Hi!!!!
my name is Jimmy Nguyen.
I like to give advice to people who really need it.
Im 13 yr. old guy
welllllllllllllllllllll if you have a question, ask me and I'll answer it to the best of my abilities.
Hope to be of really good help!
//Smallazn4lyfe
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HOw long do you usually make out for ??? (link)
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as long as you feel like it.
At first its about 10~ seconds.
and soon gradually increase the time and soon you'll be a makeout successor.
I hope this helped.
//Smallazn4lyfe
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in your opinion should a good night, or goodbye kiss be with open mouth and a little toungue, or just a little peck??
And if you have any makeout advice, please tell me. Like tips and stuff.
Thanks so much (link)
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for a good night//goodbye kiss, it should be a peck. A makeout is more of a romantic kiss that you should do on dates.
If you need some makeout tips. Tease them with your tongue. move it around, go deep it, and sometimes dont use it.
I hope this helped.
//Smallazn4lyfe
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I met a guy that I really like and he really likes me but neither of us are looking for a full on boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. We hang out with his best friend and my best friend quite a bit but its keeping me from hanging out with my other friends. All we ever do when we hang out is make out but we really like eachother and he makes me so happy but I don't see where this is going... please give me some advice. (link)
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Since you're making out with him, it means that it is going somewhere.
Just give it a little time for him to think if he needs a real relationship at the moment. You should think the same. Is he the person that would treat you right? Is he the person that would love you for who you are and not for your looks? If both of those is a yes, you should totally talk to him about a real relationship.
I hope this helped.
//Smallazn4lyfe
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What do you do if someone unexpectedly tells you that they love you? What if you're not sure that you love them back?
Worse, what if you're the one that tells someone those three words and they tell you they don't feel the same or make up some stupid reason for not wanting to say it back.
If you've ever been in either situation how did you handle it?
When my ex told me he loved me I couldn't think of anything but thanks. I was young and didn't know the meaning of love, I didn't want to lie but I wasn't sure if I would be telling the truth. Now, a year later, I'm hesitent to say it because I don't want to put someone in the same awkward position I was in back then. I don't know how I'd react if they said thanks or that they didn't feel the same way. But I now understand what love means and I think I really, truly love him.
Help! (link)
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There really isn't a meaning of love, but you know when someone says i love you at a really perfect time, they mean it, if you know what i mean by perfect time. When someone you truly care about says i love you, it means that they care for you, and do anything for you to have the best life that you can have.
I hope this helped.
//Smallazn4lyfe
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hi
im 13/f
i havent gotten my perid yet, but have been getting discharge for a about 2 years mabie.
about a couple months ago i noticed brownish blood in my underwear. about a lil bigger than a quater.
havent gotten any since.
was this my first period?? im confused.
srry if its gross but hey all girls have it too so.. this is all i have
pubic hair
discharge
32A in bust.
so usally your suppost to get ur period soon after discharge but ive had it for a while now.
and ive had grown some what boobs
whats the deal?
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1 word.
puberty.
Some girls have their periods sooner than other girls, and some have their periods later in life. It just depends on the person. You just hit your teen years, so you should have your period soon.
I hope this helped.
//Smallazn4lyfe
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16/f 5'5 or 5'6 about 150lbs. Kinda long, and im sorry, please tell me what you think/know..
Im in sports, cheerleading, basketball & gymnastics.. and Im not fat, I know im not.
I have a lot of muscle. Not manly, but Im strong for a girl and I know muscle weighs more then fat.
But what I would like to improve is my lower abs. I have fat like all people, over my abs. But my lower abs is what has the most fat over it. And I would like to get it better.
I just started doing this workout, this week. Here it is..
I have cheerleading Tuesday and thursday 6-8..
On monday, wensday and friday im running a lap at the track, then walk, then run, then walk and run again. I have a work out ball to do crunches on, (to improve the bending in the back and help work my lower abs) and to work my legs. Which I will do everyday.
I read that doing a lot of crunches will help your abs, but to see them, you have to get rid of the fat over them.
