about

Heyloooo. I'm really not that cool. lol. Ask me anything though! I'm 13 but I'm good at answering love life questions. I can answe ranything you throw at me.
Well anyway, about me.... HmMmMMmmm. My name is Rachel, Rach or Rachee for short. I like the band Yellowcard so0o0o0o much they rock ass. I also like Taking back sunday, The Used, Boys Like Girls andSimple Plan etc.... My favorite books are Hana Kimi ( it's manga. I haven't finished the series so don't tell me what happens!!!!!!!!) I also like Chobits. I am a hugeeeeeee fan of the video game kingdom hearts! I'm in love with Axel!! "Got it memorized?" Lmao! Yeah I'm pretty dorky. I like basket ball. I play a foward, sometimes a guard. I enjoy skateboarding too. I have to teach myself though! Lol I suck at it. (don't take my advice on that lol) I also am praticing to be a catcher for softball. Oh and if you haven't noticed I'm a girl! HAhahahahaaa. Yeah, my 'label' is probably punk or scene. I hate stupid preps who are like I'm emo, meanwhile they are in a f---in' pink miniskirt with their stupid blech blonde hair and obnoxious laugh. Lol. Just don't be something your not around me !! I hate that! Oh yeah and boys-- I'm single!!! jkjkjk lolololol. WEll I am single (=[).... BUT NOT FOR LONG!!!! I've got my eye on someone lolol. Anyway I've been through alot SO ask me anythanggg

I have exprienced:
Being bullied.
Death of a friend(s)/ Family member(s).
Losing friends.
Horrible teahcers.
Crazy Mom.
Crazy Siblings (I have six older ones. I should know.LMFAO)
Peer pressure.
And a bunch of other stuff I just can't think of right now HAHahhahahahahahahaha lol I love you!!
Rachee

advice

Can somebody give me a list of songs that will make me feel better about a break-up. A song that says: I dont need you, you cheated on me, im better off without you.

thanks i need to feel better...

Should have said no-Taylor Swift
Before he Cheats- Carrie Underwood
Dateline (i am gone)- Yellowcard
Time to say Goodbye- Simple Plan
Since U been Gone- Kelly Clarkson
I Can Do Btter -Avril Lavinge

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ok, so i know im not the only one, but i cant seem to bring myself to walk out of my house without eyeliner on. thing is, i wish/want to go without makeup since i am young (16) and i know i look good without it except for some pimples but i am working on clearing up my face completely, anyway thats besides the point. my question is how do you look amazing without makeup because i see girls doing it and i want to too! its healthier for skin and keeps you younger longer. also I tried not wearing any eyeliner once before and everyone commented on how tired i looked! so i need tips on looking good without makeup...thanks!!! =)

Just make sure your face is moizturized (so you have a nice even tone and not red cheeks and different colors and stuff.) and no acne ( which you are working on. =]). That's how the other girls do that. Make sure you lips are chapped so wear some chap stick that you can't see when you put it on. Oh, another good thing is a bright smile! =]]]]]

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Okay so I'm trying to lose weight, and I weighed myself Sunday when I started and weighed 120. To start the diet I drank lost of water and worked out, then today (Wednesday), I weighed myself at 130!
So whats wrong with me?!?
How could I gain 10 lbs. In a day only drinking water and working out?
Is it water weight?
Do you have any good ab excersizes?
Thanks :)
14/f

If you only drink water and barely eat here is what happens.
You skip breakfast then eat lunch and have no dinner. Your body holds on to the lunch fat because it doesn't know the next time when you are going to eat. Starving yourself is a bad idea. Sorry if I sound a little harsh. Just have a healthy diet. and excersize. Sorry I didn't answer your question directly but you really should eat. =]]]]]

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What are some good songs about a best friends, who like each other, and they want it to be more?

I really like any type of music. But acoustic or anything soft is preferable.

Thanks!

Thunder by Boys like Girls.
Just so you know by Jesse McCartney.
Hey there Delilah by Plain white T's.
Simple and Clean by Utada Hikaru.
Shrink the World by YellowCard.


Hope i helped! =]]]]]]]

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Okay So there is this kings island trip next week, for all the people in academics. My bff trent is in it & so am I . SO we were both going to go. Our academic coach said we could bring 1 friend, so I picked my other bff brooke. My mom said I could go. Filled out my permision sheet and that was that. about an hour later Brooke called & said she couldn't go, (family thing) but that was okay. Trent was still going, and I was still excited! BUT when I broke that news to my mom she said i couldn't go, because brooke wasn't going. AND she didn't want me to be with a guy, aka trent the entire time. IT"S SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO UNFAIR> OMG ugh. it makes me soooooooo MAD!!! HELP what do i do to change her mind?

