Call MeSKY
i;m 16 and i live in New York, The reason i decided to give out advice because i have been through alot in my life,
-I grew up without a father,
-dealt with abuse up till recently,
-dealt with many mental issues,
-dealt with death in a close knit family,
-dealt with disease.
-Jerk Boyfriends
-Sex issues
-Step Sisters
I've been through a lot, but it only made me stronger. I know what it feels like to be down, to be lower than you've ever been before, Sometimes you just need someone, even if you don't know this person just to talk too. When friends aren't as supportive as they should be, and parents aren't there. Thats why I'm here. I'm not perfect with advice but i will tell you straight up and do my best to help. No matter how big or small a problem is. I will be as open as i possibly can, and maybe just maybe( No promises though) i will help. Just know that talking is a good way to solve any problem..
-Sky-
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Okay so, he and I have been together for 4 years. I've broken down alot of his committment barriers, no kids, I have kids and he loves them. no living together, we have lived happily together for 3 years.. we have yet to fight, no marriage "right now". he bought a 4br. house for me and my kids!! we move in this week..he has said, you want to be mrs. dont you?? I said yes, of course!!Lots of suggestive talk, his friends slap him on the back and say when are you gonna marry this beautiful girl?? He blushes and laughs! My b-day is 7-7-77. Proposal POSSIBLE?? He has been married 2x, me once. we are an incredible team with love and understanding, lots of communication?? what do you think? I am 29, he is 42, age definately doesnt matter.. (link)
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This question made me smile because its so good that you found someone you love.
Its sounds like he will eventually pop the question.
wonderful things take some time to happen but in the end they are worth the wait.
Good Luck.
-Sky-
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ok i tried out for cheerleading and i didnt make it and im kinda mad at the girls that did. i know i shouldnt but im depressed and im mad at the girls that did make it. how do i get over this? (link)
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I recently tried out for varsity softball,
i worked my butt off and i didn't make it,
I was so upset for days and days but i knew i couldn't change no matter how bad i wanted to play i knew i couldn't.
You just need to give yourself time to get over it,
Its a bad feeling, Believe me i know it is.
May i suggest your favorite ice cream, and a good movie with a good friend,
Just remember even thought you may of not succeeded at this, this time.
You will succeed in many other things.
Perhaps you should practice and try out next year.
It'll get better I promise
-Sky-
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me and my old boyfriend broke up a long time ago. i kinda miss him but im afraid that when we start going out again that he will lie to me all the time ( thats why i broke up with him). what do i do? (link)
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the question is are you willing to give him another chance and forget all the stuff he did because you can truly get on with a relationship if you wont be able to trust him.
I know how you feel and this may be a hard decision btu you have to realise that some people arent willing to change and you have to talk to him about this before you guys take another shot because i dont want to see you or anyone in the situation get hurt.
Sit down and talk it out.
If he doesnt agree to change then he isnt worth it.
I know this might be hard so
Stay Strong,
-Sky-
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do guys like their nipples touched and stuff too? (link)
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Ask your boyfriend.
Or just do it.
If he doesn't like it that he will defiantly tell you.
It all depends on the boy.
Some like it
Some don't,
Some are more interested with touches your.
Its really a some like it some don't issue
-Sky-
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How do I get rid of my top friends list on Myspace? (link)
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well you can get speciallized layouts that dont show your top friends or you can
Instructions:
1. Copy and paste the code into ‘About Me’ section:
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2. Save your editing and preview. Done. =)
http://codesplay.wordpress.com/2007/02/16/hide-friends/
-Sky-
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14/f
Okey Same thing with almost every friend=/
okey.....
so last weekend my and my friend was suppost to go the this little teen club.
& thew my mom got sick.
& the thing was on a thursday/ no school friday)
anyways i askd my mom if i could go & she said NO!
& i told my friend i couldnt & she was like Oh well ya i gotta go. & hung up. see this happends with almost everyfriend of my that are gurls.
if i cant do somethings its like thay get mad & lie & say thay gotta go or just say ima let you go. i mean i nkow what your most of you will say its not my say if i can go somewhere its my moms
& i mean its no just that most of my friends dont all the much hang out with me.
am i not a good friend. (link)
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Your friends don't sound like very good friends.
