make him not quit?
The first thing you should do is meet as a team with players only and talk about what is going on. Try to come up with a solution among yourselfs. If he is gettin mad because the little things are not being done right, you should ask questions about what he wants done. But the thing is its not only when you mess up, like if you see him get mad at one of the other girls be like, coach what would you like us to do when that happens or can you explain it again so i can get a better understanding. Now if that doesn't woek and he is one of those coaches that just loses it then it is a personal problem and you should go talk to the varstiy coach about the situation. The main thing is you need to try to work it out "in house" meaning within the j.v. team its self before you go to other people and what also might help is sitting down with the coach and talking about what the problem is and what you as players or him as a coach can do to help fix the situation.
[view]
I dont know what to do
You should do what feels right. Go with your feelings but make sure what you are gonna do isn't going to make you miserable and hurt you in the end. Look at everything and do what is best for you
[view]
i hurt my wrist playing volleyball about a month ago. my dad told me it was sprained and it would stop hurting in about a week or so. but my wrist has been hurting for a month. i can't do pushups or lift anything without it hurting. what do u think i've done to it? i rate high!
You could have a hairline facture in your wrist or there is the possiblity of ligament damage in that area. You need to go see a doctor or someone about so they can take some x-rays. But u could also have a slight fracture in one of the bones in your forearm that will cause pain in your wrist also. Plain and simple go see someone about it and try to keep it as protected and like it u have a splint or something like that you should really use it so no more damage is done
[view]
ok...i have turned into a complete and total prep..my family had ALOT of money...i get 100 every 2 weeks for allowence...and next month, i am getting a brand new SL55 AMG mercedes-benz...
but only my family knows about it...i dont want to tell anyone else, but people are starting to find out...my old friends have started calling me a "rich bitch" just because of the colthes i wear...and they completly kicked me out of the clique...so i started hanging out with the other "rich kids" and they are really nice...everyone thinks that they are evil, just because they have money...next semester, my parents are sending me to a private school..which i also havent told anyone about...and tuition alone is 18,000 per year, let alone books and uniforms...people are turning their backs on me just because i have money, and i am dreading to find out how many of my friends are going to leave me after they find out how much money i actually have..i feel really sad that my friends are leaving me just because i have alot of money...i could understand if i was bragging about it, but i havent told anyone...what do i do?
If your friends are gettin like that beacasue of the whole money thing it is because they are jealous that they are not able to have the same things as you. Just be yourself because that is all you can do. Friends are going to come and go but the ones that truly care about you and are there for you no matter what will shine through. Use this as a time to see who your real friends are and make sure you keep them around. It will be hard but you also met a new group of people to make friends with also which is a positive cause that means you will have more firends than just the ones that are being stupid. Oh and by the way, that is one very nice car, what color?
[view]
aarrrgg!! okay i kno this is wrong but it makes me sooo mad! okay so i am an only shild and everyone thinks that yea i am spoild but im not! my parents work soo hard to make shua im not spoild that i barley get anything! i mean they give me the basics you knoe clothes shelter and food. well i always have to save up my own money for anything that i want. like last summer i wanted a trampoline so i worked really hard and i save up money and bought my trampoline. well my best friend saw that i got one so she asked her parents to get her one and they did! well yea i was disappointed cuz i worked really hard and she just had to ask for it. this went on when i saved up for my cell phone and this really cute sweat shirt and with designer bags and everything!! aarrgg!!! why is everyone soo spoild! idk i prolly sound like a brat but i feel like im being cheated! and she always get the sam exact thing as me the very next week!
help me please
Well first of all that is awesome that you work for your own stuff casue u will enjoy what ever you buy more and you will take care of it, i am an only child too and i had to do the same thing. As far as the friends gettin stuff just like yours, for one they see you have it and they want it and its like they wanna be like you or have what you have. I know its frustrating that all they have to do is ask for it but you won't really relise why your parents are doing that to you till you are older cause they are instilling a very vauluable quality that is way too hard to teach when people get older.
[view]
i like my bf so much im 14 nd we've done everything except sex and anal i love him so much but lately i havent been hanging out with my friends as much and he gets mad wen i do i noe he dont trust me but idc but i wanna hang out with friends!! i miss them and like wen i do he gets mad and we hardly talk and my dad sed if i dnt start hanging out with my friends then hes guna end me nd my bf nd like i told my bf that nd we started crying nd stuff nd he sed he didnt wanna loose me but he cant get over the fact that were guna have to break up if i dont start hanging out with my friends ...either way he gets mad at me ..what should i do
x3 confused
Ok first of all you are 14....u need to spend time with your friends. Boys are going to come and go. You need to keep your friends casue they will be there long after the boys are gone, that is what your dad is trying to tell you only he is doing it in a diffrent way. As far as dealin with your bf he needs to be able to except it and if he doesn't then maybe its time to get rid of him but only as a last resort. He has to let you live your life, he can't keep you bottled up cause that is not fair to you.
[view]
well im really good friends with this guy and i like him a lot because were so close and similar and i think we both like eachother and we talk about everything but he always asks out other girl who turn him down, doesnt he know that im righ tin front of him and were perfect for eachother how can i help him see that?
Well these can kind of be tricky situations... if he doesn't know how u feel about him then you need to tell him if you want him to know. But you have a really good friendship with him and sometimes when feelings like that get put out in the open it can hurt a frienship espcally if he doesn't feel the same as you. Its your call but you have to be willin to put your friendship on the line and accept the outcome, whether it be good or bad.
[view]
i am going to the movies with my boyfriend. i was wondering if i should make a move on him? should i kiss him? Im new at this so i dont know what i should do. my friends are coming along too and i dont know if i should make a move because they are also there. would it be weird if i did make a move? please help!
Do what ever makes you feel comfotable at the time. The whole friends thing can sometimes make the situation not right and you both may feel akward if you kiss him. If the situtation comes up go for it, a kiss at the movies is always nice
[view]
Ok, this is a pretty basic question, but does anyone have any really good organizational tips for school and also study tips along with that...they kinda go hand in hand! I RATE VERY WELL:)
A good way to stay organized it to get a binder or like maybe one for each class so that way each class has its own binder and it will be easier to find stuff for that class. As far as studying it depends on which u study better from, either notes, or a book. The best thing is to do it from both but like if you are a note person you need a certian style for taking them, like outline stlye of split page or just something you like and can help you. As far as studying from a book, read the chapter reviews and then answer them as you are reading and then review the questions when you are done
[view]
Ive been dating a guy for a few days over a week, we've done sexual things and after each time when we talk on the phone he always asks me if i had an orgasm. He gets really turned on when i moan and i get really turned on when he says my name so we both usually try to do that for each other. Well when he asks me if i had an orgasm, i always ask him to, and we both kind of aviod the answer, i dont think either of us have ever, but should i just lie and say i did or what? how should i handle the answer to this question?
If you don't think that either of you have then you probably haven't. You can still have a great sexual experience and not have an ogasim. You should just be honest with him and tell him the truth. If you are wanting to have an orgasim with him then talk to him about it so that way he would be able to give you one.
[view]
My brother recently kissed a lesbian, and disgusting thoughts came up in my mind, so I thought I'd just ask this question...
IF A REGULAR GUY KISSES A LESBIAN, WHAT DOES THAT MAKE THE GUY?
Please answer, don't leave me in suspense!
I makes him a normal guy. The only thing that changes is that he is able to tell all his friends that he kissed a lesbian. But if she wasn't a pretty lesbian then you might be a lil worried about his taste in girls
[view]
|
