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So I am 15 years old and I am 5'3 I currently weigh 215 lbs. I would really like to be about 140 by the first of June ( you know summer time )
I work out maybe twice a week for about an hour at a time. I don't drink and pop at all and I replace school lunch with a salad. Is there anyway possible to loose 60-75 lbs in 6 months? I would even be satisfied with 50. I really want this. I work alot and don't have alot of time for working out for such. And I have alot of dairy in my regular diet. I rate 5's!! please I would really appresheate all your help.

endurance work outs, if you have a Y near you or something, go and ask for a trainer or some work outs that help you one your endurance, which get you in shape. After you can work out you can just do a mile to finish it up.

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what are good ideas for gifts for a kid 14 and he loves electronics now he already has a digital camera and also i dont have enough for an i-pod and he dosent want mp3 players so can you please give me some gift ideas it dosent matter if they are electronic or not but i just need ideas

Look and see if he likes sports, and that will open a variety of choices. If he likes watching sports than you can get him to tickets to that game! I love Macericks games, but everyone is different. im same age and male also.

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if i go to the gym will i only gain muscle or will i lose weight? how can i do both without looking TOO buff?

it depends what kind of work out you do, if you do the football stuff such as bench press, squats, or heavy lifting then you will gain weight, but it will be muscle. If you run and do endurance training such as smaller weights and do excersices with them, then you will get in better shape. If you want to know any good work outs to get in good shape including speed, muscle building, and endurance than comment me SuLaxStryke

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im about 5'1 and i weigh around 130 or more...
this isnt very proportional, but whats the best way to loose weight, fast, but without much time on your hands?

it depends if ure a girl or boy, if ure a guy u can jus work it off by impressing the ladies by doin endurance work outs to keep you in shape which is painful, but when its over it feels like Heaven, and eat healthy... and i mean not junk, meats good for you, breads good, pretty much everything, but candy,If ure girl, stck to the same diet and run maybe only 1-2 miles every day or everyother day, but be active dont lay around doin nothin. Dont eat befre you sleep, and if you stick to a healthy diet like fruits that are good, you can eat as much as you want. Work the sugars and carbs of or thy turn to fat.Besides lookin great you will feel awesome

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What are some fun/inexpensive ideas for celebrating a sweet 16?

Go to a sports game, its really fun, like i kno basketball games have a lot of spirit and theyre fun just to hang around with eachother, and a lot of people are friendly.

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i am a 14 year old girl who has REALLY SUCKY & UNRELiABLE friends. i really need to make new ones, but its just so hard. im trying to become more outgoing but its hard !! ANY ADViCE ?!!?!

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Hang around different people it sounds simple, but it should work easily but sometimes if your shy people will come to you, or look at some more interests and hobbies where you can meet other people

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Im making my boyfriend a mix cd of love for our 1 year ann. and i need to know some rock songs that are about love, my goals is 18 and i have 10
WILL RATE FIVES

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Hey sry i cant put them on here, but i know probably more than 130 rock songs, and i know some of them have what your most likely looking for ,so jus send me a message .. sulaxstryke, good luck

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Well, a guy named *John just asked me out a few days ago. I have liked him for a long time. We went out the other day and are planning on going out again. Now, I have no clue what to get John for Christmas or his birthday. He plays soccer although he's majourly obsssed with lacrosse. He also likes hockey. His 13th birthday is Christmas Eve. So, if you have any ideas, please tell me. I want to get him something that shows i put thought into it but isn't too serious. i was thinking of getting him a signed lacrosse ball but I don't know any famous lacrosse playeres. Does anyone know what would be a good present idea?

Mm im a guy.. and i play lacrosse and i love it as well, and i think you should get him a lacrosse hat, because they are really cool. My old girlfriend gave me one, and i didnt like it but i didnt tell her but thats ok. Just a regular hat from www.lacrosse.com are really cool ones.. good luck

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ok so,i play like every sport there is except rugby and football...cuz im a girl...all my friends say that im amazimg cuz when i get home from school iu do my homework get online then sports the rest of the night..but sometimes i goto basketball then to soccer then to lacrosse then to swimming. everyone says that i should quiet mayb 3 sports and only havge like 3 sports to do...should i quit? but i always have time for them...i rate REALLY high..*but it has to be good please!)