If they get mad over little things like that then they arent worth it.
I'm sure your a fabulous friend and its not your fault that your mom says you cant go somewhere.
Your mom even though i know you dont want to hear this is only protecting you.
She may not feel comfortable with you going to a teen club at your age because trust "been there done that" and they arent very good for young
girls like yourself.
talk your friends because they need to know how you feel.
try to make new plans.
Plans that you know will work out.
Don't Sweat it.
It'll all pass.
-Sky-
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Well, me and my boy have been together for awhile now and I reallyREALLY want to give him a blowjob. The thing is I have no idea HOW to give one. Or how to make it pleasureable for him.So any tips? : ] I'll rate. (link)
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so i did some research and instead and her it is:
1. Get comfortable. A blow job is much more fun without a sore neck. Find a position that works best for both of you, depending on where you are (you can't really lounge comfortably in an elevator, you know) and the angle of the cock you're dealing with (work with the natural downward angle of your throat). Kneel before your man with him standing if you're in a confined area, or when you want to strike a pose that is really hot. Other positions: seat your partner and crouch between their legs (slide a pillow under your knees if you're not on a soft surface), or lay down and let your partner thrust into your mouth, (harder to control the depth, but good for you lazy types). If you're in a car, your partner can lay down lengthwise in the back.
2. If you're using a condom, put it on NOW! Try a Trustex flavored condom or Kiss O' Mint condom if you don't like the taste of latex. A sexy way to set the scene is to use your mouth to put the condom on before you get busy.
3. Give us a kiss.If you're dealing with a soft penis, you don't have to wait until it's hard to start the show. Put it in your mouth when it's soft (or semi-hard) to get acquainted. Kiss it. Lick it. Explore the different textures, especially the roughish tender head and the soft skin of the shaft. Feel it growing in your mouth. Cool, huh?
4. Mouth off. Slide your lips gently over your teeth for smooth sailing. Most fellatio recipients like lots of spit, but others prefer a drier job, so check in with your partner. Asking quick yes or no questions like "want it dryer?" or "more spit?" can be helpful and hot. Despite your amazing technique, you aren't a mind-reader, so watch your partner for body language cues. Heavy breathing and moans of pleasure are signs that you're on the right track.
5. Experiment. You can do more wonderful stuff with your mouth than just suck (and remember--the harder you suck doesn't necessarily mean the better it feels). Mix it up by licking the sensitive underside of the shaft, the nerve-ending-loaded head of the penis, and the testicles. Softly blow on the moistened areas. The combination of sensations will feel incredible.
6. Hands-on. Give your blow job a hand. Grip the cock around the base and slide it up and down, hand-job style, in tandem with your mouth. (Some folks like a tight squeeze, others may not, so check in.) This is great because you can cover a lot of the shaft this way without worrying about taking the whole cock in your mouth. You can concentrate on the super-sensitive head and suck as hard or softly as you'and your partner'like. Use lube for extra slipperiness. A silicone lube like Eros Bodyglide is great for blow jobs: it's concentrated so you only need a tiny bit, it's long-lasting so you won't need to keep stopping to reload, and it doesn't have a distracting taste or smell.
7. Deep throat. Deep-throating the act of taking the entire shaft into your mouth and throat can be cool, but you can give a perfectly stellar blow job without doing so. The key to deep-throat is to relax your jaw and throat muscles as much as you can. Otherwise, you trigger the gag reflex.
8. Accessorize. Bring some toys into your routine. Experiment with cockrings, buttplugs, or little vibrators (like the Finger Fun vibe) for some attention on the testicles and perineum. Hold a vibrator against your cheek to add vibrations to your mouth play. Or try sucking on ice or a breath mint to transmit a tingly sensation to your favorite penis. Again, check in with your partner to see how experimental you should be.
9. Get into it. Look at your partner and the ecstacy you have caused! Make eye contact. Show your partner how much you love being down there. Moan, make appreciative noises (a well-placed MMMM! can make for some nice vibration, too), let your partner know how turned on you are. Don't neglect the rest of the body, either stroke, tickle, scratch the thighs, stomach, butt, and everywhere else you can reach.
