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I'm getting a tattoo (i'm a girl) and I have an idea in mind of what i'd like.. but I'm having trouble finding the exact one! I'm not much of an artist. i'm trying to draw one myself but its difficult. i'm wondering if anyone is willing to draw me one? or at least find an image of one that i would like?
Here's what I would like it to have-
-2 butterflies (1 big and 1 small)
-a swirly vine with leaves
-1 small heart
-few stars (maybe 4 or 5 stars in a line, starting small and getting bigger)
-small flowers (daisies. preferably on the vine. but anywhere is okay too)
I'm thinking about putting this design on my shoulder blade. Then putting a saying next to the picture that says "Life is what you make it".
Thank you!!! (link)
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here is a picture: optional heart and no heart:
- without heart:
http://s1128.photobucket.com/albums/m483/RoxyK96/?action=view¤t=Tattoo.png
- with heart:
http://s1128.photobucket.com/albums/m483/RoxyK96/?action=view¤t=Tattoo.png#!oZZ1QQcurrentZZhttp%3A%2F%2Fs1128.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fm483%2FRoxyK96%2F%3Faction%3Dview%26current%3DTattoo-1.png
hope ive helped! inbox me if you need any more help
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So I was on the phone with my friend and she said that I was naive and that's why guys like "messing" with me.(And no messing isn't used in a dirty way it's just another form of joking around I guess). Anyways I'm actually confused what does she mean by I'm naive and that's why guys "mess" with me.
And what does she mean by me being naive about everything (link)
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I dont really agree with the rest of the post because i think your friend is looking out for you. She is saying this as a warning...like your very guilable and believe people easily because you see the good in people. Its a good quality to see good but it means your not really seeing when people are trying to hurt you with the jokes. Or you believe guys that dont always have the best intentions. I think she is talling you this so you dont get hurt. your naive with guys so be cautious...if your really concerned ask her about it. Hope i have helped...if you need anything else inbox me.
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could i hurt my vagina by masterbating with a dildo? (link)
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Depends...yes it is possible. As if your a virgin or the dildo is too big when penetrated the device could very well tare the lining of the entrence. Also by sticking in it to far you could 'pop your cheery' as it is said. Which is only breaking your hymen. this however isnt painful or harmful to you. Its just a layer of inner tissue. If this happens you will bleed like a period however it should only last from an hour to a day. If your concerned check with a doctor (if this goes on for longer). As long as the dildo is properly lubricated you should be fine...especially if you have apperienced sexual acts. Hope I helped if you need anything feel free to inbox me!
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i can't buy anything though! and i wanna dildo! but i cant buy anything! my parents make me buy my own stuff and i dont have money! :( but i want something that vibrates. (link)
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it depends on how old you are i guess...there are stores you can go into and buy actually dildos as long as your old enough. Also it depends on whether you are someone who likes penetration (or vaginal stimulation)or clitoral stimulation...because the massagers actually work well if your clitoral. To get money try babysitting or picking up some odd jobs around the house for money. If your parents ask then say you just want to be able to go out with friends or snacks at the store. After buying it say you bought lunch one day.
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i hate puting my fingers in my vagina, it feels so weird and it kinda hurtss!
i used to use this massaging thing for your back there but it's my parents and there going to think somethings up and thats weird cause its my parents.
i really wanna vibration, but i can't buy one... any ideas? (link)
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I was in the same situation as you and I found that a few things work...you can use one a small back massager which you can pick up at any drug store or places like walmart, super store, etc. If not a mechanical toothbrush works wonders. Get one from colgate that vibrates...there are some that the whole thing vibrates not just the brisles allowing it easy penetration. Hope I helped...inbox me if you need any other advice.
