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Do any products that claim to be able to whiten your teeth at home really work? I need serious advice to whiten mine since I quit smoking but still drink coffee and tea which stains your teeth. :( (link)
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I was going through te same thing due to smoking and coffee being a major love in my life, I ordered a teeth whitening stick you put on your teeth twice a dy, and it is amazing, google ideas! Any safe one and cheap one will do.
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So my boyfriend & I recently discovered we both had chlyamdia. I got it cured. But my boyfriend on the other hand, hasn't yet. He went but they sent him somewhere else, anyways we were messing around we been using condoms since we found out but I was messing around & I was teasing him & didn't think anything of it but I just licked the top of his dick (the head) & just remembered you can get chlymadia through oral. I didn't think about it, but it was literally just a lick. Not a suck or anything. One lick! Lol he didn't cum or anything. Is there a chance I have a chlymadia? Please answer asap! (link)
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Hi! No there isn't a chance of you having chlamydia due to you not basically sucking for a long period of time, if it was a lick you should be fine! Don't panic, if you do realise you're panicking check it out, but make sure before you and your boyfriend do anything else you get him cured for the risk of you getting it again. Hope it helped, stay safe. Lisa.
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My parents are not divorced but they don;t like living together. My dad lived in Egypt for 4 years and then came back to live with us. 5 years ago, my mom started beating me. she started screaming and throwing her high heels at me.. and i eventually got use to the pain. I hate my mom... and so a month ago i started having these episodes while i was sleeping of me standing in my mothers room holding a knife in my hand wearing a hoodie, i would go across to her side of the bed and stab her till i was happy. blood would be all over my hands and splattered all over my face, and i would laugh and cry and scream. The dream usually ends with my sister coming and shaking me to wake the fuck up. my mom has put me in therapy for problems in the past and shit like that... my therapist has said "your mind is just playing tricks on you" but i dont think it is. I almost grabbed a knife this morning and stabbed her with it because she was almost going to smack me again.... what do i do? cause im tired of being called crazy...
sincerely,
Nobody :) (link)
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hi "Nobody :)"
We'll for a beginning we all have side effects whenever you get abused whether it's physical, emotional or sexually. Due to you being physically abused I can tell you have quite a lot of anger in you, you want to let it out but not in a pleasant way. The way you are thinking isn't completely evil as you have been prior abused, but I honestly think you need to go to a doctor or back to your therapist, and inform her that this is not just something stupid. You need help for this and the only way it is going to go away is if you tell a professional who can help, before something terrible does happen and you'll have a guilty conscience forever, telling someone isn't as hard as it looks, the first day is the worst but after that you recover an become a better person, you can do it with good attitude. Please try and get help, you don't deserve this. Lisa.
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Hi, well i've liked this boy since p7 and i'm in 2nd year now. so thats 4 years, but its not been really bad. but he is so funny and hillarious, but hes into them type of girls who are just like him really sarcastic and funny. But im scared to say anything rude or anything, becuase im a christian and hes athiest. Hes so amazing, and hes so lovely. Plus he always makes me have a smile on my face. Should i try asking him out? or should i just wait till we get closer and him ask me? thank you. (link)
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I see where you're coming from because I was in this situation and it's not a fun place to be in. The worst thing you could do is change to please him, because then he's not getting to know the real you (who is amazing) I think that you should be yourself and let him get to know YOU! And only you. If he doesn't like you for being yourself then he is definitely not worth it, if it doesn't work out come back and I'll help you with "how to get over him" try talking to him a lot an get close, then it'll fall into place! Hope it helps. Lisa.
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Hi,
I have been having acne problems for about a year and a half now mainly in my forehead, t-zone, side of faces, my chin, nose and under my eyes as well as my neck so basically everywhere.
It was light acne at first but I got a fringe and it got really bad so I began clipping back my hair. And I got prescribed medicine--- Zineryt --- from the doctors, I had that for 5-6 weeks and it helped quite a bit on my forehead although not on my chin at all but some spots are still visible on my forehead. I have very sensitive skin and My current cleanser is Clearisil. So I am wondering If anyone knows how to get rid Of acne or anything good products that work. I was also wondering if Pantothen or Proactive work? (link)
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If the clearisil still isn't working, it would be best to go to your gp and ask for something new, but dont be afraid of how you look. you were born this way!
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I like this boy, but he said he doesn't like me, how do I get him to like me?
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Well hun, half of boys are idiots so be careful what he's like. make sure you know him really well, so like mabey play 20q to get to know him better. talk to him in school alot, flirt a bit. facebook him? ask him to go outside, invite him places. smile at him and wave if you see him. just be really nice to him, and he'll fall into your hands. hope it helped.
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Hi im 13 theres this guy who ia drop dead gorgeous hes kind of. A player but. Hes soo cute and nice to me my friends say thay i shouldnt likr him wat should i do (link)
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Well, hun most boys are players, nearly all of them are. all they want is a bit of attention. But your friends might be on to something, that you shouldn't go out with him incase he hurts you, there just being there for you like they should. i would listen to them if i were you. even if he is gorgeous.. remember players gona get you hated. hope it helped.
