I am 15. my birthday is febraury 15 1995 Anyway i role play as a neko. Im a foxgirl and im clasterophobic.
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hi im havin a prob with this gurl in 8th grade well i like her but she dont know and my friend does and she likes him and she wants him to ask her out or else shes gunna end up goin out with this other kid in my grade thats also my friend and she dont know that i like her and i want to ask her out but i know she will say no and i dont want her to go out with my friend but its like i have no choice but to deal with it so wat should i do??????? (link)
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how do you now she will say no? did you try? can't hurt but to try. If she says no well her lost. You will find someone better and worth it if she says no.
Jay
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Hi. Im 15.
So i have a friend problem.
I've been friends with this girl for about 2 years now and i consider her to be one of my best friend out of like 4. But the thing is, theres many many times where she has made me upset, and kind of screwed me over for someone else, and did bad stuff and said bad stuff. and everytime we get in a fight im always the one to say sorry first.
but i keep giving her chances because when she doesn't act all bitchy shess one of the most FUNNEST BEST people i can ever be around.
And i feel like i should stop being friends with her but its not what i really want. I keep letting it get in the way. I dont know why i still wanna be best friends with her but i do because i love her as my best friend.
And we get into fights or arguments not that much but often. And im always there for her.
But shes never really there for me when im crying or anything.
I know, your probabaly thinking why are you still friends with her?
And i have no idea!
I still love her as a friend.
And i want a better friendship with her.
But she thinks she never does anything wrong when she does and she never beleives me or agrees with me when i tell her this.
But shes still my best friend.
I'm so confused.
What should i do? HELP?!
Love Confused Girl. (link)
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A best friend is when you guys stick together. You always got each others back. The only time you wouldnt have there back if they did something wrong. You should tell her how you feeling. If she gets mad its her prob not yours because you didnt do nothing wrong. I now how ya feel i thought i had a friend but she would always talk about me when she was high or drunk. Than she say she was sorry a different day she was just high or drunk. Don't worry you'll find a real friend. Maybe we can be friends if ya want. I'm just saying.
Jay
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if you really hate cleaning your room like i do whats the fastest and more fun way to do it? (link)
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lol i now what you mean. Just dance while cleaning it or watch tv while your doing it. Keep your room organized so you will be able to now where everything is and goes. So you can jsut put it there instead of just throwing it on the floor. lol good luck.
Jay
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ok im a 16 and femaile...my bf is 15... im about a week and a half late for my period....we have been having unprotected sex but we didnt do it half as much as we usually do but im late and iv had stomach issues lately but i donno im freaking out could i be pregnant or is it my stomach problems screwing with it? im never 100% regular. i know the stomach issues arent caused by pregnancxy...iv had them for a couple months... i was tested last month and it came back negative but is it possible that this month i got knocked up? please help i dont really know what to do and dont have anyone here to talk to.... thanks..
**Sleepiesheep** (link)
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go to the doctors and get tested but it doesnt sound liek you've thrown up yet. If your pregnant you should start throwing up soon.
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well i have this crush at school he is in my hoomroom but, i dont know him and i am shy in front of him but pplz say he likes me back what should i do to hook up with him..............i need advice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 (link)
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first be friends so you can get mroe comfortable around him. Than when your ready dont jsut blurt out you like him get him alone and tell him you like him. DO this before its too late
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Hi I'm from the UK.
I have a 9 year old daughter who is very distressed and upset and i'm hoping you can help me help her!!
I moved away from her dad in 1999 (before she was born) due to domestic violence and gained an interdict to stop him coming near us. Since we weren't safe in the area we lived in after my split with him i moved to Edinburgh in 2002 and have been safe and living life normally ever since, that is until May last year when he managed to locate us.
Within a week we had to be placed in a Womans Aid refuge for our safety and he believes we live down in London now.
Ever since though he set up websites in search of us using videos and information from my daughters health problems to try and locate us. Now the first two websites we managed to get taken down as it pertained to a minors safety but the 3rd (which my daughter stumbled on last night) has only been up for a couple of days.
I've spoken to the police who confirmed this is a source of harassment yet won't do anything about it as its online. My solicitor reakons since he doesnt know where our new address is we should simply ignore it but its easier said than done!!
