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I am 23 years old. I have a daughter who is about to turn six ( I was 17 when i gave birth to her) and i am 3 months pregnant. I have never been married. I would like to let you know that my advice is genuine. I have been through alot in my life. From childhood problems, relationship problems, family problems. I have done my share of experiencing with drugs and alcohol. I have had suicide thoughts as a teenager. I have autistic triplet brothers and a sister with multiple sclerosis. I have not seen or spoken to my father in 12 years. I hope that i can help you and will do my best.
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My sister and i sing. And we sing well. Sometimes friends and family will ask us to sing but if we are not together, we feel uncomfortable doing it alone. Alot of the times we need a few drinks to loosen us up. How do you get over the fear of singing in front of large groups and also how to do it without someone?
Continue singing in front of your family and people you feel comfortable around. Getting good feedback from them is positve. It makes you feel good. Try to write a song with your sis and then practice it alone. One in a higher note then the other. When it comes out sounding awesome, that should help too!
Ive liked this kid for almost a year now and I like him a lot but he likes another girl. He told me he liked me and he wont go out with her because hes been thinking about me but there always together and it bugs me. I cry a lot cuz i really like him. What should I do?
He's playing games with you. Don't let him see that it bothers you. Go on doing you normal things. It's possible hes hanging out with her to make you jealous. Don't play his game. If he really likes you, he'll come around. If you are close to him, then talk to him. Let him know that you dont understand why he is always with her when he says hes into you. Hopefully he will be honest
this is a stupid question but what is a material girl?
Its a girl who is into materialistic things. Things that can be bought at a store like clothes, shoes, things like that, are very important to her.
ok...i'm adictive to coffy...how should i stop?!?!? coffy its not dat good for da body dats wut mah baby tellin me...but i cant stop i drink 4 cups a day...n i can drink more n more...
i kno its not good...n stuff n on top of dat i put wip cream in it n dis other thing n also sugar...n dat makes it worst but mad tasty!!! HOW CAN I STOP!?!?!? :'( i dunno wut to do...the only thing thats stopin me now its mah baby....if not i would've drinked it...so wuts another way to stop when mah baby aint rounds?!?!?
Drink Tea! When you find that isle in the store, its like a friggin toy store! There are so many flavors and its good for you.
execpt we dont act like them but we had relationships like that. thing is he a sombmmore and I am senior. we been best friends last 8 year. we were dating 3 years, freshman year we dedected see other people and be freinds agian. well this year he broke up other gf still friends.. we are very close sometimes we have one those monment where we make out nothing more. I am not like that he not eather. thing is so compalanted. I mean we be great together and we are. thing is I still want see if i have chance other guys.. I sard i never will. he know it about it.. thing is that his mom would be shock becouse she type person yell at him and take wrong way bout us. becouse we tickle eather.. i mean he love tickleing me but i dont mind becouse make me feel good and happy its cheers me up. i sorry this conffusing who ever understand this could reply me... beocuse i dont know how to question what i writen.. i feel so weridi gave advice and give. lol. i read lot of people qeiton look and see what advice are there nice to.. sorry its long i have lot on my mind lol.
thanks who ever read this thanks
Amanda
Is Travis his real name? If so, its odd because i have this guy friend named Travis. We are so close that we have agreed to marry eachother in 7 years if both of us are single. I love him to pieces! Right now i am in a relationship and very unhappy. All i want is to be with Travis, and i know he feels the same. My point to this is , having a guy friend that close to you could be the best relationship you have even been in, given the chance. Don't let him slip away. It doesnt matter what other people think or what his mom thinks. If you two have strong feelings for eachother than go for it.
ok i really need help my bf dumped me cuz i talk 2 my guy friends and now he wants me back and bad i dont know wut 2 do my friends and fam hate him and he's not the best bf dut i still miss him wut do i do.... help me
What makes your friends and family hate him?? Does he respect you? Alot of guys don't understand why us girls have guy friends. I personally have a lot of guy griends because girls can be scandalous and i am not into all the makeup and pretty sundresses. Guys understand me better. And i understand them better. It sounds like your boyfriend has a problem trusting. Have you two broke up before? I am all about 2nd chances but not to fond of 3rd chances. I think giving too many chances shows your weakness. Be strong. Talk to him and let him know that he can trust you and how you feel about the "guy friend" situation. But make sure this guy is treating you right. Sometimes, although hard to admit, your friends and family are right. good luck!