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I have been suicidal since I was 13yrs and now i'm 30 and still suicidal. my mom got married and went to live with her husband and they had kids.i was left under the care of my gran and aunts who pretended to love me.i'm now working and have been diagnosed with endometriosis. i wanted to have a family but seemingly i cant find the right guy and my family doesnt give a damn about me and i cant even have children.i'm so tired of being hopeful and trying new relationships and its always the same results,those ppl eventually leave me. i've read all the selfhelp books one can think of and the bible, asked Gid for help but things always go wrong for me.i'm not happy at work,i cant study anymore. i feel like ending it all right now.i've hopeful and optimistic for a long time now, so i need a quick amd easy way to kill myself and make the death look so natural, so that my insurances can payout. (link)
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'Hi, there is no reason what's so ever, to kill yourself. over that, remember not to harm yourself. dont even kill yourself, because if you tried talking to a counceller or a helpline? they could help you. of course your mum loves you, she just wanted a man to hold. as you do, just keep finding him, you might just find him one day. keep searching though! and even adopt a child? if you cant have one. hope it helps! x
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There is this boy in my class I love I mean oh my god his cute body,and his cute face I love him but what to do? FYI:Im 11!! SOS!! :'( (link)
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Wel, i would try talking to him, and being nice to him. even if you both have facebook messgae him, and just keep speaking to him to get closer! hope it helps.
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ok, so i wanna know if this guy likes me (i like him too) here is how we "flirt"
~we put our hands on each others thighs and we dont mind
~we always hug like were going out (he comes up from behind me and hugs my waist)
~i told my friends (he was also there) that if you make a little heart with another person (with your fingers) and it comes out cute, then your meant to be! then, he did it with me and everyone said it was cute!
~Tons of people asked us if we were dating.
~he ALWAYS insists on sitting next to me
~ i had to go somewhere and he was leaving so i grabbed his arm so he could stay with me and he laced our fingers together and we held hands for like 2 min and it wasnt ackward or anything!
So yea, hope you guys can answer this ASAP! lol thnx(: (link)
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to me, it seems like he really likes you, if hes being so nice to you and nowere near awkward about any of those things you said, you should ask him. & see what he says. even just a plain 'who you loving'
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I've realized that I sometimes am attracted to females. Like, I watch lesbian porn sometimes and I have a lot of gay friends. I know neither of those things "make you gay", but lately I've started having feelings for a friend of mine who is female. I'm not quite sure if I just want to hook up with her or if I truly have emotional feelings. What do I do? Is there even anything I should do? (Oh by the way, this friend is a pansexual.) (link)
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Well, seems like your having a tough time here.. but remember not to worry. if you think your mabey lesbion/bisexual you should try contacting or speaking to a close adult/friend. or even tell the girl you like. she may like you back, but you only live once. dont waste it being annoied about that. hope it helped.
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I'm 19 years old and currently a highschool senior (no I'm not a super
senior), but the man I'm totally head over heels in love with is 39. I met him
my freshman year because he happened to be my busdriver. Do you think thats weird? And from the
first day I saw him I always thought he was cute but nothing
more than that. There was no actual feelings but by the end of freshman
year I felt something builiding there kinda like a crush. I wanted to
talk to him more than just saying hi and bye everday, but didn't know how
to. That summer I found myself thinking about him a lot. I think i grew to be
infactuated by him. And sophmore year
came around but nothing changed just kept admiring him more wishing
for him to talk to me- and I think that's when I was starting to like him more
than a crush. I'd be thinking of him at home on weekends, when I was out
with my friends, and even in class waiting for the bell to ring just so I can be
on the bus with him. No matter how busy i kept myself he managed to be
on my mind all day and all night long. The summer after sophmore year the
same feelinggs continued but I never told anyone cause I didn't know how
to and was kinda embarrassed. It wasn't until junior year that one day this bus
driver just started talking to me. I remember I got up to throw something away
and he was like nice shot and I
was like thanks! And he was like I think you should go out for the ladys
basketball team and we just started talking from there. THAT DAY WAS
THE BEST EVER AND WILL NOT BE FORGOTTEN! WHY? well because
its the guy i was totally in love with that said it..who also likes basketball.
