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ok, my friend, lets call her jane is going out with this guy, lets call him joe. i like joe, joe likes me. jane found out but she didnt have a problem with it. i was home sick from school today and even before today, everyone was telling me that joe was going to dump jane for me. if he really does ask me out and all, should i say yes or what because i am so confused and caught in the middle and i feel really bad cuz i think that i'm the cause of them breaking up. help! n thx ahead of time
i think you should talk to joe and tell him how you feel, ii`m not rele sure how you feel... do you want to go out with him?? or no?? well if you think you shouldnt, then you should tell him not to dump her for you bcuz you dont think its rite, and shes your friend.. but if you want to go out with joe, then talk to jane and ask her for permission, and tell her you feel bad, but the relationship feels rite... hope i helped.. Ox
heyy i have lime wire and i have all this awesome music for it yay, but i wanna kno can u burn it on to a cd, and if so how thanxx, ps i rate HIGH! plzz help!
do you have windows media?? well i know how to do it with windows media player, its probly about the same with your computers main music program... go to "explore" in the limewire -library- section. then high light the one`s you want to put onto a cd. (to highlight more than 1 at a time, hold down "ctrl" and click on the ones you want) then right click and say "open with.. ->" and then click your computers main music program. hope i helped. Ox
how do u shrink a shirt...please help!
put it in the dryer...?
i have been trying to do crunches for about 3 weeks and my stomach didnt really get any smaller. does any one know how many crunches to do in a day or does any one know what other techniques that will work to get a flatter stomach
crunchies will make the musles under the flab hard, but it will not get rid of the flab. so try running and doing cardio-vascular exercizes... :) Ox
Okay so yes I have winter formal coming up on Saturday night. I got my dress and shoes, then I realized: I have no freakin clue what to do with my make up. My normal style of make up would look horrid with it. I have light blonde hair, blue green eyes and fair skin. My dress is an offwhite color with gold stitching in the top. Anyone have any ideas?
maybe a goldish beige color on your lid and a light brown in the crease. Ox
i have this friend beth and shes makign all of these bad choices liek havin sex and doin drugs.. how do I help her?
tell her your concerned... i dont think you can totally make her stop making bad decisions, but if you tell her your worried about her, she will back off a lil cuz she knoes sum1 cares about her... Ox hope i helped
Alright i was talking to the guy that I have kind of been more than friends with and his girlfriend called him while i was on the phone with him... when we were doing stuff together he didnt have a girlfriend... but ne wayz he came over to the other line and i asked him who is was and he said it was his girlfriend.. i asked him if he wanted me to let him go and he said no. he told his girlfriend he was busy and then he told me that he was talking to me ne wayz. well anywayz i really like him but i dont want his girlfriend to get hurt should i back off until they break up or what... plus doesnt he seem like he likes me???/ im confused please help......
i think you need to talk to him and just tell him that if he likes you, he needs to break up w// his gf cuz you`re not gonna play games w// him... --yes-- it seems like he likes you but back off until you talk to him bcuz you dont wwant ppl saying things about you. Ox
maaaan-- i only have 3 friends :(
ahaha your a loser... MAKE SOME u loner!!!!!!!!! LOL, JK :) xOx
--ps this is my friend, i would never answer a real question like this, lol
hay i am 14 and single and i am a female. oneday i was walking in the hallways and this guy tapped by shoulders and was just like "hi" and i said hi and i just went along with my business. a few days later i was walking in the hallways and he said hi to me but i never replied because i never knew who he was talkin to. 2 mins later i passed back that same way with my friend and he was there with this guy i knew. and the guy who was he was with knows me and he was like hi sarah and i was like hi and then the guy was like "now i know your namme" and i smiled and walked to my business. the same day at my lunch the guy was behind me and he was like hi sarah and i said hi and dat was that. the next day i was going to my locker and he was going somewhere and he was like hi sarah and i said hi and i asked him why do u always say hi to me and he was like i think you are pretty and i smiled and then he said you are too young for me the sanme time his friend came along and asked who i was? and i didnt hear what the guy told him.and then i was like ok bye i got to go. then after i left he was still talkin with his frend and i heard them talkin and i think his friend was asking about me ... i didnt hear and his friend watched back and began smiling with me and i smiled back and then i went away to by business.does he like me ? does he want to go out with me?
he could just be a weirdo who likes to talk to ppl... but if he's cute and you think u mite like him, then talk to him more since he's obviously trying to talk to you. hope i helped a little? :) -Ox
Im a gurl n im 14 n like this boy but he is a yr older then me n i dotn kno how to get to kno him..i mean we talk..n i am friends with his friends but we just started talking not too long ago n i told him that i wanted to get to kno him n i askd him wat he thought n he told me "i think we should b friends for rite now n who knows wat then"..n he askd me b4 y i dont talk to him in person rilly n i dont wanna tell him that im shy bc then he will prolly jus think im a waste of time..but all my friends tell me that he stares at me..but i am shy to talk to him..how can i handle this even tho im shy??
