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how do you calculate your period, like if i got it today will i get another one in 28 days or will i get it 28 days after it ends? (link)
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You will get at least one every month.
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Okay i went out with a guy and he broke up with me!!! I still love him and i know for a fact that he wants to ask me out again!!! But ive developed a crush for one of my best friends who i really think likes me hes always staring at me (especialy my eyes) I dont know what to do or who i like more (link)
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Who do you trust more?
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okay, well its not likea medical problem or anything its just that well, i havent had a boyfriend for a LONG time.. its been about 1 year and a couple months.. thats a LONG time.. and i mean ive talked to guys and ive hooked up with them but i dk i think that there might be like a physical issue or something might be wrong with the way i act.. i mean i have lots of guy friends so i dont think its my personality.. i thin its more of the physical .. i dont think its my face because i have a pretty cute face but i think its because i weigh a little more than most girls, i wouldnt call myself huge but im up there im about 135 lbs.. but i dk can you just tell me what to do.. i think that guys would be able to help me more with my problem.. i need to know how guys really look for girls.. ((personality or looks)) PLEASE HELP (link)
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Personality and looks matter quite a lot but your social status in the school matters more.
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There is this guy, at my church and I also work with him,that I really like, and I think he likes me too. I don't know why I think this, but It's just a girls hunch. He and I skated together for like an hour one night at a church lock in. That isn't really a sign, but I wished it was. My friend bein retarted one day asked him if he would ever go out with me. I'm not sure how to take all this, but I'm gonna go crazy. Any one have any advice on what you think, or what you think I should do to find out. (link)
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Let him know how you feel and maybe he will make his move.
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Can an exes really be friends after a break-up that neither one knows why it ended? I need straight to the point answers (link)
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Yes you can still be friends but it might become harder for you and the other person when you both get a boyfriend and girlfriend.
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15 y.o. freshman girl. So, I've liked this guy for just a couple of weeks now. He sits next to me in one of my classes, but he usually didn't talk to me that much. But lately he's been talking to me more frequently. Today, we practically talked the entire period because we had a substitute and she just gave us busy work, so we didn't get in trouble. He even grabbed my knee and held on for about a minute or two, which surprised me. About a month ago, my friend told me he liked some girl that went to another school, but maybe he's over her? Should I pursue him? Was he flirting, or does he just want to be friends? (link)
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I think that he was just playing with you but i think that you should make it clear to him that you have feelings for him.
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I'm 14/f and my boyfriend is 16/m. We got together pretty recently and things have been going great so far. But I've been having a problem dealing with his past. Sometimes I'll come across a picture of him drunk with a bunch of girls and it bothers me, but I know he didn't do anything with them besides maybe hooking up. (For the record, he doesn't drink at all like he used to and won't do it unless I'm there) Yet it still drives me insane to see those pictures on his friends sites. He isn't afraid to call a girl hot,(example being Tila Tequila) but I know he's kidding because when other guys talk about girls being hot or whatever, I'll go "Oh yeah, shes so hot" in a sacastic tone. Hes just doing it back jokingly to make me sound like a lesbian. Just the fact that hes calling another girl hot makes me jealous though. He knows I'd go insane if I ever foundout he was cheating or anything, but I just don't like thinking about that he probably thinks of other girls sometimes. I just don't know how to deal with that fact that all guys checkout every girl they see. Any advice? :/ (link)
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If he was open and honest with you about his past then he has no worrys about getting drunk again and being with other women.
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What do you do when you have a boyfriend who you love and you have been goign out for 5 1/2 months but you statrt to fall for your best friend and your best friend likes you?
I think I'm starting to fall for my best friend who I am always with and I know I flirt with him. He likes me too but the problem is I have a boyfriend. I feel like each of them has one of my arms and they are both tugging away and I can't decide whos hand I want to let go of because I don't want them to fall.
What Should I Do?
~Confused in Love (link)
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If you have known your best friend for longer and trust him more then i say go for it, its a very difficult descison but you can't have both so you have to choose.
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I've gone on 2 dates with this guy who's still in the closet. He's never been in a relationship and we've kissed and made out and did other sensual things, not sex. I asked him if he wanted to go out and do something with me next week and his response was, "maybe" I asked him why "maybe" and he said, "well I could be going on a date next week." I was like, "oh okay that's cool, keeping your options open."
