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I've liked this one guy I've known since we were 5 for about 11 months. He's only known since June, and rejected me flat out. I know that there's not chance for anything between us...but idk...I keep holding on. My friend a few days ago suggested that I might be in love with him. And I'd never given the subject a thought, but now that I am, I'm even considering it. Is it possible for me to actually be in love with this guy that is absolutely perfect for me? And if I am, how do I come to admit it or let him know without confessing my feelings straight out to him? Please let me know what I should do...
-Hopelessly In Love- (link)
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I'm sorry, but I think you neeed to move on. It'll prolly take a while but he doesn't like you. I wouldn't recomend telling him you love him, unless later it seems like he was beginning to like you if that makes sense.
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ok there is this guy and i like him alot and i went out with him for 6 mouths about and we broke up and he is going with another grl now and he cheated on her with me a few times and he tells me he loves me and he likes me and sweet talks me but i cant resist i love him and he would dump his grl friend and she would get him to go back out with her and she is on some drugs and she well kill her-self and wrestling season just started and he is on my team this year but her is two years older that me and i know that im going too see him every day and i dont no what the hell to do and the grl he is going out with was on of my best friends befor and now she hates me so what should i do??? (link)
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He can't be responsible for her actions. She needs some help maybe u and he should help her together. But maybe he's just saying all that to you so you won't tell her and you'll keep doing what you're doing. I'm not completely sure bc i don't know the ppl you're talking about, but yeah it sounds like he's using you but i hope not!
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Okay, I'll put it to you this way: I'm OBSESSED with mashed potatoes. I make them all the time when I come home from school. I normally eat them plain or with corn. I need to mix it up a bit. Does anyone have any thing I could put in them to make them good? Anything will be good for me. I eat anything pretty much, especially mashed potatoes. Heh. Anyway, if anyone has any ideas as to how to spice up my mashed potatoes, that'd be great! Thanks if you can help! (link)
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lol! That's pretty funny.. Ketchup? Hey it'd be like french fries.
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at my school there a girl who everyone likes and a boy who everyone likes..how do i make myself like that girl so the guys like me? (link)
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Be yourself, don't tRY to be like her. No one is perfect. But i know even after that you might try being like her. Don't get to into it. I guess it's normal if you see a shirt or something you like and look into buying one LIKE it, but don't go for the same one. Everyone has special qualities!
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Today I was sitting in class and I just picked up this needle thing and started running it up and down my arm. I don't know why but then I started scratching myself with it really badly so that I had marks all over my arm. After school, my boyfriend saw but he made a joke of it. I think I did it because I want attention because my parents don't really give me any. I was really upset that my boyfriend didn't care, does it show that he doesn't care about me? Everybody that saw what I had done just ignored me. (link)
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Are you sure you just weren't bored? But if it was more then that, I'm sure your boyfriend just didn't realize it. If he saw that you had been depressed lately he most likely *I'm not sure tho bc i don't know the guy* would have been more concerned. He may have just thought that you were bored! HOpe I helped!
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i'll rate anyone a 5 who reads this and helps thanx!!