Tell your mom that are gunna be a ton of kids and chaperones, an you probably won't even hang out with trent. =]]]]]] ( of course you can hang out with him,, just don't tell your momma. Not telling you to lie. Just stretch the truth. Try hanging out in a group with a few other kids (who r girls) so your mom want freak out.)

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Is there any harm of using Windex (or any kind of window/glass/whatever cleaner) on your teeth??

Not so much sparying it on, but putting it on my tooth brush and rubbing it in.
And..not swallowing??

Not a good idea. It could make you seriously sick. Like you could end up in the hospital. It's toxic. Please don't do it.

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15/m i don't know if i'm gay or not, but i'm sort of leaning towards being gay... i don't know what to do with myself.. i don't know if i should find someone and get things straight, or if i should wait for someone to show up... what should i do?

Chase after whom ever you like. You might even be bi. Just trust your heart!It's okay if your gay or bi. Don't worry over it, you'll find the right man or woman.

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what are some good bands that are kind of simmilar to all time low, we the kings, powerspace....that kind of stuff.

Some good bands are
-Yellowcard.
-Flyleaf.
-Simple Plan.
-Boys like Girls.
-Taking Back Sunday.
-The Used.
-Panic at the Disco.
-Fall Out boy.
Anything in the alternative genre. =]]]]]]

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i have a terrible, litterally HORRIBLE case of stage fright. no its not just a little bit of fear its extreme. when i have to give speeches no matter how well practiced they are i shake. like litterally i will we standing there and my voice and whole body will be shaking. its weird since im fine with being outgoing and talkative but speeches are such a problem. i cannot calm down. nothing works. i have a big 10 minute speech i am going to have to make in front of 40 kids next week and i was wondering if anyone has any useful tips. like is there technique? any drug i can get from my doctor? its our final grade and i need to ace it but it is all about presentation and voice inflection and eyecontact... which i stink at! so pleasee.. help a girl out:)

Just relax around people. Really when you're making a speech. They won't care that much if you stutter on a word. lol. For eye contact, if looking a person in the eye is going to make you nervous look at the top of there heads. For voice inflection, speak slowly... not like hill billy slow, just like you are having a casual convo. =] Good luck =]]]]

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I can't believe I'm asking this but..


I have extreme insecurity issues about my weight and my breast. I'm about 295 lbs I'm 5'9 and a big boned girl. However when I look myself in the mirror I see saggy breast.. and a big belly.. a saggy butt etc...I'm constantly thinking about "OMG what if I ever meet a nice guy and everything...and he makes fun of me when he see's me naked.." If someone ever did that too me my heart would drop and I would probably cry my eyes out etc.. I dont' know how to get over it. I walk everyday, drink water and eat less etc but I am sooooo worried about getting rejected because of the way I look.. I mean I'm 22 years old and I have a body of a 60 year old.

-BahaiMa22...

Don't worry about guys. They wouldn't do that and if they did, then they just aren't the right one for you. If you are really intrested in losing weight, then try Curves for Women. Find out if there is one around. I would say just go to a gym, but Curves has a nice friendly invorment. Good Luck!!! =]]]]]]]

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13/f
ok so im the person who posted that question about friend C who called me a B****. She asked me if i wanted to start over with her, you know our friendship. the thing is im scared that if i say yes, then i will have to suffer all her insults and stuff again. i think shes just taking advantage of me, although most of the times shes actually pretty nice and you know friendly, but to be honest ill tell her stuff that obviously are secrets and she tells her cousin nd bro. i dont know what to say really. can somebody help me out by giving me the good and bad stuff if i say yes and no. and then give me your opinion on which i should choose? please be quick, i need the answer by tomorrow!!! thanks so much. and i might seem pretty stupid not seeing all the bad nor good stuff, but i feel really blind. i want to make sure i didnt miss anything. thankx again!

You can be friends with her, just DONT tell her any confidential info, like all your secrets. If you she already hurt you once theres a chance she will do it again. So be friends, but not BEST friends.

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17/f. I really really like a guy at school who is in one of my classes. I've never talked to him before and I don't know him but I really like him :S

It's so bad because I feel really uncomfortable around him and I am really shy and everything. The worst thing is anytime the teacher asks me a question or I have to say something in class I get totally embarrassed and I'm pretty sure I go completely red and I am so embarrassed and I absolutely hate it, this has never happened to me before and I don't know what to do.

Help?

Don't worry so much. Everybody makes mistakes. People are just people, if you mess up they probabyl won't even notice or remember. Just be yourself. Don't get all nervous.