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okay so me and this guy have a love hate relationship, i hate that i love him; like the song i hate that i love you by rihanna... what are some other songs like that?
thanks
kaaitlyn (link)
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Just the way im not - All time low
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Me and my bf have been going out for a year and I want to have our first serious date. I love to camp and so does he should we go camping? Or is that too dramatic/romantic? I need advice! (link)
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Yes, camping is a great idea for you two if he likes camping too. It would be romantic but you would be able have lots of fun doing different activities
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should i commit sucide (link)
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No!!!! You should never even think of killing yourself! Nothing can be solved by killing yourself. Any problems you have can never be fixed by dying. I dont know exactly what are the problems, but there are many people would be said if you werent in this world. Considered how much people really care for you, even if you dont realize they do. Please inbox me again if you need help with your problems, just dont kill yourself. I would love to help you through them, or even if you just need someone to talk to.
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My friend is feeling scared and she's really upset and crying. She wont talk to me. What can I do to comfort her ? What should I say to her ? (link)
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You should try to understand what is making her so upset and scared. If she is scared that means something is really wrong and you should get her to talk to you. If that doesnt work you need to get her to talk to someone she can trust. If she still doesnt want to talk about it you should just let her know that your there for her. The best thing would just put your arms around her and let her cry it out. Be there for her is the best thing for her. A true friend only needs to be there, and she should feel better. Let her know that if she wants to talk about it youll be there to listen and help if you can. Hope this helps and your friend feels better. Inbox me if you need anymore advice.
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Is mastrbating bad for grls nd boys of age 16+?? (link)
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Absoloutely not. Masturbating is a normal thing any one of ages anywhere of 12 and up. Masturbating is just your body experimenting with what makes you feel good and how your body reacts to these feelings. Nothing is wrong with wanting to touch yourself down there. Honestly most people have at least tried it by the age of fourteen.Hope i helped and feel free to inbox me for any more advice.
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18/male i am gay and for awhile ive been feeling lonely and lately ive had some one night stands with guys but i don't want to live like that anymore i want to find a boyfriend someone to settle down with and fall in love buy i haven't found anyone i had a boyfriend over a year ago but we broke up i feel lonely sometimes what do i do and how do i find the perfect guy? (link)
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My advice would be to stop all one night stands because all your doing is hurting yourself. To find a great guy, you have to look for them in the right places. I would suggest going out to coffee shops, and small social gatherings. Refrain from going to bars and night clubs, because the guys their are most likely just looking for someone to hook up with. To find someone you really need to put yourself out there. Get out more and try and find that special person. But if your looking for "the perfect guy" you have to be careful that your standards arent too high, but its good to have a criteria. Honestly for a good relationship you need to take time. try going out to mixers and singles nights, where people want a relationship like you. Also if you are feeling lonely you should find a friends to hang out with. Someone you can talk to and have a great time with. Whether this is a boyfriend or just a best friend. Good Luck, and if you need any more advice feel free to inbox me. Hope you find the one your looking for ;)
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Well, I should start by saying I'm an 18 white British girl who grew up in a very middle class background.
Anyway, I have never had a boyfriend before and have been seeing this guy for about 5 months, I only see him on weekends because he lives in the rougher city area and I am in the country side (I should also point out in England countryside is 95% white while inner cities are more 40-50%). He's from the Caribbean originally and came to England a few years ago, so obviously, he is black. He loves me and his family love me too but my family is against whites and blacks being together, my Nana said people see a slut when they see me now.
Is it honestly so bad to see white and black people together? (link)
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Absoloutely not! There is nothing wrong with two people from two different cultures, or races being together. As long as you love that person, or have strong feelings towards each other, thats all that matters. However, I know there are a lot of people like your family that are against inter reacial couples. It usually has to do with up bringing and cultural beliefs. You should talk to your family about this, explain that you deeply care for this man and you really wished they would support your decision. they may not like it but they should at least be able to deal with the fact that you guys are together. Hopefully they can understand this. Also, what your grandmother said is not true, seeing someone of another race does not make you a slut. Anyway, you are 18 and legally old enough to make decisions on matter like these. Hope if all works out for you. Inbox me if you have any other questions. Good Luck!!!