me and my best friend have been great friends since 8th grade (were both in 12th now) so we've been friends for pretty much 5 years. i love her to death and i dont know what i would do without her. Were seriously inseperable. About a month ago she met this guy. All of a sudden its like she's dedicating her time to hang out with him EVERY day. I mean all three of us do hang out sometimes but i dont really like it bc i kinda feel like the 3rd wheel. Her ex boyfriend just told me that he likes me but i told him that i only like him as a friend. i told her that he said he liked me and all of a sudden she asumed that i liked him too and now she is mad at me. the reason they broke up was because she was lying to him and cheating on him with this guy she is with now. The guy she is with now wants to get an apartment. He said i could move in if i wanted but i dont want to because i cant afford it but i dont wanna loose my best friend to him because i lost her once before and i was miserable. Well today i left this guy a voicemail saying mean things and everything to him which i shouldnt but he is really rude to me. He calls me a slut and everything. i've told my friend this but she said well im falling in love with him and all that. I really dont wanna loose my best friend at all! i dont know wut to do and its killing me inside. I tryed to talk to her about it but she doesn't wanna listen to me at all. She told me a few weeks ago the only reason she is with this guy is because he gets her w/e she wants (he got her a diamond ring...a $500 stereo and lets her drive his new car and she doesn't have her permit or license) i dont know what to do!! someone please help!! since this is long ill rate u a 5!!! thanx!!! (link)
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Um... wow! She might need to figure this one out by herself. Try to wheel her back in tho and ask her to do stuff a lot, without him. Talk to her, she might not listen, but if you haven't already you need to try. Say that you don't want to loose her, i wouldn't mention that you don't like her boyfriend in this conversation though. Just keep trying to talk to her, if that doesn't work then yeah i think she might need to figure it out on her own. Hope i helped!! Good luck
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written by friend :
Hey im 14 and this guy is 16 .. Soo we hang out all the time but my BEST friend hates him and thinks hes bad and stuff.. but whenever his around me hes really sweet my friend just says .. Oh he just wants a piece of ass and all this other stuff.. and i think my friends parents are itimated that he can drive ( because he drives me places). Were not going out by the way but everyone thinks we are becuz we act like it. hes a drinker too =/ liike he has this rep that he always goes to parties and gets drunk and throws up everywhere ! .. so yea =/ what should i do? should i stick with him.. i mean i like him but my friends hate him =/ PLEASE HELP (link)
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Talk to your friend about it. Maybe she knows something you don't know or see. And I don't really see what her parent's have to do with what she thinks, but yeah just talk to her.
Good luck!!
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ok my I dumped my boyfriend a couple of weeks ago and now i really like him but he acts weird he flirts with me one minuite then round his friends he doesn't wanna know me but I think he still likes me but he keeps saying he's got his other girlfriend pregnant and I'm sick of hearng iit because I think he's lying what should I do I'm really confused please help me (link)
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I wouldn't waste you're time with him. Other girlfriend? Does he have more then one? Sorry but i think you should move on! hope i helped!
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ok..this question is kinda stupid but i was wondering if anybody knew how to make holes in jeans that look like they were made like that thnx!..i rate (link)
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Don't use scissors! I don't really know how but if you do that grass thing then they'll just look dirty and like you've had them for way to long.
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Hey guys,
I was sleeping over my friends house the other day and we snuck out around 12 to hang with these guys. The next day one of them asked my friend on the phone if I would hook-up with someone just for the hell of it without going out with them. (assuming he wanted to hook up with me) I told my friend that it all depends, like if we hooked up and then went out. Because I believe strongly in hooking up with someone you like and then go out with them instead of hook-up and forget it ever happened. And now he thinks I am just a little prude. And the night before he was all sweet and everything and respected my point of views.
How do I handle this??
xo0x HoW xo0x (link)
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What do you mean? The guy just wanted to hook up.. he didn't want to go out with you. Do you think you're a pprude? If you think what you believe is right then what's the problem?
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Hi, I'm 14 and a freshman in highschool. As you know I would have to start thinking about a future job and what I would like. I have 3 things chose. 1) A crime scene investigator 2) a teacher or 3) an interior designer ... now with # 1 I can't stand blood thats coming out of the body in large amounts, would I usually see this if i was a CSI?? (link)
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Um... Yeah . you can't stand blood but you can stand a dead body?
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Aright well I was with my friends last night and one my other friends that wasn't with us, started sayin shit about me, she is pissed off at me because we were out one night with sum other friends and ur crush my best friend was there (before I go one she said that she aways wanted me to be honest with her)aright well she started to get really annoying and i told her the truth about how she was actin like a damn fool. The only reason that she wanted to be there was because her crush was there and I told her that to her face bein honest and now she is really pissed off at me, and she told my best friend that lives in California that I was addicted to smokin wich I wasn't I only smoked once andand now my best friend won't talk to me because she thinks that Im addicted to smokin and she won't talk to me until I quit, wich I have. What the hell should I do. This bitch is tryin to make my life a livin hell!!! (link)
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Well... wait it out and when she does talk to you tell her that you didn't smoke? I guess? Yeah i dunno.
