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my friends wont talk to me because of a guy..
i've been going out with this guy singe grade 8, we're been together for almost a year and a half. i was really excited because we were starting highschool this year and in my science class was my best friend and my boyfriend. i was extreamely excited because their the two people i love being around the most. we all joked around together but then my best friend started getting mad at me and ignoring me. so i figured she'd talk to me when she was ready but its been about 5 months and she continues to ignore me. she's in 3 of my classes this semester and i cant take her not talking to me cause we did everything together. i emailed her to see whats up and she said she's changed alot and she wont forgive me unless i try but i dont know what to do because when i try to talk to her she ignores me or walks away. i need help, i dont want to lose my best friend but im afraid i already am. she said she's mad because my b/f made fun of her and i just laughed along with it, but he never made fun of her and i never laughed about it
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Boyfriends will come and go but best friends are forever, that something i try to live by,
relationships sometimes put stresses on other friendships you may have with other important people in your life.
Sometimes you may into even notice it, but the only way to solve this is to talk it out. I know she may not want to talk but you seem to love her(as a friend) and thats the only way this is going to get better.
I know how your best friend must feel and its a crappy feeling you need to let her know exactly what you feel an not give up until you guys are talking again. your boyfriend made fun of her and you laughed along and not meaning too you hurt her feelings . Throw in a sorry and maybe ask your boyfriend to apologize.
have a night with just you two , Show her how important she is to you and how much she means to you because best friend are going to get you through high school trust me on that one..
Never give up because once you give up one the friendship, then and only then is it lost.
talking is the key to solving any problem.
i promise you that!
-Sky-
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