He's like, "yeah" "are you okay with that?" I was like, "not really, but I don't want to act like i'm too attached." then I ask, "would you be okay if I went on a date with another guy between then and now?" he said, "yeah, i'm not clingy." Okay, now analyze this and asnwer this question. What's the difference between being clingy, and acting interested? In my mind, him saying that he might be on a date with another person between then and now, shows that he's not interested in me. And second, isn't it rude anyway to tell the person who you've gone out with two dates on that you might be going on a date with someone else? please help, this frustrates me. (link)
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He sounds like he's messing you about because obviously you must of been in some kind of a relationship and he abused that by seeing someone else without actually breaking up with you.
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Is there any way you can be pregnant and still get your next period? If so, how can you tell the difference between this and a regular period? I heard that one girl was actually pregnant for like 3 months and didnt know cause she had been getting "fake periods". Could this happen to me? I'm not sure if I am pregnant. I still have to wait like a week and a half before i can take a pregnancy test. I'm supposed to be getting my period any day now or I could even be a few days late. I'm really stressing out over this. I dont want to get my period and think that I'm not pregnant and then 3 months later find out I am. Is this true?? (link)
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Don't worry wait until a couple of days after your period is meant to come.
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if you dont go to school with him youve known him for a bout 2 years and its tonight... (link)
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Say i have feelings for you other then friendship.
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Well this girl I work with has been friends with me for the time I've worked there, which is almost a year. I have a boyfriend I have been dating for a year and a half. Now me and him had some hard times when I first started working there. Note: He works with me too. But things are better now and that is ironically causing the problem. My friend was always wanting me and him to break up. Her reasons were that she thought he is an ass and is going to do nothing but hurt me. He is very flirtatious and she goes to school with him and has supposedly seen him flirt with other girls. She likes to think of herself as a watch out for me, since I dont go to his school, and cant see what he does when I'm not around. Problem is... I never asked her to do that, and everything she tries to bring to my attention is something not worth making a big deal in the first place. Like this girl I know he is friends with put her arm around him and walked him to class and he told me about it. Later that night at work she goes up to me and says, "Your boyfriend had this girl ALL over him." I asked her to elaborate and she was said that she had her arm around him and that I should watch out. I was completely annoyed because it wasn't even a big deal and it seems like she is out to break us up. Maybe she is just jealous that I have someone... or maybe she feels like we don't hang out much because I have a boyfriend. Whatever the case, what should I do about this because I am sick and tired of her trying to get me all upset over stuff between me and him that isnt even a big deal. I'm a senior this year and then my boyfriend and me are moving after highschool, so we both don't need to deal with all this high school drama. Should I stop being friends with her? Should I confront her? If so, what should I say? I don't want to start anything because I work with her, so if I say something it has to be discreet and to the point. Any suggestions?
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Say to her thanks for looking out for me and making sure he isn't cheating but i trust him 100% and i know he wouldn't cheat on me (tell her that if you trust him).
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my man and i have been dating for three years. I have caught him lying a few times about where he has been. One time he took his son to a concert 30 miles away. Problem, I called him to ask where he was, he said he didnt want to drive all the way back home so he was going to go hang out at a bar and wait. I said ok,well he came home and the next morning i found a receipt on his dresser it was for a restaurant, I yelled and he admitted he never went to a bar he hung out in a mall and ran into a former female coworker and they just caught up, my suspicion is he set up a meeting all along, i forgave him and moved on. A year later, he was supposed to meet his son at the mall to buy him a pair of shoes. When he got home he smelled of cig smoke. i asked him if his son got a good deal, he said yes, i left it at that, the next day I ran into his son, i asked him if the he liked the new shoes, he said he never met his dad there. I confronted my b/f and he said he waited there for him but he never showed, asked him why he smelled like smoke, he said cuz he went to get a sub and friends of his were smoking outside while talking to him.LIE?one week ago, he got a suspicious phone call, told a total lie about who it was, turned out to be ex.girl. He said he had been talking as friends for a while. Bt he couldnt tell me cuz I'm so jealous! Also I found out in the beginning of "us" he was taping us having sex. I told him no more, he said ok, last week I found a new tiny camera set up.OOPS, he also secretly taped other girls and i told him to get rid of the tapes, he said he did, When I did laundry one day the drawer came out a little too far, there were the tapes!!! He is caring and sensitive and supportive otherwise, why do guys do this???????helppppp (link)
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I say leave him because he can't be trusted and any relationship is based on trust.