So my questions are..
Running three days a week like i just said, will that help me lose that little fat over my abs?
And about how long do you think it will be untill I can see my abs?
Also, Im not changing my eating ways. I dont eat a lot already, so I dont think changing that will make a differance. I dont eat a lot of junk food, just a lot of pop. So Im lowering it to two cans a day, and hopefully diet pop. ((my family dont like deit pop so that might be trouble) (link)
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Yes, running should help you loose the fat in your lower abs. Crunches help a lot with the ab workout.
About how long it would take for you to see your abs, that would usually take around 2-3+ weeks as I am seeing by your schedule. Just make sure you don't eat too much and you'll be set to a new set of abs.
I hope this helped.
//Smallazn4lyfe
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15/f
I'm an emotional wreck. And it's almost hard to believe that this has been caused by one guy. I used to be in love with him. He told me he didn't like me in that way (I suppose because he's older). Okay. I accepted the fact that he doesn't like me. But I still am always thinking about him! Always! Always waiting for hours on MSN, while we were in school, anywhere. I'm constantly thinking about him. I can never stop. He's just always on my mind. I don't know what to do. I can't concentrate on anything anymore. It's like, my whole life revolves around one guy. I know he will never like me and that nothing will ever happen, but I'm just so emotionally attached to him. I don't know how to overcome this and stop it. I've tried getting my mind off him; impossible. And jealousy...is a feeling that never goes away as well. *sigh* What can I do to keep him off my mind?
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Well, some things that could take your mind off this person is to do a puzzle, play games, hang out with your friends. Try to not think about him, you still have things ahead of you in life, and you shouldn't take this time to be a little obsessive over one guy. I used to be an obsessor myself, but it all worked out when I started to like another person. You should try thinking about another guy that you think is cute. That should help a little bit.
I hope this helped.
//Smallazn4lyfe
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why is it bad to be on the comp when there is a thunderstorm goin on?would anything happn to you or jus your comp? (link)
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Well, it depends on if there is a big power line close to your house. If there is, you should most likely turn off your computer until the thunderstorm is off, or else if if a lighting strike hit one of the power lines, that could end up turning off your computer, and everything else in your house that is powered by electricity
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I want a new screename for aim, my name is tiffanie& I like stuff thats cute& classy. (link)
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x2TiffieeXx
x3SweetTiffieeOx
haha i don't know. I'm not good at it.
I hope i get a high rating :]
//Smallazn4lyfe
(msg me on aim, its smallazn4lyfe)
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ok so im 15/f and im getting really pissed at my mom because im not allowed to see any guys. like not just date but hang out with them. if i go to any of my friends houses and there are guys there, im not allowed to go. and im not allowed to go to MY BOYFRIENDS HOUSE!!! im so sick of her and when my sister was my age, she could do pretty much whatever she wanted. i just dont get it. (link)
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Your mom is just one of those protective moms. She doesn't want you to get 'raped' or do anything sexually at your age. She cares for you. I know how moms are, my mom wouldn't let me to go my girlfriends house because she thought I would have sex with her.
I hope this helped.
//Smallazn4lyfe
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13/f
My ex boyfriend moved away a year ago, after we broke up. He swore he'd come back when I went into 8th grade. I talked to the teachers and... He is coming back for sure. I'm scared! I no it's stupid but I am. He's really cute, but it's the reason we broke up that scares me... We broke up cuz he left a bruise on my arm at a dance in front of everybody, that's why nobody dares date me(Don't know why exactly), and I found out 3 months later he was cheating on me... I lied to people and told them I cheated on him too, but I didn't... I just want to know what to do! I got really really REALLY uncomferable around him after we broke up. Now, I get chills even when his name is mentioned... Please somebody give me advice ASAP!!!!!! (link)
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It doesn't seem like he was a really good boyfriend from what I read. He left a bruise on your arm at a dance, and he cheated on you. I would probably be the same way you are if I was his ex-girlfriend, but that shouldn't matter, you have to face your fears one time or another even if it is a whole school year! You have to face your fear to over come it. When school starts, just don't really close him out of your life, talk to him once in a while, and you'll get over your nervousness.