10. Sucking Silicone. This applies to every cock, silicone, rubber, glass, vegetable and flesh alike. When you're dealing with a dildo, treat it like your partner can feel everything you're doing to it because they can. Be careful if the toy is made of a non-flexible material position yourself accordingly to accommodate it. For more on this topic, see How to Suck Strap on Cock.
11. Finish the Job. It is ultimately your choice whether or not to swallow. Your partner's diet, health, habits and frequency of ejaculation will determine the quantity and taste of the ejaculate. The ejaculate of someone who ingests lots of red meat, caffeine, alcohol or cigarettes, may taste more intense than that of a non-smoking vegetarian. The most ejaculate you might encounter is a teaspoonful or so. You have several choices if you aren't crazy about ejaculate, but don't want to hurt anyone's feelings:
* you can take it in your mouth and discreetly deposit into a nearby towel
* as your partner approaches climax, withdraw and finish with your hand.
* You can let your partner come on your body and admire the copious amounts of ejaculate
* you can use a condom
When you're totally focused on giving head, it can be a lot of fun whether it's for power play (your partner's most precious asset is at your mercy), intimacy, or the pure fun of getting someone off. Remember, you should only be performing fellatio on somebody if you're really into it and are able to focus all of your energy on what you're doing. If you're staring at the clock, waiting for it to end, or worrying about the laundry in the dryer, you won't have a good time and your partner will be able to tell you're not into it, which can be distracting, too!
-Sky-
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okay, II'm thinking about buying some trimspa ...I have a few questions about it....there are thirty pills in the box and it says four diet pills a day is recommened, the three is the miminum. So, that's about ten days worth if I take three a day. Now, in those ten days, will I lose weight/?????????//
I'm thinking about taking the diet pills about eleven days before my prom...the 28th... Will the weight loss show by then?
Has anyone taken this diet pill? Does it work? Please help me....
when should I take it? and what should I eat while I'm taking the diet pills? I'm totally new to taking diet pills.
Also..this might be a stupid question...but will diet pills show up in urine drug tests?
And I know that I shouldn't be taking them because of my lukeimia, but I'm just inquiring about it... (link)
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Well I wanted to try diet pills a couple months back btu they arent good.
They really can screw up your bosy.
I have asked my doctotr and he told me about all the negative effects it can have on your body.
The weight will come back right away.
Also,More important than the possible Trim Spa side effects is the fact that some diet pills can be detrimental to your long term health. You can end up in worse shape than you were to begin with, and put the fat back on quicker for the following reasons:
1. A significant proportion of the weight that you lose in the early stages of dieting is water and lean muscle. Only a small amount of the lost weight is fat. This means your muscles get smaller and as a result you lose part of your body's natural ability to burn fat.
2. Artificial appetite suppression is not healthy. It is merely a temporary fix to fool your body into thinking you're full, and actually sets off mechanisms which can damage your long term health.
3. When you stop taking certian diet pills, your weight will quickly return to what it was except this time you have more fat tissue and less muscle tissue.
Although these diet pills can help you lose weight in some cases, the negative effects on your body offset the temporary weight loss you might experience.
Also, each time you diet it becomes harder to lose the weight and you will gain more when you stop the dieting. You have certainly seen the results of people who diet on a regular basis... it's almost always the same.
May i suggest just diet and exercise.
This way you will lose the weight and keep it off...
Diet pill are never the answer.
Do it the safe way.
-Sky-
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This is me:
www.myspace.com/gummiebear5
i want to get a haircut like this one.
http://img2.timeinc.net/people/i/2007/specials/redcarpet/globesshow/bwhair/reese_witherspoon2_150.jpg
http://web.wireimage.com/images/tnm/12262575.jpg
I need to look good, I wear my hair down a lot and I do my makeup every day and I dont want the bangs to be annoying.
We also have a bon voyage formal coming up in school, and I want the center part of my hair in the back. Can i do this?
What are the risks to getting bangs like that?
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In my honest opinion it think you should go for it..
You have the right shape for it and why nt live a little.
I personally like it a lot,
Just make sure you have a straighten to fix them up a little bit each morning..
