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i am very much into track and cross country, i have just started my summer cross country training for the season which begins in late august. one problem i am having is for two weeks i am going to an acting camp, one i have been to before which begins at 7 am (ill leave my house earlier) and i wont be home until 8:15 pm. at the camp, sitting is mainly what you are doing. the people there are much more theatre people and dont think alot about fitness. i really dont want to mess up my training schedule/the fitness ive been doing. any suggestions?
do some of your training early before your class and after, if you ever have free time in your acting camp like a break try to do some training i duno if this is gona help
>>> SparkleAngel
I'm 14.
To make a really long story shorter, my bff...Jane. Has an abusive boyfriend, also, she's only 13, which makes it even more weird. She's going out with a 15 year old.
And she says I'm the only one she told.
She says he doesn't like beat her up, he just hits her a lot..
I never noticed, but recently she's been wearing long sleeves. Because she's actually BRUISED.
But, Jane says she really has it under control, and doesn't want to break up with him because she apparently realllly likes him. And she says he likes her, but..
I said if I were her I would break up with him.
Then she said something like that I didn't know what love was, so I couldn't say that.
I've never really been in this kind of situation before.
Do I tell an adult?
If you were me..what would you...do?
ugh, I'm kind of confused.
And I want to help my friend.
you should tell an adult even if you don't want to she will thank you in the future because someday if you didn't tell an adult she could be seriously hurt hope it helps
>>> SparkleAngel
hi, okay so me and my boyfriend have been going out for over a year now, on and off. and i mean i would do anything for this kid. i`m not saying i`m in love with him, but i might be. and we talk like we have a really serious relationship. but, there is one problem, we barely ever see eachother. school ended for me june 9th, we saw eachother on the last day of school of course, and then about a month ago at this public swimming pool. that`s all we have seen eachother this whole summer. i mean i talk to him everyday, and we try to hang out, but he says that he can`t and tells me why, but i always think that he`s just making up an excuse to just not hang out. i mean he says that either his parents don`t want to take him or something that has to do with his parents. we`re 15 so we can`t drive by ourselves yet. but, he never hangs out with girls he goes out with i guess, and it really is because of his parents. but i still have that thought in my mind thinking he just doesn`t want to see me. how can we hang out more ? and do you think he just doesn`t even wanna hang out with me..?
first of all before you get all upset try asking him if he really wants to see you anymore then ask him where he likes to hang out and plan a few days to go see him there like every wendsday or whatever try to understand why he isn't hagning out with you its probably just because most boys like to hang with there boy friends durring the summer hope it helps
>>> SparkleAngel
I have a friend and me and her always have tons of fun together but like shes too upsessed with fashion and if i wanna buy some clothes she always makes me tell her wht im getting or wht i got so we wont get the same thing and its really anooying wht should i do?
wow you sound a lot like my friend Emily, well you could tell her that its a surprise (but i bet you already tried that) just tell her that you don't want to ruin the surprise or that if she wants you to buy clothes for her then stop asking because the other person could always return it if its the same just try to make it sound nice becuase how i am saying it is kinda mean if you just blurt it out at her like that I duno if this is really good advice becuase this has never happened to me well i hope it helps
>>> SparkleAngel
im a pretty supportive person when it comes to my friends. when they need to talk i listen, when they ask for advice i give it to them, my opinion etc. but when i need to talk sometimes they wont listen. i do talk alot but im not a bad listener and im always their for my friends when they need me to be. recently i had a really hard week and i NEEDED to talk to a friend of mine, but every time i tried calling or iming etc. she wouldnt answer. then i commented her on myspace and she freaked out on me! she was like " sometimes people just dont want to talk when theyre mad, your not the only one w/ problems!" and i didnt have a clue what she was talking about! if she needed to talk she could have just said something and i would have listened to her while she talked it all out, but when i needed her she wasnt there for me. am i over reacting, or is she in the wrong? PLEASE HELP!
well sometimes when people are upset the over react your friend might ahve not been that mad she just over reacted but you are right she should have listened too ask her what the matter is and then after you guys talk about her problem try to relate yours in to the converation so you can sorta talk about both then you both will feel better
>>> SparkleAngel
I had a dream i made out with my best friends boyfriend. I feel so bad that i would have a dream like that. I dont even have feelings for him!! Now i feel like i have betrayed my best friend what should i do to make me feel better?
this might sound stupid but write it all down in a journal you can shred it up later if it makes you feel better tell your self it was all just a dream and eventually another dream will push it a side belive me something like that happened to me to (the dream) it slowly lost you know the power that made it seem true it did take a while but hopefully yours won't hope it works (don't forget the journal thing really works)
I have a crush on this guy and he was walking towards me.
As he walked towards me, I swept my bangs sideways by purposely flinging my head to my side a little (but obvious enough for him to see).I didnt like exaggerate my actions to the point where my head turns 360 degrees but the action is kind of obvious for him to see. I did that cos I heard that it's a form of flirting when girls fling their hair back. When he saw me doing that, he just smiled.
I don't know what kind of smile is that. I mean its just a normal smile but I kinda wanna cringe whenever I remembered flinging my head back purposely in front of him. what does he mean by that smile? I feel kind of embarrasssed that I flung my stupid head back and gosh do I regret it sooo!
