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Bassically I joined advicenators to help people. My names Sheridan♥. Most of my friends call me Sherri though. I have a boyfriend who I love very much♥ We just recently got back together again =]. So, feel free to ask about ANYTHING and I'll do my best to try and help you

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heyy!! i'm thirteen years old and i have never drinken in my life. ive only made out once with a complete jerk. usually i hang out with kids that do drink, and go wayyy farther than making out. They always hang out with boys, and im scared that one day i will be there when they drink. i know better than to drink, but what do i say to them?? they are good friends and i still want to be their friends. what should i do??

Just tell them no thanks. You don`t have to drink and if there good friends they`ll accept the fact that you don`t want any. If they know that you don`t drink then they most likely won`t ask you. If they don`t like that you don`t drink they aren`t your real friends. I don`t drink either and when my friends ask me i say no and its still fine. Just don`t get upset and act all mopey or anything when they start drinking. Act normal cus then they might think your boring. Have a good time without the drink =]
♥ _ ` S h e r i d a n

__hope i helped

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Ok theres this really cute boy in school and I have liked him scince the beginning of the year.. I dont think he even knows my name =/. Alot of girls like him to which does NOT help.. especially when its the pretty and popular girls who start talking to him. ANDD wow lol i think my best friend likes him even though I told her that I have been liking him for awhile now.. shes always flirting with him and I have NO IDEA how to get him to notice me! Please some advice??

Alot of girls say that guys dont notice them. I`m pretty sure he knows who you are. But for the down low, get his sn and try to talk to him that way. Or if your in any classes with him ask him to be your partener for something. Or ask for help with something (even if you know how to do it). Also talk to your friend about him. If she likes him too because it could get in the way of your friendship. Don`t ever let a guy come between you and your best friend. Take it from someone with expirience.. it isnt worth it.

♥_ ` S h e r i d a n

I hope i helped =]

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k well i have a friend who gets sooooo annoyingg. i am her best friend, but she isnt mine-that sounds mean. but she alwaysssss wants me to do stuff with her, and when i say i have other plans she gets soooo jealous. i want to be her friend, but i dont know how to tell her that she needs to stop. and pleaseeee dont say just talk to her. its more complicated than that :(
please help me

Well I`m n0t g0ing t0 say JUST talk t0 her. But y0u d0 need t0 talk t0 her. If she wants t0 d0 stuff with y0u maybe y0u sh0uld make plans with her s0 that she d0esn`t keep asking. 0ne time w0uldn`t hurt. And just because shes n0t y0ur best friend d0esn`t mean y0u cant hang 0ut with her. and wh0 kn0ws she might n0t be that bad.

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can you please ask your mom for me.
i really miss my hair.
:(

My mom said that you could try doing highlights or lowlights depending on your color hair (streaks of brown*lowlights* or blonde *highlights* in your hair) makes your hair seem longer then it is. Also if you do low pigtails and spike out the bottom, thats cute too. she doesn`t really know what else to say because she hasnt seen it personally. It shouldnt take that long to grow it back out. and im sure if you ask your hair stylist if there are any ways to layer your hair or something to make it look longer.. that you can do that too

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Recently, my brother has been in a serious relationship with his new girlfriend, Amber. Amber used to be one of my really good friends. Until my brother started dating her. But that isnt the issue. The issue is that he has lately been going behind my parents' backs. He just got a job at a stupid joe-schmo computer store that isnt paying him at all. zippo. Well, tonight, the shop decided to close early because tomorrow is good friday and they had nothing else left to work on. So, he decided to stay away (instead of coming home) and went over to Ambers house. Ever since he has been dating her, I noticed a change in his attitude. He has been more "i dont care-ish." He has come home with hickeys on his neck and eye liner on. He has been sneaking away to see her... without permission. He has been lying and kniving. He didnt used to be like this. He just turned 17. Will be 18 in November. He has said that he wants to move in with Amber and has threatened to move out. So, my question is, what can I do? If anything? give me ideas for my parents. We are out of ideas on things to do. Tonight, we are taking his truck away and he isnt getting it back. We might sell it. But, what should we do about his slipping grades? He sits and plays video games in math class. He has lost his scholarship to college. any ideas on what we should do to help him? We go to church 3 times a week. For him it is only 2. He has to work on Wed. Nights. Thanks.

