Hey, my name is Ana Barrera. Im 14. I have brown/black hair, dark brown eyes. I basically give my friends advice when ever they need it, and my advice always helps. I like to dance, draw, and in the near future I hope to be a DJ at the hottest club in LA, California. I love to hang out with my friends alot. On my free time I give people advice.
E-mail: Mexicanchic62820004@yahoo.com
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17-F I've hung out with this boy Chris twice this week and we like each other but whenever he trys to kiss me I pull away. I have kissed him but I dunno I don't have any desire to do it again. This past summer I was used by this other kid. Since then I haven't wanted to do anything with anyone. What do you think is the reason I don't feel comfortable with Chris?? I do really like him and I think he's getting frustrated with it. (link)
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There is a pretty good chance that, that is the reason why u don't feel comfortable with him. Ur just afraid to get hurt again. So it shouldn't fustrate u at all, it's just a normal thing.
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i guess you could say im emo. i listen to the music blah blah blah w/e. i just painted my room red and i have flyers and pictures and what not but i want one wall of a big collage only i dont knwo how to start out. helllp please. (link)
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Try to get sum magazines and get pics of the type of music u like the bands and sign u kno stuff like that.
Hope I helped
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my mom is starting a clothing line and wants me 2pick the name but i have no ide of what it should be!!! its going to be sorta like baby phat....that type of clothing for girls/women....any ideas? (link)
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Try givin ur mom a ghetto fabulous nick-name, then give ur self one put them together and see wat u come up with.
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Well iive had my screen name for a while and i was wonderin if anyone had any good ideas for a screen name! ok here are my interests
im girly
i like pink
my name is bryttnii
my nicknames are brittzee and britty or brytt
if u can just give me a list of cute s/ns thanx! (link)
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pinkybrittzee
pinkgurly
gurlybrytt
pinkbritty
pinkybrytt
Hope I helped
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i sing..and if u work ur voice alot..for example ima cheerleader and i yell alot..is that good or bad for ur voice power? does it make ur voice stronger or weaker?
thx (link)
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It makes ur voice weaker cuz when u r yelling at the top of ur lungs, u can end up loosing ur voice.
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can you put water on your contact if you're in school and don't have your solution? (link)
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Don't ever put water on ur contact cuz if u don't then when u put them bak in it will ich ur eye really bad so make sure that u always have the solution with u!!!
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I have started my period and, everytime one of my friends start we all tell each other....BUT, im sordive embarressed to tell them should I tell them or not?
SIGNED,
kRISSY (link)
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U don't have to tell them anything if u don't want to. Just becuz ur friends tell each other when they start doesn't u have to.
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14/f/9th grade
Ok my ex is stopping me from having a bf...
His friends like me and they wanna go out w/me, but they couldn't do that 2 him. This makes no sense b-c his friends say that he doesn't like me anymore, and we went out in 7th grade so I don't hink he likes me anymore! What should I do b-c I really want a bf right now, but HE kind of is stopping that...my life sux..HELP ME PLEASE! I will rate ya 5...seriously!
-cOnFuSeD-
P.S. I was in love w/this boy, and now I am like so over him, so what does this mean? (link)
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I think that ur ex would get really jealuose if u got a bf and might think that u belong to him, but it shouldn't matter wat he says if u want a bf then go ahead and get one, cuz if u don't then u will end up regreting it farther in life. So if u want a bf then go for it. Don't let him stop u from wat u want.
Hope I helped!!
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do you close your eyes when you give your boyfriend a lil' peck on the lips?! or even on the cheek? (link)
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When I gave my ex boyfriend on the lips I don't think I closed my eyes.But if u want to then close ur eyes.
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May 17, 2004, ((st. patricks day)) one of my best friends committed suicide. She was 13 years old. She was born on September 11, 1990. Her name was Alyssa, and she was walking to school late and she was walking on the tracks. She heard the train coming and she turned around, put her hood up, and gave the thumbs up sign to the conductor. He couldn't stop the train. Alyssa got hit and died. A month later the investigators claimed it to be suicide, which everyone already knew. She had tried committing suicide a couple weeks before that, but I had to drag her off the tracks by her hair. I had made her go see the school counselor before that and I guess she still wanted to committ suicide. The night before she was hit, she wrote R.I.P Alyssa on her and her boyfriend's bedroom wall. She killed herself for many reasons, but I only know of how her boyfriend was cheating on her and she was in a gang and family problems. She told me there was more though. I tried so hard to convince her that death wasn't the soulution, but she didn't listen. I did everything I could to help her. Anyway, I know it's long but I thought you needed to know the whole story.
So my problem is, I still haven't been able to cope with it. I cry all the time and nobody seems to understand me. I miss her so much. I've already seen numerous counselors but they haven't helped me much. I just want to know if there's any way that I could start the "healing process" or if it'll just take time. I would appreciate all the help. Thank you so much!
