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My boyfriends staying the night tonight, and we're exchanging Christmas gifts, I'm extremely scared, because what if I don't like something he gets me? How am I supposed to react? Thanks. ♥
Say you love it no matter what. You might be getting yourself nervous for no reason. I assume he knows you well enough, and if he does he's probably put careful thought into what he was going to get you. Just stay calm, and worse comes to worse pretend you like it. It's not a lie really, more of a white lie so that you don't hurt his feelings.
♥`Merry Christmas Baby`♥
I was just wondering what everyone thinks about love? I don't believe in love and was just wondering what everyone else thought about it.
I think it's real, however, sometimes it's short-lived.
Lots of people think they're in love or about to be when boom it's all over and their world comes crashing down. Just because some people are afraid of love doesn't mean they should be in denial of it's existence. I think the most precious love is the love you might have for your family. That kind of love is rarely destroyed. Think about it. A husband & wife get divorced, but they have children. 99.9% of the time, they will NEVER stop loving those children, even though their love has already faded. I think love for family is a stronger, deeper, more compassionate form, something that you can depend on. I've seen people hurt time and time again, so I think love is a risk. I guess for some people it works. I know when you're in love and everything's right it's the only thing in the world that matters and everything is amazing. But, you can turn that around and say that it is the most deep and destructive form of emotional wreckage there is.
I would personally like to steer clear of it for a while. Anyway, the topics controversial, I'm sure you'll hear all sorts of opinions.
! ♥ merry christmas baby ♥ !
ok i was thinking on something to get for my boyfriend. we have been dating for 2 months and i need advice. i was thinking about getting him for christmas the Dukes of Hazaed unrated dvd and some boxers. Do you think i should get him that? or something else? please help
I think you should get a gift that is consecutive. In other words, if you're going to get him boxers, maybe you want to get him an outfit or a t-shirt. If you're getting him dukes of hazzard, get him a couple of movies with his favorite candy.
merry christmas baby ;-)
What can I do to get my hair curly/spiraled mixed? Like, what should I use?
Curl-up from Walmart/Target/CVS wherever works great. Your hair should be wet, you should put some in your hair and bend over. Then, take a towel and mess it up a little so that it starts to curl.
Hopefully that should work for you.
merry christmas baby!
ok i dont know what to ask for for christmas please give me some ideas 5s for everyone
If you're a girl-
-A scarf, gloves, hats from American Eagle
-Ugg Boots
-A nice pair of clogs that are fuzzy on the inside from American Eagle (or any shoes from AE)
-Perfume (Fantasy, Curious, Pink Sugar?)
-Coach Bags
-iPod Nano or Mini
-Sidekick
-Jewelry from Tiffany or Guess
-Any movies you might have an interest in
- CD's
- Ripped Jeans
- An Abercrombie & Fitch hoodie
-a Chi Straightner (expensive but works like gold)
- Pajamas or Underwear from Victoria's Secret
- A raincoat
- Rainboots
- Gift certificate for a manicure/pedicure
-Curling iron
- New sneakers
-Gift certificates
-Winter coat
-Chandelier earrings if your ears are pierced
If your a guy-
Movies, iPod, Clothes from AE or A&F, money, TV, DVD player, video games, gift certificates
hmm not really sure what a guy would want.
Good luck,
Merry Christmas Baby ♥!!
Ok there is a boy who I have like the hugest crush on. But sometimes he can be so mean then I think "I hate him". Then the next day I'll like him. But most of the time he is nice. Now I think he likes me a little but how do I find out or not thats the thing? :( Please help me!
Well, ask yourself. Does he flirt with you more than he does with other girls? Does he go out of his way to say things or do things that most guys don't just do?
If the answer is yes to those two questions, maybe he does like you. And maybe he's just being mean because he's trying to hide the fact he likes you. Maybe that sounded a little cliche, but it could be true. Maybe he just has no clue what the right thing would be to say to you. Or, if it seems like he's intentionally mean for no reason whatsoever, maybe he just uses you? That would be the downside. But, I could be wrong. It's up to you to judge.
Merry Christmas Baby ♥!
There's this girl who I have been best friends with since kindergarden and now im in 7th grade. She is really gross and picks at her nails when she's bored. She eats lunch with me this year and it's so annoying because she's really CLINGY!!! She takes Ritalin which doesn't make you hungry, so the whole time during lunch she sits there and picks at her disgusting 2 inch long nails! She like makes me sit next to her, and when I get up to go to the bathroom or buy something she comes with me. She's nice and all but CLINGY!! I'm going on a cruise with her family in April for her Bat Mitzvah so...i can't stop being friends with her...its booked already!!! i don't know what to do! I'm like her only friend, and i am not being a good friend to her at ALL!!! I thought that ignoring her would make her realize that she is being clingy, but NO! I can't talk to her about it because she just ws in a huge fight with her good friend (now their not friends anymore) and will automatically think "SO NOW EVERYONE HATES ME!!" What should I do?? I'm stuck in a terrible situation.