He is definately abusing my daughters right to safety and privacy. He has invaded both me and my daughters privacy by making this site and has caused us great annoyance and anxiety. The very fact he used her name as his web address shows he is abusing her right to privacy. If it was more about him it should have been called JohnMackie.co.uk not http://www.Shannoncassidy.co.uk
My daughter deserves the right to live life normally and safely - she does NOT deserve her privacy violated in such a manner and certainly not be hounded by him. Please for the safety of my daughter help me get him stopped for good!!
I need help! This is affecting my daughter greatly!! She has only JUST started relaxing after the last spate of websites and now shes back to sitting in her room crying - She doesn't understand why someone would ignore her requests to take it down and leave her alone as she wants nothing to do with him at the moment.
In light of this i would appreciate it if you could help!! (link)
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i now how she feels my parents divorced when i was 10 though. I now how hard it is for a nine year old girl to get use to this. I had to watch my dad and mom fight all the time before they got divorced. Why don't you just take this to court and get this settle for once and all and also put your daughter in consouling also so she can try and get over this. Have someone watch her while your in court. If they want to see her let them see her but than take her to the cousouling to make sure she's alright. I now this will work cause this has happen to me.
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I have a very loving live-in boyfriend of 1.5 years. I consider him my best friend. I'm all around thrilled with the way things are going and I can see making a life with him ... except for one thing. I recently confirmed some suspicions that, very early in our relationship, he was still involved with an ex-girlfriend.
Something never felt right about the way he talked about his ex. He was evasive and mumbled and was generally unresponsive. Things got worse when I noticed files of hundreds of photos of her on his computer (not hidden). I know that he has had problems with fidelity in the past, despite assurances that he would never be unfaithful to me. I still had no hard evidence, but, as time passed, I began to worry more and more that something was or had been going on with her. I brought it up in passing, mentioning that it's no big deal if he was with her for a few weeks when we first got together, but he adamently denies it.
Despite my 100% certainly that he is not currently cheating on me, I am obsessed with finding out if he is lying about those first few weeks/months. So I snooped through his email last weekend (I know, I know). I just couldn't get these questions out of my head.
And here's what I found: extremely flirty/outright sexual emails between my boyfriend and his ex, dating to about two months into our relationship. They discuss having seen each other, and what sexual things they would like to do to each other (although never outright confirming that they were done). I am not concerned that this has any impact on our current relationship. But I am heartbroken that lied to me about it and I am worried that this incidates a lack of morals on his part. Can I trust him now? Has he fundamentally changed since falling in love with me, or do his lies mean that he might cheat again?
So my questions are as follows: is it worth admitting that I snooped (several times) to air these concerns? Is it worth risking our wonderful current relationship, just to make him admit some past truth? Is the old adage true: once a cheater, always a cheater?
Please help! Thanks.
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I be pissed if that was my boyfriend. But i have a little fun with it. I print out the evidence. Talk to him slowly about it. Than he denies it the third time i be like in a (calm voice) oh yeah than what's this and threw the edvince down in front of him in a folder and tell him look threw it. Than i walk off steaming mad to let him sour in his lies.
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So my cousin is devastated because her fiance broke up with her after almost 4 years together...
I know that I can't really help her the way she wants me too and I know she will get through this but I was wondering if anyone had any ideas of things she can do that will help her feel better even for a moment? Like when I was heart broken I started coming on here and giving advice because it took my mind off of my problems (I already sugested it...she shot it down) I also liked to read quotes and listen to songs that described how I was feeling (I don't know why but it made me feel better)
tell me stories about what you did to make yourself happy when you were heartbroken so I can get some ideas to help her.
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Get her out the house. If she is not ready to meet new people than just take her to the movies or take her for a walk even. Get her mind off it. Give her love and attention. Watch something or do something that doesnt have nothing to do with him. And if he calls dont let her answer it. If he ask is she there say she doesnt want to talk to him and dont let them be friends or she will never get over it.
Jay
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hey, so my best friend is also an ex boyfriend. we dated for 5 months about 2 1/2 years ago, and we've been best friends since then. we really ar BEST rfiends, like practically family. we go on vacation together and everything. my boyfriend, who used to be my best friend unti lwe started dating, knows that i dated this guy and he gets really mad when i hang out with him. and i hang out with him a LOT, but i have no feelings fo rhim. i only have feelings for my boyfriend. but anyway, my boyfriend has a best friend whos a girl. they were together for a little while and they had sex, and she fell in love with him. he wasnt in love with her but he liked her a lot. shes still in love with him and he knows that. but they still text 24/7 and talk on the phone sometimes and theyre really close. when me and him fight he always goes to her and tells her everything and i feel like he flirts with her soemtimes but idk. i get really jealus when theyre talking or hanging out or something. so idk, is it like the same thing me and my best friend and him and his best friend? (link)
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I think he is just trying to show you how he feels when you go hanging out with your best friend a.k.a ex-boyfriend.