iight i was suppose to go back out w/ this guy and me and him where on the phone from 11:30 till 1:35...well...when i got off the phone w/ him i was on the phone w/ this other guy...and he as telling me how ppl came up to him at skool and told him that he had a hott girlfiend(they where talking bout me) and he told them that i wasn't his girlfriend...well i was like *Sam ill be ur girlfriend and then out of no where we jst started going out...well i haven't talked to *Doug since then...and then today my friend was like o yeah me and *Doug are going out and i was like since when and she was like since 11:30 last nite! i know i shouldn't be mad but idk wat to do?
Sounds like "Doug" likes to play games. Be thankful that you didnt get caught up in that. If "Doug" breaks her heart, be glad that it wasn't you. Definatley don't be mad. Most likely, your friend doesnt know that he was putting the moves on you over the phone before he moved onto her. If she doesnt know about this, then tell her. Atleast she'll have a fair warning.
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On the left side of your screen, go to column settings. Follow those steps. When you chose your colors, they have a link with a cheat shett. Its pretty helpful. But i've seen some people with rainbow backrounds and flowers. That... i couldnt help you with. But i'd like to know how they did it!!!
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Keep giving good advice. Look at the top rated columnist and see what kind of advice they are giving.
Hey!! Ok My best friend like getz jelous or mad or sumin wen i hang out with other ppl and stuff n she fights wit my bf like sayin we should be tighter n that me n her should hang out more than me and my bf but i think thats tru 2 a point but wenever i do sumin wit sum1 that doesnt have her in it but she leaves me out sumtimes but i dont say nuttin so wut should i do??
Having a best friend, is having a "serious relationship". I know it sounds weird but its true. You label someone as your best friend because that person is someone you can confide in, someone you trust with your secrets, someone who will always be there for you no matter what. But just like when you are in a serious relationship with a boyfriend, you need a little space. And if she has issues with this, then she needs to know that she is not acting like a best friend. She might feel left out but you said that she does stuff without you also so why is she making such a big deal about it? Talk to her. Tell how you feel about it. Hopefully, as your best friend, she will understand
How can I get real good revenge on my ex boyfriend? He dumped me b/c he got too horny and we started to do stuffthen "god" told him to break up with me... which is a load of shit... someone help plz.. thanx a lot.and nothing that will kill him or hurt him too too bad :D thanx
Revenge is a horrible thing to do. Is he normally religious? If not, then maybe he was just trying to break up with you without hurting you. You should respect that. Why dont you just ask him what the real reason is? If you dont believe his answer, than maybe hes just immature and not worth your time. If you let it go, you will be the bigger person.
ok thers this girl that i like and she says that she wants to have sex with me but she is allways saying that but it never happens i would love to have sex with her and i love her alot but she is just shy. is there any way i can make her not as shy? 14/m
14 is pretty young but a common age to start having sex. Is she a virgin? If she is, than give it time. She probably loves you but is nervous as well. Plus, for a girl, having sex for the first time hurts. Start with the simple things like four play. Anytime she asks you to stop..then stop. Eventually she will feel comfortable and ready. Just be gentle ok?
17-F i went over this boys house today his name is Dan. well he wanted to do stuff with me like give him head, hand jobs stuff like that and I said no but the next thing I know he's on top of me like humping. We have all our clothes on. and he's going faster and faster by the second. so my question is that sex or dry humping??
Dry sex is sex, oral sex is sex. But what you didnt do is have intercourse.
um i was wondering...what does an orgasm feel like? like right before it happens and when it does. im not sure if i almost had one bc if felt like i had 2 pee..it was really weird thx for the advice..xoxo..i rate good!