Well id love to meet a girl that loves sports as much as you do and still gets good grades, besides doing all those sports keep you healthy and help you in the future. They sound like your having fun so id keep on playing them until maybe you start to see your grades dropping because of your sports, but untill then id say have fun.

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Ok well my best friend is really pretty and everyone loves to be around her. Alot of guys like her, its not even funny.
Well i would say i think im pretty but compared to her i dont feel pretty. It seems like everyone wants to be around her and not me.
I feel jealous all the time, and i hate it...i mean she is my best friend!!
What the heck is wrong with me and how do i stop feeling jealous??

Well with this conflict it may ruin time with you and your bestfriend because they want to hang around with her and maybe you feel uncompfertable in the crowd, so maybe you might want to seperate from that and become more of an individual, but you can still be friends with her she may just be hanging out with you out of school , but when you get a new reputation of being more individual, and you start hanging out with her in public they will start recognizing both of yall

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i CANT STAND my older sister. Shes a junior in highschool, im a freshman. she is always making fun of me for no reason at all, and always telling me what to do. So, im always mean back to her. I dont wanna be mean to her, but i cant control myself, she thinks shes so smart. She gets straight A's, drives her own car, has lots of friends, .. so she thinks shes wicked cool. I cant stand it, i really cant. Like, sometimes i just go completely insane. I have a bad temper, as im typing this now im just shaking, i feel like im gunna explode. WHAT SHOULD I DO

Amen sista, i do not have an older sister however but im a freshman in highschool also and im on varsity lacrosse so im playin with some older guys who im starting to get more a long with, but when they want me to do something instead of them they will say," Hey freshman go etc.." something a long the lines of that, and with my own social life and family thats one of the last things i need rite. I was also one of the bad tempered ones that cant keep it in, but i jus ignored it and know how immature they are, so i would lightly just go wow how mature, and be really sarcastic.Sorry about your problem, talk to me anytime

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Ok well there is this one guy that i really like and he likes me 2. Well I asked him out, and he is telling me later on tonight or tomorrow. My friend then told me that he went into the bleachers with this girl who wasn't his girlfriend ( he had one @ the time ). They didn't come out for an hour!! what should i do!?

Thanx A BUNCH!
-14/f

well hey im a 14 male, and i know girls can think guys are big perverts, but it also works visa versa. Your friend may be making this up, thought she it and doesnt really know whats happening, or is just making a joke because these days it is hard to trust a lot of people even your best friends. You may want to try to lay back and not worry as much about it and wait for the next thing you hear. If you go out with him its a certain of time when you find out if he really is cheating on you or not, so it depends if you completely trust your friend, and make a risk

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Lately I've been cutting myself when the stress gets to be too much.Yesterday I cut myself like 6 times... How can I stop myself from cutting myself?

I know this may very brilliant to people, but put away the blade! throw it away. Make sure you cant get a hold of it, so if you are tempting to do it you will not be able to or find another habit thats not as painful or that hurts your body such as the old rubberband trick when you snap it on your wist when ure mad, but anotehr habit thats doesnt hurt your body is a good way to get off that bad addiction of cutting.

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Tonight I have to go to this western mystery dinner thing. And I'm supposed to dress in western clothes. The problem is what can I wear cause I don't really have anything besides jeans. If anyone has any simple but creative ideas can you please let me know by like 3 today (sat.) If you read this after then just ignore it. Thanks

Well, assuming this is the same Saturday you are talking about then if you have a goodwill or donation store you can buy things at cheap then they usually have some fun clothing, or maybe a party city. You can jus find random clothing such as cowboy hats, and maybe get some small little pistol water guns to hang out of your pockets for fun