wow that sounds EXACTLY like my friend when he was goin out with his ex-girlfriend. But anyways. I know that your sick of him and his i dont care-ish ways. but hes almost 18. Its a phase that he`ll get over soon. All teenagers go through this phase. It`s like the first one where they threten to run away. He`ll get over it soon. I`m not sure what to say about his grades. I`d say just to let him do what hes doing and he`ll regret it. I`m sorry im not much help. I haven`t really been that close with anyone that age except my cousin whos the same way. Good luck with him. He`ll get outta the stage soon and you`ll have your origional brother back =]
` S h e r i d a n _ ♥

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i've had a headahce for over two months now, but today its so bad i was crying during track.
my stomach is cramping so much, and well i already pooped three times and i gotta go [so i gotta type this fast!]
i'm super tired and i just woke up from a nap
my legs hurt exrtremly bad[another story]
but i was crying at track..
my tummy hruts so bad an dmy head is pounding, i just want to go back to bed.
14/f

any advice? do you think i got the flu?

I`m not so sure its the flu.
It`s probably just your period. You should have nothing to worrie about. Your head ache might also be because of your eye sight. My friend had a head ache for 3 weeks and went to the eye doctor and they told her she needed glasses. Because she was straining her eyes to see it was giving her a head ache. Tell your parents about the head ache and ask if you can go to the doctor.
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Hey Sherri. I asked about myspace a little while ago and you answered my question. ♥ I was wondering if you could help me with this problem. On my myspace I deleted this one music video's code from my profile but it wont go away. Yeah, i submitted my changes. Also, when i add other codes they don't show up, but are replaced by the music video. It's so annoying!! >=(

Thank yoouu. =)


hmm.. I`m not exactly sure whats wrong with it. Myspace breaks down every once in a while and then gets fixed soon. Just keep trying to delete it and putting other codes in for now. They should show up sooner or later. If they don`t then you can also complain about it to tom =]
` S h e r i d a n _ ♥

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I've finally decided to get over my ex girlfriend after being completely devastated over her dumping me for 6 months. I tried being just friends with her, but that didn't work. What made me decide to get over her was the fact she got a new boyfriend. I cut off all contact. I blocked her on my AIM buddylist then deleted her so I wouldn't see the love you for him in her profile, and the i love you's in her aways. I deleted her myspace so I will no longer have to see her picture. It's been 2 weeks with not a single word between us. She's in my gym class and I just stay away from her.

I'm sure she's noticed by now. I do feel so much better now, but I don't want this to be the complete end of us. I don't want us to never talk again, but I'm afraid if we make any contact whatsoever any progress I made will just go to waste, and I'll be missing her again. I'd like for us to someday be friends, but I don't know how long I should wait before I try that or if I even should try. She was a good friend before going out and even for a short time after we broke up. I'm not sure how I should approach this.

Can anyone help?

I`m the same way with my ex boyfriend. He has a new girlfriend and I still like him so I try not to talk to him as much. But every time he talks to me I fall in love all over again. Anyways I think you should probably keep her blocked on everything possible. Maybe you could talk to her in gym when you see her. But also remember not to get to close. Try and hang out with other girls you might be interested in and once you start to like other girls or get a girlfriend then you can unblock her and ask her how shes doin. Still don`t get to close to her then. Be her friend but don`t let yourself get anymore then that. I really hope I helped. I know how it feels =\ Oh SNAP itZ Youh is my AIM screen name if youd like anymore help =]
` S h e r i d a n _ ♥

good luck♥

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ok, I am a 14 girl and there is a 14 year-old guy tht i have liked for some while now and he has known I liked him for a few weeks. My friend was talking to him on AIM and she told me he said he was debating weather or not to dump his girlfriend. She asked why and he said because he likes another girl, but my friend couldn't find out who because he said the girl was one of her friends (maybe me?). This may seem a bit mean... but i totally want them to break up. My other friend sayd that if it got to him that I was starting to get over him, then he would think that he better dump his girfriend quick before I'm totally over him. but then i also heard that if I did tht then he might just stop liking me... so my question is, should I let it get back to him tht im gettin over him, or should I just leave it?

Never start a relationship with a lie. If he did ever find out he might be a little mad. If you`re really into lying you COULD also tell him/ or have your friend tell him.. that you want to get over him because you have no chance with him since he has a girlfriend. I highly suggest not lying to him though. If he really does like you he`ll break up with her on his own. Give it time
` S h e r i d a n _ ♥

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13.f
I got a really bad haircut.
I really regret it. I had beautiful long hair and I got it cut and now its way to short. This happened yesterday. And now I've been crying for an hour about how ugly it looks and now i hate myself. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO?