-Sky-
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ok my best friend told my other best friend that she was having a sleep over, but she didnt tell me. Then she said that she was going to invite this girl to her party that she dont even like over me. Then my other friend ask what about Kandy and she said ummm she might be out of town which im not. So this heffa gone keep talkin bout the other girl comin instead of me. Should I be mad at the heffa
yes or no and give me reasons why or why not (link)
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First of all if she is your friend you shouldn't call her a "heffa"
I don't think you should be mad until you talk to her
if your really interested in being friends just talk..
As corny as this may sound talkin helps more times that not.
So the question isn't whether to be mad because no one can tell you how to feel thats only your decision but the question is why is she doing this and only she can answer it...
-Sky-
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Ok so I'm on birth control and I try to take it everyday around the same time but some days I'm a few hours off ... a few days ago I let my boyfriend go in me without protection but I didn't let him cum....all I want to know is the chances of getting pregnant....are they low...because I already heard getting pregnant off of pre cum is already low. (link)
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the birth control you have been taking reduces greatly the chances of you getting pregnant but the truth is pre-cum often contains sperm which can cause pregnancy...I have researched this and you should be fine because of the birth control but it is very much possible if you were not on the birth control of getting pregnant
-sky-
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19 f
so im still in my freshman year of college. I go to a community college and i guess you could say that im still adjusting. I do really well in like three of my classes but my history class i have failed and i had to withdraw from the class. i was just wondering if anyone had any good advice on how to deal with college life. Im use to more structure from high school yet here its kind of everyone is doing there own thing. i guess i need advice on how to motivate myself and focus on my school work as well as time management. (link)
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Many times high school does not prepare kids for college life..
I see that you want to motivate yourself which is a excellent idea.
You need to develop some study habit becuase those are really important.
make a schedule and try to follow it make time to for school and also time to have fun because have the fun of college is experiencing the college life.
Its really all about allowing yourself time to adjust and not giving up even though its help.
If you tell yourself that you can do it.
I have no doubts that you wont.
-Sky-
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what are good message boards to join? (link)
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hmmm....Depending on your interests is how you should which message board to join..
May suggest goggling some of your interest and then looking for message boards that apply to that specific intrest
-Sky-
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i posted a question asking 'can one person be the cause of a dysfunctional family?' and LagunaBabe directed me to this site: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dysfunctional_family i read the article and immeditally started crying. i know that now, my dysfunctional family is affecting me and the way that i am. but i dont know how to change it. i dont want to end up bad. i only have 2 more years until i can legally move out. while my parents aren't addicted to drugs or alcohol, they are very controlling... i realized that all of these following symptoms from the article are true:
-Conditional love
-Disrespect
-Stifled speech (children not allowed to dissent or question authority)
-Emotional intolerance (family members not allowed to express the "wrong" emotions)
-Ridicule
-"Dogmatic or chaotic parenting" (harsh and inflexible discipline)
-"Denial of an Inner Life" (children are not allowed to develop their own value system)
-Social dysfunction or isolation"
am i going to end up bad because of my dysfunctional family? im scared that im the cause of my dysfunctional family.
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I to have what people call a dysfunctional family and im not bad...
you are your own person and your family does not define who you are..
As long as you set goals for yourself and plan you life and stay on the right path you will be fine..
I have so much faith in you...
Coming from a dysfunctional family is a hard thing to deal with.
It put stresses on a child that are so hard and sometimes the child may not be able to deal it which could cause the child to be put on path in which is not a good one.
Only the child can change their path, and i see just in your writing that this is not the case for you.
Stay strong, don't let your dysfunctional family get the best of you because you are the only one that can make yourself bad.
Dysfunctional families are not caused by one person and im sure your not the cause.
Have a talk with your parent as awkward as it may be it may help..
If you need any more help im here
-Sky-
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okay, lets get to the point..i have no butt...what can i do to make my butt bigger without increasing the size of my stomach lol..and what can i do to get rid of love handles (link)
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Okay,
1) Exercise. You can tone your butt with exercise, shape it by altering the appearance of the muscles in your butt and those around it, but exercise, for the most part, will make your butt look smaller, not larger, as it increases your muscle tone, cardiovascular fitness, and reduces body fat.
2) Be sure to choose the correct exercises for shaping and toning your rear area.
3) Consider proportions. The smaller your waist in relationship to your hips, for example, the larger your butt will appear. Thus, consider leaving your butt alone and exercising other parts of your body to reduce their size.