It depends on what kind of orgasm it is. You can have an internal orgasm or an external orgasm. An internal orgasm is more intense but its easier to have an external orgasm. Before it happens, sex...or masturbating....becomes twice as intense and you feel like your going to explode. I know this is pretty personal but right before i have an orgasm, i cant help but dig my nails into my mans back because its so intense. Once you reach the orgasm, you tense up and its the most awesome feeling....all in all...you will know when you have one.
hey..I told my friend about what to tell one of the guys..and he got really mad at her..now she's even more stressed out. The guy is jared and he thought she liked her in the first place..ahh I don't know what to do I feel like this is all my fault..please help!
Ask your friend to ask this guy if he feels like she might have said or done something to lead him on. The only thing she can do is say "Look, i'm sorry you got the wrong message, but i'm not looking for a relationship." If he doesnt want to be "Just" friends, than hes not worth hanging out with at all. Your friend shouldnt be stressed out. She did NOTHING wrong. Sometimes when a girl is nice, he automatically gets the wrong idea. I dont know why this is. Maybe its because some guys dont feel like a girl and guy can be just friends. This guy i dated hated the fact that i had guy friends. He couldnt understand it. I guess thats just the way some guys are. But remember to tell your friend that she has nothing to be stressed out about. She was being nice to the guy and that should be respected without the guy thinking she wants more than a friendship. I hope this helps. Good luck.
*What you said about yourself in your description was truly amazing. It's wonderful you are still here today through all of that. God bless ya. -Jane*
Thank you so much. I really appriciate your feedback on that. When i first came onto this website, i was suprised by some of the columnist. They gave comments that are really offensive and gross! So i hope i am doing my part by giving advice that comes from the heart and from experiences i have lived. Thank you again!
ok well me and my(guy)friend both like each other but we are not going out.(long story) but he said that he wanted to kiss me and then asked me what i thought and i said idk. and i still dont know. but i dont want to say yes and i dont want to say no. cuz if i say yes then we will end up going to far..and ill end up getting to close and dont want to get hurt. but if i say no then i might regret it. and one of my friends went on vaca for two weeks. the guy i like and her both liked eachother b4 she left. then all this happend and me and him held hands at the movies adn stuff. she will be back soon and idk what will happen.he might go back with her. i need some advice on what to do. im so confused..please help.
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Before you jump into anything, wait until your friend gets back from vacation. In the meantime, let your guy friend know your concerns. Hopefully he will be honest with you. If he is sincere and he really wants to be with you, go for it. We all have to learn from our mistakes. It might be the best decision ever.
Ok i have a huge problem. See tomorrow i start school and my parents told me that i have to take this other person to school w/ me. Well He is just so happens to be my moms boss's little brother. Unfortunatly he is my age. i really dont want to take because i know my mom and his brother will try to hook us up. what should i do?
No one can force you to date someone you dont want to. But maybe you should try to be his friend. You might get along well. But you can draw the line. Dont overreact just yet. give it time to get to know him (as a friend)
well i have this boifriend and i have een goinout wit hym for over 3 month n i really like hym and people told hym that i have been kissing other guys and i havnt so how do i get hym to belive me
Is it possible to find out who is starting the rumors? If so, confront them and ask why they feel the need to say these things about you. It sounds like there could be a specific person behind all this who is trying to break you two up. Perhaps your man is envied. Hopefull your boyfriend can trust you. What more can you do but tell the truth> Hopefull he believes you
This Q if for the guys....How come most guys can't dance? They don't even try. I mean like at our dances the thugs and the black guys dance and they only dance with black chicks and whores and then the preps come in and make fun of the dances that we do. I dance like a black girl I know I do. But most guys I try to dance with can't dance like that how come? You guys don't even try to dance like that y'all just sit there against the wall and watch us. It's more fun if you join in.
I'm a girl but can i give you an answer? It's because they are embarressed. I knew this guy who would not dance. But hes hot as hell and i wanted to get him on the dance floor. So finally he danced with me and umm...he sucked. But i didnt tell him, i just danced with him everytime i saw him in the club. It made him feel better about it and now he dances with alot of girls. Also, he seems to be getting better. So even if they suck at dancing, dance with them anyway!! They'll learn eventually!