I've made this mistake SOO many times and I still haven`t learned my lesson.
Don`t cry about it .. eventually your hair WILL grow back and I`m sure it`s not ugly. I used to think mine was too but everyone insisted on it being pretty.
You could ask your friends for help with hair styles to make it cute. I`m not sure how long your hair is now so I can`t really help with that. Also magazines have hair tips for almost any length hair. If your really desparate you could go back to the hair dresser and ask them for help on what you could do with your hair or a hair product that will make it grow faster. I could ask my mom for you *she`s a hair dresser* and see what she says. If you have anymore questions feel free to ask =]
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Hey. I have a couple of questions for myspace, i'm new to it.

1) How do you add a blog entry?
2) How do you add icons from photobucket or pictures to your myspace page, not the area where you upload em'.
3) Know any myspace layout websites? Thanx.
4) Anything else to make my myspace funky . =D

Thank you!! ♥

1. you go to the top of the page where it says blog the link next to home search.. them and once you get to that page theres a column on the left that will have Add Blog or create blong on it.. click that and type away =]
2. once you have uploaded the icons copy the 2nd link below it and in your myspace click edit profile.. then you click edit under what ever column you want the icons under
3. there are alot of myspae layout sites
http://www.myspace.com/sheridan_kayne
add me as a friend and commenting me letting me know that its you and ill send you some myspace layout sites =] you might have to add most of them as friends also to be able to look at the codes
4. look around at other peoples myspaces to get some ideas

=]i hope i helped you.. if you have anymore questions you can ask me on here or IM me on AIM at Oh SNAP itZ Youh and I'll be happy to answer any questions

` S h e r i d a n _ ♥

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Hey im 15/f i was wondering are there any quotes out there that have to deal with this.. okay heres my story sorry if its long. But my boyfriend and i just broke up about a week ago and im finding out what his "game" is. He breaks up with someone and waits a week and then goes out with another girl. But he says he doesn't want a gf but he dumped me for this other girl he didn't say that but i know his games now. He did that with me and his other ex. girlfriend. So i was wondering are there any quotes to like warn his new girlfriend now of this games, or a quote that sorta tells that i know his games now. Plezzz thanks a bunch!!!

I'm not sure of any quotes out of the top of my head.. I could make one if you wanted me to.. I don`t know but my friends say im good at it? Or you could go to:
www.firehotquotes.com
they have some quotes you could look at
or
www.iconator.com
they also have quotes on there page
=] I hope I helped.. if you want a quote I'll work on one and you can IM Oh SNAP itZ Youh
for AIM or e-mail me for it =]
I hope I helped && he reallly is a jerk
` S h e r i d a n _ ♥

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alright, so i have a little bit of a problem. I am 14 and im in 8th grade. I have only had one real boyfriend. A lot of people have asked me out, but i just don't like any of them like that. I don't know what to do though, becasue the ones that i like never ask me out. I am scared that i won't have another boyfriend for a reall long time.

Having a boyfriend isnt everything. If you dont have one for a little while thats okay. If you like people you could also take the chance and ask them out. Or let them know you like them. They might also like you and you just dont know it. Take a chance and tell them.. you have nothing to lose. You'll get a boyfriend soon =]. Good luck

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hey, well i have a problem. i am going out with this kid, but i cant tell if i like him or not. at first i really liked him but now i cant really tell.. what should i do? cause its not like i wanna tell him its over or anything because this is something i want. the only problem is i cant tell whether or not i just want to be single instead of just being with one guy. i dontw ant to talk to him about it though because i dont want him to just think that its over. what should i do? i know its something that is all up to me, but how can i tell if i like him or not?

well when you see him if you have kissed him. kiss him, do you feel anything?

think if you did break up.. would you cry? would you miss him?

its really up to you if you like a person or not. if its something that you really wwant then it sounds like you do like him.

I'd stay with him a little while longer and if things aren't goin the way you'd hoped.. then maybe you don't have thoes feeligns for him that you thought you did

♥_Sheridan

Hope I helped

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Ok, well my boyfriend and me met at camp in 2005 summer. So we've been going out since a few weeks ago. We never really talked to eachother but my friend knows him and goes to school with him and my friend would call me and tell me what he said. But we never talked face- to -face and he broke up with me because i told my friend Secrets and then she told him!! He broke up with me because the secrets were gross....

But i was wondering if anyone could help me get us back together that would be awesome!

I RATE 5'S!