take a chance, it sounds like he likes you, and it can only go good from here. just walk up to him, you have nothing to loose and just start talking.hope i helped Ox
hay i am a female who is 14 and single. i know this guy who is in my last period class but i always see him in the hallways. i never really say hi to him but if he sees me he will say hi and if too much people are not around he will ask for a hug and i will say yes. people says he has a girlfriend but i think he is playing her because he is always up on different girls. he is a really sweey guy. he is a guy that is a little "pimp". he loves to touch girls booty. oneday i was sitting by myself and he came and sat beside me and hug me and started rubbig my back and we were talking. and he was like i have a secret to tell you and i was like ok and he kissed me. i was shocked. but i didn't do anything. after he did that i had to leave because my teacher called me. but he told me to come but. 20 minutes later i was sitting by myself and he joined me and his friends did too. i was the only girl on the bench. he was hugging me and rubbing my belly and legs. he said to me i love you.... like 20 times to me but i didnt answer his question because i did not know what to say and i finally was like i love you as a friend. he told me i am pretty and thinks i have big boobs for my size and he will always say sweet things to me. sometimes he will feel me up(boobs,tits) also he will ask for a hug and he will start rubbing my back and booty. and everytime he sees me he wil grab me and one day we were walking to class and he began rubbing me up. we would always hug each other everyday sometimes once or twice. but i am not the only girl he hugs he hus other girls but when he hugs them he will just give them a decent hug but when he hugs me he would start feeling me up. i like it . i love him but i want to know if he likes me or is he just being a friend?
he sounds like he might just wanna hook up.. go for it... make sure your prepared for at least one person to call you a slut (if he as a girlfriend that is) but i dont think you should rely on him, because he seems like the kinna guy who doesnt want to get serious and could easily break your heart.
Alright, I broke up with my ex that I had been with for 7 months, I really loved him but We both changed and we barely saw eachother and yeah I broke up with him. And i'm seeing this new guy that is amazing and wonderful and everything my old boyfriend wasen't....it's been 3 months but...when I heard that he made out with one of my friends I completely freaked out, I just dont understand why I'm feeling this way. Please Help -Adrianna 14 f.
you have every reason to be angry or stressed or w/e... he made a huge mistake to do that. dont act totally mad because you still want him as yer friend rite? just dont act the same way you used to towards him.. make it obvious that yer not happy with him & wait for him to apologize if you want to still be friends.
o0ok.. my best friend well she claims we are best friends and i love her to death. but she is aloud to have more friends but if i go hang out with anyother friend she like gets upset with me n im like o0ok how n the heck is this fair. so if you could help me that would be wonderful ik so confused n have no idea what to do.
thanks
Megan
the next time she gets mad, just tell her, "i dont htink this is fiar, you hang out with other friends, but i cant? im sorry for not inviting you, i just wanted to hang out w/ this person a little bit."
My ex boyfriend and I had been together for about two years, and now that we've broken up, he doesn't want to see me at all. (-there wasn't a fight, it was more of a 'this isn't working out, I don't feel that way about you' type of deal.) He's returned my things through a friend of ours, who gave them to me.
Well, I'm still kind of upset about the whole thing, and we were going to talk a little after we'd had some time apart. I still have some things of his, and was wondering if I should A. give then to our mutual friend, B. drop them off at his house/in person, or C. wait a week or two and then give them to him myself.
All of our friends are shared, so it seems that there will come a time when we'll be forced to see each other. I wouldn't cause a scene or push him to feel bad about our breakup if I did see him, but he seems to want to avoid me at all costs right now. When he'd broken up with me, we didn't talk at all, and it seems this still has to happen (not to get back together, but to clear my mind and his a little between us.)
What should I do? Should I wait it out?
if you never tlak to him, and you guys suddenly end up seeing eachother becuz of mutual friends, things will be veeeery acward. in the next few days you shud rite him a note or something and in it just say " ****, please understand that even tho we arent going out ne more, i think we should be able to talk occasionally.. what do you think?" and have a friend give it to him.. if he thinks the smae way.. then all problems solved, but if not, then back off, maybe rite back and say "well im sorry u feel that way... i'll have sum1 bring yer stuff to you sumtime soon..."
ok lately my boyfriend has been telling me hell call me back in 10 minutes...and he wont for like 3 hours...i know things come up and ive talked to him but he still does it...we were on the phone pretty late last night an d he was like hey can i call u right back?? and i was like ok and we hung up...and he never called back...he still hasnt called...im supposed to call him @ 12:30 and we were goning to make plans..but i dont know if i should just call ..or if i should just do what he does to me and not call him....but the thing is i dont know if his dad said he couldnt call me back last night...because it was pretty late...what do i do??
it sounds like you havent talked to him about it at all. what you need to do is next time he says i'll call you back, say "are you actually going to call me back this time?" :).. do it6 in a nice way... and he will probly tell you why he hasnt been going by his word lately
Im 15/f and i really like this boy that is 13 and he likes me too. we are very close we talk on the phone and he even had told me that he had fallen in love with me.Everyone thinks that we go out cause we always together. I dont know what do to because he ask me out, and he is waiting for an answer, whats holdin me back is his age and that peoples might be talking like am too old for him, So im really confused what should I do?
many people have different aged relationships. dont worry about it. but if you dont think you could get over the fact of what people think, you dont have to go out w/ him. ""going out with sum1" is just a title, if you already talk to him and hang out w/ him a lot, then what is going out w/ him going to do?
ok so you met this guy and you like fell in love with him and he liked you for awhile but he lives in a different city and you talk to him all the time and you see him occasionally but then he starts liking this other girl who is a slut and your still like in love w/ him and you cant get over him even though you have tried.and then you thought you were finally over him and then you saw him for a weekend and fell for him again and that is what happens everytime you see him. what do i do?
do whatever you can to get him back. if you think you are really in love w/ him... give it all you got, DO NOT try to get over him if you think u could be with him for a long time. Try to visit him as often as you can to remind him how good for him you are.