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Hi, well i've liked this boy since p7 and i'm in 2nd year now. so thats 4 years, but its not been really bad. but he is so funny and hillarious, but hes into them type of girls who are just like him really sarcastic and funny. But im scared to say anything rude or anything, becuase im a christian and hes athiest. Hes so amazing, and hes so lovely. Plus he always makes me have a smile on my face. Should i try asking him out? or should i just wait till we get closer and him ask me? thank you.
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I see where you're coming from because I was in this situation and it's not a fun place to be in. The worst thing you could do is change to please him, because then he's not getting to know the real you (who is amazing) I think that you should be yourself and let him get to know YOU! And only you. If he doesn't like you for being yourself then he is definitely not worth it, if it doesn't work out come back and I'll help you with "how to get over him" try talking to him a lot an get close, then it'll fall into place! Hope it helps. Lisa.
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Never date an athiest. Bad association spoils useful habits.
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I'm an atheist and have had friends and girlfriends who were Christian. The religious issue shouldn't be that big a deal unless you wear your beliefs on your sleeve. Many people are putatively religious but non-observant. Catholic women in the U.S., for example, largely ignore the Vatican's edicts on birth control and continue to use it.
If the Christianity is really important to you then this will be a source of conflict between you. You have to look at this rationally and realize what you may be getting into. I'm sure there are Christian guys who are every bit as funny as the atheist you like. You can just wait until college, when you will have an opportunity to meet a wider array of men. So you don't really need to put all of your eggs in one basket, so to speak. Relax and decide just what it is you want and then go for it.
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