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Start over? yes or no?
13/f
ok so im the person who posted that question about friend C who called me a B****. She asked me if i wanted to start over with her, you know our friendship. the thing is im scared that if i say yes, then i will have to suffer all her insults and stuff again. i think shes just taking advantage of me, although most of the times shes actually pretty nice and you know friendly, but to be honest ill tell her stuff that obviously are secrets and she tells her cousin nd bro. i dont know what to say really. can somebody help me out by giving me the good and bad stuff if i say yes and no. and then give me your opinion on which i should choose? please be quick, i need the answer by tomorrow!!! thanks so much. and i might seem pretty stupid not seeing all the bad nor good stuff, but i feel really blind. i want to make sure i didnt miss anything. thankx again!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
You can be friends with her, just DONT tell her any confidential info, like all your secrets. If you she already hurt you once theres a chance she will do it again. So be friends, but not BEST friends.
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Okay so at your age, friends are biotches. Everyone is, but believe me, it will get better
Good:
-you will hvae your friend back
-you wont have any bad feelings toward her
-you can have good times and talk
-she'll be nice
the obvious
Bad:
-she may pretend to be a good friend and tell everyone your secrets
-she may be using you
-she may take advantage of you
but then again, you dont HAVE to be best friends with her.
I say you start over with her and be friends, but dont tell her all of your important secrets. Just be nice and she'll be nice. Hang out but dont tell her everything. Hope it all works out!
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