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Q: Im a 13-f. I've had my period for queit a while now. But the last time I got it was in the middle of February. I used to get it every single month. But all of a sudden, it just doesn't come. Anyone know why?
Dear Whoever...
Maybe you should go see a doctor about it.. it will really help.. he/she will help you along the way and tell you why your period hasn't come in a while.. but it could also could not have been your period some times girls just urine blood but it doesn't mean u have your period..
hope i helped...

-Meli-

Q: I need help on asking a guy to come and watch a movie with me...i don't know how please help!!
I don't wanna look like a doofus.....lol:)
well just call him and ask the guy that u want to watch a movie together just as friends ???

hope i helped

-***Meli***-

Q: ok there is this kid he wants me dead and i didnt do anything to him!! what should i do? hes nice to eevryone else but not me! i need help! badly!
maybe just by talking to this kid might help.. if this is happening at school go to a guidence counciler they will help things get straightend out..
i hope i helped!

-*Meli*-

Q: Ok so i have scoliois. my curve is somewhere around 50 degrees. my back always hurts because of this..is there anything i can do to make my back not hurt as much..or often? thanks in advance! ill rate you!
Well you should go to massage therapy they usally help ur back..

Q: i want to join cross country next year, and i was wondering... what all do you do and how far do you run?
Well u run DUHH and they make you run FARRRRRR away distance..like maybe 2-3 miles or more!!!!it is such a pain! well if u like running a lot then maybe cross country is just for you :-)
hope i wasn't too mean about that
Meli

Q: Anyone have any good recipies for brownies WITHOUT nuts? I can't seem to find a good one!
Brownie instructions
*1/4 cup of water
*1/2 cup of vege oil
*2 eggs

1!-heat oven as directed below (metal or glass pan)
2!-Stir brownie mix,water,oiland ehs in medium bowl until well blended.Spread in pan
3!-Bake as directed below* or until toothpick inserted 2inches from side of pan comes out almost clean;cool. Store Tightly covered.
*if using dark or nonstick pan shorten bake time by 3 min if using insulated pan lengthen bake time by 5 min.
Thick Thicker Thickest
Pan Size: 13"x9" 9"x 9" 8"x 8"
Oven Temp 350.F 350.F 325.F
bake oven time:28-30min 35-40min 50-55 min

Q: I'm a shy girl (13/f) and I always feel lonely. I was wondering what's an easy way to make new friends?
Well if you really want to make new friends just walk up to some one you want to be friends with and just talk to them..don`t be shy

-***Meli***-

i hope i helped

Q: Do yOU find anything wrong with A white girl and a Black guy being in-love dating, and wanting to get married?

please, share your oppinion, and support it!
I am open to hear both sides!

God no if it is their decsion then it's their decsion no one has the right to offend them by the color of the skin.. so i think it is fine to be married or dating that way

Q: i have naturally curly hair, and i want to straiten it. i have a revlon flat iron and it works ok, but it makes my hair look dry, and burned...i use silk therapy, but it still looks dry. do you know any straitner under 50 dollars that will straiten my hair, but not burn it? thank you so much!
Well if you go to sally's or a beauty shop they usally have straighting irons under $50.00 my cousin Stephanie she has very curly hair and i let her use my straigting iron and it makes her hair look perfect not try but really soft and shiny..

Hope i helped
-*Meli*-

Q: i crack my neck and my friend thinks that it will make my neck all messed up when im older...is that true? i dont wanna be messed up when im old!!! lol
will rate high
Well you can get arthuritus

Q: My friend has a disease called fits/fhits. Does anyone know anything about it or can talk to me or explain anything because I cant find any information.
i think it is

Some children with fever give a terrifying experience to their parents. Without warning, they become rigid, the eyes roll up, the limbs may move rhythmically, and froth appears at the mouth. Sometimes, the child may pass stools or urine unknowingly. After a few minutes, the cruel rigidity of the limbs relaxes, and the child falls into a deep sleep.
Febrile seizures are, quite simply, seizures caused by fever. They occur in 3-4% of all children. The condition for calling them febrile seizures is that they are associated with fever, and not associated with any disease of the brain or its coverings. The important thing is, they are not a form of epilepsy, and most children prone to febrile seizures do not develop epilepsy.
Febrile seizures are triggered off by fever in children between the ages of 6 months and six years. Sometimes, the fever is brought to notice by the seizure. Occasionally, fever follows the seizure. We don't know why some children react thus to fever, but we do know that these seizures are usually harmless, though scary.