I hope this helped.
//Smallazn4lyfe
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ok well i have this boyfriend and well we started going out in the summer and well he just isn't on the same level as me i mean he is popular and im just normal and talk to everyone but i have a certain group and well i don't want the school year to be any different from last so should i eat with him at lunch or sit by him in class i don't know what to do i mean we both like eachother alot and well i though i should just sit with my usual friends and give him space at school and talk bout are day after school is over with i just don't know what to do (link)
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That is exactly what happened to me and my ex-girlfriend. I was in the popular group with all my friends, and she was in the semi-low group with all her friends. We had 4 out of 6 classes with each other and that totally didn't change the way that we felt of each other. If you truly love someone, you shouldn't matter with some clique, you should care about that person. Love brings people together, not keep them apart.
I hope this helped.
//Smallazn4lyfe
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i recently striked up a conversation with my crush. how do i know when we're friends? any signs, an "at least this many months / weeks / years... " ? thanks so much! (link)
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If you have any good connection with a person, that means that they're your friends.
It doesn't take time to be friends with someone, because you could be friends at anytime.
I hope this helped.
//Smallazn4lyfe
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everytime ithink of my relationship with my boyfriend..i feel a bit odd inside. maybe its cause iw as flirting with some guy on the net awhile back and he found out and it was almost the end of us. and he ended up doing the same thing to me. but in different context, much worse. cuz now theres all these girls flirting with him..hes not saying anything at all. and hes not flirting back, to my knowledge. but he still talks to them...hes always on the computer talking to them..more than me. i sometimes sit behind him and see if he misses me...Why do i feel this way? i mean i feel i dont belong with him or i do but =/ he doesn't want me any more..
i've talk to some of the girls but they're all sorry but they knew about me..I dont get it. maybe im just depressed.
your thoughts? (link)
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If he doesn't flirt back with these girls, that means he still cares for you. A reason for him not talking to you as much as the other girls is that you're not talking about an interesting topic, and the other girls are. Try bringing up an interesting topic for you and your boyfriend to talk about. You shouldn't feel bad, he still wants you to be his girlfriend. You'll get through it.
Good luck!
//Smallazn4lyfe
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hey. so i finally FINALLY mustered up enough courage to message my crush on facebook. things are going pretty well & the conversation is pretty smooth. but, i'm really nervous about what i say to him. like i type something once, reread it, edit it, delete stuff, etc. how do i force myself to just CALM down & not be so nervous? i'm being as open as i can, but i'm afraid i'll say something stupid / something i'll regret! (link)
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pretend that you're talking to one of your friends. Don't try to reread everything that you type, try to just stay calm and don't worry about your crush thinking you're a neat typer. Just don't talk about anything that could be a little dangerous to say.
I hope this helped.
//Smallazn4lyfe
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Yeah so Saturday these 3 kids pretty close to my age are coming to my neighbor's lakehouse Saturday. I never have people near my age so I'm excited! I'm 13 and the ages are 12, 14, and 15. =) We are going to go tubing and we use this huge 4 person tube so hopefully I'll be next to one of them. =) I wanna flirt but I can't let anyone really know I'm flirting because all of the other kids there are young so I don't want them knowing I'm flirting. What should I say to them? I don't want to come off as this annoyingly loud outgoing person, but not a shy freak either. I'll probably see them next week too. All tips and stuff would help. Also, should I dress a little slutty or no? (link)
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That sounds lots of fun! It's not bad letting people know you're flirting. I know it could be a little embarrassing sometimes, but its for the best reasons. No, you shouldn't dress slutty, it would make you look like a slut, no offense. Be outgoing, but don't overdo it. it could go haywire.
I hope this helped.
