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I'm really confused, and surprised. I talked to my friend today, and we were talking about how I'm interested in Witchcraft, and then she said "Are you telling me you're a witch?"and I got kinda uncomfortable and Was like,"not really"cause I'm interested in it but I'm not one..yet. And then I asked what she thinks a witch is, and she rattled off all the storytale things, and I was really surprised. I'm trying to explain to her what modern "white"witches are, but I'm doing the best I can, but I dont know if thats good enough, I cnt eactly tell her to go look it up online. (link)
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You should tell your friend that Wicca/Pagan is nature based and takes energy from around you to make it into a body-like spirituality/ feeling. If you need more just asl, Im wiccan so I can help easily :) goodluck!
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here is something i dont understand and i sont know if anyone here understands it. Why are we here just why i dont understand it we were put here by god but why it makes no sense. i mean think we live just so we can die it makes no sense so i dont understan why we would be put here by god it makes no sense because one day we could be alive and the next we could be dead just why. (link)
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Hmm..I would answer this but I cant find the book I write in about this, hehe. Well, you seem like your really into this kind of things, right? You should go get/rent/whatever you want to do Metaphysics by Aristotle. It shows all views on religion and purpose, and it will help you alot :)
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Are ghosts real? only if you know the answer then answer my question. only if you're sure. (link)
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Um, there is no "sure". Everyone has opinions..but good luck on this! :)
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this may sound scary but lately i have these thoughts like a voice in my head saying im a satanist. i don't want to be and i try to force the thought out and think that god is my only one though it always comes back. i got this book and it had a list of all the warning signs of a satanist and i had all of them except for one. i think i am becoming a satanist. i also do witchcraft but i never did anything involving the devil. now all i can think about is becoming a satnist i need serious help. i am originally catholic. and i am a girl. (link)
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Ok Satanism and Witchcraft are NOT related, and I know for sure. I do religious studies...but anywho you may want to learn about Wicca/Pagan and Satanism a bit more before you attempt to pick what you are. But, yes go with your thoughts, its better then being forced into something you dont want :)
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I'm questioning my faith
i'm not sure what it was in the first place really
um... but I think i'm just kind of having a bit of a crisis, not sure where to turn
I come from a semi-Christian background
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Well, you should definently find out more about each religion you want to consider. If you come from achristian background and somewhat go along with that, you may want to Check out Scientology, Pagan, Agnostic, Atheist, or Druidry..these are somewhat close to Christianity in a way. Or you can go out on a limb and try anything other, or Metaphsics and view all religions at once. Here, on about.com there are basic breifs on every religion possible under the Religion/Spirituality tab :) If you need more just ask!
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ok well my freind keeps on calling me emo and i dont like because im not one yea i used to be an emo but not anymore and it is makeing me mad at him and i asked him to stop but he wont and it is getting on my nerves
what do i do?
signed,
to much to handle (link)
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Yeah I mean not emotions..personality. But anywho, if he doesnt really stop after that just say it to him. "No, Im not. and what does it matter to you anyway?!" lol gl :D
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I don’t think people have anything to live for at all. Most people live for other people even thought everyone will eventually die. I think life is pointless and there is no such thing as “making a difference” because in the end none of it matters. My teacher says everyone wants to be remembered after they die, I don’t want to be remembered. Some people live for God, which I think is stupid because I don’t believe in God. If I did, I would hate him, why? Because he has control over us. Killing yourself is wrong because you’re interfering with “God’s little plan”, right? That doesn’t sound right now, does it? Everything happens for a reason doesn’t it? If something happened to make you want to kill yourself then is killing yourself still wrong? If God doesn’t want it to happen then it shouldn’t happen because he makes everything happen, doesn’t he? Can someone help me understand this whole “God” concept? (link)
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There is no direct answer to this..Im young but Im majorly into this kind of things. If you believe in God or not, either way, you can make your decisions. Nothing has greater power then your mind within yourself. "God's little plan" is also considered your life. Killing yourself is your decision, at it will affect the "Plan", AKA other people. Once your gone people can't feel as full as they were so they become a little catatonic. This is the "Plan"- other people and your/their life/lifes. Theres no real answer, it's what you decide to think :)
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I used to cut but I've stopped since January. Now I've been thinking about a lot again, and itching a lot. Last night I actually did cut. In a way I want to cut, but then I don't want to get into all of it again, it's crazy. What do I do? And don't be an idiot, please take this seriously. (link)
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Ok I did that a few days ago. Try not to cut, o this instead. Get a rubberband, and put it around your wrist, you can have rubberbads anywhere you cut too. Everyitme you want to, pop the band on your skin so you feel a little pain, and eventually ease up on the popping. This works really, good, because it has the same affect, minus the scars. It gives the pain, somewhatm which satisfies the usual mutilation need. Good Luck too :) If this gets really bad Question me and Ill help more, I have better advice but it's too long.