Q: Ok, listen up, as most of you know this school year is just about over right exactly so in the beggining my grades was all coo, but then third quarter was horrible check this I had five f's man. So My step-father told me that he was 1oo percent postive that I wasn't graducating I'm in eighth grade. so I was like i am graduacting watch you'lll see and he was all pissed and shit he's not even my real father, i thought he was was but then he got a Dna to see u know so now like a week ago I got my report card it was not great but I had 4c's 1 b and 3 d's the school year isn't even over I have time to bring them up and he told my teacher yesterday at conference April 18, 2005 that he;s gonna flunk me because i had all year to bring my grades up but ok I'm not veryy very smart plus I go to a private school and its way harder then public school which i used to go to and get straight A's plus I'm a black gurl and i think the teachers are raciest but still he;s not my bibiliogal father he can't flunk me what should i do only one month of school left i want to tell him also that i don't want him to think that I'm his daughter, and I'm fourteen so also do you think I'm old enough to decide? Well anyways also I have been workin so hard when I was in the hole with f's teachers and my parents said i need to work garder when i did and proved to them i'm capable he gon go say I think you should repeat eighth grade and my mom didn't say anything just left it up to him to decide who is he to tell me i don't even live with Harold he is my moms boyfriend for like 14 years and I called him daddy because I was used to sayin it since I was little but now no I don't want to what should i do? I'm also gonna tell him cause forgett what he say i'm going on that stage
and when i do I'm tellin Harold since you doubted me all this school year don't come to my graduaction and also he be tellin his son my brother my mom had him that he's goona flunk me it bothers me so much because I have been working hard and because my mom doesn't say anything i'm just gonna work extra hard so my grade will be pasiing and not just adverage u know? I have been cryin so much do you know what it means to work hard have teachers personally help you and your parents say, '' alexis you need to really buckle down so you can graduate.'' And when i do this is what he says well if i pray and I really do want help in school and has been working hard then who knows My father meaning (Jesus) will work a miracle. Do you think my step father has the right to tell me if I can pass or not.

Trust me you will graduate this year for 8th grade.. my friend emily well she told me that she had horrible grades.. but for the 4th quarter she is gunna push herself to do better!!so if you push ur self i gaurentee you will make it..

Tips!
Boyfriends/friends:try not to focus on them
Homework:work on it everynight
Test/Quizes:Study for them all the time..
If you do this^^ you should get better grades..

Melissa

Q: how many calories does one sit up burn. How many would i have to do to burn 1 pound?
just go to the gym

Q: how do you know if your in love?
You your in love when all you can think about is that one special person and when you dream you see that person and when you try to see someone else in ur mind.. all you see is him/her

Q: i just turned 14 and in janurary or feburary i got my first period. now its april and i havent had it since, i know irreguar periods are normal but for this long?!?!
That really not normal ur suppose to get it every month go see a docot about it



Melz



Hah got bored^^

Q: Hey, I want one of those livestrong braclets except I want one for breast cancer. Where can i get them and how much are they?
You can go to target and get some i think for a buck or go on google and type in breast cancer braclets + buy and c how much they r

Q: k. yeah .. if you don't want to answer an ipod question seriously.. don't answer this at all, otherwise, don't expect a good rating. anyway...

does anyone know if any place in the NJ/NY area services ipods, besides apple, at a good price, obviously better than apple, and if they also do battery replacements or w/e.. i'd really appreciate it.. thanks.
Go to www.ebay.com DUH

Q: Hi!
I just got hired to plan a 3-year old's birthday party, and am stuck on games. I already have Simon Says and Red Light Green Light. I also want to do a craft. If it helps, the parents have rented a moonbounce for the event. If possible, I would like to have 1 water game that does NOT soak the kids!! Thanks in advance and I rate!!
3 year-olds should have three to four playmates over, and at this age you might have try a birthday game such as "Who can stack the blocks the highest?" I do not recommend having a clown or playing any games that require a blindfold over a child's eyes such key due to the fact either can scare children at this age. Remember the child has just turned 3, and the playmates are around that age. They are still not able to understand fully structured games very well.

Try playing games that kids will understand..and if its safe buy playdoh and make things or if you live in an area by A.C moore buy little craft toys..

Q: Hey

i want to know some good songs...
the stuff i like is like:
Taking back sunday: youre so last summer
": this photograph is proof
Papa roach: scars
Story of the year: Sidewalks
": until the day i die
the killers: mr. brightside
green day: good riddence...

stuff like that
if anyone has any ideas on some other songs i would like please tell me...thank you
Well like i only like mr.brightside out of those songs..try songs like
Going Crazy-Natalie
Gasolina-Daddy Yankee
Turn me on-Kevin Lyttle

Q: how do i tell a guy i love him?
You just tell him how you feel about him..and tell him

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