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alright so me and this guy are dating and like i have no problems keeping conversations with guys at all..like i never have in my life.EVER! soo im going out with this guy and we never talk at lunch or ever..we cant keep a conversation..we talk sometimes in the hallways..i mean its not awkward...but i want more to talk about. me and him are going to the mall together this weekend..how do i keep a conversation without trying to sound desperate or cheesy (: thankss
and p.s. we both like eachother and i think its nerves..but any ideas on how to get over them. cause i like him alot an he likes me too but i dont want him to stop liking me cause we never talk.. (link)
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I'd just try and find things that you're both interested in. That should be easy at the mall. Point out stuff you like, and he'll probably point out stuff that he likes and in no time you won't be able to stop talking!
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Little kids are very rude to me. There' one that's about in grade 3 and the MOST BAD words comes out of his mouth that put put sailors to shame.
I walk pass that street he walks everyday and he always calls people who pass him (and me when he sees me) bad words.
And they're all decent looking, they're not a FAG FACE as one of the words he says.
Can someone jsut list me really good things to say such as fag face, dick face, etc?
My vocabulary doens't run that way and if this progresses over a month and he doesn't behave, I don't want to be a tadle tale but his MOTHER NEEDS TO KNOW (link)
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This is sad because this kid probably has some issues within his family. Even if his mother is nice he may have other relatives that aren't so nice. I'd just let his mother know about this. She might not believe you but she needs to know. She's the one who can do something about it. And if she does believe and says that she'll handle it and then does nothing, I'd talk to a teacher about it. They WILL do something.
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well lets just say i think i like a younger guy..and he is about 2 and a half years younger...would it be wrong to date? (link)
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There is absolutely nothing wrong with dating a guy that is two years younger then you. It really depends on your age though. Cause if you're 15 and the guy is 13 then yeah that's a little weird. But if you're 17 and he's 15 then I really don't see any harm in that. If you like him then why not?
If you're both in high school then I don't see any harm in dating him at all. =)
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I have about 4 pairs of jeans that I wear regularly. I have been wanting to buy another, and I was wondering your thoughts on the quality of certain brands. Does a higher price mean higher quality?
The brands that I have are:
Mudd(these recently ripped right in the crotch, so are becoming a purse.)
Old Navy(these were hand-me-downs from my little sister)
Aeropostale(My most comfortable)
Sevens(These are definitely my best, verifying the Quality is higher with higher prices idea)
I was just wondering if you all had other experiences or advice on what type of Jeans I should get next! (link)
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Aeropostale and American Eagle jeans are really nice but you're right they are expensive. I've gotten reduced price American Eagle jeans from Value City a couple times. So I'd check there. This is a hard question because even though the type of jean may be durable it doesn't mean it'll fit you right. I think your best bet would be to invest in jeans from Aero or American Eagle though. I haven't had good luck with jeans from PacSun though. They're really nice the first time I wear them but after they're washed they shrink a lot and feel weird. A higher price doesn't mean higher quality.
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I met this guy at my dads friends party. i liked him ever sense i saw him he was soo cute but i didnt REALLY like him till he was talking to my dads friends son and i saw his personality, a bit. then we started talking and i liked him RIGHT away. soon he had to leave but i asked for his number and he asked for mine. soo long story short whenever i talked to him from then it allways made me soo happy and in such a good mood he would waste his time talking to me. but you know i was allways cool about it i never called him to much or text him to much just like once in three days or whatevr cause i didnt want to get annoying. but i felt annoying when he didnt talk to me for a long while. so i decided to lay off about a week l8tr without talking to him i felt so bad i accualy screwed it up with this guy [i was THAT insucure]and accualy cried overnight. worst night ever over me not even talking to him! then i called him mad i thought i DONT deserve this! im gonna call him and figger out what the heck is going on cause he never calls me back, imagine that he didnt pick up. the next day though he texted me, and we talked and i was happy. the day after that i called and we talked. then stopped till i texted him a few days l8tr. now a few daays ago i talked to him and as allways i felt great talking to him, we talked about everything, and his friend was there too and he accualy flirted with me then . ALOT. he would tell me i was hott and whatnot and that he wanted to see me, stuff like that . i asked him why he hasnt returned my calls. his friend yelled out CAUSE HES LAZY! and he laughed on that. afew days later called again, you get the picture. i feel it keeps going over and over he have a GREAT time talking then he dissapears on me. he gets me all happy but know later i will get in a bad mood feeling i did somthing wrong cause he never returns texts. i dont know, is he just not into me or not much of a talker or what ? i like him soo much and think of him every day. he seems into me on the phone but after that nothing. but hey if he says hell call me that night in a few he will that must count for somthing. please advice !