Love, RacheL
((xoRachel))
R.I.P Alyssa Gonzalez.. I miss you so much.
9/11/90 - 3/17/04 (link)
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It will take time to get ova sumthin liek that, cuz u care about her soo much and u absotlutly love her. But trust me no one but urself can get u through this becuz u r the only one that understand, and no one else is goin through the same thing u r. So just beleive in urself and u will get through it.
R.I.P Alyssa Gonzalez...You are missed and loved alot. U'll always be in the memories of those who love u!!
9/11/90 - 3/17/04
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how come people say it is bad for a 13 year old to be friends or have a realationship wit a 16 year old? (link)
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I think that ppl say that becuz they think 16 years old ppl r more experienced. But it shouldn't matta. they probably also say that becuz they think that ppl should go out with ppl their own age.
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There is this guy i like and were really good friends but my other friend broke his heart about a year ago. But last night we had a school danced and we danced but i dn if it was as friends or what! I just like dont wanna do nething that ill be embarrassed about bcuz r moms r good friends. I have a ton of confidence around guys but this is alil different. What shud I do? (link)
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All i can tell is to try and don't think about it too much and u will find out wat the whole dancin was "just friends or more" u'll find out soon enough. Trust me!!
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15/f god sometimes i hate myself. im really outgoing when im around my best friends and the people i've known my whole life. but when i meet new people i act all weird. tonight we had a football game and my new friend invited me to hang out with her friends. so when i first met them i was all cool and outgoing, but then we sat on the bleachers and i didnt say a word and they talked. the whole night i just sat there. cause i had nothing to say except random stuf. and everytime i talked they were like shocked to hear me actually say something. i seriously wanted to run away and die. now im afraid theyre gonna think im boring. i dont know what to do......... (link)
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Well all i can say is that, it's a normal reaction cuz that happens to me all the time. But once u get to kno them a little more then u start to loosen up, I think that the reason that ppl do that is becuz they don't kno wat the new ppl that they r meeting expect from them. So when u actually say sumthin they think to themselves "wow I didn't kno that they were like that or act that way" But don't be embaressed to say sumthin, cuz u r the way u r, and that is the coolest thing u can do is to just be urself and act the way u always do. Doesn't matta if ur crzy, wild, quiet, shy just be urself.
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OK well here it goes....I really really wanna have a relationship with a guy....a REAL relationship....But the thing is When it somes to the kissing part....I kinda dont know what to do..... I freeze. How do i deal with this? I am 14 and everybody is like way more experienced than me. I'm afraid. Please can you give me advice! Thanx in advanced! (link)
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When u are about to kiss sumnody try not to think about it at all cuz that might be the reason y u freeze. If u think about it too much then u start think of "is there a certaian way to do this or wat?" and the truth is there is no certain to kiss a guy, u just do. So whenever u come across the kissing part just go for it. Don't think about it!!
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So the other day I was talking to my crush and he told me that he liked me and I told him that I liked him. Then the next day my friend Dylan walked up to me and said that Wesley, my crush was shy and he wanted to ask me out but he thinks we don't talk enough. What should I do!!! (link)
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I think that u should just give u guyz together a chance and see how it goes. Who knos, if u start goin out u guyz might talk alot more than u do now. Let me kno how it goes.
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Well, I have a boyfriend. And, when we're around eachother, I just don't feel anything anymore. I like him a lot, but he calls EVERY day and is always telling me how happy he is with me, and how important I am to him, and how much he loves me. I'm not that into hima s much. How do I break up without breaking his heart? :( (link)
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Just tell him that u r confused and just don't kno wat u want anymore, and ask if u guyz can still be friends.
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OMG all my friends (in my age range ~14~) say its okay and that they dont think its bad to have sex at this age and half of them like, arent virgins!! I just relaized this today but i think having sex at this age is just plain stupid!! Am i weird or crazy? IS it okay to have sex at my age?!! (link)
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U r not crazy at all, ur just protecting urself. So don't be ashamed that u havn't had sex yet. To tell u the truth ur friends r the ones that r stupid, cuz they think that u will become kool if u have sex.
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i just want yalls opinions. do u thing black and black and white and white and mexican and mexican ect. should only get married? or should they mix. ok thanks. (link)
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It really shouldn't matter wat race u r, it should only matta if u love the person.
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This might be a stupid question, but how do you know when you're in love with someone? How does it feel? (link)
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There is kno right or wrong answer for that u just kno. It's like u feel like that sumone that u have been lookin for is right there and u feel like u neva felt b4. That's how I would kno if I was in love, I guess.
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I see a few guys in my school who look at me like theyre checking me out. We're good friends and everything, but how do i go about choosing one? I already know they like me, its blaintly obvious and ive learned to figure that out by now. But how do i know which one i should flirt with a little more, and get to know them so that we can be together? (link)
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Flirt with all of them at the same time or individually. That always works for me so it should work for u. Tell me how it goes.
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