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Hey! This is Mandy and Tish!!! Muahahahaha! We rock.. hard
Gender: Female
Location: The Good Ol' State of TexAs!
Member Since: March 22, 2005
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Last Update: March 28, 2005
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Hey!

I dont know if i like a person or if i dont what should i do? (link)
Talk to him more in school or just hang out with him and find out how you really feel about him
Hope i Helped!
MaNDY


Ok, I have a b.f. in Arkansas, and we met once and i really love him. He has no email, and i can't call guy's. I don't know if we should still be together or not. I mean i've only had fealings for him, out of all the boys i've met, which iz like three. Wat should i do. I love him.

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Well, really i dont kno if you guys should really be together... but if you really love eachother... then i would stay together... but if you guys cant even talk... i mean you guys could send letters and pictures to eachother.. but i dont kno just write him a letter and tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels too
Hope I helped!
MaNdY!


there are 2 guys that like me and one is very outgoing but he can be rude sometimes but he loves me and then the other guy is very sweet but he is quiet. which one should i go for??? (link)
Well, think which one would be better boyfriend materail. Which one do you have more fun with? do you like it when the other one is sometimes rude?
Hope i Helped!!
Tell me which one you pick!
MaNdY!


When I went snowboarding with family anf friends during winter break, I had to rent a snowbaord, and the guy there (he's 18) flrited with me so much, saying stuff like "If you need to come back for any reason come back and I'll help you." and Then he started asking me what I liked to do besides boarding, and what music I listned too. Then I went home. We went back up for February break, and he was there. And this time he gave me his number and aim . We've started to talk online, and he says stuff like "I miss you so much." "I wana be with you so bad" and calls me beautiful, sweetheart, and baby. And I'm *SUCH* a sucker for a sweeet talker. he's really nice and all. But I have no idea how I'll ever be able to hang out with him. We live couple hundred miles away. I have a cottage near his house, but have no idea how to hang with him, because my Dad and rest of my family would FLIP OUT! Any Advice on what to do? (I just wana hang out with the kid, get to know him and whatnot )

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Well, first of all, how old are you? lol if your around 18 then here is wat i was thinking... you can call him if your parents dont mind about the money.... or you can get a microphone or a webcam and have him get one too and you guys can talk and see eachother!
Hope I Helped!
MaNdY!


i like someone and i do everything i know to get his attention. i flirt and wear cute outfits and try to stand out in the classes i have with him. what am i doing wrong? what else can i do? (link)
JUST BE YOURSELF YO! lol
Hope i helped!
MaNdY!


Usually my periods are very, very regular (right down to the minute), but this month I got my period two weeks early. Not to mention that I usually have a pretty heavy flow and horrible cramps, but this is just spotting and I have no cramps at all.

Is there something wrong with me? Am I mistaking some kind of nasty disease for my period? (I'm a virgin in every way possible, unless someone raped me in my sleep.) (link)
Its completey normal to have untimed periods even if you are ALWAYZ regular!
Hope i Helped!
MaNdY!


I use to love to read and get lost in it. now I jsut can't seem to becouse my mind keep wondering off, i can't seem stay fucus to read.. how i get my intress back? (link)
Read a diffrent book that you have instrest in!
HoPe I HeLpED!
MAdNY!


i have an amazing boyfriend and i love him so much, like he is everything i dreamed of.. but the other day like one of my best friends *bob* told me that he has liked me since sixth grade, that i am amazing, and he is so jealous of my boyfriend, and how perfect i am and how much i mean to him.. and the thing is i liked *bob* for like 4 years and then i met my boyfriend. i talked to my mom about it.. and she said i shoudl try hanging out with *bob* to see if i like him or w/e so i went to the movies with him last night.. and had SO much fun.. would this be considered cheating ? am i a terrible person for like questioning my love for my bf ? and what do you think is the best way for me to tell my bf about this... ?

15-f if that makes any difference.. (link)
WEll, it all depends how your boyfriend sees it. To some it might mean cheating, but to me it doesnt because when you cheat on somebody you are acctually going out as b/f and g/f!! hope i helped!
MaNDY!


see i have this friend that is like bulimic & i tell her to stop but she never listens to me. i tell her that she is skinney but she doesn`t believe me. we have known eachother since we were small. she also talks painkillers & i kno its dangerous but she told me not to tell anyone...but i think she might die..she is already in rehab & is very sneaky.. (link)
WEll, i would tell her parents!! or yours!! i kno that everybody tells you that... but that is the answer! and make sure you tell them that she is already in rehab!
I kno its easier said then done!
Hope i helped!
MaNdY!


hey thanks for the advice with the friend and shes a girl and so am i. but w/e umm i have another question my friend lives in Cali and i cant call him on my cell and i cant call him from my home phone and he cant call me the only thing thats keeping us together is AIM lol. what should i do? (link)
well... i have the GREATEST idea... get a microphone for your puter and maybe a webcam... and he should get a mic and a webcam too... so you guys can talk and see eachother over the aim!!! Really it works i have a mic and a webcam!! trust me its the perfect thing!
Hope i Helped ALOT!!
MaNdY!