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Guys are weird like this. He might really like you but he might not want to seem desperate and continuously call you like you want him to. It doesn't seem like he's not that much of a talker cause you said you've had really good conversations with him. I'd plan more dates with him. Talk to him more in person. It might make him feel a little more comfortable on the phone. And let him know that you like to talk to him on the phone. If he likes you and knows that you like his phone calls then he should call more.
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im having real boyfriend issues lately. my boyfriend and I have been together for little over a year. For the first 7 months everything was perfeectly wonderful, until he broke up with me for 3 weeks. Reason being he wanted to get his schooling in order and caught up and what not, and a relationship wasn't what he wanted. It sucked but I knew I had to eventually accept it. But after the first week of being apart, we had drivers Ed together, and we were spending a lot of time with eachother. Then it didnt seem like we were apart. We acted the same behind closed doors and on the phone. It was nice but so confussing. It confussed him really bad too cause he knew what he had to do, but knew that it was soo hard for us to stay apart. We ended up getting back together because he realized the whole thing was pointless. But ever since we have, things slowly have changed between us.
Within the past few months we've been fighting a lot. It all started with him inviting his friend over to work out at his house for two freaking hours while I was there. At the time we werent able to see eachother very much b/c my parents found out we were havin sex. So I'm thinking why would he spend time doing other things while I'm there when we hardly get to see eachother? he totally didn't consider that, or how I felt, and just did what he wanted.
then a couple weeks later I was over there again. I didnt have to leave until 9pm. Well he gets a call from his friends inviting him over to the movies @ 7:30. So basically he wanted to go, and if he went I would have to leave really early. I'm not one to tell my boyfriend he can't do something. I don't feel right about it because I'm not a controlling girlfriend. I would just hope he would consider how it would make me feel. Well his mom helped us talk it out and we compromised me going home at 830 and he being an hour late to the movies. BFD. But still..it's like..the thought of him ditching me to go hang out with his friends, sucks. Without his mom I would've gone home early. Espically when its cutting into our time of hanging out when my parents were all weird about us having sex.
After a while after we worked through things, a few weeks later it just got worse. Me and him were planning on going to a football game. It was the first time we were going to be able to hang out without supervision. I didn't care about the game at first, but when I found out we were playing our rival and I had never seen us play against them, I really wanted to go becfore I graduate this year. I got home and called him, and all I got to say was Hi before he asked me if I wanted to go to the movies with him and his friends. NO I DIDNT WANT TO GO, I wanted to go to the game. He tried to make me decide but in a qay he was emphasising how he wanted to go to the movies instead and how the game didnt interest him at all. But I told him that i had planned on going to the game and I wanted him to go with me. Then he finally decided to say he'd go to the game, but he said it in one of those ways where they make it seem like you're making them do something so horrible, and then afterwards you just don't care anymore. So I said fuck it. I told him that I wouldn't go to either one and I was just going to stay home. He said he really felt bad and probably wouldn't go out either. I ended up going out to dinner with my family (which is different then hanging out with friends). I came home and called him only to find out that he did end up going to the movies. It hurt my feelings because he just went and did whatever he wanted, and he knew it hurt my feelinggs that he completely ditched me and time to hang out with me for his friends, who he sees all the time. My feelings were really hurt, which is when I started to consider breaking up with him. I told him that he was being really selfish and he wasn't considering my feelings. I told him no mater what he was always my #1, but I felt like he was his own #1 and I was #2.
I'm trying really hard with himlately. But I can't help that in the back of my mind I feel like I shouldn't waist my time anymore. He slips up here and there with me, but now I'm starting to notice his selfishness in his relationships with his mom and friends. And now thats starting to make me think even more about if this is worth it or not. Within the last 2 years I've grown up a lot, and he hasn't at all. I ned him to be on my level, but I don't want to let him go. I do really care about him and how he does in life. I just want whats best for him. I don't want him to grow up just for me, but for himself. Today I talked to him about everything. And he seems to be wanting to make changes. He's really confident about it, and he never has been before. I just hope hes not talking out of his ass like he normally does. I really hope he grows up, because otherwise he's going to learn the hard way. And I realyl don't want that. I dont want to break up with him, and I don't want him to ruin his life. (link)
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I think it would be a good idea if you guys took a break for a little while. I think the whole idea of you two dating is putting a lot of pressure on both of you because you both feel like you have to spend a lot of time with each other. It seems like it's almost forced. And I know you care about him, but I think it would be for the best. When you guys were apart it seemed like you two got along just fine. I'd keep it like that for a while longer and then see if you're ready to take it to the next level again. Maybe you should wait until you feel he's matured a little more.
