Well...let's see...I give good advice and am pretty sympathetic, but when I feel like it, i'll just say whatever the hell I feel is on my mind. I live in a shitty small town in Florida..boring as hell. So whenever I'm not working or doing homework..I'd love to help ya!
Gender: Female
Location: Florida
Age: 16
Member Since: November 10, 2004
Answers: 44
Last Update: November 26, 2004
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hey this is my first time lol. Well in the summer two years ago i got a new boy neighbor and i thought he was just gross .. then we started hangin out and flirtin and then we saw eachother in schoool and started talking and joking around. so a little then a year later my friend asked him out for me but he was dating someone else. so she tryed and he said okay tell her to meet me outside today. so my friend had basketball that day and i never got to talk to her. so i went to his house in the winter and starting talking with his younger sister and went in the snow with her and my other friends. he was riding his 4wheeler and kept staring at me... so i didnt know if we were going out or whatever had happened. so i went home and talked to my friend. she said he said to meet me outside .. so by now it was around 6 or 7 and it was dark outside so my friend called his hosue and he said no. things have changed completley .. i mean we talk and flirt still but he would probably never go out with me .. and i wanna be his friend well i am his friend but its just not the same you know? only because im friends with his younger sister he would never go out with me! its so stupid ! so ive tried everything to stay away from her and it really has been working but he still doesnt like me. im hurting so much and even though i tell my friends i dont like him anymore i still love him .. please help me !
Love,
Tired of Crying !
ps. people tell me oh hes not good enough for you .. well i know that but i still cant get over him ! help ! (link)
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Awwww that's horrible :( Well if I were you... I would talk to him about you feel about him. Your worst mistake was letting your friend talk to him for you. Ya can't be shy and not tell him yourself!! If he sees that you're bold enough to explain your feelings for him to him, then he'll think "damn!" But seriously.. just open up to him and do NOT let your friends do it! Horrible choice right there! And if he still doesnt like you... it's not worth the time. He's just being stubborn. *Hope I helped :)*
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alot of girls in the girls locker room, they were talking about seeing the gyno or wutever and they said all this stuff that i never heard of before and so wut really happens at a gyno app.? (link)
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Depends what your problem is...
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Hi, i have a friend who has bad b/o. I'm not that kind of person who can say "Would u mind putting on some deoderent?" I could never do that to a friend. I was wondering if anyone could tell me how to tell her without hurting her feelings. Please my b-day party is coming up and shes coming, i dont want to afend my other friends. Please, I really need some help. (link)
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Just tell her personally that she has a b.o. problem... or say something like... "well I heard people say that you didnt smell too pleasant..." maybe she'll get the hint. But other than that.. unless you want smelly friends.. you'll hafta be honest with her. She'll be glad you did this for her in the end :)
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i still have not gotten my period and all my friends that are even smaller and shorter then me already got theirs if it helps im in 7th grade and im almost 13 (link)
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Don't worry about it hun. Trust me.. you DONT wanna get it now. It's a pain in the ass and you'll hate it when ya get it! Just be glad you dont have it! Your time will come :)
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You see, whenever I get my period, I start getting a lot of zits on my face and my back. How do I prevent them whenever I have my period? (link)
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You really can't stop breaking out on your face unless you get some sorta medicine or prescription from a dermatologist... it's part of your hormonal system and your hormones are what cause the break outs. -sorry :(
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What should I ask first?
a)screen name
b)cell number
Shes kinda, quiet. How do I get her to open up a bit? We both play guitar... I dont know if that owuld hlpe at all. (link)
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S/N..then you can talk to her more and find out her interests :) And from there you can determine if you really like her or not. Good luck! :)
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This chick I met this weekend was making the move. I knew what she wanted. Her boyfriends in Iraq, serving our country. Shes a senior, i am a sophmore. You are the brainy one... what do i do? (link)
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Don't go for her. She's just desperate and obviously and unloyal girlfriend! Find someone better :)
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ok my boyfriend is physco..he knocks on my window in the middle of the night and said he loves me and he thinks we're ready for the next step which is sex..but i dont wanna do that..i cant say kno cuz he said he'll kill himself if i dont do it with him.HELP (link)
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Don't give in to it. He wouldnt kill himself over that. He's obviously an idiot and you really need to say something to him about his actions. And if he doesnt listen and accept your feelings... find someone who doesnt stalk you in the middle of the night lol
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Okay, I like this girl. We have one class together. I know shes a little hesitant about a relationship, but how do i casually get to know her (bear in mind i want to make a move later on) (link)
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Just bring it on to her easily.. don't jump to anything too quick cuz then she would probly deny you. Talk to her more and strike up random convos and she'll catch on :p
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Hi you guys... i don't really know where to start. i'm head over heels for one of my best friends (my best guy friend). and i don't know what to do. sometimes, when we're talking and it's late at night, i come so close to telling him, just because i'd like to know if i have a chance. but then part of me is afraid. he has a girlfriend at the moment, and i don't want to ruin anything between them. i found out a few days ago that he used to think we had the potential to be soulmates, that's definitely how i feel. and have felt. i just don't know if he still feels like that and i'm really afraid to ask. so, all wise advice givers, what do i do? (link)
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That's really cute :) umm... well if I were you, I would just play it cool and just talk to him normally n' try to hang out and he'll see what a wonderful girl you are and that you're well worth his time. Just don't go breaking him n' his g/f up cuz he'd just dislike you... but yea.. things will turn out better, dont worry :)
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Ok well lets get to the point the guy i like is 4'8 i think and im like 5'4 to big of a difference btw we are both in the 7th grade
confused :& (link)
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lol you're only in 7th grade! He'll be waaaaay taller than you in a few years.. just watch. Just don't let height discourage you from dating the kid
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when a girl says that shes about 2 get the sizors (i spelled it wrong cuz im 2 lazy) and she says snip snip b4 u have sex...wut does that meen? (link)
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obviously she's just an idiot...just be careful with your lil soldier ;-)
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I'm 13 years old and a girl, and I'm about 4'1'', and i think 77 lbs. is this average or what? And also, is there anything I can do to help myself grow faster? or 'mature'? I'm not very large chested; I'm about a 32AA, and fairly skinny.