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what are positions a short girl on a basketball team would play? and what does taht position do?

Mostly a guard. They are the main player pretty much. If you are a good dribbler then you might be point guard, that's the person who normally gets the ball like when people on your team are in trouble they pass it to you and you either pass or shoot it. If you are the other guard, then you just help the main guard.

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Why do people drink if it tastes so bad?

I personally think it tastes disgusting, like I'm drinking some sort of household cleaner. Do they just not care and suck it up I guess?

Or why do YOU drink? (if you do)

I don't drink but....
Some people actually like the taste and others drink it to be cool. Sometimes people even just do it to get drunk so they don't remember the stress in their life. Drinking is not a good idea. It only causes problems. Hope I helped =]]]]

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good songs and bands ?

i like atl, wtk, ftsk, mayday parade, rocket summer, the spill canvas, dashboard confessional etc.

if you have anything like that its appretiated :]

Some good bands like that are Yellowcard, Taking Back Sunday, and Flyleaf, Boys like Girls (they sound teenie bopper but they are really good.), And Simple Plan is purtty good.

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i have 4 beauty marks. one on my finger, on on my knee, one on my upper, inner left thigh, and one above my left areola. do guys think its gross to have one on my thigh and abouve the areola?? their not like bumps, its just like a spot on the skin.

The shouldn't. If they do then they aren't the right guy. Besides they are beauty marks.... lol BEAUTY =]]]]]]

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Well naturally, my hair is curly, but it doesn't look too nice (it's not frizzy..it just curls weird :P)
I usually half straighten it so it looks a bit wavyish, but now since it's the summer, I want my hair to be WAVY. (my hair is like this:
http://www.yaffawigsoutlet.com/images/164WAVY%2010-6-8%20002_edited.jpg but shorter with more layers...
and I'd like something similar to this:
http://i68.photobucket.com/albums/i18/doonohits/kate-hudson.jpg )
How could I do this, without too many hair products?
Btw, my hair is shoulder length, with layers and side bangs.

Any ideas?
Thanks!

I think your hair is really purtty, but if you want it like that, just brush it a little and put in a little hairspray. This makes your curls not as big and softer like the second picture. =]]]]]

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13/f My best friend, lets call her A, has really been using me and lying to me. She always apologizes afterwards when things happen between us, and i will always forgive her. Now this time, she tells me i dont know her and that i can be a "bitch" at times. i just told her she can be a little messed up. and now shes taken me off her top on myspace and her scroll box of best friends. so im really pissed off at her and shes said stuff to my brother about how, oh she dont think im that good at spelling and grammar, and how shes never lost an argument(while i know she has), which she says would make her a good lawyer(we both want to be lawyers), and how she doesnt like me because i wont do her homework for her or tell her the answers. shes just using me. what should i do about this? i love her so much (as a friend) but shes really hurt me and i dont seem to be able to forgive her this time.

I had a friend EXACTLY like this! You have to get out of this friendship. No matter how much you have fun with her at times, the bad stuff is worse. As a matter of fact, I got so stressed because she was always so mean to me that I was diagnosed with Colitis. I'm not trying to scare you, but she isn't a good friend, at least not anymore. Take care of yourself and don't let her hurt you. =]]]]]]

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im 53, and super fast. so what position would i be good playin in basketball? small forward & point guard? .. if you're on a basketball team can you play both? .. explaine with good detail please.

You can play any position, except probably center. lol. You could be a started point guard, then when you get tired in a game they move in a different guard and put you as foward. If you are fast they you want to be a guard, but not point guard, because when somebody gets a rebound on your time you sprint down the court to your shooting side and they pass it all the way up the court to you and it's an easy layup. If your a point guard you have to be really alert and know what is going on. I play on two basketball teams. On one I'm always a foward. On the other I'm mostly a guard and sometimes a foward.

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im going to the movies with the guy i like. its not really a date. me and my bedt friend were like hey we should hang so we decided on the movies. but we both like each other and we know it. and we both have been saying we need to hang. and im not really suure on what to wear. i dont want to look like a whore. or look like a 12 year old girl. im 16 if tht helps. some ideas would be great. and tips for anything as in flirting and dating.
mch aprreciated and love.
:]

You could wear something simple like a shirt with a cute picture or just like a plain one, and jeans. Or the layer look with like a little tank top and then another t-shirt, which shows off your chest but doesn't make you look slutty.

For flirting tips--
Just be yourself. Don't try so0o0o hard to be someone your not when he likes you just the way you are. =] Go and have a good time. =]]]]]]]

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