4) Drink water. Water weight is the stuff that plumps and causes a healthy glow all over.
5) Clothing is cut in a variety of different ways, especially jeans. Shop carefully and find jeans that are cut in such a way to emphasize your buttocks.
6) as weird as this sounds underwear can effect it too
people say- flatness? Then use boy-shorts.
saggy-one? Well, use higher waisted underwear.
wideness? Go commando.
As for love handles may i suggest you get a medicine/workout ball which you can buy at wal-mart it has a whole lot of exercises and it doesn't cost a whole lot
-SKY-
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helloo =] i was just wondering
what are some good spray tans/lotions
that give great results that i
can buy at the store? like cvs,
walgreens, kmart, jewel. something
that is easy to apply. thankss [= (link)
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I had to do a little recearch for this and i had to ask some of my friend but heres what i found
Favorites :
1. L'oreal Sublime Bronze ( with TINY sparkles makes u glow!)
2. Neutrogena Micro Misy Tanning Sunless Spray
3. Neutrogena Instant Bronze sunless tanner and bronzer in one streak free FOAM
4. Jergens natural glow daily moisturizer for a daily building tan in medium/ tan skin tones!
HOPE YOU FIND THIS HELPFUL!!!!
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My AIM buddylist recently deleted itself, i unfortunately have no other screen names with which i backed it up. Any idea how to get it back? (link)
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This happened to me one time and it was like a big bummer...
What id id because i had not back up is i called one of my close friends, who had the same friend and i had her send me her list and i upoaded it on mine.
it didn't get back everyone but it sure did help.
Just as a safe thing int he future always say a a copy of the list
-sky-
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Ok well i want to go easter show this thursday and im 14 turning 15 lols and i really want to go but my parents wont let me there to scared to let me go with my bestfriend tey think soem will happen tome ii told them gimie the phone nuthing will haoen just clal me and check up no any advice on ehat ii can say to them please (link)
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Show them that your responsible..
Thats the only way they are going to let you go.Showing them that you can act responsible will get them to think about the show more.
-sky-
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my bestfriend is crazy. so i like her alot and she likes me, she also likes her ex boyfriend. and he likes her, the only thing i really care about is to make her happy and well even if it means hurting my self, she si happy im trying t odo this but she is excusing me off likeing him and saying im getting jealous of them help? (link)
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As bad this sounds just back off a for a little while because she may be playing some games.
Back off until she is positive of what she wants but still try and be friend with her because friends are better than being nothing. I know you obviously have feeling but doing this may prevent you from possibly having a broken heart later in the future. let her figure out what she wants.
You seem liek you really care about her
and you dont end up getting with her there are many other girls who will.
-Sky-
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i've been going out with this guy singe grade 8, we're been together for almost a year and a half. i was really excited because we were starting highschool this year and in my science class was my best friend and my boyfriend. i was extreamely excited because their the two people i love being around the most. we all joked around together but then my best friend started getting mad at me and ignoring me. so i figured she'd talk to me when she was ready but its been about 5 months and she continues to ignore me. she's in 3 of my classes this semester and i cant take her not talking to me cause we did everything together. i emailed her to see whats up and she said she's changed alot and she wont forgive me unless i try but i dont know what to do because when i try to talk to her she ignores me or walks away. i need help, i dont want to lose my best friend but im afraid i already am. she said she's mad because my b/f made fun of her and i just laughed along with it, but he never made fun of her and i never laughed about it (link)
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Boyfriends will come and go but best friends are forever, that something i try to live by,
relationships sometimes put stresses on other friendships you may have with other important people in your life.
Sometimes you may into even notice it, but the only way to solve this is to talk it out. I know she may not want to talk but you seem to love her(as a friend) and thats the only way this is going to get better.
I know how your best friend must feel and its a crappy feeling you need to let her know exactly what you feel an not give up until you guys are talking again. your boyfriend made fun of her and you laughed along and not meaning too you hurt her feelings . Throw in a sorry and maybe ask your boyfriend to apologize.
have a night with just you two , Show her how important she is to you and how much she means to you because best friend are going to get you through high school trust me on that one..
Never give up because once you give up one the friendship, then and only then is it lost.
talking is the key to solving any problem.
i promise you that!
-Sky-
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