thanks
-short stuff (link)
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well there's not much you can do. You grow accordingly to your body type.. and you have a more petite phyisique... but don't let that discourage you cuz i mean.. you're 13 and you've still got a long ways to go and im sure you'll grow over the next few years :)
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Aight... There is this girl that i am extremely attracted to... We have similar intrests, we go to the same school....But i dont think she is interested as i am.. I mean i know she is cool with me and im cool with her i just want to Up it... What the hell shall i do? (link)
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Hang out more. If she's around you more she'll get more feelings for you. :)
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what are some good eyeshadow colors for someone with green eyes? (link)
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brownish and golden brownish colors... just don't get too colorful cuz you'll look freakish
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okay im about 125 lbs n i dont think im a fatty or anything but how can i lose wieght quickly and tone my body? (link)
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well... if you're a girl.. you really wont lose weight, you'll just gain muscle..that is..if you work out. So just exercise alot n' lift weights and you'll tone out but you'll just gain muscle and that's good though.
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okay i just started my period. I have a few questions.
a)if when you put a tampon in, and in 6 hours later when you take it out. and theres blood on it.but when you wear a pad and you take it off, and theres no blood. is this a period?
b) can you bathe with tampons in?
c)is mastrubation with your period a bad idea
d)it acually hurts when i insert a tampon, could it be that i forgot to take a previous tampon out?
e)what exactly are cramps?
f)is it healthier to wear a pad or insert a tampon?
g) can you get pregnent if you are having your period?
h)is having sex with your menstrual flow an unhealthy idea?
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A. no clue
B. yes
C. definately
D. only an idiot would forget they had another tampon in and tried to insert another!!!
E. they hurt like a bitch!
F. since you started.. a pad
G. not exactly
H. of course!!! that's just sick!!
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Hi, I'm 13 and 4 months and I havent ever gotten my period... :(. Anyway the last week-ish i've been noticing stuff and I think it may be coming soon. I am eating A LOT, like the equivilant of about 5 full meals a day. My skin is going from oily to dry to oily to dry and back to oily again, and I have more pimples than I've ever had before. My boobs are extremely tender too. Discharge isnt an issue, I've been having that all the time for like a year and a half, and it's the same as always.... what do you think? Might it be my time??
Ps- today i'm also a lil sick, like congested, but I think thats an outside issue, i dunno if it matters, oh well.
Help, i rate. (link)
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this is kinda long beware
hey 15.f.cali here
ok i have a few questions and i am in need of some insight... Well i like this guy and he is so flirty and we are friends and we have been for about 4 years and now we hangout alot and talk alot and we have all the same friends and what not and he knows i like him cuz he asked me in a note (we have 2 classes together and he sits next to me) and i said well you but i dont want anything to change if you dont feel the same way. ok and so after i said that he wrote we need to hangout more. and everyday almost he tells me i looke really cute and tells his friends im so hott and because they ar my friends too then tell me...we have so much fun together and i think we would make such a cute couple cuz we are both open minded people and we are into the same things... my question is what do i do? like a few of my friends are like he is shy when it comes to that so ask him out. but i am too and i could never do that. whats a girl to do???
muha thaks
Lisa (link)
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go for it...when guys see you're the bolder one, they think more of you. So take a chance :)
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This guy kissed me on the cheek and on the hand. and is always snuggling up to me and stuff. But he's a year younger. Do u think he likes me or what? (link)
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either that or he just wants some
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