Aww sorry your in this situation. Try and be sensitive. Just say "you shouldn't bite your nails it's not good for your teeth". Or if she's not biting them, just be like, "I used to pick at my nails all the time, but I stopped because it's really not healthy." Even if you never picked your nails like her, just say that to make her feel better. I think you're right, that you shouldn't get in a fight with her.
If you have to go to the bathroom, just be like "Hang on, I'll be right back, save our seats" and maybe she'll get the hint you want her to stay. Make an attempt to hang out with other friends so that she knows you have other friends. There's no way to tell her to stop being clingy without hurting her feelings. Hopefully you can avoid saying mean things to her but find ways to hint at what you're trying to tell her.
Good Luck, and if there's specific things you want to say to her in a nice way, let me know and I'll try and help you out.
I have two 1 year (and maybe older) cats. One's a Boy and another is a Girl. They Fight everytime they see each other. So we have to separate them. Like one Will Be In one room with the door closed and another will be in another room! What Can I Do to Make Them Stop!?!?
Get them used to eachother. When I got a new kitten and I had other cats, I was told to take a towel, rub the cats, and then with the same towel rub the kitten. It should help them get used to eachother's scents. This way they don't see eachother as "Different" or "enemies". I don't know if your situation is the same as mine but you should try.
OK, my mom holds out napkins in this bowl but (i dunno how to explain it) it's like instead of being a full "bowl" it just like clay that was rolled into a cyliner and was formed into a bowl I'm really sorry i just don't know how to explain it but does anyone know where i can find something like that or a cool bowl to hold napkins in thanks...sry that i didn't make sence
I'm not really familiar with what your talking about, but I could sort of visualize what you're saying. Home Goods has beautiful things that aren't terribly pricey. You might do really well looking for a bowl there.
You might not have a Home Goods near you though. So, I suggest looking online too:
www.potterybarn.com
Look on ebay for something specific if you like, I'm sure you could find something unused.
how do you get 12 friends on myspace?
You add twelve people as your friends. You simply log in, go to the person's myspace you wish to add, and when you get there, right under their picture should be a box with a bunch of options. One of them including "Add to Friends" click that and you're set.
Well i have a aguy thats liek me...& these is the shit he dose
-calls me
-talks to me all the time
-loves to take me to class
-oves to sit next to me in classes
-always writing me notes...& i write him note...
I can tell he likes me...but i don't like him like that...what should i do if he askes me out??
Tell him you don't feel the same way and would rather just be friends. Still be really nice to him and hang out with him so that he doesn't feel embarassed for asking. Say it in as nice a tone as possible.
ok so most schools block like all websites that arent school related.. well isnt there a website you can go on at school to get onto myspace?! not myspace.com because its blocked..but theres a special site to go on.....please help! i know there is a website but i dont know what it is.. I WILL DEFINATELY RATE 5's!
Hey-- I can give you two different answers.
Just know, if you do use these ideas and they are successful, try not to have it spread around because then THOSE sites get blocked too. It happened to me. It's almost inevitable...there's seriously no way people don't notice your on myspace and want to find out.
Anyway-- www.nomorelimits.net has a toolbar where you can type in any website you like and rather then using the one at the top of your browser, you use it on the website and it will let you got to myspace. However, I don't think you can login with that method, but you can check the web address of your page and see if anyone commented you, you just can't leave comments back.
OR-- you can type myspace.com into a yahoo search engine and then you go to the second search result and underneath the discription there is a link entitled "cached" you click that and it lets you login to myspace and everything.
Those are all the ways I know of so far.
okay there are these 2 guys in my english class. they both sorta flirt with me but one i think is doing it to make fun of me and other other i think really likes me. they are both friends and one is like hey lets go to the xmas dance, i wrote you a poem and the other one says aww shes a really nice girl i want to go to the dance with her ( the one that is nice) how do i know if they truelly like me or not?
I guess if they seem genuine about it. You said the one seems just like he is making a big joke out of it. If they like you, they probably flirt with you a lot, more than they do with any other girl. If I were you I'd go with the guy I thought was serious about it. good luck babe.
okay so me and my boyfriend are perfect for eachother we have been together for almost a year and a half... well he really wanted this snowmoblie coat so i ordered it for his ,, it was $250.00 tho so i dont just wanna give it to him like in wrapping paper i want it to be special but i cant think of anything cute to give it to him for christmas? any ideas
Well you could get a box big enough for it to fit in and wrap a bow around it. Or you could put it in a big bag.
good luck babe ♥!
My so-called best friend...K,..was talking about me behind my back. And when I confronted her she was like "OMG I SWEAR I DIDN"T SAY THAT!" Because, her boyfriend, my good friend and ex, just broke up with her and she said that he left her for me. I know that doesn't seem like something to get mad about, but it made me furious! Because, I liked him, and I told her too, and she just forgot about it and omg,...do I have a right to be mad? Should I just forget the whole thing? Thanks in advance!