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I was unsure about my sexuality i'm male almost 16
i thought i liked girls at 14 i went out with a girl a couple of times but i wasnt really into it so i ended it and for some time now i do think that i'm gay i was unsure but ive become more and more attracted to guys looking at guys turns me on i havent told anyone yet and ive become really close to this guy we talk a lot hang out together and now i have feelings for him i feel good and more comfortable being with him i'm not sure if he likes me that way i'm a little nervous to tell him how i feel i do want to be with him so what do i do? do i tell him how i feel? (link)
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It depends on how you want to approach the situation, I have had a few gay friends and each one would take it from a different angle. If you want to come out and tell him, thats great. If you are going that way, I would suggest going up to him and pull him aside, so that no one is around to hear (since you are still "in the closet" so to speak, which is also fine). Let him know that you want to talk to him about something. Then just go for it, but make sure you get out what you want him to hear before he answers you. But that doesnt mean you want to rush it. Find a quiet place, even a bit romantic if you want, i find that way they you really understand your feelings.
On the other hand, you may want to wait and see if he is into you (if you are unsure if he is gay or his feelings towards you). Try asking him to hang out, just the two of you,some place a bit more date like. Slowly increase the way you act towards him, maybe getting a bit closer to him and adjust your actions according to his reactions. Then when the time is right you would tell him. This plan requires more patience and time, this is good if your willing to wait.
But if you know he is gay, I would suggest just laying your feelings on the line and let him know. Make sure however, if the feelings arent mutal, you continue to act the same around him, still friends. That is the most important thing. Besides if your still his friend then he may grow to have feelings towards you. This isnt to say that he will say no or anything (these are just those 'in case' situations).
I hope everything works out with him, and you guys can get together. Wishing you the best, and feel free to inbox me anytime that you need advice. Good luck!!!
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I am dealing with anarexia. Everyone says tell your school nurse....i go to a school with over 3,000 students in it. She doesnt like me either. I am new to the school and i am known for causeing drama so i am afraid that if i tell people about m problem they wont believe me. So now i am on the erge of begging...please sombody tell me how to tell an adult but not my mother or a teacher rather a principal just please tell me how too....thank you (link)
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Well if you dont really want to talk to your parents or teachers, you can talk to a school counsilor. Hopefully you have one at your school, or if you have an older brother or sister old enough to help you with this problem (preferably 18 and up). All though it may be uncomfortable, i really think you should talk to your mother or father, at least this way they can get you the help. If you have none of the above you can try talking to your family doctor, you can also ask for them not to disclose any information to your parents.
Now how to tell them is a different matter. First things first, if you dont want everyone to know, I suggest you find a place where you can talk alone. Like an office, a room (if you tell your parents) etc. Then sit them down and let them know that you have an important and serious topic to discuss with them. Make sure to mention to them that they should hear you out before saying anything. Wait untill they are quite and calm, as well as your self. Then slowly but clearly tell them about it. Say the problem first, then explain why you started (you should think of why you started in the first place)and how long this has been going on. If you tell them face to face, with just the two of you,they will understand that you are serious and really want to get help or at least address the problem. Hoping for the best, good luck! Inbox me if you need anything else!