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Hi..
I'm 21 years old - Female. I live at home in a small country town in Australia with my grandparents who raised me from a new born and my boyfriend of 4 years.
My grandfather was 58 (due to turn 59 in a months time) He worked all his life and on the 1st of August he suffered from a very bad stroke. He was a very fit and healthy man and my whole life I have never known him to be unwell apart from the usual common cold.
He was air lifted to our capital city the day it happen as we do not have the facilities in our town to deal with such extreme illnesses. He arrived in the city an hour and a half before we got there (we had to drive ourselves) when we arrived and got to see him he was still unconsious with tubes down his throat and cords everywhere.
The second time I saw him for that night his pulse stopped but they revived him.
In the mean time he suffered from Pnemonia and was paralysed down the right side of his body. He fought so hard to stay alive the whole time he was there.. They put a trachie in his throat so his airways wouldn't close up.
After four long weeks they told us that he was not going to survive and if he was to pull through he would be a vegetable. They took the trachie out and he was air lifted back to our small country town into the hospital.
At this stage I was out of town but I was determined to come home, I had a bad feeling and I knew where my place was. I came home that night and the next day being Sunday the 30th went to the hospital. We sat with him for 2 hours, my nanna (his wife) told him that if he needed to go.. he should go. Within a matter of seconds he took a deep breath and a sigh of releif and passed away peacefully.
His funeral was yesterday, over 600 people came to his service then to the cemetary to give their last goodbyes. I lowered his coffin into the ground as there was no one else who would do it.
I guess the advice I am needing is in regards to my emotions.. I can't feel anything. I can't cry.. I seemed to have just continued to live my life without any sort of... I'm not sure what the word is but I feel guilty for not being able to cry when everyone is around me.
I know that everyone deals with things differently but my grandfather and I were extremely close and I just can't seem to come to terms that he's not coming home. My grandmother is extremely unstable and we have had so many visitors in and out of the house.. I feel in a way that I know she is not able to cope so it is now my duty to fill those shoes of my grandfather.
Don't get me wrong I have cried for him, I balled my eyes out over him when he passed away and sat with his dead body for hours afterwards, I couldn't bare to leave his side but I cannot cry anymore.
I'm scared that I will continue ignoring it and it will hit me all at once weeks or even months later.. Is this normal? Has this happened to anyone before?
Any answeres would be much appreciated. Thank you. (link)
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IT's normal. I have been threw that. My grandmother died when i was nine. I didn't cry the first two or three weeks but than i just burst out in tears all over my bed.
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i reeally like this guy and im 95 % sure he likes me back because he keeps showing me. the thing is that im really shy and cant seem to give him the signs that i like him back :/ and sometimes i do really dumb things, like today i just left without saying goodbye, and when i realized i turned around to him and he looked at me really sad and turned away. the thing is that hes always soo sweet to me and talks to me whenever he can, and im always weird because im so nervous because i like this guy more then i liked anyone before, i just cant seem to show it, i think im afraid?
what should i do? (link)
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MAybe you should be friends first. Than when you feel relaxed around him than try and get to speak to him alone. When you do tell him you like him. Tell him how you feel. See if he feels the same way.
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female/ 16/ senior
So, since the start of July I started to "talk" to this guy. He's 18,and a freshman in college this september. He made it clear that he wasn't sure if he wanted to be in a relationship because he wasn't sure if he was going to meet someone in college. The college is literally 5 minutes away from my house. Anyways, we would text eachother every single day. I liked him alot and I was sooo sure he did too,just that gut instinct. He told me he liked me but he didn't know how much. So all of a sudden, last week; he just stops texting me. Then, when he finally decides to text me, he stops responding to me after 2 texts. So, 2 days ago I decided I don't have time to deal with immature guys. I told him, we should stop talking and he said he didn't want us to stop talking. well it sure seems like he wanted us to. he told me to wait 3 weeks and he would decide what he wants. wtf. no.
What do you think about all of this? Do you think he's playing a game? Or he really doesn't know what he's doing wrong?