♥
Hey doll,
Sorry you're dealing with this. I personally think you should give your friend something to chew on. Confront her in person or call her up and tell her you want the honest truth and nothing but it. Tell her if she was talking behind your back you want to know up front and you wanna skip on the bullshit and get down to the issue. Also mention you're not gonna be mad if she admits it, that you just want the truth. Understand that yes, maybe she did talk behind your back, but I'm sure you've done it in the past before. If she has a record of talking about you then the girl must be naturally bitchy. I also find it a little odd that she would go out with your ex, not exactly best friend behaviour if you ask me. She doesn't sound like a good friend to begin with. But how you deal with that is up to you. It doesn't sound what she said was even that horrible...I mean it's not terribly embarassing. Just ask her not to do it again and forgive if her if you feel like you still value the friendship.
Every guy that I like only thinks of me as a 'good friend'. What should I do? Should I act different, telling them that I like them doesn't seem to make a difference. I don't like being just everyone's friend,...I want more than that...
Sweetie, don't change yourself for them. Believe it or not, it is good to have a lot of friends. Sometimes people become friends before they date. So it's no big. Any guy that liked you for you wouldn't have to force you to put on an act. Boys are gonna have to like you for who you are. There is no need to put on an act, it's important to be real about yourself. Anyway most people can tell when someone is fake or not acting like their real selves.
how do i put my picturee on my column?
You go to profile settings on the left of your screen after you login and scroll down to where it says "upload your picture" or URL picture.
URL would be the web address to an existing picture somewhere on the internet. Uploading one might be a picture you have saved on your computer from a digital camera.
Do you think that giving your best friend a gift card is too impersonal?
Because the thing is even though we are really close I have no clue what to give her. Then any time I ask what she wants she just says, 'Whatever you know what I like.' And infact I do know what she likes but she seems to already have everything.
So is a gift card really something you could give a best friend?
♥ Thanks.
It is definitely a good gift for her. I don't think it's impersonal. If I were you, I'd give her a good amount on it since she's your best friend and all. This way, with a gift card, she can get something she absolutely loves. Even if you guys are close, you can't read her mind. Everyone has a different style that can change on impulse.
Go for the gift card...I'm sure picking out her favorite store won't be hard :)
good luck!
i have horrible grades. and i dont know how. i try hard. but i have to miss a lot of school. our school has a rule about after 11 absents' you may loose class credits. im a sophmore. i try hard and im very smart. i have easy classes. but i think the bad grades are because of the missing school. you know. which most of the time wasnt my fault. i was in a really bad wreck. my car rolled 6 times. and i broke a rib and slightly punctured a lung. adn broke my collar bone. and had 311 stitches in my left arm, and 83 staples in my head. so obviously a bad wreck. my doctor ordered me to stay out of school for a week or two. so i did for a week in a half. and that was 7 school days. then i got really sick. adn missed like 3 days and then sick again and missed a couple more days. my princepal has told me i need to go to school. but i was sick and couldnt even hardly get out of bed. what would you do to get your grades up if you missed a lot of school
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Hey, I'm really sorry to hear about your accident.
None of this seems the slightest bit fair especially because of your traumatizing car accident. The truth is though if you miss a lot of class, you're going to be behind. I understand you were sick as well. These are all things you can't help.
However, unless you get EXTREMELY sick again to the point where you are throwing up or can't get out of bed, make an effort to go to school. I can't stand missing school because making up work is always a nightmare. Because when I finally get back to school, I have to do that days homework, all the homework I missed, and try and jumble studying for tests or quizzes I missed while I was out. It's a nightmare--and teachers don't always give you or tell you clearly what you missed. Then, they accuse you for not having your work.
I'm not exactly a perfectionest but I try and strive for high grades. I'm not the kind of person that lets a bad grade or two roll of my back. It usually bothers me, so I know how you feel. Best idea, as annoying as it may sound, is to go into the classes you are doing poorly in at lunch, and get extra help if possible. Or sit a friend down that does well academically and have them explain to you what you don't understand.
Make it a note to study for tests you don't think you're going to do well on. Study at your desk earlier on in the day so that you don't get weary and give way to sleep!
If teachers are giving you a hard time about the work you missed, see the principle or a guidance counseler and explain to them your troubles. If they still don't understand, have your parents call in and tell the principle or guidance counseler why you couldn't do the work. It's not fair that you should be expected to be in school on days when you absolutely are in no condition to attend.
Good Luck, I really hope all goes well for you. If you need more help, inbox me! :)
heyy its me agian
i was just wondering, since you said jus abercrombie is the one for kids, is that like a seperate store??
And if they can you find them easily
i just wanted to know cuz i prolly wont fit in a&f
thanks
yep it is a seperate store. You can find them in most malls. Some malls have both of them either next to eachother or in different locations. Check the website (www.abercrombiekids.com) and see where there's stores near you.