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I had sex with my boyfriend about a month ago.. and since then my periods have been messed up. I got one at the beginning of July.. then I had sex.. and got it again in mid-july. Then.. I got it again today.. Is it nomal for ur period to be all outta wack after u have sex? or is something wrong?
i dont think u had ur period in mid-july i think u just bled cus ur cherry popped. if u werent a virgin b4 that then i have no clue.
i get really bad acne between my breasts, how do i get rid of it?
you can use toner and dry it out a lil bit and it should go away. its just cus theres a lot of oil and stuff building up there even if ur not sweating. just make sure u was between and under ur boobs really good so it wont get worse.
if a girl that u like is mad at you what should you do
depends on wut shes mad for. u can get her a small gift or give her compliments. girls are really hard to figure out, but then again so are guys.
Do any girls know of anything I can do to get rid of cramps? Im having them really severely and its hard to move. Thanks.
take midol or there are stretches you can do.
sit on the floor with ur legs outstretched. grab ur ankles or shins; bend from the hips to extend ur head and hands towards ur toes. keep ur back long as u turn ur elbows out. hold for 60 seconds.
heat pads also help. just put it on the places ur having cramps and it can relieve some of the pain.
hope i helped!
im 13 and in 8th grade and im 5'3...but i like someone thats 12 in 7th grade and is 4'7. i think he's gonna ask me out, but idk what to say cuz hes so short and younger than me....help! (i like him too but...)
well age sgouldnt really matter. i kno this one boy who wwas in 6th grade and went out with a senior so i guess its just if u like the person. him being shorter then u, i can c how that bothers u. i am tall too so its hard to find sum1 ur height since sum guys dont start to really grow till later on. but just cus hes short that shouldnt affect anything. who cares wut ppl think. if u like each other go for it.
Hi, I'm 17 years old/female and i failed 10 grade AGAIN..this will be my third time taking 10 grade...only b/c i missed soo many days of school. When im at school, i get straight A's and go on honor roll. But, the school years coming up and i'm yet again in 10th grade. I'm really nervous on meeting ppl ALL over again and i have NO idea who to sit with at lunch. I'm soo scared about all this. My friends tell me that ppl will come up to me and try and be friends with me, but they didnt last year !! And, i'm not the type AT ALL to just walk up to ppl and say "can i sit wit you at lunch?" or something lyk that. So, i really don't know what to do at all. Please help me. Thanx so much «3
well at first dont worry about sittin by yourself. just talk with ppl during class and get to kno them and then maybe see if they wanna eat lunch with ya or sumthin. even if u eat by yourself its no biggy. i eat by myself all the time just cus i want sum peace and then after i eat i go find summ ppl and just start talkin wit them. plus u had to meet new ppl in elementary school and middle school and then again in high school. do the same thing u did to make friends then. hope i helped!
Okay I have a b/f and hes goin into High Skewl and im still in 8th grade. Im 13 and hes 14 and alot of my friends and sum of his friends think that we'll make it thru the first year. He thinks that we'll last at least half the year. But i dont think we will last, is that wrong???
I mean i love him soo much and i really Dont wanna lose him. i wanna make it last but its gonna be really hard for him in High skewl with all the new gurlz and stuff! Please HELP me!!! Oh yea is there a way i could make it last and if so HOW??? PLEASE tell me!
-Kaila
i guess if your really scared that he would cheat or sumthin take a break for that year and still be friends and once you get to high skool then try and hook up again. just remember there will be lots of new boys in high skool too.
i recently found out my 7 year old cousin, danny what raped by a neighborhood kid. this is really just depressing for me... BUT also for him. so my question is, anyone with experience know what well cheer up or help rape victim cope? hes very young.
i know a girl who was 4 and molested by her neighbors son and she is pretty ok now, shes 13. what they did with her was keep her busy with lots of different activities and things to take her mind away from it. just make sure he knows none of it was his fault and treat him like a normal person, not sum1 who is toxic waste or w/e. love and laughter are the best things in the world!
how do i know if i need a bra?
if ur boobs hurt a lot when u do the things u do in ur day then u kno u need a bra. or just whenever u feel uncomfortable without one
can you answer these: 1. whats cyber sex and what do you say during it? do? 2. whats oral sex? is it just talking? what do u say?
cyber sex is sex online. just dirty talk to each other and masturbate. oral sex isnt talking. its giving head and fingering i believe. nasty stuff.