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You should not wait that long if you don't think he is worth waiting for. You should tell him he got's a day, or how ever more long you want to wait, to make up his mind or your done.
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i have got quite bad spots on my face so i always were make up wich really does help hide them but you can still see the bumps on my face if you no what i mean i have tried many creams and washing things but nothing seems to work and i carnt take tablets so is there any way i could get rid of them ? (link)
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Yeah put toothpaste on your face it helps pretty well. I've read about it and i have actually done it and is still doing it because if i stop doing it they might try and come back. But most of them are gone. Try using the toothpaste
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Would it be wierd for a fourteen year old girl to date a sixteen year old boy. Its only a grade apart, (so like freshman/sophomore)but its still like a two year diference, what do you guys think? (link)
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I think its fine if you want to date a sixteen year old. If you both like each other than what the heck. No harm no do.
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So I am a girl and I am in my first relationship with a girl. We have been dating for about 3 months. Well none of my family knows and I feel im not being true to my girlfriend because they dont know. Like when I stay at her house I tell my mom im somewhere else. I am scared to see there reactions but I am in love with the girl. They say its hard comming out but how can I deal with this? She wants us to get our own place too. (link)
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If you feel its right tell them. They will be shocked the first time but they will come around. If they love you they will love you no matter what and for what you are not what they want you to be.
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Okay this is kinda hard to write. Thank god this is anonymous! Like he was my teacher last year for a class, and like he's a cool teacher and people respected him and stuff. like it was the funnest class in my day. but like after a couple months like i kinda got a crush on him.. like it just sort of creeped up. its so gross though to like think like that though, and he's married and everything. i blame it on the fact that hes in his mid/late 20s. so anyways, in the dream like i went to my school's office and had to make a call or something and he was there and we end up talking and laughing and stuff. like we did get along, IRL. but it was like we were old friends or something in the dream, not like a normal teacher/student relationship. and then somehow in my dream time flashes forward and apparently i had made out with him and there was like evidence on some cloth or whatever that had a lot of lipstick kisses on it. and then someone found it in school and used it as evidence and was showing it around to other kids. idk if that means that im afraid of anyone finding out about the crush, which i am actually. then i woke up today and after a little bit of time the dream came back to me and now i cant get it out of my head! its embarassing and like hes still a fun and very helpful teacher so i want to have him again next year, but how can i stop having a crush on him like that? cause even if i dont have him like if i see him in the hallway i dont want it to be awkward. im 15 btw. thanks a lot for reading this long thing and helping me! (link)
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Keep your mind off it. Keep focus and think about the more important things like school activites. When you get home breath in and out let all the stress out. When you go to school just focus on the more important things.
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Ok so i'm 18 years old. And im there's something that's been bugging me for the last 4 years. I don't know and i'm confused. See, i was dating this boy and he wanted to have sex. I was a virgin so i was kinda nervous and kept talling him no. This persisted for about a month where i kept saying no and no. But eventually he convinced me that no harm would be done if i was naked. i was stupid and thought that if i gave in and just got undressed maybe he'd drop it and stop asking me for sex. Anyways, we started making out and u got uncomfortable because i felt his hand gtouching my thigh. Then his fingers went inside me. I didn't say anything because it felt good. Well then he got on top of me and said. "Let me put it in you" i got nervous and told him no no no. But he kept pushing. I started to get scared so i scratched his chest but he proceed to pin my thighs open and he just pushed himself inside me, all the while i was crying and asking him to stop. I mean i know i didn't want to have sex. But, i feel like it was my fault too. Maybe i shouldn't have been such a slut and taken my clothes off. I don't know. But now it's gotten to the point where i can't think. I feel used and dirty. And now, 4 years later, i still can't get intimate with any guy because i'm so scared to think that he won't stop when i say "no." so. i don't know. was i raped? Or was it all my own fault? (link)
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yes you were raped. It easnt your fault. He should of took no as a answer. I understand why your afraid. LEarn self defense so if someone tries it again you'll be prepared.
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Okay so I'm going to college about 4 hours from home, but my mom lives 1 and a half. Well I love school! so much, just i don't have a car or transportation to work, but i do work. but i can't ever get a ride, but everyone says its my fault. I'm just trying to get through school, but its so frustrating when everyone makes it seem work is more important. I can't quit cause i need money!! I just don't know what to do anymore, my life is seriously like ruined. (link)
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maybe you should get a job closer to your school so it will be easier to just walk and you can still get there in time.
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