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Hey guyes,
I am 5'11" tall and I weigh 165 Lbs. But still I am looking thin. I guess I need to put on weight on arms and legs. I tried doing Exercise but didnt really help. How can I do that? Please give ideas. Thanks. (link)
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Is this a guy? I guess so.. yeah i dunno what u can do. I've never wanted to put on weight before. Just work out more i guess? It'll take time. You dont want fat weight..right?
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okay i am thinking ahead about prom because I am trying to find a way 2 ask my friend who is aboy if he willdance with me! i am not so sure if he will because he is going 2 bring another girl from outside of school! and this is his senior and i just want one dance with him that's it!! what should i do? (link)
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UmM.. i think you're thinking way to into this.. and if he's a friend just be like 'hey u wanna dance?' hope i helped!
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Sorry this ones loge but i need help
I'm in a really big social group at school and my 2 neighbors r in it. ive know them since i've moved in and we became really good friend. when school started 1 of my neighbors bff was at my school. right away we hated each other and i don't no why. about a week ago my neighbors and the bff started a book that no one was aloud to see. it really pissed me off and made me realize that every one i surrond my self with are a bunch of backstabing, secret telling liars. i got in to a big fight with 1 of my neighbors and iots sort of resolved but after that was over the bff wrote me a note calling me a poser and a tramp and talking shit about my bf. i was soo pissed off. now i don't want to hang out w/any off them but there like the only people i no.
p.s. me other friend feels the same (link)
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Did they get the idea from mean girls? just wondering
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i want to lose 10 lbs in 3 months cuz on my bday i am geting money adn i want to buy clothes but i want to look cute in them i am 118 and i waer size 5 but i am not satisified.oh i am short i am like 5'3 ish.. My question for you is this: A) is that unrealistic? B) anyideas on how i could do that?
thanks a bunch (link)
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How old are you? 118 pounds isn't a lot, it might just be muscle. I gues syou could but if you're in ur teens don't worry about it so much. Don't eat the sweets and other junkfood. Hope i helped!
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ok theres this guy that i like and last night he asked me if i was interested..i kinda freezed and just told him that i dont talk to him that much anymore so i dont know..i mean its true but thats not what i would have liked to say if i would have thought about it! i havent been able to talk to him today because we go to different schools and he hasnt gotten online and ive been really busy today but i really need to talk to him about this..he gets hurt really easily because this has happened before but a little differently..ok so the question is..how do i tell him that i like him without sounding stupid because i pretty much lied to him the night before? (link)
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Tell him why you said something else.
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ok i was hangin out with my bf who i only get to see wednesday, friday saturday n sometimes sunday bc we go to diff skools n stuff...and hes PERFECT i love him alot n weve been goin out for about 4 months...well he ALWAYS forgets to call me or watever but today was reallie pissing me off...last nite i told him to call me when he got home n to not forget so he laffed n wrote it on his hand n he neevr called...and today we wer gonna plan to do something since we both have it off and he didnt call ALL day! i decided i wasnt gonna call him bc its up 2 him to call me now! wat shuld i tell him when he finalyl does call? i kno hes gonna make up some excuse on why he ddint call or he wont bring it up at all...how can i bring it up n tll him wat he did wat messed up.. (link)
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Don't give him a huge hard time. Guy's dont think about deep into stuff. They're freakin idiots, lol well all know that. Just ask him why he didn't call. i dunno.
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I'm in 8th grade. This is my last year at m school, and I have become like really close with these two girls. Like and we are going to differnt highschools, but they are the only people that I can actually tell them stuff. I'm like really scared because i need one of them to talk to at school..to help me with my problems and stuff! how am i going to survive with out them?! i am totally scared! mauhh
kmul (link)
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Don't worry, keep in touch. Talk on the phone after school or online. You can still be friends i promise! It'll be a little harder since they won't know what you're talking about sometimes, but if you guys are that close they'll find a way to understand!
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i want my hair to grow longer but i dont have really thick hair adn mine takes forever to grow. its blonde and sholder length but i want it past my boobs any ideas on what to take or what to do to get long locks??
muha
Lisa (link)
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don't cut it any shorter except for trims. Watch the magic as ur hair grows out.
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