Can someone pleeeease tell me wat could he have felt? Is he smiling cos he's embarrassed for me?
he probably smiled because he either likes you or he thought it was sweet or he was happy someone liked him if he thought doing that was stupid he would have probably not smiled or even laugh this person might like you and there is only one way to find out maybe he will ask you out maybe you will too
i get jealous of all the girls my boyfriend talks to... how do i keep myself from feeling bad.
sit down with him one day and ask him if you are really his (if you know what I mean) if he askes why tell him because you are uncomfortable with him talking with tons of girls and it seems like he likes them but in your own words
I made a video at this link http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wPy4wjxSI58
I'm singing Defying Gravity and I'd love some comments/advice on how I did because I'm trying out for a musical soon and whether or not it's that song I need to know what to work on or what my strengths are.
it was good but i think you need to be a little more clearer on your words and with the high notes i would love to do that someday too bad i don't have a video camera oh well send me an email (xSummerSparklex@aim.com)
16/f
how can i get over or not get so sad/jealous over this guy that im really starting to like and i cant help it but has a girlfriend?!...we flirt nonstop and all this stuff but we are "best friends" as we say haha. i know ive fallen for him but i get so sad when he talks about his girlfriend and when he says he is gonna go hangout with her. i know its his girlfriend and obviously he is gonna do that stuff but i always forget that he has one because whenever we hangout we flirt so much like touchy/sexual but never kissed or really came close and everything and it feels like he is MY boyfriend. its hard not to talk to him or try not to be around him so much because its my cousins neighbor and my boy cousin is his good friend so he is over at their house like everyday and so am i! my other cousin is my best friend thats why i am over there so much and i dont have many other friends i hangout with and all i can think about is this kid..and hes not even mine..
ahh what do i do?
thank you
try to talk to him on how you feel just don't blurt it right at him or he will take it the wrong way i really don't know what else you can do just to hope he breaks up with her and ask him out after that
I went out with this one guy for like, a year and a half, and never even kissed him. I just always thought of him as a.."oh were dating, but i dont want to "date him", kinda thing. So anyway, just a couple days ago, he called me up, and asked me to go out with him. (just to let you know, i dated him like, 4 years ago) Anyway, so i guess he still liked me, but i still dont think of him like that. I kinda said yes to the date, only cause i felt bad for him, but then i had to cancel.
How can i avoid things like this in the future? I really dont like him at all like that, and would rather remain friends.
What you really shouldn't do is say yes I know it is the nice thing to do but it is leading him on if you know what I mean well just tell him that you just want to be friends and you dont want to go out right now (even if right now means never) try to sound truly sorry even if you aren't I hope it helps
Summer is what i've always loved about my life, but now it's the worse, see i need school. yeah i know this sounds crazy but i do. see i have this friend, he's my best friend and i've known him since i can remember. His name is J.C., and he's now all i can think about. People used to always ask if we were bfs and gfs but we always said no. we tell everyone that we're like brother's and sister's to eachother, but people think that we're secretly dating, but we're not. well it was the truth. even though we acted like it. we would always sit by eachother and tell eachother everything. We would make up nick names for eachother, not gushy ones though. We even told eachother that we are the best friends anyone couls ever have. I've known him ever since i could remember. Well everytime i hear stuff or see couples or hear sappy sounds, BOOM he pops up in my mind and down comes a frown. I'm hoping he's in my homeroom this year, and i don't what to do if he's not. What should i do if he's not? Am i in love? Does he love me? Do i like him? Does he like me?
Please help.
Its kinda hard to say but you seem like your in love with him i duno if he is in love with you but you seem to be inlove with him you probably wont realize this until he starts dating someone else your heart will be crushed so don't wait ask him what he thinks maybe you will find out that you both are in love with eachother and amybe you will start dating i duno its up to you but it sure seems like you are ment for him
so is it true that when people have low self esteem that they tell other people that they are ugly just to make themselves feel better?
♥if thats true . theres one girl whos always telling me how ugly i am . well i dont want to sound conceited because im not but i know im pretty . and yeah . but she doesnt think shes pretty and she has told me that before but she acts like shes all that and has to call other ppl names and i guess it makes herself feel good?
♥much love
If you are asking if people insult people to make theirsevles feel better its true most people insult people when ever they are sad, mad, upset, stressed, or anything else other people do it becusae they don't have any friends or they just are mean try to talk to this person and ask them if anything bad is going on in there live maybe a pet or relitive died and they can't get over it if that doesn't work they prorbably are just plain mean
What are some good songs to sing as a solo and without accompaniment besides "The Star-Spangled Banner"?
Somewhere over the Rainbow I sung that in a solo once and it was so much fun
this guy really likes me and hes asked me out about 7 times. i dont really know what to do cause he reallt likes me but i dont think i like him. :/ wat should i do to tell him? plz anwser QUICK cause he just asked me out AGAIN!!!
Just explain to him that you really aren't interested in him right now and keep on asking you isn't helping tell him you are really sorry and you just want to be friends and make sure you sound truly sorry even if you aren't
I'm thirteen and I am 5'4", and i weigh 100 lbs. I used to be really thin with a nice, flat stomache, and i only weighed 87 lbs. I think the reason I weigh more now is because this year was kind of rocky so I started eating more and mroe junk food to get my mind off of it. I'm much happier now, but I can't get my body to resist the cravings for junk food 24/7. Please give me advice on how to stop junk food cravings.
You don't have to completely cut back on junk food just slow down slowly and eat less and less everyday also try exercising more so you loose weight and you can stop eating junk food what you can also do is find something healthy that you love to eat I hope it helps bye