My sister at a young age died of luekemia. I dont really uderstand where she got it from. But lately I've been finding random bruises on my boyd and i know my sister had random bruises and ashe was always tired and im always tired. Is there a possiblity that i could have it too? (link)
I would ASK YOUR DOCTOR OR MOM! i Kno you dont wanna hear that you have it if you do... but to be safe and to catch it b4 it gets worse i would ask me doctor or mom!
Hope i Helped!
MaNdY!


i have a huge comming out party this weekend and idk what to wear! its this huge banquet and its sooo awesome but if i dont choose the right dress my life could be over! help me!
-ashley (link)
Well, you dont really want a prom dress... but get a dress that is fancy enough for it.
Lol sry dont kno that much!
Hope i helped atleast a lil!
MaNdY!


I've been dating my boyfriend for a couple months now and i love him so much and im almost positive he likes me, but he's always flirting with everyone but me, just the other day he was fliritng with 3 girls right in front of me. And this was pretty obivious flirting the were playfully hitting eachother and chasing each other and one of them was like touching his face and holding his chin and then the other girl like kissed his hand. I was so pissed, and when one of my friends tried talking to him about it he denied everything and said he wasnt. Also I wish he 'd show it more that he likes me, he dosent not like me, its just not the normal boyfirend girlfriend relationship. What do you think i should say to him to make him realize what he's doing without him getting offensive? Also can someone please explain why he's acting so shy and unaware around me and no one else. (link)
Ok... YOU talk to him... not your friend!! If he really wants to stay together, he will understand and stop!
Hope i helped!
MaNdY!


Okay theres this kid at my school. And we like "talk" on and off all year. Usually when we do talk its like ya know, we should hook up type of thing. And right now we're talking...how can i get him to really like me so we can finally hook up?? (link)
Just get a bunch of your friends and his friends toghether and then ask him to come and do something with ALL of you!
Hope i helped!
MaNdY!


hey. all the popular girls in my grade are really pretty and smart and are good friends with all the guys and all. but then heres me...i mean im in the group of girls who are just not as pretty and not as smart. sometimes i cry because i want to be popular so bad. i mean some of the girls are really rich and their dad's are big time lawyers or doctors and they shop downtown every weekend together. i just wish i could be like them. their so awesome and perfect. i don;t know how to be like them help me! (link)
SCREW THE POPS!!! The friends you have right now are all you need!! You dont need to be popular to be pretty or smart or anything like that! and who cares if they are rich!! YOU DO NOT WANNA BE LIKE POPS!!! ok? just be yourself!!! trust me!
Hope i helped!
MaNdY!


I was a cutter for about eh, a few months. Then all hell broke loose I was sent away, skip the drama. I've been clean for almost a year..but now more sucky drama is stirring about in my world. I've been thinking about selfharm, but I've still been clean.

Now that you ahve the background...

What can I do with all of my..'emotions'..(did that ever sound cheesy) I already am a poet and a novelest. I pound out on Bass, too...

Danke

-Mistress Maddy (link)
I would maybe keep a dairy!! Or paint or play a sport where you can get your anger out!
Sports like:
*Kick Boxing
*Softball- you can hit the ball serouisly hard with the bat or throw the ball hard at someone ;P (my personal favorite)
*Volleyball- spike the ball and serve the ball as hard as you can
*Tennis- hit the ball with the racket as hard as you can
Also, you can talk to your friends!! Unless the drama is with your friends... then talk to anybody who will listen!
Hope i Helped!
MaNdY!


this girl that says im her best friend always talks about my other friends behind their back, so i tell them because i dont think its right for her to do that. The other day she was talking about one of my friends named danielle, and so i told danielle this weekend and dnaielle said that my suppose to best friend called me a spoiled brat and a bitch and said that she doesnt hang out wtih me that much because i act stuck up .. but she is always calling me. I talked to the best friend and she siad she didnt say that, but how do i know because she always talks about everyone else to me. What should i do? i rate high!! (link)
I wouldnt belive either because daneille can just be saying that so you wont hang out with her anymore!!! And your other friend could be sayin that just so you wont be mad at you! So i wouldnt belive any of them but just smile and nod lol
Hope it Helped!
MaNdY!


well were havin celeb day at school besides the olsen twins can anyone think of two celebritys me and my friend could do?

thanx a bunch! (link)
You can do your fav band or actors!
Hope i Helped!
MaNdY!


my hair is naturally a very dark brunette and i had it highlighted goldish-blondish. its starting to grow out now and i need some ideas for when i get it done next time. if you could give me websites (besides google) and maybe if you know alot about hair some ideas of your own. i kinda like reese witherspoons brunette color and maybe that with like an ash colored highlights? im open to any ideas though.

thanks* (link)
*look at some hair styles in magiznes or on TV that you like.
Or just get it hilighted again!
no matter what it will still look good.


I need help, but please dont delete this. First of all, i like this boy named dan. I think he knows that i like him, but see i get shy around him, i dont know what to say when i'm around him and he like never hears me when i do get the courge to say 'Hi' to him. I wanna kno if he feels the same but i dont know how, my friends tried to get who he likes ( if he likes any one) out of him but he wont say. now he kinda avoids me. I dont know how to put it. I wanted to be friends with him first before he found out and now i dont kno what to do. I'm not like some of my friends who will go up to the person or tell everybody who i like. My friends and i have caught him staring in my direction but hey, you never kno right? What should i do about dan? What are some things that i can say to him also? Thanx a bunch! (link)
*If he has a aol i/m name talk to him on that.
*or u could have ur freinds call him and let him talk to you.
*Try sending him a note or letter

TrIsH*




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