//Smallazn4lyfe
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okay so im 16/f and I've only had one boyfriend my whole life. and its not like i care. but its just that i notice that i fall for guys too easily and always ending up getting hurt and make a fool myself. and i throw myself at guys. i try no to but i always do that anyways. so how should i talk to guys without making a fool of myself? and also i have a crush on this really hot guy in my driver's ed and i talked to him yesterday and he told me his name i think and i forgot. and he also told me that what school he goes to and that he boxes! but im not sure how do i keep him interested? any tips will great thanks! (link)
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being yourself is always the way to go! If you don't think about what to say, you wont make a fool of yourself. if you think of what to say next, that would just mess up your mind, because if you think about it, it starts hurting your head and it'll make you not think at all. trust me, I've been through it. Just make sure you don't say anything stupid, because it could just slip out.
Some things that you could talk about is how old he is, how long he's been in the drivers ed, tell him about yourself, etc...
Good luck!
//Smallazn4lyfe
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and constantly compares you to another sibling, calls u stupid, fat, ugly (about every time she sees me)....like, everytime theres a TV ad for a skincare line or something she says, 'you should get that!' (cause i don't have such great skin) every 5 seconds ...she loves it.
always talking to me and staring at my acne and/or saying, "what is happening to your face?!". and shes always like, you look so ugly right now!
or she even tells me to shut up randomly, sometimes even wanting to get violent....or 'why don't you get your eyebrows done? (ur (my) sister) is so much prettier, why can't you look like her', etc.....'ur so dark (wtf?) and ugly'
she is bipolar, for real. i can't take it anymore.
she is so comforting to hug sometimes and talk to when I'm low or when my dad gives me stress (he is a resume/checklist, 'did u finish this, did you finish that'' type of dad!) not a great combo. But it's so weird because she gets into a nasty behavior randomly.
for example...i have concentration problems (add) and my dad helps me focus sometimes to do my schoolwork (i take medication, i'm 17)....and my mom imitates me and is like, "I'm so stupid, I'm going to just use my dad, he can do all my work for me, and mom cooks so I can use her too."
it's hard and really annoying because she digs into some of my deepest insecurities and just full on insults me. my sister doesn't talk to her anymore. but its harder for me because i still live in this house.
its lonely as ever, especially because as of now I don't have many friends since I moved and am going to a new school this fall. =/! (link)
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you seriously need someone to talk to. someone to comfort you whenever you're sad. I know moms can be a little intimidating, specially when shes bipolar, but shes your mom, and you have to love her. She's the one that brought you into this life. I'm sorry for the way that your mom is treating you, but soon, it's all going to be over. Once school starts, life should be a little easier, because since its a new school, it means new friends. Be happy! Turn that frown upside down. Whenever you need to talk, msg me on aim or on msn.
aim: smallazn4lyfe
msn: smallazn69@hotmail.com
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i need a cute way to word i love you and think your the most amazing person ever to my boyfriend as if i were going to write him a letter..kinda like in a paragraph or so..im not really good at these things but i just really have to tell him..this is strange i know but whatever. im just stuck and lost for words!..thanks!:) (link)
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you make my heart race a thousand miles.
//Smallazn4lyfe
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16/m
so i dated this girl Ashley about 4 months ago and we broke up. We went out for a little longer than 4 months and i even told her that i loved her which is a huge deal to me. She was my first really serious relationship and i thought that we were perfect for each other. We then broke up bc we went to different schools and we realized that i wasnt working. I thought i had moved on since then but i havent had any serious relationships just like hook up kind of things. I recently found some pictures we took together (just normanl ones) and all of a sudden i cant stop thinking about her and i keep thinking that i made a HUGE mistake breaking up with her. Im scared to call her again but i really want to talk to her. Is this normal? should i feel this crappy? (link)
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No, you shouldn't feel that crappy. It's normal to feel like that. You just feel like you have a hole somewhere in your heart and you need your ex-girlfriend to fill it up again. It's basically, you miss her to death.
You should call her! I bet she would like it, she probably feels the same way back if your relationship with her was really that awesome. Talk about really good times that you both had in the past, and that would make her realize that she wants you back.
I hope this helped.
//Smallazn4lyfe
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