He picked me to talk to out of every girl on that bussss!!! meee! It went from
talking a couple times a week to everyday. And I was starrting to like likee
him moree! LIKE ALOTT :)) He was so sweet and intresting and diffreent
and charming, and kind, and smart even if he didnt go to college, AND
THATS WHEN I WAS SO IN LOVE WITH HIS PERSONALITY I BEGAN
TO THINK HE WAS THE SEXIEST MAN ALIVE AND THATS WHEN I
GAVE HIM THE COMPLIMENTS I DID, AND HE GAVE ME THEM AT TIMES TOO! I HOPE HE BELIEVED THEM PeoPLe
THINK HES NOT CUTE!
then all the other guys I know. I still told nobody bout my feeling and that
summer just because I liked him so much I made a goal to work out even
if I already was skinny just so he“d be impressed by my body when senior
year would start up and he did notice. I thought A LOT about him that
summer even if I kept myself busy with vacations and friends! That summer
was the hardest to go through without seeing him Senior year came and I
got closer with this bus driver I shared by personal life with him and
so did he. WE HAD SO MANY ALIKE INTERESTs (we liked the same sports, movies, tv shows-all ten shows we both watched, values, i dont know we just were really alike. AND HE MADE ME
FEEL SPECIAL IN SOMEWAY> HE WOULD CALL ME SWEETIE AND
SWEETHEART BUT NOBODY ELSE THAT I reallly reallly realllly knew
that this is the man I wanted to be with! But that's when I found out he had
a fiance and so I stopped talking to him but then he started talking to me
and I think
he noticed hw I suddenly stopped talking to him after he told me about the
fiance! I think I kinda made it akward but he just started talking to me again
even if i didnt make the effort to talk to him. I dont know if he knew I liked him..I'm
sure he didn't! THERS NOT WEDDING DATE THOUGH HE SAID THERe
JUST GNNA STAY ENGAGED! But I was dying to tell him, I invited him to
cme to my powderpuff football game and watch me play! He said he would
of if I asked earlier! And I wish I did. But a couple months ago my bus driver
got fired for not doing a child check. I'm so sadd! I couldn't stop crying and I still cry and it hurts so so much! He
never even said goodbye to me, thers a lot I still wanted to tell him,
talking to him made me feel so happy when I was having a down day. I
wanna talk to him but I dnt knw what to dooo! - I needa to see his
face and hear his voice. Please dont judge I have feelings for my
busdriver its not a joke your heart desires what it desires! And no I
dont have daddy issues nor am I a gold digger! And no she's not some
model looking guy everyone thinks he's ugly but I think he's drop dead
gorgeous! Thers no man I rather be with than him. I'm not too young
too love so pls dnt say that, I've never gotten this feeling in my
life before! I know what a crush feels like and I now knw what love
feels like. We were so alike and had a lot of the same intrests I miss
it all. I sent him a goodbye card through the bus company but I dnt
know if he got it. What do I dooo?
I needa to see his face and hear his voice. Pls dont judge I have feelings for my busdriver its not a joke your heart desires what it desires! And no I dont have daddy issues nor am I a gold digger! And no he's not some model looking guy everyone thinks he's ugly but I think he's drop dead gorgeous! Thers no man I rather be with than him. I'm
not too young too love so pls dnt say that, I've never gotten this feeling in my life before! I know what a crush feels like and I now knw what love feels like. We were so alike and had a lot of the same intrests I miss it all. I sent him a goodbye card through the bus company but I dnt knw if he got it. What do I dooo? IS IT WEIRD I LIKE HIM? I know hes on ebay should i try and contact him? i miss him and wanna get in touch like crazy. Its been since the superbowl that hes been gone but i still am CRAZY about him. Ive tried going out with other guys to get my mind off him but nothings working. CANT I ATLEAST BE FRIENDS WITH HIM? Or friends with benfits? I wouldnt mind if he were to use me for sex, hes the only guy I would let use me for sex.
I truly do care for this man more than anything in this world. Im willing to give him anything. If he needs money which i know he does Im willing to give him my pay checks-all of them. I wanna take him on vacations hes never been able to afford, i wanna save up all my money to one day be able to surprise him with the sports car hes always wanted, I wanna take him to comedy shows he wanted to go to, i just wanna give him everything hes ever wanted and cant afford. HES MY LIFE HE COMES BEFORE ANYTHING AND ANYONE IN MY LIFEE! AND IM NOT EVEN JOKING!
LIFES NOT THE SAME WITHOUT HIM ITS LIKE PART OF ME AND MY HAPPINESS IS MISSING AND FOREVER GONE! HE NEVER SAID GOODBYE TO ME, I NEED TO TALK ONE LAST TIME!!
I LOVEEE HIM so sos sooos sooo much, i want him to have all the happiness in the world, im not trying to be selfish cause love is not selfish, i just need him to say he doesnt want me in his life and i think itll be a little easier to move on. i dont want to move on from him causee he is my life, and i dnt evn think its possible to love again. i dont want to love anyone but him! i would take care of him so well, even when hes 60 and im 40, he"ll be just as gorgeous as he is today and ill love him more and more until i die. every thing reminds me of him..eveery song and every object-everything
should i contact him ...
signed
IN LOVE (link)
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Hiya 'in love' well to be honest, it sounds like this is really hard for you loosing somebody who you love. but remember he might be getting married soon. even if he said he wasn't he could of changed his mind, plus hes big time older than you, i would start trying to look into guys your age, but the bus driver seems a nice man. but he loves his fiance. and im pretty sure he wants to be with her, he may not remember you if you contact him, but you should try.. and just say that your sorry for him loosing his job. hope it helps.
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