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okay i am going out with a guy named alex and i used to call my last boyfriend jeremy, jer. so i was wondering is there any thing like AT ALL that i can get from alex. and i kno i can call him babe and baby. but i want like something for his name (alex!). like i had for jer. (jeremy!) mmkay. thanks in advancee! :D (link)
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Lex sounds pretty cool. Or combine the first two letters of his first and last name if it sounds cool. Like some guys are called JT or AJ. Just plain A sounds cool too.
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Ok.. there is this guy in one of my classes that i thought was really hot. I never really had the courage to talk to him but then i got over my little shy thing and started talking to him on aim. I sent him pictures of me like naked and he sent me a picture of his .. you know lol. We started hanging out and I really like him now. I gave him head.. and he wanted to have sex [hes a virgin] but we didn't have time so i told him know. He says that he likes me and I like him too. I want to date but im not going to ask him out. Anyway he IMed me like 20 minutes ago saying he wanted to ask me a question but didnt want me to take it personal. Well asked me if I'm looking to be in a relationship with him and I told him i dont know i was like " I really like you, and I would date you but I'm not going to be here like oh my god we need to date" he told me thats good because right now he doesnt want a girlfriend because of drama.. and then hes like no that you cause drama.. im like ok hes like dont like when they are all clingy and then hes like not that your clingy.. and all this other stuff. Oh ya thens hes like I dont want to get tied down to one girl.. not that im like a man whore.. and then hes like but i really do like you i just dont want to be in a relationship right now they make me feel weird.. and all this other stuff. What should I do at this point? Should I just hangout with him and get him to like me or and more till the point he asks me out.. or do u think it will even get like that? (link)
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I think there might be a possibility of you two getting into a relationship in the future. I'd still hang out with him and maybe try and show him how great it is to be in a relationship. I wouldn't get sexual with him though because then he's definitely using you.
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I REALLY hate my stupid mom right now!!!!!!!! Ok, well I wanted to spend the night at my friend (g's) house. Problem is, she has 2 cats and im allergic to them. And everytime I ask to go over to her house, she says no she has cats! And all my friends have cats!!! so I can never spend the night any where because my mom is stupid!! Help *sniff* (link)
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First of all, your mom is not stupid. She just doesn't want you to get sick. I have friends who are allergic to my cats and we just put him in a separate room whenever she comes over. Ask your friends if they could do that and then you'd have nothing to worry about.
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i have a guy that i love soooooooo much, for 2 years now, iwould do absolutly anything for him. i pretty much have giving up my entire llife for him... i stayed in town when i had offers to move away and have everything paided for me,have all my expenses paided for me, to basically life for free while i went to school... but i passed it all up to stay here for a guy.. who isnt even my boyfriend..., he says he loves me..but he never proves it or even acts like it... he is not my boyfriend but more like a friend but more... well i have come to realize after 2 years that he and i will never be more.. even though i pray for it! but i will not be ignorant anymore.... nowi really do love him so much and cant imagine my life without him... but lately i have been thinking maybe i should take up the offers to go to school in another place... to get away.. to start over... forget about him and find someone that will love me the way i should be loved.... but i dont know..im afirad to leave him... do you think i should stay here with the boy i love so much even though i know we will never be "real", or should i move and start over and get a real life.. and start being happy... (link)
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It doesn't sound like this guy cares about you very much. I'd leave him. And I know you love him a lot, but he's probably not for you if he doesn't even care. Even though it'll be hard I think you should move on. Go to another school, start fresh. But just because you're moving away from him doesn't mean you still can't talk to him. Email him or call him once in a while. If you move away he might realize that he really does care.
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i have lots of little dark scars were spots and pimples used to be on my face. How do i make them go away or at least less visible permanently??
i also have a few lines of stretch marks on my hips...how do i make them less visible???
Plz dont suggest any laser treatment or you know, something really expensive. I live in england by the way. London to be precise.
thankz
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I have the same problem with my face my dermatologist gave me specific medicine to help get rid of the scars. I don't think there's anything you can put on your face that would make the scars go away. I'd go see a dermatologist, they know what's best for your face. And if you need coverage right away just use makeup.