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well, i lke someone ALOT and they used to like me but they got a girlfriend and we got into a fight over that and then we were gonna talk about it but that never ended up happening and so im really frustrated that we never got to talk about him haveing a girlfriend but what i just found out that made my frustration worse is that i found out that he broke up with his girlfriend and now is trying to get with one of my close friends.. i dont know what to do... someone help (link)
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I would talk to him and tell him how you feel if you don't want to do that then make sure your friends know you fancy him then maybe they won't go out with him.
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ok so i had sex with my boyfriend two days after my period and three days after i stated birth cotrol. It was my first time and he didnt use a condom. im on my 13th day on the pill now and we had sex about 5 other times, only once with a condom. i never bleed and i didnt feel or hear my cherry pop so i dont think it did. im so scared that i am pregnant and i dont know what to do. (link)
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You should have been more careful but i wouldn't worry, if you are pregnant then you should be making plans about the baby.
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Hi, what are some cute, flirty things a girl can whisper, or say to a boy? They need to be super cute and flirty. I really don't know what to say anymore, but I want to start flirting better and stuff. I know how to flirt, I just want to be BETTER, and say cuter things. ANYTHING will help. PLEASE tell me what some things I could say are! THANK YOU! (link)
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Top tips for flirting are:
1. dangle your shoe off your foot where a guy can say it
2. in general when you talk to a guy whisper or talk quietly up close
3. Sexy smiles all the time or mysterious smiles
It doesn't really matter what you say its how you say it.
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i just made a question and now i get that girls can ask guys out but now how do we ask them out in a cute way i guess? specific kinda please? 13/f and ill see him again friday (link)
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There isn't a specific way of doing it but trust me guys like confident girls who ask them out in person say 'do you want to go bowling some time?' etc.
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Ok: 20 yr old guy, kinda likes 19 yr old girl. what is the best way to ask out if said guy is shy for the following reasons: 1-He has not had much luck in this area ever. 2-Unsure of how girl will react(Will she laugh, think i am dumb etc...).
This is slightly confusing, some outside opinions would be appreciated.
Thanks. (link)
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Have a party and invite her so then it won't look like you are singling her out from everyone else then get chatting and then say "would you like to go bowling sometime?" something along those lines.
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I had my period almost two years ago and I nevr developed. No size increase in my breasts, no curves, just growing hair and that's it. Other girls in my class had their period this year and they already developed (and I would be lying if I didn't say that boy's are starting to get attention form their breasts). I don't think it's the normal "you're just a slow developer" because that's way to long to not develope anything and I'm too scared to talk to my doctor about it because he's a guy. Do you think it's a serious problem and that it'll effect my body in a bad way like getting cancer or something? Yes, stupid question but I'm serious. (link)
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Don't worry about it all you need to do is have a balanced diet and regular excersize because it increase's growth.
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I was on hear a couple months ago.. but for those of you who didnt read it:
Last year this boy jake, popular, smart, nice, everything you would want in a guy, and me started talking a lot and we became good friends during school. i'm not hugely popular, like i have a ton of friends, and i am friends with a bunch of people who are considered 'popular' but i wouldnt be considered that. weelll iin january of my freshman year( last year) he asked me to daance at the semi, which i was really surprised by, because i kind of liked him but i would never guess he would ask me to dance.. well when he found out i liked him the rest of the year we didnt really talk much, and it bummed me out. This summer i started going out with this kid mike, who was kind of an asshole and we broke up a couple weeks ago, but since the year started jake has been talking to me a lot again. Like for example, hes in my spanish class, and he purposly switch seats with his friend so he could be next to me, and hes always talking to me and writing me notes and things.. like yesterday he hung up a sign that said 'marry me ashlee' and like i really like jake, ive liked him for a while, i just dont want to get myself hurt again, his birthday is tomorow, should i do anything? and besides the birthday, do you have any advice for me on what hes doing, if he likes me or not...?
thanks so much, i really appreciate any opinions, guys and girls
--ashlee :) (link)
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I would just give him a card but don't tell him you don't like him as boyfriend yet wait until aftr his birthday, jake does like you but he doesn't know how to express his feelings get him alone and explain how you feel.
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