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Hey. Im a homosexual guy, who is a virgin. i was wondering what is the safest and easiest sex position for me to be in during intercourse? (link)
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It sort of depends on whether your the one being penatrated or the one penatrating. If your the penatrator then you really have nothing to worry about as in safe wise, its more making sure that your partner is safe and comfortable. If your the one being penatrated, it isnt so much safe as in confortable. Honestly you really just need to find aposition that doesnt hurt and is comfortable for you. There is the general positions which are pretty easy and "safe". The regular would be the man laying ontop of you while your on your stomach. You could also try laying on your back and just lifting and spreading your legs. If your not comfortable with either try going on your hands and knees as he goes in you while on his knees. Their are many different positions for sex, you mainly need to find a position that you like and find comfortable/ enjoyable. Hope i have helped ;)
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19/m
I am gay, and I cannot find a good guy. I have had some decent boyfriends, but we always brake up because we end up being too different. I am not a party boy, I don't smoke (or do any kind of drug for that matter, legel or illegal), I dont drink. I just want a guy I can be myself with, and not have to worry about growing apart from. How can I meet a guy like that? My last boyfriend was so amazing and so sweet, but he wanted to party and drink and I told him that I wouldn't be able to date him if thats what he wanted to do, so we broke up. I just want to know how I can meet a nice, gay guy who is like me. And please, do not suggest any online dating websites (I tried online stuff before, and it was a disaster). Any ideas on how to meet a guy like that? (link)
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Arent we all looking for a man like that ;). Honestly, to find someone like that, you would need to look at the previous places you have found your bf, and try to avoid places that would preduce a more party type of guy. No bars, pool halls, or parties, because they are all party aholics. Try going to a coffee shop or internet cafe, lots of people go to those places where people are calm. Also look for any small social gatherings like a fair, carnival or a mixer. Something along the lines of a single's gathering where you can talk to a bunch of people and make a decision from there. School is another major place, but you've probably already tried there. Hope I have helped. Inbox me if you need anymore advice. GOOD LUCK!!
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My boyfriend is awesome. I love him sooo much. He says he loves me2 and he tells the world that he loves me, but sometimes he drops hints like, "So my friends was like 'so when are you & Brianna gunna start f******.' & I couldn't think of an answer."
I couldn't think of an answer either. I sort of want to wait til I'm married because it'll be more special 2kno that I saved myself for the best, but since I am teenager & the hormones are retarted, I usually get sorta kinky around him I really want him!!! I don't kno wat 2do. Should I let him bust the cherry now or after the I do's? I do kno thoe that he doesn't just want me for that because I just kno him when I look in his eyes that he wouldn;t do that.
I'm 13 & female (link)
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If he loves you the way you say he does then he wont mind waiting. Whether you choose to wait till marriage or not, you shouldnt give him your v-card at such a young age. Your too young to do something like that. You may be feeling it sexually but someone your age isnt old enough to understand the emotional side of it. What would happen if he got you pregnant? You wouldnt be able to take care of a baby. Srry to go all mom like on you but its the truth. So just wait a couple of more years like till your 16 or so when you can really make that decision. Good luck, and whatever you decide make sure you think it threw and understand what consequences come with it.
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hey what is the greatest love song. . i want to sent it to my boyfriend who im absolutly in love with.
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THat is hard but here is a list of songs I love about love:
Love like this - Amy Pearson
Are you gonna kiss me or not - thompson Squaer
Two is better then one - Taylor swift
Everytime we touch - Cascada
GRavity - Sara Bareilles
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I'm sixteen and a female.
This is weird for me to post advice about this on here, but whatever.
I masturbate frequently. I mean, not crazy, like to the point it runs my life, but about two or three times a day. Sometimes it's because I'm turned on for a random reason, or just because it feels good. But sometimes I just feel so gross afterwards.
I also watched some porn last night and today. I feel so nasty afterwards and I don't want to feel that way because it is normal, right? So why do I feel so disgusted after I do those types of things?
Thanks a lot! (link)
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Ok I would firstly like to say, I get where MCC is coming from about your religion but DUDE soooo not cool. Masturbation is perfectly normal and most teenagers do it instead of going and having sex each time they are horny! THat wierd feeling is something that some people experience and trust me it goes away. If anything try to slow down on the masturbating and the feeling will slowly cease. INbox me if you have any other questions.
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Is it ok if I put peanut butter on my vagina then let my dog lick it? (link)
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Honestly no. Doing that is gross and can cause irritation and UTI's. It is considered beastiality and can be nasty. Also what happens when a dog bite's you down there. You would have to explain that to your parents or doctor. Now this said I cant deny that I have tried this myself and felt great but this is unatural. It just depends if you can live with the concequences. Also make sure the dog has all up to date shots, just incase.
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