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Help out someone down on their luck?
Ok: 20 yr old guy, kinda likes 19 yr old girl. what is the best way to ask out if said guy is shy for the following reasons: 1-He has not had much luck in this area ever. 2-Unsure of how girl will react(Will she laugh, think i am dumb etc...).
This is slightly confusing, some outside opinions would be appreciated.
Thanks.
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i think your a big boy and shes a big girl and she should probably be past the ha ha your dumb stage. just ask her out. if she doesnt like you,im sure youll find someone who does.if shes 18 or older then age doesnt matter. there is nothing confusing about it..you like her your shy. you dont know if she likes you. so just say hey how would you feel about going on a date with me..then shell give a response and youll take it as that..its happening all over the world everyday and its nothing new.
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Don't worry! I'm 19, my boyfriend is 20, and we were in the same situation pretty much.
Do you know the girl well? Is she a friend? Or even just an acquaintance? Try hanging out with her more often, and incorporate special things into it. For instance, I was just hanging out as friends with the guy I'm now dating, and he started inviting me over for dinners that he cooked himself, and when we watched movies, he started putting his arm around me. Asking a girl out doesn't necessarily mean you have to flat-out ask her... if she seems uncomfortable with the attention, then back off a little.
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luck can change, trust me. he might miss out on the chance to ask her out if he waits forever. he cant be afraid of what she`ll say/do. he needs to just take the plunge and do it, or he`ll never know what might have happened.
-missadvicebitch1
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Have a party and invite her so then it won't look like you are singling her out from everyone else then get chatting and then say "would you like to go bowling sometime?" something along those lines.
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