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i think this kid likes me he is year older then me and hes really cute! well one day we were outside and him and a couple of friends came up to me and said " hey you wanna play some knockout (which is a basketball game you try and get people out)" then i was like "yeah" so we played and it got down to me and him and i let him win because i didnt want his friends to be like "oh you got beat by a girl" and he like always looks at me in a weird way and stuff and i am not the kind of person that can just go up to some one and start a conversation. i talk to him online sometimes but hes like hardly ever on. hope u can help!! ill rate 5's for really helpful answers!! ~*confused lover*~

Hm.. thats interesting lol well im like you in the way im not exactly the person thats good at jus going up and talking to them, so maybe yall can talk on the phone sometime jus ask him online when he does get on. When you guys do get back together and your the girl in the problem then he would probably come to you, or hes nervous so you might want to braek that akwardness and betend your not nervous and talk to him.. It's hard for someone to do certainly for me and most likely you, but i guess theres a way to find out .. hope it goes well tell me how it goes if you wish

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I am going out with this guy who is in 9th grade and i am in 7th. I only get to see him on sundays, wednesdays, and sumtimes on friday and saturdays. I call him everyday but he never calls me. He thinks i might be prude but i never know when the right time to kiss him is. i am not prude and i dont know how to get this through his head! HELP!! i rate high if you dont have an answer that says just talk to him about it!

You can talk to him about .. lol just kidding, but he might just want you to go more into relationship because as guys get older they turn into perverts. He might just be wanting some action with a girl, so i would not be suprised if he was. After all it is your life and you have the choice and decision to do what you want, and if you dont feel like kissing him at the moment, then it should be alright, and if he keeps nudging you to do it, just remember he might just want to use you

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How old do you think you should be when you lose your virginity?

By the time your married, and to me that doesn't mean get married early just to have sex. You need to make sure you trust the companion, and make sure he won't be a distraction if you are still in school. I dont think you should have sex if you are still in school because of the distractions, and it might be a little harder to take care of the baby. I would say some where around 24, but make sure it is not just for the fun of it because the kid might get sad when he finds out that he has no dad or mom because they werent really together. Hope i helped

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ok well my bf and i have been going out for about 3 months on the 21 and well at my friend that happens to be another guy had a house party basically and so most of us went in to the back yard b/c there is an old shed there and my bf and i madeout shhhhh... jk well i noticed that this made my one like bestfreind start to get all mad and stuff and so i figured out that a day after my bf asked me out he had made out w/ her and i guess she liked him well my friend was mad which made me mad and im just woundering should i dump the guy? i really like him but i mean he mad my friend cry!

13/f

Well, if the girl that is your friend that likes him too could be jealous obviously or upset you would do something like that, but if the boy made out with your friend also, it might not mean that he is just seeing how long he can make out with both of yall. So, if it is a good friend it is not worth fighting over, because realizing there are many more guys later on. Sorry about any confusion.. hope i helped and Good luck

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so i have this boyfriend. almost 3 months. but we have only held hands and hugged. he is going sooo slow. every one is like .. make the first move. but im really shy. like.. really shy. but just around the boy im going out with. are there anyway i can sortof give him hints.. but not make the firt move? 13/f

Ok, well this happened wtih me im a 13 year old boy, and i was very slow, about five months first kiss for me , and trust me you dont wanna go to far at such a young age, i havent done sex, but im just saying everything builds up. You might get bored of just kissing and work your way to something that will be more harmful, so make sure you have a good relationship with your boyfriend and you will stop forgetting about those kissy days.. good luck hope i helped

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13/f
I don't get along with my dad. He has been gone all my life until last year. We totally clash. He's not happy about me having a relationship with a boy. My boyfriend, Warren, is scared to be around my dad. I invited him to my church but he doesn't want to go because my dad will be there. How can I convince Warren to be around my dad if I can't even stand my dad? Please help!
Thanks,
Macie

If your dad has been gone for your whole life since recently, that took away your young relationship with your father, and he does not have any memories with you. He could be very sad, and he has never had to go through that before. I think you might need to spend some time with him and keep Warren on the down low for a while until you become very good friends wtih your dad.. good luck

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