Hope I Helped Hun.
RhetoricalLives :D
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16/f This summer I REALLY want to start eating healthier. I'm SO tired of fast food and soda. But I don't know what "healthy" is. You'd think a salad is healthy, even from fast food places and it turns out their salad has just as much calories as a big mac or w/e. So are there any snacks besides just plain fruits and vegetables. And something quick where I don't have to stand over a stove and cook. I only eat poultry, no beef, pork, etc. So maybe some vegetarian foods. What do vegetarians usually eat?
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Morningstar has great foods..and just to clear this up REAL vegerarians DONT eat fish, nto even sushi :) But soy products are really good for ya!
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I have a friend you always says she's really depressed. At first i really was worried and i belived her to the fullest, but now its like she does it only for attention!! I hate it! She wont even eat anymore! I try to get her too but she refuses to! I dont know how to act around her anymore, cause she always takes everything the wrong way, Please please please help!! I'll rate high i promise!! I just dont know what to do! (link)
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OK, dont force her into anything. Tell your mom or dad about this, beause the worst things are left unspoken. LEt her do as she pleases until it need medical help. Then litterally force her. I can help you more if I get more information on the progress, so if you need more ask! And shes probably not doing this for attention!
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I want to take up a babysitting job for extra cash but, i dont know the neighbors that just moved in and thats the ones whos baby i want to sit, and my dad doesnt get home from work till 5:00 and i want to babysit!
should i meet the neighbors and babysit till my dad comes home or should i ask my dad and risk not being able to do it?
please hurry
ill rate high (link)
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Ok well now that it didnt work....well you may be old enough to legally work in your state. Look into that, ours is 14, and your state may be something close to that :)
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is there such a thing where your so depressed is it posibly you could die from it
and is it bad if your so depressed all you want to do is curl up in a ball and hope that god could fix all things and is it posible for him to do that for me i think it is but iv asked many things from him and i dont kno if he would help me with this one or do i have to do all the work again
you kno who this is (link)
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Ok, yes that is bad. You may want to confront someone you know about it and try to get on medication, no offence. Ive been through that alot, and Zoloft is amazing...really. And about the God thing, Im not religious, but I know about this. If he does do something it will not fix everything, you have to volunteer to fix yourself too. Try to find a hobby you enjoy, it relaxes you. And everytime you feel like this, think about why. If you cant get a definent answer confront someone! You will NOT die directly from Depression, but from the effects, like suicide. Before you do anything major, go get help, its saved me so many times too. If you need more help on Depression/suicide/SI Just ask me hun :D Ive done everything possible..
