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my sexuality
I was unsure about my sexuality i'm male almost 16
i thought i liked girls at 14 i went out with a girl a couple of times but i wasnt really into it so i ended it and for some time now i do think that i'm gay i was unsure but ive become more and more attracted to guys looking at guys turns me on i havent told anyone yet and ive become really close to this guy we talk a lot hang out together and now i have feelings for him i feel good and more comfortable being with him i'm not sure if he likes me that way i'm a little nervous to tell him how i feel i do want to be with him so what do i do? do i tell him how i feel?
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It depends on how you want to approach the situation, I have had a few gay friends and each one would take it from a different angle. If you want to come out and tell him, thats great. If you are going that way, I would suggest going up to him and pull him aside, so that no one is around to hear (since you are still "in the closet" so to speak, which is also fine). Let him know that you want to talk to him about something. Then just go for it, but make sure you get out what you want him to hear before he answers you. But that doesnt mean you want to rush it. Find a quiet place, even a bit romantic if you want, i find that way they you really understand your feelings.
On the other hand, you may want to wait and see if he is into you (if you are unsure if he is gay or his feelings towards you). Try asking him to hang out, just the two of you,some place a bit more date like. Slowly increase the way you act towards him, maybe getting a bit closer to him and adjust your actions according to his reactions. Then when the time is right you would tell him. This plan requires more patience and time, this is good if your willing to wait.
But if you know he is gay, I would suggest just laying your feelings on the line and let him know. Make sure however, if the feelings arent mutal, you continue to act the same around him, still friends. That is the most important thing. Besides if your still his friend then he may grow to have feelings towards you. This isnt to say that he will say no or anything (these are just those 'in case' situations).
I hope everything works out with him, and you guys can get together. Wishing you the best, and feel free to inbox me anytime that you need advice. Good luck!!!
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