Well sorry to burst your bubble if you dont see him and only talk through your friend that really isnt much of a relationship. If your just going out with him to be able to say you have a boyfriend thats not right. If you really do want to go out with him though you could tell your friend to tell him that it was a lie and that nothing happened. Or you could call him yourself and tlel him that it wasn't true. There's not much I can really think of because you said you dont see him or tlak to him face to face.. sorry =\

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well, I have had like 2 boyfriends in the past, but i mean it wasn't big like everyone has now. I'm one of the only people, I'm pretty sure, that doesn't have a boyfriend. Or someone liking them. How will I ever find out, and get someone to care about me like all my lucky friends?!

from,
lonely

It does take time. Your deffinetly not the only person to not have a boyfriend right now. Talk to one of your closest friends, possibly one with a boyfriend and when they go out with there boyfriend, ask him to bring a friend and you a friend. If you like this friend keep in touch with him. What you dont want to do is lead someone on that you have no intention of liking. Also if your not good at talking to guys.. have one of your friends talk to someone for you. You'r probably just shy and need a little boost with the self esteem. I hope I helped. If you need more information with anything you can E-mail me or IM me.

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Hey i wanted to ask you this because i saw that you have a bf whom you love very much. And i dont really know where to start... but ill try my best to explain it. Ok well i was going out with my bf for 9 months -- first serious relationship and its hard for me to stick with a guy because i get tired of them easily.But i really thought he was the one for me.... just the things he said to me, made him so much different from other guys... We broke up several times because of fights.. but out of know where he told me he didnt want a g.f anymore.... i didnt know what to do. I thought it was just another break up that will probably last a couple hrs...but days went by. and every single day we would argue about things. and i kept hearing rumors that he started about me. But i just looked passed that because i still loved him and i would take him back in a heartbeat...its been two months since we've been apart. And i cant take it... im seriously going crazy. Ive tried other guys. But they just dont compare. And i talked to him about it a couple days ago and he said we can keep it a "secret" .. so i said ok well atleast i get to be with him. But since the breakup things have changed. My whole family hates him with a passion because of all the pain hes put me through.... and his whole family hates me. because they think im still stuck on him and i dont need to be... and blah blah blah-pointless stuff. Anyways, back to the "secret" i told him i dont want to keep it from people anymore. I want people to know about us because that was the best part. And he told me no, because then his parents are going to find out. And i cant see him because my sister was always my ride and now she wont take me. Even if i pay her lol. And we go to seperate schools....& he just got his license taken away... So we wouldnt be able to see eachother. Another thing that happend during the breakup was that he started talking to this girl on myspace... calling her baby and stuff. And it says all over his page on how much he likes her. It just makes me depressed because shes sooo much prettier then me. And i know that its just computer talk. But he told me he didnt want a gf... but now hes trying to hook up with someone else... So thats giving me the idea that somethings wrong with me. Im always trying to think on the bright side of things... and this whole breakup changed me, because before this i wouldve never cried/thought about a boy this much. OR give up all the things i have. The main thing im trying to say is... that he keeps playing with my heart. One month he tells me he wants me. And the next he wont answer my phone calls. Wont text me back. Or answer me. And im stupid enough to fall for it everytime. I guess he changed... but i dont know what to think anymore.. can you help me please.

My ex boyfriend is the same way. Me and him have been goin on and off for the past year now. We would always break up for the stupidest things and this last time he broke up with me i thought it was because he was going through stress *hes moving* but he ended up asking out my best friend. If he tells you he doesn't want a girlfriend right now its not forever. Maybe hes just not sure on who he likes at the moment. This doesnt mean that theres anything wrong with you, just that he may want a change?. Just because he has broken up with you doesn't mean that its forever. The only thing you can do right now is not be to clingy towards him. Don't call him as much as you used to. Don't get all sad about it. I'm the same way you are with the whole cant keep a boyfriend that long. Me and my boyfriend don't see eachother alot but we get along just fine. Maybe 9 months was enough to make your boyfriend realize he wants to try something different for a change. Talk to him about it and tell him how you feel.

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anyone who is anyone will listen to sheridan! she has great advice and helped me out so much!! thank you girl

aww thank you =] well you know my screen name so you can talk to me about anything.. I'm here to help

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My teacher like HATES me. She yells at me like every day!! What can i do to make her not hate me??

From,
Teacherless...

Well, you could possibly do as much as you can to get on her good side. Maybe stay after with her more just to help out or something. Or if your not that good with homework you could do your homework more often that usually gets on teachers good sides. Also if you relly think she doesnt like you you could have your mom right a note to your guidence counseler and get transfered into someone elses class. I'm not that close with my teachers either so I'm not sure if i was much help =\
♥_Sheridan

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thanks so much!!
you really helped me and my friend
we haven't talked yet but I feel a lot closer to her somehow.
but anyways, thanks :)

your welcome =] im glad i could help

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