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I have a permanent tooth that is mildly loose. I can wiggle it side to side a little. When the orthodonist was moving the tooth into place, it was running into another tooth. I think the gum roots were getting damaged or something. Do you think over time the tooth won't be as loose and won't wiggle as much? (link)
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I think it's going to be loose like that forever. I don't see how it could stop being loose unless that's what your dentist told you. I think you should contact your orthodontist, he'll most likely know what to do.
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One of my teachers told us that we should be saving our work from every year. Do you think we should? Why? & For what grades? Like, does middle school work even matter? Thanks :) (link)
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I save all my stuff from the beginning of the year to the end but once the year is over I usually toss it. The only reason I save all my stuff is for the end of year exams, mid terms, etc. And if you're in middle school I honestly don't think you'll ever look back on your work.
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ok for gym, i mean i suck. like im so confused. i have no idea what i'm doing half the time. i just suck. i freak out if i break a nail. i mean, i guess i say omg alot. thats just who i am. and i like it like that. i dont like sports. i never have. but everyone in gym like freaks out when i like miss the ball or something. & some people can be really mean. i mean its gym. its not like were going to some championship game.
what can i do? or say to them? (link)
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I understand why you don't think it's a big deal but a lot of kids are really into sports and do take it seriously. Which sucks, I know. I'm not a big sports person either. The only thing I can suggest is to just try. I think the other kids will be less mean to you if you show a little effort.
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I lose EVERYTHING. I have lost my retainer twice, forget books everyday, lost a 6k gold necklace at the beach, my cell phone, my keys, homework, everything. I am sick of looking through my bag, and getting that feeling of dread because I know that what I'm looking for is not there. I lost my iPod video somewhere today, and I nearly threw up. I have good days all the time until I look and... it's not there. I wish all the time, pray, list, and hope that I won't lose things. I just got that iPod, and I made an oath to myself that I would never lose it. I feel hot, sick and terrible about myself. I feel as if as soon as everything is going right for me, I lose it. Literally. I am smart, pretty and not a klutz, but I lose everything; gifts, personal purchases, etc. I lost a tennis bracelet that my aunt gave me, and barfed and cried for hours and hours and wouldn't speak to anyone. I just don't know what to do anymore since I know that everyone tries to give me everything I want, and as soon as I have it, I lose it. I feel awful, and just don't know what to do. Any help PLEASE!? I feel like I'm trapped in this little bubble of nothingness. (link)
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I just want to say that I know exactly how you feel. I'm a very unorganized person and I lose things just like you except not as often. Last year I lost my cellphone and my dad got so mad at me and I felt terrible so I know what you're going through. The only thing I can suggest is to just be more organized. Make a place for all of your stuff and be sure to always put your things in the right place so that you always know where it is. Also I wouldn't get so worked up about losing things. It's not worth it to make yourself sick over it. I think that causes you to be even more nervous about losing more things. Next time you lose something just take a deep breath and try to re-trace your steps and ask a friend or family member for help if you still can't find it.
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Do you guys think its weird for 16 year olds to go trick-or-treating? I dont do it to steal candy from little kids, I do it because I am a kid at heart lol and its fun! PLUS ITS FREE CANDY! But some people give me weird looks when I knock on their door and say "Trick-Or-Treat!" I guess its because I look like I'm about 20. Several houses last year gave me just one piece. But I dunno if they did that to everyone or JUST me. So my question is this: Do you think there should be an age limit to trick-or-treating? Why or Why not? (link)
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I think you should stop trick-or-treating when you're in college. When you're in high school I consider you still being a kid. A lot of kids in high school want to act older and that's why a lot of them don't trick or treat at your age. But I'm like you, I'm a kid at heart, and I don't think there's anything wrong with that!
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14/f nikita if u wouldent mind...
welll its sorta a longish story
well i went to this art work shop for school
and it was so fun
but i met this guy named peter
he was so funny
but long story short
we now chat on msn heaps
and we have seen eachother after the art works shop as friends
but think i really like him and i dont know what o do
coz' i dont want to ruin our frindship
but i dont want to see him taken away by another girl
HELP ME PLEASE!!!
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I would first do little things to show him that you're interested in him. Flirt with him a little. And if he flirts back then that's definitely a good sign. Compliment him and even if he'd like to hang out with you during the weekend. Then when you're ready you should tell him how you feel. You never know, he might tell you he likes you first!
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