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Ok this is a really weird question...but for the past few days...i have had these spots on my tonuge..not like bubbles or anything...just little spots like missing or something. and they burn when most things touch them. I was sick for a few weeks and i drank a lot of hot drinks to make my throat feel better and i dont know if that would have anything to do with it...but does anyone have any idea what they are or wht i could do?? thanks (link)
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Kankersores probably... they are caused by too much sugar in your taste buds of the tounge. Are they white? If so thats them hehe. If theyre major, go get Glyoxide, and put it on the sores. hold it there for around 3minutes and rinse out mouth. Do this 3-5 times a day for around 3 days! This makes them go away. And lay off the sugar ;) GOOD LUCK ! :D
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my aim is so weird..when im on usually about after 5 minutes it wont let me look @ anyones profiles like it would say "please wait..." except it would never go..and like it doesnt send me any messages my friends send..and then it says that ive sent a message but the other person doesnt get it..then after like another minute it wont let me send anything.then it signs me off and then back on again
but then i look @ how long ive been on and it says that ive been on the whole time...its so weird
how do i make it go away (link)
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You may want to clean out your computer, deleting the un needed files. Or, if you upgraded AIM, degrade it, such as uninstalling it, then reinstalling it. The AIM updates have so many features it lags and causes messeges to mess up. Once you do this and need more help ask and ill give you a how-to guide! :D
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Hey i'm Leah and i'm 16/F. Okay, so me and my ex were together or almost 2 years we broke up like 6 months ago. We haven't talked for at least 5 months and we had a really love/hate relationship, but we were like eachothers best friend. I still LOVE him soo much and i've tried calling him but he wont talk and were not aloud to talk to each..his parents hate me and mine hate him were not aloud to be around eachother..What should i do? Should I just let go..? (link)
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Hola Leah! Wow sounds like Romeo and Juliette..ok you should try to let go if you can, but if you cant, find out why your parents hate him so much, and try to talk about the reason! Tell them the positives of this guy, and how you feel about him. Once you do this and you need more help, ask again!
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How exactly is being anorexic bad for you? People has said that if you're anorexic your body loses all these nutrients but what are the actual like 'symptoms' you get if you're anorexic. Besides dizzyness and fatigue.
Thanks I'll rate 5 for any decent answers! (link)
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Ok, you will feel nauseated, and yes your losing vitamins and all. Anorexia is not only a physical regression but emotional too. Once the person (lets call it sam lol) ..ok once Sam hits the weight they want, Sam feels like they need to be thinner..it is a constant need to be smaller. Sam's organ will noyt work properly, because of lack of blood flow. Here, a site, this helps ALOT
http://www.anad.org/site/anadweb/content.php?type=1&id=6982#warning
Hope this helps!!!!
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Sometimes when I mess up on the littlest thing or I don't get my way, I get really sad and upset, and I don't understand why. Even while I'm upset I tell myself, "This doesn't make sense to be upset now" but I get upset anyways and I don't get out of my mood until I get something new or I find something to do that interests me. I really hate getting mood swings. Is there a way to knock myself out of these moods? Are they even natural? (link)
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Natural- yes.
If you get these all the tie, you may be acutely depressed..but not enough to make you crazy! To get rid of these, dont lock yourself into activities so much, so if you mess up it means nothing! Also, dont try to worry so much about something your doing (in the beginning) or take breaks from something. For you not getting your way, if you dont, alternate what you want so that you can somewhat compromise to get something close to the original item! Need more info? I know this was vague, ask me more if you need it, but with detail hun!
Hope I Helped
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i asked a question before about my hair and so i got it cut. the lady cut it too short! i have dark brown hair- shoulder length- layered. what should i do with it? (link)
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You can always flip it inward, with layers that looks awesome! Or do some what of a french bun, and leave the front chunks of hair out so you have the hair around tyour face! Shoulder length is great for quick up-do's that look amazing without major styling!
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I'm switching schools next year so I won't be going back. I want to admit to my guy friend that I have feelings for him. I like him alot but I know he likes another girl & she knows that. If I tell him how I feel, do you think things will be weird this summer if he rejects, since I planned on hanging out with him as friends anyways? (link)
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Hmm..just hint to him, you can tell him though, if your leaving. But just go with your feelings! He'll say how he feels, and thats fine :D And you can tell him and still hang out, just dont over-do it, ya know?
Good Luck Hun!
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what are some good fruits to eat to get healthy and lose wieght ? (link)
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Oranges,Straw berrys, pomegranats, bananas, grapes, peaches!
Good Luck :)
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