Ok i got my period and i have really really bad cramps. i had such bad ones that i threw up 4 times and i had just taken medicine so i threw it up. Also when i sleep i wake up like every hour because it hurts so bad. What is something i should take or do??
well u should go see a doctor to see if they can give u anything
there are also strecthes that can help releive some of the pain. i dont kno exactly which ones so maybe u could look it up online.
u could also put a corn bag(or sumthing hot) where u have the cramps. hopefully u just have bad cramps in the beginning. thats wut happens to me and then they go away like the 3rd day.
hope i helped!
I want to make a new advicenators username but do your answers that you answered from your first username get sent to your new username or do you have to start all over?
u have to start all over
hello. i'm going into 7th grade and i weigh 153. i'm 5'3". i want to run cross country, but i don't want to get a physical cause you get weighed. for one reason, my mom is skinny and is always preaching to loose weight and i did, 5lbs. reason two, i don't want the coachs, and definatley other runners to see it. what should i do? I only have till next thursday. please help. i rate HIGH!
well you cant really run away from it. if cross country is sumthing u wanna do ur weight shouldnt really matter. i kno a bunch of ppl probably say o be happy with the way u r but its true. u cant let ur weight keep u back from sumthing u wanna do. plus if u do cross country u will probably lose weight and then u can be really proud of ur accomplishment. hope i helped!
ive noticed that alotta people have questions on people they believe they are in love with and so on but sum of the people are realli young and i dont think that they notice that being in love and loving sum1 are 2 totally different things....well thats what i think i was just wonderin other opions on bein in love and just lovin sum1
ya i know wut you mean. just cus they love someone doesnt mean they r in love wit them.
when i was like 1 year old i had this friend and he was like my best freind ever. well we moved and i never saw him. i am 14 now (girl) and i get to see him soon. I really want to make a good impression...so what do i do?
im doing the same thing tomorrow. i think just to be urself and have fun. just talk about how things have been going with ur life. i dont c y u cant go up and hug him. he might be kinda shy but u guys were really good friends so itd just be a friendly hug and thats ok. alrighty have fun!
do girls like a guy to be to sensitive or not sensitive at all
it really depends on the girl. some girls like a macho man that isnt sensitive but most girls do like guys to be a little sensitive. not like cry all the time and stuff ya kno but just to tell them wut they're feeling. personally i kinda dont like guys to be too sensitive cus my father cries all the time so that kinda ruined it.
i have this friend that is a girl and we are pretty good friends we talk everyday and hang out and i really would like to take the relationship further but i dont nohow to could you help me out?
i think u should just talk to her about maybe having a relationship. just start things out slow and then work ur way up. if ur friends with benefits now it'd probably b a lot easier but if ur just really good friends then talk about a relationship. if she says no then be like well i wanna still stay friends i just wanted you to kno how i felt and i dont want things to be wierd between us or sumthing like that. hope it works out!
School is about to start and I know homecoming dance comes soon after that. I'm going into my second year of high school and I skipped the dance last year. I don't have any trouble getting dates or anything like that, I just feel really uncomfortable on the dance floor. My friends have seen me dance and say I'm not bad for a white guy, but I still feel really uncomfortable. Any suggestions?
i kno wut u mean. im a girl and i dont feel comfortable dancing in front of ppl. it just feels like i do bad. this is kinda wierd but i taped myself and then watched it and i wasnt bad at all. also when ur at dances no1 is watching each other dance. it'll b a big crowd and they r into dancing with their friends not judging other ppl so just let loose and have fun!
whats a greyhound bus
um a bus that takes you to far away places
Hey. My best friends bf has been dating me while he went out w/ her! I had no idea when I was doin it w/ him.But i am now pregnant w/ his kid! I made a deal w/ him that i wud never tell my friend that I was w/ him but now i think i need to. I dont know if im ready for a kid! Shud I have an abortion and never tell my friend or have the kid or what? Plz answer this I really need help!
NO NO NO NO!!!!!!!!!!!! do not have an abortion. that is killing sumthing u created and its not fair to that life that u had sex and couldnt deal with the consequences. i think u should tell ur friend and just tell her u didnt kno. if u dont want the baby give it up for adoption but my mom had to miscarriages, one 2 weeks b4 she got pregnant with me and she is so sad and since she lost that baby she kept me or else she would've had an abortion. so that had nuthing to do with this but dont have an abortion!